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Guy, when does palmy joint become reliable source?

Callotti how far

Kobojunkie: Of course none because I would not want any of those killers to go Scot free. And the people of Soweto did all they could to get justice for those that died. Why not the Nigerian case? What these boys did is inexcusable. Those of us who took to the streets in peaceful protest during the actual June 12th debacle, what were we? chopped liver?

This hijacking happened in October, and I remember quite well that there were fears that the administration would shoot first, ask questions later.

I remember the hijack very well as there was anxiety that Nigeria is turning into those Arab countries where hijack is the order of the day

People that lost loved ones in Soweto or June 12 might as well blame the organisers of the riots who knowingly defied authorities and as a result got some innocent peoplle who were not part of the riots killed

durobraham: @ desirel
"his money was his and my money was ours" is a very typical Nigerian mans mindset.
That is why so many Nigerian women make financial demands from their significant others .

Maybe thats true for the loser you are involved with.

80% of people on this forum would tell you Nigerian men take the lion share of financial responsibilities in any relationship

How many househusbands in Nigeria do you know compared to housewifes?

How many guys depend on their girlfriends for blackberry, hairdo, and general upkeep compared to girls who depend on their boyfriends

^^ If you lose a family in the Soweto riots or the June 12 riots you would never be happy.

That isnt to say those riots were a bad thing

GboyegaD: Yes oooo. I still dey Denton gidigba.

Sent you an email

^^ If my mom was a casualty in the American war of independence too, I would have been happy.

Just needed to be said that we have heroes in Nigeria who kidnap for money and kill innocent civilians

What were their demands after the hijack?

Did they ask for money like our MEND heroes? Did they bomb and kill innocent people like our MEND activists?

mukina2: mtn for lewandowski

Where are the remiership players na?

manny4life: I love obodo Nigeria, every where you turn, it's one thing or the other, anyway, this initiative is better than embezzling the money...

If this technology works like Amazon Kindle with electronic textbooks on it, I'm all for it... Let techie go upward

Good reasoning. It might be like kindle cos they said all their courses and syllabus are loaded on the device

Its a good start especially in a country where Computer Science grads dont touch a PC till they graduate

queensmith: I thought the bent ones were the good ones? lol.

How did you know this? I thought you were mother Theresa

Another Bundesliga player scores again!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Where are the EPL players na? Disgracing their countries?

PrettyCindy: After my son was circumcized, the nurse who did it gave us instructions on how to take care of the sore. We did all she said but i observed that the weight of the cotton wool absorbing the blood pulled his male organ to one side. I complained to my mum but she said it didn't matter that it won't affect his organ. After the sore healed, the circumcision was perfect but his organ dangled to one corner.

I took him to the hospital, i was told to always straighten his organ and let the pampers press on it before sealing the pampers.
I have been doing that since then but up till now he is 6months old the organ is still bent. When am bathing him and he urinates, he doesn't pee straight, he pees to an angle of 45 degrees or there about but not near straight.
I am not happy about it cos its a big flaw. This can make him feel incomplete or ashamed later in life.

Please i need tips and ideas on how i can correct this. Thank you.

Worried mum.

No worry about anything

ronkebp: Good for you!!!!! i wish you well.

I also wish you well on yor visit to your husbands office

ronkebp: Whatever....whenever you get married [that is if you will], confine your wife to the walls of your kitchen and bedroom...infact do not let her step out of the house....because you do not want any woman "spying" on you or visiting you in your office....Abegiiii....better go to your village and pick a wife that you can order around and who does not have a mind of her own, who has to take permission before she does anything. Lobaatan!!!

When I get married, I would marry a secure woman, Who has a job and is busy not the lazy housewives who have nothing else to think about aside gossips and random thoughts of whom husband is cheating with, who doesnt need to tiptoe to my office neither do i have to do the same cos I 100% would trust whom I marry.

If I have any reason not to trust her it must be based on factual stuff not because she is in her office with her colleague or boss, not because she sat next to a man in church, Not because she came home at 7:35pm instead of 7:30. Lobaatan

So even the PDP now knows that Retardeen is a failure.

Anyways PDP should be voted out whether they field Retardeen or his Vice

ronkebp: It is a big lie!!!!!!! having a job is not a reason not to visit your hubby in the office, i will continue to say it "THERE IS NOTHING WRONG, IN A WIFE PAYING HER HUBBY A LUNCH, PERSONAL OR EMERGENCY VISIT" in his office. MY mum never used to go to my dad's office for anything, whatever they had to discuss about would be done at home, and my dad will never stop complaining that his wife never comes to his office to say hi. Some men are just full of themselves, if my hubby was the president of a Nation, i would go and pay him a visit in his office...whether he likes it or not. He has no say in that.....if he embarasses me this much in his office, he will hate the day he said "I DO " to me.....

First, whats the Big lie?

Second going to visit your spouse in the office is highly unprofessional, Unless its a mechanic workshop, bakery or Carpenters shed.


Why would any engaged woman go to her husbands place of work when she has her own job. What would she tell her employers she is going to do for 2hours? And what reason would you give to want to see a man you saw 5hours ago and told you he was going to work

Do they have visiting day in office?

What the woman did was absolutely wrong. If you must go visit your husband at work, wait at the parking lot or at the reception, How can she demand to come into the office, Next thing she would ask for his work computer password to ensure he isnt on dating sites.

NONSENSE

Kudos Ogbeni Aregbesola

Go ACN, Instead of using the money to clear Mountains and hill beside the airport, you chose to invest in the student and leaders of tomorrow

oodua a gbe wa oo

ACM10: There are many threads here where vernacular of Yoruba origin is widely used. Why are u such a hypocrite? Your aversion for a particular tribe has blinded u to the point of non-perception of light. I pity u

Any of such threads with Yoruba or any vernacular should be moved to the culture section Thats what the regulation says

Jiracek, Pilar, and Gekas all have something to do with the Bundesliga

ronkebp: Dayo...stop potting on the wrong ball, stop saying all this because he is a man....this is a relationship between a man and a woman, this is a married couple and i believe every employer/company understands situations where a spouse has to see her hubby or wife. There is absolutely nothing wrong in going to see your hubby or wife in the office, stop making excuses that are not there. If the man cannot respect his wife in his office, how the hell is she suposed to accord any form of respect to the hubby in her own office. Whether what she did was wrong or not, you settle it at home and tell her when she should visit you in the office, but you first and foremost....respect her infront of everyone!!!!

The thing was that the wife did everything that could possibly be done wrong. And everywhere I have worked NO single employer would want you to bring anything that happens in your home to the office. I have several colleagues and I have never seen any of their spouse before except in unofficial gatherings like clubs or end of the year party.

Your employer dont care whether you have a wife, or 100wives, whether you cheat or you are a monk. Your employer dont care if its a relationship between a man and a woman, You can as well have a relationship with a zebra, As long as its outside of work No one cares. The workplace is strictly for work and nothing else. And that should be respected.

I would never go and check my wife at work unless she needs me there urgently. Is this a nursery school that you can just walk in to check your daughter? This is not about respect its about an insecure, uncivilised and immature wife. She can write to her husbands employer to sack all the female staff to ensure her man isnt cheating, But since he might meet women on his way to work, church, shop etc maybe she needs to tell her husband to sit at home 24-7 to ensure he isnt cheating.

She needs to get a job, Thats the disadvantage of having a full time housewife who has no job, All day she is engrossed with who her husband is with every moment of the day when her other womenfolks are at work thinking of providing solutions to the economy.

Imagine anytime she decides to go to her husbands place of work they should open the door for her and give her couch, She can also start checking the staffs underwears to see which one has her husbands trade mark cumshott

WHAT NONSENSE

I spent like 1hr deciding between choosing Pilar and Perisic.. Chose Perisic .. Damn

Sagamite: Feel free to name your friend or his firm.

That reveals too much. That my friend is a Man Utd fan. Nuff said

The NL whose office he used to work is my friend, hope you knw

ronkebp: And who is talking about entertaining a spouse here, no one says he should buy her chivita and crackers and have her cross leg in his office, all i am saying is that the guy should have excused himself, talk to his wife either telling her to go home that he was busy or have her wait..except if it was an emergency. But leave her outside on purpose is a NO-NO....no amount of arguement will change my reasoning....As long as i am in my office, i have sole authority in that office, i am the boss in my office, now it is left for me to do ethical things in that office, the guy cannot open the door for his wife, but he can be "entering" another lady in that same office that is neither a bedroom nor his house....

You are an employee in that office and what would happen if your employers know you are receiving wife, mother and grandmother during office hours?
If she didnt have the courtesy to tell him ahead that she is coming then she needs to wait until he is ready

How do you know he was entering another person in the office? Did she catch him on top of her? Anytime a man is in a room with anyone with doors locked he is fuckingg right? Even if na the mom, boss or coworker
You talked about due process, what due process did the op follow in this situation

Obodo shld represent us at the Olympics

ronkebp: Dayo, i can't always call my hubby that i am coming to his office, why should i clock in first anytime i have to go and see him he is my HUSBAND!!!!! this is not a boss to surbodinate kind of relationship.....all those men having extramarital affairs, how many times have their girlfriends called the men that they were coming to visit them, especially in that Naija setting?

An office is not his house or bedroom, Someone else owns that office and employed your spouse to do official duties in the office not to entertain family and friends.

The employer isnt paying her husband to be entertaining his wife in the office, If your boss sees you entertaining your family during office hours In most cases you get a warning or a sack.

If the husband is sacked for entertaining her, she would be the first person to abuse him of being jobless

Igbo kwenu

ronkebp: Dayo courtesy demanded that he reached out to his wife, how long is it going to take you to excuse yourself?? in what meetings are excuses not allowed? if you could excuse yourself to "take a leak" why can't you excuse yourself to quickly say a sentence or two to your wife??

The same courtesy didnt tell his wife to call him before coming to the office, but that courtesy is now telling the husband to go out of a meeting to meet a wife. That courtesy must be very selective.

Taking a leak is a natural thing that people do, Going to meet a wife in an office place is something considered very unprofessional. This was a wife you have a night to see and you still spend official hours to be discussing what?

ronkebp: My hubby comes to see me when it is very important and yes he comes into my office,

First thing, Why would he come to your office when he can call you?

Secondly offices are different, Everywhere i have worked No one can get into the building except you are a staff, even if you are a staff without your badge, you cannot get in. Vital documents litter the office which the public should see and vital conversation goes on which the public shouldnt hear. Every year we are made to sign a confidentiality and independence form.

If your wife wanders into your building and overhears Zenith bank is buying over Diamond which would make their share rise and tells her friend someone profits from it and people can go to jail for that.

ronkebp: when i have a client he would be told by the service rep, [size=14pt]and he will quietly take a seat and wait till i am done with my client[/size], whether it is a man or woman. And no quarel...

Why does your husband sit down, why cant he bang the table that they must open for him or throw tantrums like the OP or why doesnt your husband suggest you are cheating? Could it be that the OP was immature and maybe an illiterate and uncivilised person who doesnt know how to act in the modern world?

ronkebp: i have even never locked the door to my office when i am in the office, it is opened...before one of the clients would jump on me, moreso if the client harrases me, it will be my world against his. So precaution has to be taken

Who are you working with Felons or criminals? If you are discussing staff promotion, Salaries, Discipline or planning to sack some staffs with Upper management, Do you leave the door open? Many discussions happen in the office that only a few people are supposed to hear like the above I stated.

2mch: What goes up must come down. This is Debriefs story. So i guess this is the EX. Well welcome to NL. Good to know you have learned albeit a little late. But God is in the business of doing miracles. I hope it is something a donor can fix. As long as your EX and mother can truly truly forgive you, then you can only pray that you get through this trying time and live a life worth living. Life is not all about fast cars, and vanity. All that should be done in your youth. When you get married, be ready to grow up.

Think debrief is a lawyer while this one is a Nurse. Could be wrong though

ronkebp: she might not think immediately that her hubby is gay, but subsequently that thought will erupt....okay!! he likes locking the door....why did it take him 30 mins to open when he knows his wife was waiting?, why didn't he excuse himself, quickly appraoch the wife and ask her to take a seat that he was going to be with her in a couple of minutes that he had a clent??. All that little gesture, just shows respect...he utterly embarrassed her by keeping mute in satying still in his office till his "so-called " client was ready to leave.

So if you are having a meeting in the office, you would just get out of the meeting and go down to security to meet your insecure wife and later come back to the meeting?

That shows your client or whom you are talking to that you are not serious with the business. Thats the height of it. In meetings where your phones are expected to be off or in silent is where you would be rushing out to attend to a wife?

To ensure that her husband isn't cheating Maybe she should be following him to the office and sit on his laps throughout to be assured he isnt cheating