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WHAT THOSE WITH SEXUAL EXPLOIT NEVER TOLD YOU

I have seen couples fight, I have witnessed husband and wife live in the same house and yet not talk for weeks. I have seen husband not eat at home for days. I have been fortunate to make peace in few marriages....but what I discover most time is their quarrel don't make sense: she didn't put my food in the warmer after cooking, I have told her not to push the toothpaste from the middle, he didn't help me bath the kids...etc

Intially I was confused because I felt this issues can be sorted amicably. So I began to dig deep by asking more questions, I often realised the real issue is sex but they use other stories as cover up.

My pastor once said, "for every irrational behaviour of your spouse, there is a fundamental hunger"
It may be hunger for sex, food, respect, love, care but there is a hunger!

My discuss is not to the married because that is above my league but to the singles about what the sexual gurus didn't tell you


Since I can't scare you with pregnancy or STD, let me say don't do sex outside marriage because it is a beautiful thing that is worth protecting

Sex is an expression of a desire that has a 'best after wedding night' label. Any other time spoils the honeymoon. Just as you would not give Amala to a new baby, there is a right time attached to sex.

Can we illustrate some of the instances why you shouldn't have sex outside marriage;

INSTANCE 1: you have been dating a guy for a year and you sleep with him, you actually thought you were going to marry him; that is the favourite excuse for why people sleep together before marriage, we were going to get married! Really, at eighteen how likely is it that you marry, even at 27, wait till the ring is actually on your finger.

Whichever way you slept with him, and God help you, he is romantic. The unfortunate thing is that your poor husband is going to have him in competition, in bed with him for the rest of your lives.

You can hardly say to him 'Segun used to touch me here before he did that and he may never do you the way segun did! The tragedy is even if Segun was not romantic, as the first man who introduced your body to its erogenous zones, you are probably going to register his moves as the best in the world. And your poor husband looses.

INSTANCE 2; you didn't actually sleep with anyone but you spent a lot of time being persuaded to, by heavy petting, fingering, smooching, anything that didn't involve full penetration.

Technically you are still a virgin but your poor husband doesn't know your body has been conditioned to respond to two hours of being romanced, smooched and heavy pre-intimacy before you can be ready for him! Of course you are not likely to find sexual satisfaction from your husband because he has already release the 'anointing' while you are warming up.

INSTANCE 3; After escapades with several sexual gurus, you finally go straight and decide to marry this wonderful guy, only to your horror to find he is Mr Limp Dick.

Oh dear! The sad part of that was that, had he been your first and only love, you would never know he had a limp dick, you would have loved him limp dick and all, since you have no experience

What those with sexual exploit history never told you is the effect it has on their marital beds, some women are frigid, others sexually dissatisfied in bed, all because of previous lovers who have been in all their beds. Even men, having been encouraged to sow wild oat all over town, now get married and spend their lives hankering after Funke's bigger boobs or Funmi particular types of moves.

It takes God to get some of those partners out of our beds and to restore pleasure to that matrimonial bed that is crowded with other partners

If you have never had sex, wait! If you are sexually active, give yourself a break till you marry... It will help you.

...culled

ok, here's another one:

A trader has three kinds of birds for sale @ the following quantities and rates:
20 pigeon goes for #1
1 parrot for #1; and
1 peacock for #5 respectively.

if you have to buy 100 birds in total for #100. How many numbers of each bird would you buy?

okay, someone should try this one:

A trader has three kinds of birds for sale @ the following quantities and rates:
20 pigeon goes for #1
1 parrot for #1; and
1 peacock for #5 respectively.
if you have to buy 100 birds in total for #100. How many numbers of each bird would you buy?

18 views and no answer, hmmmn, ...guess it's tougher than i thought.

A trader has three kinds of birds for sale @ the following quantities and rates:

20 pigeons goes for #1
1 parrot for #1; and
1 peacock for #5 respectively.

if you have to buy 100 birds in total for #100. How many numbers of each bird would you buy?

tosinjoe: Informative

thanks

11. Night Sweats:

As the HIV infection develops in the body, flu like symptoms can appear. One of the most annoying and notable symptoms is night sweats. The sufferer may go to bed at a good temperature, but through the night may experience widely ranging body temperatures, going from very cold to very hot quite quickly.
The physical response of the body is to pour sweat to regulate the temperature. The person may wake up soaking wet and have to change their sheets and clothing.


12. Cold Sores:

Cold sores can be a symptom of HIV. Cold sores are caused by the Herpes Simplex virus. It can occur as genital, rectal, or oral herpes.
Anyone can be infected with herpes, regardless of their HIV status. Those who are infected with HIV and have cold sores may suffer from recurrent outbreaks of the herpes virus.


13. None:

The most dangerous symptom of HIV is having none at all. Many of those infected do not know they are. This can be particularly dangerous as the person may continue to have unprotected sex, potentially spreading the disease.
In 2001, it is estimated that less than 1% of the population has been tested for HIV.
In South Africa, it is estimated that over 5 million people are infected. If you think you are at risk for HIV, get tested right away.


Sourced from http:// www.activebeat.com

6. Headaches:

One of the first symptoms of the flu related symptoms of HIV is an unrelenting headache. The headaches may develop into chronic debilitating migraines.
Migraines become chronic after affecting a person for 15 or more days per month. 50% of people infected with HIV will experience headaches as a symptom, while 27% will experience chronic migraines.
This is compared to the general population, where only 2% of people suffer from chronic migraines.


7. Weight Loss:

Weight loss in HIV infected individuals is common through the progression of the disease. When first infected, the flu like symptoms can cause nausea, diarrhea, and vomiting. This can cause a temporary loss in weight.
As the illness progresses, weight loss can be caused by a condition called “AIDS wasting”.
The U.S. Department of Health and Human Services categorize a person as having AIDS wasting when they have lost 10% or more of their body weight, and have experienced related weight loss symptoms for a period greater than 30 days.


8. Yeast Infection:

As HIV develops, the infected persons immune system becomes compromised. One of the starting symptoms of a failing immune system is bodily infections. Yeast infections are very common, and they affect more than just women.
The cause of this infection is a fungus called Candida. It can affect the body in different ways, such as vaginal yeast infections, thrush, intestinal infections, and more.
Getting rid of these infections may prove futile until HIV medication is in place.


9. Fatigue:

Fatigue associated with HIV may be the most under-reported symptom. Many people suffer from chronic fatigue but do not realize it is a medical condition.
Chronic fatigue is tiredness that cannot be alleviated with rest. Fatigue is first reported in the flu like symptoms that accompany the early stages of HIV. Once this phase is complete, fatigue may not appear until AIDS develops.


10. Skin Rash:

Skin rash is one of the most common symptoms of HIV. Called the “HIV rash”, this symptom can be seen in approximately 85% of cases. The rash may develop into blisters at the warm moist areas of the body, including genitals and facial regions.
Most rashes develop on the trunk of the body. The appearance of the rash is red bumps that may itch and peel.

Here are 13 of the signs and symptoms that may come with HIV infection:


1. Fever:

If you have practiced unprotected sex, watch out for fevers as a symptom of HIV. Early after being infected by HIV, you may experience flu like symptoms. This can include a low grade fever that does not respond to medication.
You may experience night sweats as a response to the fever. The fever is an inflammatory reaction to the virus entering your blood stream.


2. Sore Throat:

Sore throat may be an early indicator of HIV infection. This may be an early symptom as the body reacts to the viral infection.
It can also occur later in the disease as the infected individuals immune system becomes compromised. Sore throat may be caused by thrush in the mouth or esophagus, and ulcers.
Chronic throat problems should be checked out by your family doctor.


3. Body Pain:

Sore muscles and joint pain are common symptoms of HIV infection that occur in the early flu like phase. This can be caused by the swollen lymph nodes, or from rheumatic illnesses.
Rheumatic disease affects the muscles and joints of the body, causing inflammation. This disease can lead to arthritis, fibromyalgia, and vasculitis.
Some HIV medications can also cause these symptoms.


4. Cough:

A dry, persistent cough can be a long term symptom of HIV infection. This symptom is not typically cured with medications like antibiotics and cough suppressants.
Coughing may be an early symptom as the body reacts to the new virus. It is also a long term symptom caused by the damaged immune system. The cough may develop into pneumonia, which can be a serious symptom with dangerous effects.


5. Swollen Lymph Nodes:

Swollen lymph nodes may be a starting sign of HIV infection. 67% of HIV sufferers may experience some sort of lymph node swelling. This commonly occurs in the neck, under arms, and groin region.
Lymph nodes are distributed all throughout the body so any abnormal swelling could be a symptom. Lymph nodes swell as the immune system is activated and the body fights off infection.

...and what would you call this?

tha_originator: How many rounds did he went?

oh my God!

About 98% of posts on this topic has received outrageous likes. So make una give me my own likes now o.

oubi: Pls does any one know of a site whr I can download the main nigerian movies.. Movies like last flight to abuja, inale, mirror boy, mr and mrs and the likes..

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The man stood on a block of ice and hanged himself,and now it's melted thus explaining d water on d floor.

the style in vogue now is not included above. It looks like option A, just that only one strap of the bag is hanged on the shoulder and the other strap is left unhanged.

"Ogunola was driving a
Volkswagen 'faragon';" :
na why we come dey call am vanagon?'(

Aoccdrnig to a rscheearch at
Cmabrigde Uinervtisy, it deosn’t mttaer
in waht oredr the ltteers in a wrod are, the olny iprmoetnt tihng is taht the frist
and lsat ltteer be at the rghit pclae. The
rset can be a total mses and you can
sitll raed it wouthit porbelm. Tihs is
bcuseae the huamn mnid deos not
raed ervey lteter by istlef, but the wrod as a wlohe. Pettry amzanig huh?

they've given guys an opportunity to freely look at lady's thighs without being accused of flirting.

Baddo, welcome 2 d illuminati club.(that's if u r not already a member by d way).

Hi guys,pls i'ld like to know if
the
University of
Agriculture,Abeokuta admits
direct entry students.

if yes,i'ld like to know d mode of
applying/acceptance,
processing, requirements,fees,
etc,
can
they accept a student with OND
result from lagos state
polytechnic(another state)? though i'm an
ogun
state indigene.

I'm running a part time
programme with laspothec
(accounting),presently in ND2
and maintaining a distinction
grade(not kidding about that).
I'll be through by next yr and
would like to have my bsc at
FUNAAB without any delay, and
what are my chances of being
admitted even if i make their
internal exams Cut-off mark(without any
connections), and apart from my ND result, will i still tender my O'level result(its combined,will it affect my chance)?

pls help guys cos i honestly
know nothing about direct entry
admission generally.

Hi guys,pls i'ld like to know if
the
University of
Agriculture,Abeokuta admits
direct entry students.

if yes,i'ld like to know d mode of
applying/acceptance,
processing, requirements,fees,
etc,
can
they accept a student with OND
result from lagos state
polytechnic? though i'm an
ogun
state citizen.

I'm running a part time
programme with laspothec
(accounting),presently in ND2
and maintaining a distinction
grade(not kidding about that).
I'll be through by next yr and
would like to have my bsc at
UAAB without any delay, and
what are my chances of being
admitted even if i make their
internal exams(without any
connections).
pls help guys cos i honestly
know nothing about direct entry
admission generally.

Sanguine: Hey bro, this thread is solely for those seeking admission thru JAMB. So I'd rather you go to the Unaab direct entry thread! Great guys on there are gonna respond adequately to your question(s).

thanks, i'll search for it but can u pls direct me 2ru a link?

Hi guys,pls i'ld like to know if the
University of Agriculture,Abeokuta admits
direct entry students.

if yes,i'ld like to know d mode of applying/acceptance, processing, requirements,fees, etc,
can
they accept a student with OND
result from lagos state
polytechnic? though i'm an ogun
state citizen.

I'm running a part time programme with laspothec(accounting),presently in ND2 and maintaining a distinction grade(not kidding about that). I'll be through by next yr and would like to have my bsc at UAAB without any delay, and what are my chances of being admitted even if i make their internal exams(without any connections).

pls help guys cos i honestly know nothing about direct entry admission generally.

I cherish it so much, i had to keep it under lock and key.

@ broken tv. I think not only ur tv is broken but ur english also.

I'm very sorry o. But i can't seem to find anything funny about the picture of the boy, or is it my device?(i'm viewing with a mobile phone)

2Face A Wicked Man.
ONLY God Will Judge you on
What you Did to us. "I never knew or comprehend
that Mr 2face Innocent Idibia
had this spirit of Wickedness in
him. We have been
encouraging him even he was
nothingtill now that he felt that he has arrived. 2Face, We all bought every CD
you has ever played, paid for
all the shows your attended,
devout our time to listen to all
your songs, even when the
songs may not meet out expectations, as an
encouragement we continued
to listen to them. Yet you didn't show us
appreciation. 2Face, Let me ask
you a question. Howmany
Arabs has bought your CDs or
listen to your any of your
songs? Annie Macaulay's Parents are not Arabs as to say
your choose Arabland because
of proximity to her Parents. With your spirit of
wickedness, you carry your
wedding to Dubai so that
Nigerian fans will not eat rice
or cake or drink your mineral
or even our localbeer. You know for sure that most of
your fans can't afford the
ticket to Dubai. You denied your fans who
bought and paid for your CDs
and Shows the generational
opportunity to see a glimpse
of your wedding, because
your are sure that WE fans are not important, Nigeria is not
good enough to host a
Celebrity Wedding. Tomorrow your friends and
colleagues in the
entertainment Industry who
are Naturally Copy-cats will
join the trend of wasting our
Foreign Exchange in countries that see Nigerians as no body. Well, let me tell you, get ready
to sell your next album in
Dubai, perform all your new
shows in Arab, with new
found Arab fans, as For me, I
will not buy or patronise your Music ever, again. Though it is certain that you
are so wicked to us, but we
will only forgive you on two
condition:-
1] Apologise to Nigerian for
refusing to create History in Our Land.
2] You Must take up a
Campaign to your copy-cat
friends and Colleagues in the
entertainment industry to
learn how to Appreciate, patronise Nigeria and Thinking
Nigeria, First.

For every sharp girl, there must be a corresponding maga

i don't understand all this o. They owe money and still they could still afford to open a new radio station(faaji fm)or is there something i'm missing? pls somebody enlighten me.