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HateU2:
Yes, we are rite now or are we not?

lol yeah, and you was right its a crush

HateU2:
Just kinda busy. Hw ar u?

am doing fine, i thought we agreed to get familiar with each other

guydangerous:
from emuparadise but you can look for it at coolroms,is cheaper there (the size is small compared to that of emuparadise).

bro which phone are you using theres a reason why I've been asking you this question its because of gta

HateU2:
hi

where av you been

HateU2:

hey

MRBrownJ:
how can you be so negative.... at least give it a try instead of being scared to even ACT RIGHT. better lose such friendship than dating her out of pity

hmmm

purplekayc:
am not the main admin. For the group.
Some of them usually remove numbers that are inactive.

and am inactive? Dude i am an admin too so am active 24hrs add me pls

quiverfull:
Op, if what you've written above is true, I'll advice you seek God's face about it all, "...and whatever He tells you, do it."

its 100% true, but how do you know what God tells you

MrFinbarr:
[b]Believe me bro, if you turn her down, you'll lose her friendship. Love can be found in crazy manners. It's true you may not have feelings for her as per dating, but you already see her as a sister which gives your relationship an edge for easy and full time survival if you give it a chance.
She's been with you because she loves you, and if you let her down, she may as well hate you in return at the end, and believe me, if she finally happens to start dating someone else, you may end up regretting never being the one she's dating.

Sometimes loves doesn't come in full force, it takes time and attention over time to be built up and such love tends to last much longer.

You see her as a sister which is why you have doubt of a possible successful relationship with her, but from now on try change that mindset.
See her as a young, nice and caring girl who deserves to be loved.
See her as a potential life partner.
See her as a girl who's bold enough to know what she wants and believes in it.

Remember, the best type of relationship is where your partner is your best friend which from your story is what you two are to each other. Decide wisely #My_opinion_though#

I wish you the best.[/b]

wao am speechless, never saw it this way until now, thanks bro

guydangerous:
are you using airtel 2gb plan

which phone arw u using

purplekayc:
07061833836


added

but you didn't add me, my number has been dropped for weeks, but you refuse to add, i didn't know it is so hard to add someone in a whatsapp group

ybalogs:
What I've learnt in this kind of situation is don't go into a relationship out of pity. As daunting as it looks, all you need do is let her know your mind. You need not avoid her or stop picking her calls. If indeed you're bold but still not bold enough to confront her, I think you're already falling for her. Would t be a bad thing though. Just be sincere with yourself. Cheers.

i just care about how she feels, her aunt is giving her a hard time already all because of me, i feel responsible for her plight

MRBrownJ:
tell her exactly what you wrote below, and if she is a friend indeed, she will understand. dont get sucked into dating her to "please her"

she will never understand

Its a long story and I'll cut it as short as possible, i only see this in movies that is why am suprised & decided to put this here, it was staring me in the face all along but i ignored it, the way this girl showed me care like she's my mum, sometimes send me money in school, get me things on birthdays and i never ask such of her, scrutinized & disqualified every girl i come close to, always describing a guy she will like to date which happens to have all my qualities, always apologize even if am wrong, jokingly calls me her husband, tells me her deepest secrets, cares about my opinion of her, appreciate little things from me including the first time i took her out because she coerced me to, wasn't angry when people were spreading rumours we were dating because of how close we are and how she behaves towards me in public. I was sensing that she likes me but shrugged it off thinking she was close to me because I'm the brother she never had. Two months ago a cousin asked me to beg her to be his girlfriend that she listens to me, i did that & she said she will think about it, but she didn't, my cousin chased her for weeks even tried to trick her into visiting him in abuja, when he realized nothing is working for him he got desperate & angry & went to her aunt whom she's staying with & told the aunt that we are actually dating that i have brainwashed the girl into showering me with lots of gifts that from the way she talks about me that she has lost it, my cousin went to my mum & said the same thing then he stopped talking to me. My mum called me & when i came home, she sternly warned me to stay away from her, that the way everyone is talking about us i might soon get into trouble, out of anger & suprise i called her to ask why she's spreading baseless rumours, she laughed & said i shouldn't worry that my cousin is angry because she rejected his advances that she told my cousin we were dating and she's ready to wait for me till enternity for marriage, i was irritated & asked her why she would say something like that when she knows we aren't dating & my cousins intentions, that she should leave me out of her crazy world that i cant continue with this, when i was about to hang up, she asked me to wait, after a short pause, she said she has been inlove with me since she first saw me, but sadly i didn't feel the same way, that whenever something like this happens she always imagine its our love being persecuted and am the only guy who hasnt tried to take advantage of her, even as i had several opportunities, that she wish all whats happening is real that she doesn't care about the consequences. I frozed, i tried to speak and i was just mumbling and i cut the call. I'm a bold guy and i haven't felt like this before to the point of stammering, I haven't been picking her calls because i don't know what to say and i see her as a friend and sister and am not attracted to her one bit, not that she's unattractive but the feelings is not just there, i love her as a sister and i don't know what will happen if i turn her down. And the fact that she's bearing all this for me makes me feel guilty and i want to stand by her in this trying time as a friend not a lover. And i don't believe in love in the first place she's one of the reasons am currently single.

How do i gently let her down without loosing her friendship?

Believe it or dont but if you don't have something meaningful to say just keep quiet thanks.

How come you're the one advertising it with all your heart

Now that I've seen this i don't know if i should be the badt guy or the nice guy

BraniacX:
And correct me if I'm wrong

You're supposed to be smart? Right?

whos this one? I fear this ban of a thing dude i would have treated your blunt stupidity here and now

Ajusshi:
U dea mind am.. Who dis don even epp since 1960?

i still the wonder my brother

Hmmm GOAT SO ITS OKAY IF I CALL PEOPLE GOAT EVERYWHERE I GO? I DONT THINK I'LL LAST A DAY WITHOUT GETTING PUNCHED IN THE FACE, buhari goat aliyu goat babangida goat, Muhammad ali goat, even the OP NA GOAT

And you're just finding out? Where have you been hiding? Under a rock?

ShowYourCertificate:
I'm sure Omenka's State, Benue, would be included among the states where grazing reserves will be established. After all, Benue is in the North (North Central to be precise). ****

are the mods even seeing this guy? He broke rules 2 and 3 and even encouraged violence if its me now they will quickly throw me in jail, what happened in agatu isnt supposed to be related in this manner

Lol what a funny story he walks about unclad with his ding dong hanging free to air? With oil all over his body and most funny of all his name is badoo? He must be olamides younger brother. He will soon meet his end because this guy is damn cruel

HateU2:
U are not sure it's a crush 4 now. So, let's just catch funnn

it might be more than a crush and i believe we can arrive at a consensus by getting to know each other whayassay

HateU2:
Okies. You are annoyed Dat means u took it personal. It's okay now right? No more beefing I guess? Are we cool? I'm not here to make enemies

ya we cool, i guess. So what do you suggest i do about the crush thingy

HateU2:
It a crush dude. U need sm1 to interpret 4 u. It's not an insult. We were just jooking arwd plus we did not ruin ur life ooo . Dont take things here personal biko. Are u ibo I remba abt dat but I replied in english nah or I don 4get self. I don't rily take things here to heart. I'm just catching funnnnnnnnnnnn

its a crush? Good to know, am not taking it personal am just annoyed with you guys then, but its water under the bridge now, please i hate arabic fun ok? And am not igbo

Dude dont do this to your kids , if they grow up they will not like your decision, the way that place is advanced its like everyone's dream to be there and here you're wanting to return to deteriorated 9ja? Screw the culture you can be a good parent anywhere. All the people committing crimes everyday in 9ja do they not have a culture? Still it doesn't deter them from becoming animals.

HateU2:

I yaam not stubborn
U have a crush on me, I joked with u with my Arabic, u took it personal nd started beefing me

lmao crush? Damn i dont know what i have on you but how do you know its a crush? I haven't seen you before, and you called all the insult's joke? You ruined me with the Arabic and you caused the beef. Remember when i gave you two choices, if you answer with English it means we're cool if you answered with Arabic we're not cool?

HateU2:

All this JAMB questions 4 me
I'm so so re-writing this jamb nxt year

they are not upto ten please answer them, theres something about your stubborness that is interesting that anytime you quote me i feel this curiosity all over again thats why i warned you to stay away, but somehow we keep meeting.