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queensmith:
Egunsi is the most popular dish where i come from, an average family will eat it at least 3 times every week. some have mentioned here their husbands dont even eat day old soups? your point please?

since the man was catering for himself before he got married why turn to a reta[i]r[/i]d after?
taking charge of her security? is this administration of an envoy? dont chat rubbish please

chaircover:
I personally am happy to trade housework in exchange for security. What do I mean by security; I am free to work part time, I dont have to rack my brains about finances, I dont have to make major decisions if I dont feel like, I have someone who is able to do damage limitaton on my behalf when I mess up, I dont have to worry about the house being secure - its his job to secure all the windows and doors, if the phone rings in the middle of the night he is the one to ge up and answer it, If my car makes a funny noise or is low on petrol,  just I pick up his car keys instead, I spend knowing that if I get in a fix someone will sort me out, I have a backbone I can lean on, depend on and run to.

Why am I saying all this? because marriage is not just all black and white and there is a whole much more that goes into it apart from housework, baby making and providing finances & team work is the key.

I can check my oil, I can do DIY, I can set up the barbeque from scratch, paint my garden fence and other "manly" things but I am not very good at it so If I Can, I leave that to the expert 

nobody fixes their own car unless they are a mechanic, and cars do not require daily servicing like these men do. try again please

ronkebp:
Naso you for don know who dey cook and who no dey cook, if pounded yam takes 10 minutes to prepare, i will break, eba na ''fieselu'' you dey make?? dat one simple naa, no need to boil water sef. (just put cold water in a bowl, pour gari inside and put it in the microwave 5 mins tops, then comback and say you have stomach ache.

armyofone:
so if it is that easy, why do guys not want to do it often now?

armyofone:
Na pot of soup you go dey chop for those few days? and how abt the remaining days? eh dayokanu

davidylan:
I cook my own egusi soup from scratch and it takes me max 20 mins to put ingredients together and no more than 1 hr all together. Seriously what is your point? I cook ofe owerri myself, i make my own pepper soup, efo riro, ewedu, okra soup with panla . . . so exactly what is it that you women do that we shld bow down and kiss your feet for? Laundry - easy: just make sure you have a designated spot for your clothes and get a washer and dryer. Cleaning house - get urself a carpet and hardwood cleaner, run over your floors once a week. What else is special about you?

Thankfully my mom made sure she taught me everything around the house, its always a shock when i tell most of my partners that i would hardly miss them if they dropped off the face of the earth.

coogar:
what a daft way of putting things. . . .
so a sample size of 5 games should be of more importance to the other 20 games that were played last year?
you must be a lunatic.

queensmith:
is that your new argument? That it doesnt actually take long to cook Nigerian food so it's not actually strenious? Or are you just nit picking?
ah you must be right dayo- it only takes 10minutes, thats why all these women are cooking over long weekends and storing it in the freezer for months on end. It's actually indomie they are cooking like that.

coogar:
don't be daft, abeg!
so it is this year's results that placed chelsea below arsenal? really?
what kind of daft reasoning is that?

chelsea's last loss before the everton loss was on 20th november against liverpool(lampard featured)
against everton, last weekend, lampard featured as well. when lampard was absent - the team had an unbeaten streak until lampard brought his bad luck to the team @ goodison park.

duduspace:
If that is the real Eboue then coogar really lives in the jungle.
Quite a funny chap though.

dayokanu:
That was when queensmith was championing that all chores should be split

In days you hear noise in the living room at night, Do you take turns to check if there is an intruder?

When the car breaks down, Do you take turns to get under the hood, Go to autozone, buy parts and fix it.

When electrical appliances develop faults do you take turns to fix it? when plubing works needs to be done, do you take turns at it too?

When lawns need to be mowed, Do you have a timetable for it?

Analytical:
All,

Kungiya's husband committed a series of blunders:

1.  Having an argument with a pregnant wife and walking out: He needs to learn she is prone to mood swings and hormonal tricks and as such vulnerable at this period.  This is when she needs understanding from him.  Whatever his wife says or does to him in this state is not to be taken seriously.  Arguing with her is just out of it.  Moreso, it’s not too healthy to pass such negative emotions to the baby inside.

Tobiegal:
My husband n i work in the same area, so we come n go home together,  and when we get home depending on the time, we may just get some bread n eat with stew! Thankfully, hubby isnt the food type,  so he doesnt really boader mi whether there's food or not. Thats one understanding we both have.

[size=18pt]Abt the chores, frankly in my house, there's no wife work or hubby work,  we do d work as it comes,  if after i make dinner n d plates r unwashed,  he'l just pick dem up and do d washing,  if i see d house is dusty,  i take d broom sweep n mop,  if he sees dirty clothes in d lundry basket, he'l just thrown dem in d washin machine n dats done,  and its does make life easy for me, for us, and guess wot I DONT HAVE A MAID![/size]

moremi2008:
Would this same husband have slapped his boss at work under any circumstance?
Would he have slapped an armed policeman at a checkpoint, no matter how angry that policeman made him?

The fact remains that he saw his wife as a vulnerable person he can slap without facing any adverse consequences.

ACM10:
Osu's are one of the richest group in Igboland.

Osu's are one of the most enlightened group in Igboland,

Osu's are the first to reject the bad aspect of Igbo culture.

Osu's opened the eyes of Igbos to the merits of western modernization.

Without Osu's, Igbo's would have been as backward as the north.