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nateevs: Stats zone. Didier Drogba becomes the rirst player to score in four Fa Cup finals.

ileobatojo: No, many people were questioning his nonchalant, disrespectful attitude to the issue and the deeper implications for their relationship. May we have been wrong? Possibly, but that is what the majority of the women responded negatively to. I did not see a single woman agree that he should borrow to pay for her wedding. Most of the women even agreed that she should contribute to the wedding. Why should anyone tell her to break up her relationship? One can only advice her to look deeper and settle in her mind that she wants to really wants to spend the rest of her life with him and many people have said it in many different ways. So yeah I disagree with your post.

KaimaTee: I don't even understand why these guys are killing themselves here, They should get help from his brothers and cousin at this time and not his wife to be,It is not only the man that marries wife but the entire kindred. In my family, the guys pool funds together whenever one of them is getting married, it is the duty of the guys family to pay everything,they help each other out.

coogar: the goal against zambia in algiers 90(semifinals).
it was a long diagonal cross and yekini met it with one of the most audacious volleys you would see.
outstanding tekkers, nigeria won 2-0!


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sZHOnbWoCk8

start @ 1.05 secs

ileobatojo: Interesting! After spending the entire thread ranting against us, you are now in essence saying the same thing as what me, chaircover and some other ladies on here have said though we used different words. The difference between you and us is that we could deduce their other issues she complained about in her other thread without seeing that thread, just based on her original post here!

mukina2:

not in the mood to watch any lap of honour

omar22: Opening match against Burkina Faso Keshi scored the winner

Trimia: paying for an apartment is not blowin money, furnishing and renovating it with 80% of money intended for a weddin is blowin it. What do you need that much furnishing in a house for at once. You can gradually buy things. I believe he wasn't sitting/sleeping on the floor in his previous apartment so he at least had basic furniture. The previous rent was due to expire in september anyways so how did he plan on renewing it? With the weddin money i guess. And beside, if he was cash strapped, instead of sayin "oya pay now shebi you have money" he should have put off weddin preparations for a while thats what every rational human being would do.

dayokanu: The bolded is why the ability of some women to think rationally is always questioned.

So paying for an apartment is now Blowing money? And stingy is the adjective to describe someone who spent his money on a much more important thing (renting a house) Would you have been ok if he finance the wedding but he and the wife after the extravagant wedding are squatting with friends?

So for him not to be stingy, he should have stayed in the falling building and paid for the owambe wedding so the building can fall on the and crush them to death?

Excellent thinking

Trimia: You people should stop calling this woman selfish its pisin me off. Wich of the men here can go and meet thier friends and boast that- ah na my babe pay for our wedding cause she get money. Ideally, marriage costs should be split even, are u trying to say that if the poster here was jobless, or was even still in school the man won't marry her again because she can't pay for d wedding. And d woman didn't even say she couldn't assist in payin d bills, she only complains that eighty percent seems rather unfair to her. And those of you saying the man used his money to rent a house for the BOTH of them should think again. He rented his own house (most probably in just his name) and invited d woman to live with him. So he eventually is the stingy one for asking his girl to pay most of the cost on d basis that he blew his money renting an apartment (was he planning to sleep under bridge wit her). Any man who wants to express thier authority as d head of the house should know one thing, if your wife pays for that wedding, you automatically lose your authority.

Deyinka007: Not a goal, but his scissors kick vs Spain, France '98 that hit the bar... What a goal it would have been.. RIP.

chaircover: @TV so if you were in this mans shoes, what would you have done?

ayusco: Mikeappollo I watched the 93 uefa chmp lge final and abedi did not do shiaaat no be the match wey basile boli score? Abeeeegi if ur abedi was so fantastic why couldn't he lead ghana to any WC OR ANY AFCON win? Ur hero is so self cofident he had to add PELE to his name to validate himself! Wereas jj okocha is so recognizable even blind monks in the himalayas know who he is!

ronkebp: We still dey here people?

Lets come to the conclusion of the matter, i asked my hubby last night and he said, since the lady has the money for the wedding, she should assist her fiance and pay for it and if she feels she cannot pay, then she should wait till when he saves up, which might take another 2 years. simple.!!!!

so i supoort my hubby's suggestion, Poster, help your fiance and pay for the wedding, if you cannot afford the remaining 80% just let him know, and both of you should put heads together, to either reduce all the expenses you have in mind and cut your coat according to your cloth. I wish you well.

blank: So many lazy men on this thread. Someone even said that if he sees the woman that will pay 100% that he will jump at it. Tomorrow they will say women are gold diggers.