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CrimeRe: 30-year-old Graduate Rapes Sickle Cell Woman by Darkchocolate(f): 10:01am On Jul 22, 2015
Orikinla:
[size=18pt]Many Nigerian guys are actually rapists, because they forced many girls into sex.[/size]
Lmao... I wouldn't quite go that far but I really get your point. The mindset of SOME Nigerian guys is this "Ah ah...I don pay your bride price ooo (and in paying for your bride price I also paid for your vaginaaaa), you are my wife so whether you like it or not, you must open your legs" OR "You have made my d***k rise so I must finish it with you whether you like it or not" OR "shebi I spent all that money on chicken republic and KFC for you and bought you that N3000 top from Yaba, you must be in the mood ooo" ...Even Olamide sang about it (Yes....his #StoryForTheGods song is really about Rapppee in case you didn't know lol)...

Also did you know that it is legal in Nigeria for a husband to rapppeee his wifehuh cry : . ...I was shocked to bone when I came across this law and sadly some (uneducated illiterate bullies) men take full advantage of it.

Some men would however not dream of hurting a girl (wife or not)...because they know that NO really means NO. Their mama and papa trained them right and they are enlightened. They know what is RIGHT.

So Orikinla...I really get your point. Like I keep saying, our mindset really has to change.
CrimeRe: 30-year-old Graduate Rapes Sickle Cell Woman by Darkchocolate(f): 9:44am On Jul 22, 2015
kushsy:
I don't know if am wrong here, the girl who is supposed to be fragile due to her health issues goes to a club and stayed out so late with a deranged guy...she was dating him yet she didt know he was a rapist...I understand the fact he persuaded her to go out with him but she should have been on the alert...When exactly would rapist get the kind of punishment they deserve in this country? Castration without anaesthesia.
If I can come in here...
I have a friend who has sickle cell health issues. However you would not know unless he actually tells you. He is not fragile at all (except when the crisis starts obviously) and goes about his normal daily business. In fact, he is more active than a lot of the 'healthy' people I see.

So being SS does not mean you walk around looking like you are about to keel over any second...lol. SS people CAN and DO live a normal life.

2ndly, how many people with a criminal past (I mean serious criminal past) will tell their girlfriends about it (not wife ooo, girlfriend). Or is the girl psychic and should have known about his past.

When we date people, we take them at face value, trust them until we are given a reason not to. The only concern the girl had was that he had slept with one of her friends before (which personally she should not have bothered with him again) but you have to understand that this was probably the first time she had been in love and probably she got persuaded by his sweet tongue. And she was probably still in love with him.

We don't know all the variables anyhow but I really think we should not lay a single blame on her part.

I keep repeating...even if all was well and good ...NO still means NO.
CrimeRe: 30-year-old Graduate Rapes Sickle Cell Woman by Darkchocolate(f): 9:32am On Jul 22, 2015
Google63:
Rapists... always shifting blame on their victims... Even if she stayed till 4a.m. Is that a justification for your beast accomplice to defile her? You'll soon be caught too
Thank you....someone finally gets it...if everyone has your mindset, then we are already onto a greater and brighter future! wink
CrimeRe: 30-year-old Graduate Rapes Sickle Cell Woman by Darkchocolate(f): 9:24am On Jul 22, 2015
Demmocrats:
She caused it still outside by 12 am
Hang on...because she stayed out till 12am? She should be blamedhuh

I bet you are one of those that also say "because she is wearing a skirt above her knees, or revealing too much skin, she deserves it Because she sat on the backseat, she was just asking for it?. Smh

Nobody...I repeat...nobody (I will put especially females as they are the most vulnerable in this society) deserves to be raped. Everybody has a right to do whatever they choose to do without being subjected to the most humiliating, dehumanising, traumatic experience. Hell...we all have the right to say NO and that decision respected!!!

I can stay out till whenever ...doesn't mean I'm asking to be raped.

Its such a big shame. This mindset is sadly adopted by majority of people especially those in the position to help these victims.

The sooner we all get our mindset right in Nigeria (including the general public, police and justice system), the sooner we can start taking rape victims seriously and seeking/getting the right Justice for these victims.
CelebritiesRe: Oritsefemi Shares Throwback Photos Of Himself And His Babymama by Darkchocolate(f): 10:24pm On Jul 20, 2015
Is this not the same women that had a public fight with him...or so they led us to believe...and miraculously the guy released a song some days later....mtcheewwww... These artists can make up anything just to promote an upcoming cd oooo
NYSCRe: NYSC 2014 Batch B House by Darkchocolate(f): 6:32pm On Jul 03, 2015
Yayyyyy....I'm done!!!


yokiti:
www.nairaland.com/2420684/congratulatory-messages-batch-b-2014#35387031
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Yeah! Just like yesterday, it looks as if it will never end but here you are today, with an appreciative heart giving glory to God for a successful completion of your national youth service year.
We rejoice with you as you remove your head dresses for the final time to give the last salutation as a corps member to the governor of your states of deployment.
Our prayer is that God will settle and reward you gloriously; may you be successful in your future endeavours. Welcome to the club of senior friends.
Those that served motherland in their comfort zone and the fatherland patriots that obeyed the last command to serve wherever they were initially posted, it has all come to a glorious end now.
We congratulate all our compatriots as they put off their khaki for higher ground attires and robes today.
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Samguine, Smeeky, Dr. Meeky, Macuwon, rationalmind, Jimwalex, Ojestas, Skateboar, mannylex, rhazur, banttieman,Toluxa, Osemu8, Lorddaywalker, hissexcellencie, sowl,chykmoni, Mabra0, drphilabd, Tifannyj, Valentinooo and also those whose monikers arent here but are passing out of the NYSC scheme today.
and our damsels
Cutiepie01, Holutosin, Enimoney, Honeydear, Darkchocolate, Godfavourites1, Traecey, Hajia Heemah, Prixxy7, cleoqueen, whytjane, Redbunny Tbells91, Olaoyekemi, and Ifyzo.
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May the good Lord settle you all.Congratulations!
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As Mannylex and rhazur will say; have no fear because your results has cancelled all insults.
WebmastersRe: Why Are Nigerians Not Paying For Any Online Ideas by Darkchocolate(f): 11:35am On Jun 19, 2015
Knowledge is free. You can find information on any thing online absolutely free. The key is knowing when to invest in yourself to delve deeper into that realm of knowledge which you seek.

Additionally, our distrustful culture (scams, frauds, etc) makes us less likely to pay for information when we can easily get it free elsewhere. Like someone said, establish the worth of the information you are offering and watch people offer you thousands to acquire that information.

BTW...did you know that top schools in the world like Harvard, Yale, Oxford; they all offer free online courses!!!
You just have to know where to look!!!!!
wink
CelebritiesRe: Recent Photos Further Prove OJB Is Hale And Hearty (photos) by Darkchocolate(f): 6:19pm On May 19, 2015
I don't know how we can conclusively decide on a person's health (especially internal) just by physical appearances. Appearances can be deceptive. If he is well, good for him... If he isn't well, he should seek help now rather than when it is too late. Being healthy should be a priority and shouldn't be a joke!!!
FamilyRe: Reasons Why You Should Not Get Married To A Nigerian Man by Darkchocolate(f): 8:38pm On May 02, 2015
TheInkheart:
Reasons Why You Should Not Get Married To A Nigerian Man

It is no doubt that Nigerian men make wonderful lovers; they are sweet, kind, thoughtful, maybe not very romantic but romantic still and good in bed too. It is also no doubt that these men are very rare to come by in Nigeria. Maybe by default or societal conditioning, most Nigerian men are so not it; they are egoistic, chauvinistic and make terrible husband materials. You wonder why I think Nigerian men; at least most of them, won't make good husbands, read the reasons listed below:

-They Are Chauvinists: pardon the strong word "chauvinists" but Nigerian men prefer to stick to their bias opinion about women and their responsibilities in the home. The take the "head" duty way too serious and often push the women aside expecting them to follow their will and do as they say. If you marry a Nigerian man, you will probably end up as the less important voice in the home or wherever the man rather than as a partner you are to him.

- They Are Polygamous In Nature: In Nigeria, some men believe men are entitled to as many women as they can handle and so, they are free to marry more than one wife or have affairs with other women. With a Nigerian man, it is never certain that you will be the only woman in his life. To save yourself the heartbreaks of discovering condoms and hotel receipts in his pocket or worse, finding out he has secret children, please do not marry a Nigerian man.

- They Are Not Romantic: you want flowers, a guy to follow you to the salon, exotic lunches, dinners, vacations, chocolates and breakfast in bed? Then, a Nigerian man is not the man you should marry. They often consider these things as cheesy and unneccesary. Maybe they will try on your birthdays and valentine's day (that's if they don't come up with excuses to forget). The most romantic thing some Nigerian men will ever get for you is packs of food from an eatery or drinks and few back/foot rubs just right before sex.

- You Will Be A Nanny To A Grown Man: if God blesses you with a Nigerian man and a somehow scattered one, you are in soup. You've just graduated to being a nanny to a full grown man. You will pick his socks, shirts and what not after him when he gets back from work, even flush the toilet when he's done. Be ready to face a sulking man if the food is not ready on time or you try to get him to do something for you when his favourite game or tv show is on. You will have to pet and stroke his ego almost all the time to make him happy.

- They Have The Wife Beating Syndrome: either by societal conditioning or home training, some Nigerian men believe it is very normal to hit a woman; that is the only way to put them back on track when they are wrong. It is no secret that some Nigerian men will beat their wives and feel no regret about it; it is somehow the woman's fault the man is so angry to the extent he has to hit her. If you're not ready to lose your fine skin to the itchy palms of a man, please steer clear of Nigerian men.

Nigerian men are also good liars. They smoke and drink heavily and blame it on the society's deteriorating condition; they have to "keep body and soul together". Many Nigerian men have money problem; it is either they are misers or heavy spenders. Some prefer to show off the wealth they do not possess by living way beyond their standards. And the most annoying part is that many Nigerian men are Mr nice guy in public and Mr stingy in their homes which you will agree is not a very attractive trait especially in someone you want to spend the rest of your life with.

I know by now, some guys are already hissing and cursing me probably but it is undeniable that many Nigerian guys have terrible attitudes that make them really undesirable husband materials. I mean, it is tough enough we have to cope with the many issues in the country, men problems should not be added to our weighty wahala. We deserve men who understand us (at least to a reasonable extent), shower us with the affection we need, pamper us and make us feel very special and loved but how many Nigerian men can beat their chests that they can be the man of our dreams or at least, part of the dreams?!!


more articles n www.theinkheartblog.com and www.360nobs.com/author/alice-temitope-dako/
100% agree ...although there are a few good ones... But they are like gold dust and will hVe one or two of the traits mentioned. Smh!!! I better start trekking to Europe to find my Obi m! sad grin
RomanceRe: changes by Darkchocolate(f): 9:50pm On Apr 30, 2015
Reading...
NYSCRe: Corp members Posted To Lagos; Lets Meet here by Darkchocolate(f): 9:29pm On Apr 29, 2015
damilola231:
Does anyone know of any PPA that gives accommodation in lag. I just want to far from home and how I can influence the PPA
Hey...I don't think any ppa provide you with accommodation. I think the nccf or something similar...the Christian/catholic Nysc body provide corps members lodge though so you can look into that. The main key to influence your ppa is to join a sort after group in camp and you get to name where you want to be posted... Or just have a letter ready from the place you want to work and redeploy after the initial posting. Or just make friends with top officials... ; . Goodluck
NYSCRe: Corp members Posted To Lagos; Lets Meet here by Darkchocolate(f): 9:25pm On Apr 29, 2015
yokiti:
Omalicha Darkchocolate, Mannylex, highmey, aircom, yetunde01, futureDangote, Otunba88, Hisexcellencie and prixxy7; we need not to fear because we have capable hands that will give us info on how to be a successful Lagos Corper, we trust you than you wont leave how how to be a partaker of the state government's #15,000 allawee in you people. We need your inputs here.
As Mannylex do say; have no fear!
Hi Yokiti grin
CelebritiesRe: I Was In A Relationship With Him – Yul Edochie’s Gay Stalker Insists. by Darkchocolate(f): 12:56am On Apr 28, 2015
Omo... That number 08061616443 belongs to Yul Edochie Ooo.... True caller strikes again!!! shocked lipsrsealed

So Yul lies to this guy pretending to be gay. The guy constantly requests a pic of Yuls pennnis. Yul continues to put it off saying he can't take the pic whilst in his matrimonial home that he can only do it while on location in Asaba. By this time the guy has sent Yul diamond watches on the promise that he will get to see Yul s 3rd leg cheesy ... Meanwhile the guy doesn't get the pic after two days of him being in location and starts insulting him and threatening to reveal all on social media. lipsrsealed Yul now takes a defensive stance and reveals the guy on social media first alleging that the guy is a stalker. sad angry

Yul obviously led this guy on and made him to believe he was gay (that's if he isn't actually gay...nothing wrong with that). He lied to the guy and that is so ridiculous. I really have had high regard for the man. angry. Such a shame!
CelebritiesRe: Do You Also Answer Fake Calls Just To Escape A Situation? LOL (photos) by Darkchocolate(f): 10:09pm On Apr 26, 2015
Caseless:
*moves closer to her...whispers beautiful words question into her ears* cool
Eh heh...that's what you like abi? Yimu undecided lipsrsealed
CelebritiesRe: Do You Also Answer Fake Calls Just To Escape A Situation? LOL (photos) by Darkchocolate(f): 9:58pm On Apr 26, 2015
Caseless:
*off to the microphone and screams top of my voice* answer my question and quit being a 'nigerian'(people that answer question with a question) undecided
No need to scream Pookie, a gentle whisper would do grin
CelebritiesRe: Do You Also Answer Fake Calls Just To Escape A Situation? LOL (photos) by Darkchocolate(f): 9:53pm On Apr 26, 2015
Caseless:
I have had the thought of that nice combination running in my mind. It makes a lot is sense. kiss wink
cool
CelebritiesRe: Do You Also Answer Fake Calls Just To Escape A Situation? LOL (photos) by Darkchocolate(f): 9:52pm On Apr 26, 2015
Caseless:
for yesu's sake, is that u on ur dp? undecided
It certainly isn't you, is it? tongue
CelebritiesRe: Do You Also Answer Fake Calls Just To Escape A Situation? LOL (photos) by Darkchocolate(f): 7:45pm On Apr 26, 2015
Caseless:
darkchocolate, u have lightchocolate lips undecided
Goes nicely with dark chocolate...don't you think? wink
CelebritiesRe: Do You Also Answer Fake Calls Just To Escape A Situation? LOL (photos) by Darkchocolate(f): 7:44pm On Apr 26, 2015
TheSonOfMark:

You, missy, are a 'bad' girl. wink
I need spanking...I've been a very very bad girl wink
CelebritiesRe: What Do You Think Abt This Relationship? Kylie Jenner And Tyga by Darkchocolate(f): 8:56am On Apr 26, 2015
She s 17... He s 25... No big deal. We don't actually know that they are having sex.... Besides... Kylie has a lot of older siblings and they would be advising her appropriately. Let s stop judging people. After all, senator Yerima married a child... He s probably in his late 50s ... And is it actually worse because there are no laws to protect the child from such marriages here in nigeria. IN the U.S. and Uk, there are laws to protect teenagers and people in general from sexual offences and the laws actually work. So I wouldn't worry too much about Kyle and Tyga. Kylie's mum doesn't mind so we shouldn't. End of. smiley
CelebritiesRe: Do You Also Answer Fake Calls Just To Escape A Situation? LOL (photos) by Darkchocolate(f): 8:49am On Apr 26, 2015
Abosi31:
Lollll. I think we have a situation here. . grin

Lollll. I think we have a situation here. .
Houston we have a problem ... Lol

But na true naa... Just go to shoprite Nd buy a reasonable size portion of rice and chicken and come for less than 1000k. Hahaha
CelebritiesRe: Do You Also Answer Fake Calls Just To Escape A Situation? LOL (photos) by Darkchocolate(f): 8:39am On Apr 26, 2015
Hahaha... Done this before... Went into A lounge/restaurant once ...sat down and they brought the menu.. Omo come see price shocked ... 4000 Naira for a plate of one average meal like that ... Ah ah...I fit eat with that money for 1week naa... So I just chill, after like 10mins, I pretended to get a call and that I was telling the person where I was but they didn't seem to be hearing me due to bad reception. So I just je jejely and respectfully excused myself and told the waiters I needed to go finish the call outside to direct my friend in...

I tear comot from that place sharp sharp... No long thing. Why would you sell me a plate of chips and one small looking chicken like that for nearly half my allowee? A beg oooo ... My mama no be Mrs Dangote Dantata angry angry

But yawa go gas for your head if you dey make fake call and receive a real call at the same time...especially if your phone is on loud. My dear...OYO shall be your case cheesy

I know on the Apple App Store there are actually apps that help you ''make fake calls'... You set it up on a timer, and the app actually configures your phone to ring you and engages you in a conversation with the imaginary person on the other end. The beauty is no phone credit is used. So you can set it if you are going on a date ...for the app to ring you in 1hr or 30mins....

Depending on how your date is going, you can either answer and tell your date the call is urgent and have to leave or you can just tell your date it was just a friend making an enquiry and continue with your date. Brilliant App!

I don't know if Android has it though. I'm sure they do. grin
CelebritiesRe: UKU: Nollywood Actress Evia Simon Shares Hot Bedroom Photos by Darkchocolate(f): 7:23am On Apr 25, 2015
Razz ness all round. Actors and actresses and celebrities in general can attention seek eh... Na wah Ooo... At least showcase the photos in a reasonable looking bedroom. Smh!!!
CelebritiesRe: 16 Eyebrows That Doesn't Make Sense(photo) by Darkchocolate(f): 7:18am On Apr 25, 2015
The second to last photo...isn't that how majority of all these Naija girls that claim to be overnight makeup artists do theirs and their clients' brows? It makes me shudder!!! HeeebeeeeGeeeBeeee huh angry
CelebritiesRe: Graphic Pics Of Transgender Woman Stripped & Shaved In Brazil Spark Outrage by Darkchocolate(f): 7:13am On Apr 25, 2015
Regardless of her being a transgender, she is firstly a human...ask yourself...would you want this done to a 'male' member of your family just because he is male? People are so quick to judge but do not consider the real issue.

I hope she recovers cos this is very traumatising.
CrimeRe: Female Staff Of Sweet Sensation Jailed For 266 Years For Stealing Employer’s N8m by Darkchocolate(f): 12:25am On Apr 23, 2015
searider:
Since she was sentenced to 7 years for each of the 34 count charges and they are going to run concurrently; the last time I checked, 12 hours make one day in prison. My maths says she spending just 3.5yrears.

I am neither a Lawyer nor a Prisons personnel; so I stand to be corrected.
How does 12 hours make one day in prison? Lol... Is the prison population on their own universe abi GMT...24 hours is 24hrs joor whether you dey inside prison or not and I believe that s how it's counted. Unless you are thinking she s a day prisoner and goes home at night or vice versa.

Maybe what you are thinking of is her serving half of her sentence and coming up for review if she maintains good behaviour (coming up for parole if in the US). Even at that she has 7years to go (half of 14years)... If it is the UK system sha.... I don't think Naija prisons do the half sentence thing though.
undecided smiley
CrimeRe: Female Staff Of Sweet Sensation Jailed For 266 Years For Stealing Employer’s N8m by Darkchocolate(f): 12:16am On Apr 23, 2015
The sentences run along side each other (concurrent) not after each other (consecutive). So she doesn't serve 266years. She only serves the term of her longest mentioned sentence (14years) as all the others run alongside it. . smiley
CelebritiesRe: Hacker Leak Oritsefemi's Instagram Chats With Various Chat(photos) by Darkchocolate(f): 9:08pm On Apr 20, 2015
Tinyemeka:
Ermm... question please.

Akwaibom_girl said she'd misplaced her makeup bag when she brought it out and was looking for a CD. So in the whole of the dude's house, her bag was the only place where she could find a Compact Disc?!!! Was it audio CD or VCD? undecided
Am I missing something here?

Na kweshun I dey ask o.
undecided. confusion all round. grin
CelebritiesRe: Hacker Leak Oritsefemi's Instagram Chats With Various Chat(photos) by Darkchocolate(f): 8:11pm On Apr 20, 2015
And the girl he s calling queen abi kween...is he blind? Mono brows on fleck lipsrsealed

FashionRe: Makeup: Our Amazing Before And Afters by Darkchocolate(f): 9:05pm On Apr 14, 2015
palma:
Another
Why does he she have shaving stubble? huh
PoliticsRe: Nigeria Ranks 4th On Interpol's African Wanted List by Darkchocolate(f): 4:06pm On Mar 28, 2015
Monsurat Sola Adebanjo - 44yrs

Various Fraud
PoliticsRe: Nigeria Ranks 4th On Interpol's African Wanted List by Darkchocolate(f): 4:02pm On Mar 28, 2015
Leonard Iduwe Okoh - 39yrs

Theft, amongst others

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