MrBachelor: They understand that times have changed and the country is not as productive, prosperous, and easy as during their time. They've realized our priorities have shifted, and getting married is not as important as establishing oneself.
Thank you mr bachelor. Simple and Short. Your Monicker really looks good. I wish I can have a Replica of It lol......
Eeeeei hehe someone wants to slip Into depression. If I clamp on you ehn, Life go tire you I swear. You two little fooools making Jest of yourselves. Well I'm not In the mood today, Go and ask your predecessors In oloshoism preshi.eben and petythiefcess. They will advice you, You don't mess with Fire AKA Westernlove, Evolutionlove, Deceptionlove......
czarr: When a girl is young in her pre-twenty and early twenties they are looking for a bad guy and want nothing to do with a boring God fearing guy. But as soon as they clock 28,29,30 upwards they start to insist on a God fearing man.
What they really want is a guy that would forgive their past and future escapades just like Jesus forgives our sin, they want a man that would not walk away from their shiit because he doesn't believe in divorce cos God doesn't support it. she definitely doesn't do it because she is attracted to God fearing men or because she loves God, she has a bad history and want a guy to love them regardless, she wants jesus christ, but since she can't have him she wants a follower.
Guys beware they hang around churches in their 30's always greeting pastor so he can convince any mumu brother for them that she is a marriage material. Please this doesn't apply to all ladies just those ones who have had their worldly fun and suddenly want a God fearing man.
who has experienced this type of woman?
Omo Relationship & Romance don finally Cast for Naija. Gbas Gbos everywhere......
Crownstar01: She has a child and got divorced with her husband. She opened up to me because she noticed that I was about to do a background check on her. There are so many unscrupulous women out there especially in the southwest.
As a responsible and well groomed man, If you love your sanity. Avoid most Lagos ladies. They are extremely deadly........
no more; 1.monitoring my movement 2.too much accusation of cheating 3. emotional abuse
Babe I felicitate with you. Congrats, Now you can do your Whoring freely and Independently now. Happy Whoring Independence. Those mumu nagging monitoring spirits loverboys won't have to disturb you again. Afterall who Love help.......
Yomit71: This is absolutely correct, but what pains me is that even without questioning her, she will be assuring me of nonsense thinking am a fool
She Is absolutely deceptive and exposed than you will ever Imagined. These modern ladies are real gamers, cunny and big time manipulators. I know In your mind, you know the right thing to do but I'll leave you to make your decision. But If you can play your cards well, Because I can sense In your comments, where you said She Is a Kindhearted lady and She Is really Into you which Is still fair unlike the full time Manipulators. You can stay put bruh. But I doubt If you will ever come out victorious or In flying colours because they are very good Gamers. You need a lot of Wisdom to be able to beat them to their game and always one step ahead. I wish you all the best......
Yomit71: thanks bro, am just so confused with her. she didn't want to break up with me, she send me money at times because I lose my job early this year. she's kind somehow, but talk of some silly attitude like asking me to do yahoo. she's flirting but she keep saying she doesn't. These make me have mixed feelings for her now. we are in long distance relationship, she's in Lagos now while am presently in osun
[b]See I will expose something to you now. You see Modern Ladies of nowadays most especially the educated ones with nice body shape "Body Shape Not Really Necessary Though" have perfected the relationship GAME In Nigeria. Your lady Is secretly rolling and hanging out with those marauders, take It or leave It. That's the reason why she brought up the suggestion of you doing Yahoo Plus. She likes you and she wants you to level up so her desires can be completed. Most of them are less concerned about the future Implications. They just want to live for the moment and Impress people and their Imaginary haters. I personally know of three married women who cheat at will on their husband. To be unbiased, What I noticed Is their husbands too are Gamers so I think they both know what they are doing. Know this and be at peace at yourself. Morality have been thrown Into the Ocean In this part of the world. I have a nothing less than two married women who flirt with me often but I'm not really Into them. I'm just playing Game with them. You will hardly find a Woman/Lady/girl who can boldly come out and swear She has only bleeped only her Husband/Boyfriend In her entire life. Same thing applies to most non-disciplined men because they are the fore runners and orchestrators of fornication......[/b]
Only God knows how many Infected dvck and Virus would have been dumped Into that ever smelly hole. Well let me felicitate with you so It won't be like I be badbelle. More Potty Potter and dvcks to your Infected pvssy. Ride the world Hoe lo sho......
StacyO: This is how it's gonna be,I'll be listing characters from 1-31
Mention any of the monikers you believe are chronic exhibitors of such character
You can mention more than one moniker with the same character.
No one should take this personal,anyone that mentions you only wants to tell you that they know you. The person you mention might necessarily not be a nairalander.
I'm the OP,so I'm exempted.
1) I like short girls - This guy,anything enlisting short girls he is always there.
2) The mods will suffer for 600 years- This one is always quarreling with the mods
3) I'm an atheist- They always counter any Christianity thread.
4) I'm not a Nigerian- This are the foreigners amongst men.
5) I can die for the booty(ukwu)- This ones,anything bum bum cannot pass them by
6) Model- The pretty divas in the building
7) Snake on a front page master- Anything snake is deliciously welcomed
Lesbian- They don't send no body.
9) Sexy- Her body alone got all salivating.
10) Crazy- They're always on every thread posting or commenting out of point.
11) Clout chasers- "Oh my cockroach just gave birth". Anything for that attention
Yomit71: Amen, one was telling to do yahoo, she went as far getting me someone who will put me through. am having mixed feeling with her right now. How can a woman be so desperate to push her man to the wall?
I don't doubt you one bit, I'm not really marveled though. Your experience Is the reality of today among most Nigerian female beings. I Implore you to stay away from that destiny killer. God has bigger plans for you. All you need Is to be prayerful, kind and be patient with God.....
Estherdqueen: Finding the right one is so difficult now, some take you for granted, people are not what they portray themselves to be, until you go close before you see their true colour
I forsee a lot of people remaining SINGLE for a long period of time, If not even Forever sef.......
Yomit71: Waywardness of our so called ladies is out of this world. to the extent am thinking just get a baby mama & continue with your life. I can't harbour emotional wahala in the name of woman
Nawa ooo, It seems a lot of able bodied responsible men can't keep up again with most of these ladies waywardness and bullshits. It's complaint here and there everywhere. I can't say the same thing for their partners broolshos and Yahoo goons. That's the people most of them love to roll with. Sharp Sharp money and material things, They have got no time for stories. A lot of them wants their own ROME to be built In just 24hrs. It Is well my brother......
Entrepreneurrr: The economy is very bad now, so most men either they dont have the means of getting marriage or they have but managing the life after marriage is what they are thinking.
Also most girls now are waywards, they are after guys for their own gain, running up and down from one dick to another.
The amount of prostitutes am seeing sef use to make me wonder will we ever get married?
This wonderful analysis got me some chills down my spine. Most of these ladies have turned to Private Oloshos. It Is well my brother.......
baiaon: There is a great fallacy bandied about the manosphere about Saudi Arabian men and Islam being redpilled and masculine.This is wrong.First of all,women will do what they will do for their personal gain.Men cannot and will never be able to police womens behaviour.How do you think women in a "conservative" society like Saudi Arabia will be able to get men on the plantation without acting chaste even when they really arent?Anal sex is MASSIVE in that country and region.Infidelity amongst married men and women with the advent of the social media has exploded.So how are Saudi men different from other men in the world?Contrary to the image depicted in the mainstream media,moslem practicing Saudi Arabian men,middle eastern men and Northern Nigerian men are women worshipping, blue pilled simps
Obviously you never took your time to go through my post patiently and you missed the Vital Points. I was actually referring to the Ancient days.......
Rainbowpill: The redpill isn't as foolproof as most guys on Nairaland make it seem.
First thing I'll like to say is that all women are not the same. This is a fact redpillers have to get into their heads. Most redpillers usually advocate this as truth, but it isn't. Women are different. Not only do they come with different complex personalities and mental capacities, their ideas, opinions and world views are shaped by the environment and cultures that they grew up in, and to an extent the kind of books that they read while growing up.
For a lot of women, yes following redpill truths and applying them works, but I've noticed that they don't work on smart women
Now I'll define what I mean by smart women. A smart woman is one is intelligent, observant, introspective and rational. She is skilled at observing her environment and making logical deductions. She also has a lot of respect for herself and doesn't feel she needs a man to be fulfilled.
Of course this sort of woman is different from your everyday bimbo/slayqueen. But you see this is the kind of woman I go after. I've reached the stage where I don't want to have casual sex with women but I actually want a serious relationship that would lead to marriage.
I'll illustrate with a real experience. I met two girls. Girl A is physically attractive but personality wise and mentally, she isn't my type. Girl B isnt just physically attractive, she is also SMART. So I decide to use the redpill on both women; I don't give them too much attention, ignore their calls sometimes, let them see me talking to pretty women, don't text often, hang out once in a while and all that redpill stuff.
Girl A became even more attracted to me and would bombards my phone with calls and texts, beggin to me to visit or to come visit.
Girl B on the other hand began to pull away. She began to text less and call less. She wasn't as responsive to my requests as before.
Bear in mind that Girl B is the one I actually want to pursue a serious relationship with.
So I decided to shove the redpill aside and actually talk to girl B. I decided to tell girl B how I actually felt about her. And that was when she opened up. She was shocked that I actually had feelings for her and that I just seemed like a player who only was interested in sex and she would never take such a guy seriously. She said she had similar feelings for me but didn't show it because she didn't want to get burnt emotionally.
Fast forward to today, I'm officially engaged to girl B and we are getting married soon. And she is the woman of my dreams. Physically, mentally, financial-wise, character- wise and wife material wise.
The point I'm making is that if you want a serious relationship with a smart woman, don't take the redpill seriously. This doesn't mean you should sacrifice your masculinity on the altar of love. No, be a man, lead your woman, don't tolerate disrespect, but at the same time, show her love, treat her well, fuçk her good and give her that emotional security that she needs.
This one brain have been filled with pussy Cum lol. I didn't even bother to read the gibberish and nonsense.......
Mumu all these useless stupid Kids sef, Having a crush on a rotten expired late 40's hoe newspaper. You no fit get sense for this life again, No be swear.......
seniormallam: Every where Is tight now, no money , if you talk about marriage their blood pressure will shoot up straight, they don't even want to hear anything ceremony right now
Now I understand why Saudi-Arabia and Most of those Islamic Nations subdued thier women all over the years and put Veil on thier faces. Apart from their extremisms, Those people really know what they are doing. When I was still young, I always thought they are being wicked for enforcing those things on them. Reason Is Female Beings can't control power, They are very loose, Careless and poor In decision making. They are cunny, wicked, unapologetic, unremorseful, manipulative, deceptive just to mention a few. They hardly contribute to any significant development of the world. You will be surprised some of those Islamic nations are confirm Red-Pilled Mafians lol......
I've been noticing lately most parent have soften their pedal In asking thier children "When are you getting married" nowadays Most especially the Bachelors. What could be the cause??
virginprincess: Stop following what nairaland boys says, they will deceive you, many only come online to write rubbish, in the outside world they are the real simps, as for your girlfriend not every girl is like her, or maybe you are giving her too much attention, stop giving her attention then see her come back to her senses. STAY BLESSED.
One of the most dumbest foooool on nairaland......
Face shape measurements are broken down into three parts.
1. Forehead and Cheekbone width.
2. Jawline
3. Face length
Pls give me that ebony babe, I love ebony babes. But she must not be a Typical Broke Nigerian Leeches. I prefer Botswanan and South African, Cuties. Ebonies over Whites anytime anyday.......
Ndlistic: Traditional priests in Lagos have rained curses on the men who stormed the palace of the Oba of Lagos and carted away his staff of office and some other items.
On Wednesday, October 21, a mob stormed the palace and carted away different items including his staff of office.
The monarch on Friday October 23, gave the men 24-hour to return the staff of office.
Following the expiration of the ultimatum, traditional priests in the state gathered to rain curses on those involved in the looting.
Angelacruz: I just broke up with my boyfriend of 2yrs.He cheated on me with another babe.It's hard to move on ,i wrote this with a bleeding heart.Why do some men like cheating? I was never a liability to him nor a bad girl.Y would he treat me like this?Am going insane. What should i do nairalanders?
CastingCrowns: change really is constant.. I recall those days when I couldn't stay a day without reading a book but nowadays just looking at one exhausts me.. I've also lost interest in watching movies, they annoy me immensely.. let's share what we have lost interest in nowadays.
I've almost lost Interest In everything about Nigeria. Almighty God Is the only one who keeps me going on these days plus my new bumper pay job and lucrative business. I can't wait for my Canada Visa to be successful and Jet out......
Blexino: When you die people start saying different things.....like what happened? Why didn't she speak out....ah....fine girl! Nawaoo, etc.. am not seeking for attention.... but this shit is 1000% real....mo ni kee ni nice day...
Customers scarce these days, I feel your pain. Everything will be fine though......
HRHQueenPhil: Essence of marraige is 1. Companionship..covid and curfew has shown d benefit of marraige. U will be still lonely though if u married d wrong person 2. Partnership. ..this means u come together to bear a child and train,u come together to build that house, come together to make heaven and make more strategic decisions together 3. Sex.. if the both of u are faithful to each other, there is no fear of disease. The act is even a blessing and u can explore all u want..not devilish acts of sex like anal or group sex
It's majorly these but if u don't want to marry..it's perfectly ok just don't do baby mama. That child will be a curse to U and lead to ur death. It's an assurance..Go the right way by getting maried
The most useless post I've ever seen In my entire life......
no1concept: Sometimes I ask myself what is so fascinating about marriage. The joy at which some people sing and dance at your face about the joy of being married amazes me.
I am a 29 year old male. I do have a good job. I can cook by myself any kind of delicacy I want anytime I want it. I very much can clean my entire apartment and do my own laundry impeccably. The joy I get going home everyday knowing that I am going back home to my apartment without any girl to bother me about this and that is just heavenly.
I have dated lots of girls just so that I can understand what is so fascinating about having them around but since I can do many personal stuffs myself, I hardly have any need being a relationship cos I noticed that it either requires more of your energy, more of your money, more of your peace of mind especially when you jam a girl that's constantly feels insecure. The worst encounter you would have as a young man looking for true love is to go into a relationship with a girl who doesn't know what she wants. You might die sooner than your maker planned it.
I know some people will say that I haven't met the right girl. But my question is; who exactly is the right girl
For me, there's this joy being single and free. Being able to run your life without a girl pinning you down about how old she's getting and that you need to come fast to see her parents. Shit! Being single and free leaves you living with a clear conscience of not committing to nobody and breaking nobody's heart.
For those that will say, marriage is good for the sake of child bearing, you are absolutely correct but I rather go into a contract with a girl I know about being my baby mama. There are so many girls out there who love such idea too.
So, asides these, what exactly is the essence of marriage
I'm starting to think I have a twinnie. You apparently wrote every single thing about me.....