₦airaland Forum

francisgodstime:
oga remove that 40s cos my aunty is just 36 a manager at intercontinental distiller with salary over 1million yet husband no gree show

Her time will come. Hers is better than those ones who have nothing going for them.

caniva:


When dem go start big games

June 17

dalass:
Shrugs....

So what do you think should be there

Lol, It's Yahoo Instant Messenger

dalass:
Mature mind and best comment here so far....

Not these Bleep boys... When guys too get older, no sane girl will take you serious anymore cause they'd think something is wrong with you that you've been single for so long.... Many are on a long thing.......

The kind curse some guys don collect on a chop and clean mouth mission with blatant lies is still worrying them till tomorrow...

Why do most of you ladies always put YImu or Yinmu infront of that YIM?

Prettyvirginia:
Sorry to disappoint you but that's not happening anytime soon.

Not every woman will be desperate for marriage. There are ladies rejecting marriage proposals on a regular basis. Not because they don't want to get married but because they're not ready yet.

I don't lack suitors now but at 24, I will be ready and I will get married. So shall it be in Jesus name Amen.

Bye

Yes, there are women like that.

Just go to school and be gainfully employed, have a great career, or have something reasonable that fetches you money and don't be a liability. Then you won't lack suitors even into your 40s.

Wait for spark 8

zuby4real10:
She was so desperate to the extent that even if she wants to give or collect something from me she has to kneel small. Always calling me her husband. She is more than 100% nice and submissive.she is the only lady that I have ever see that didn't wait for her man to introduce her to his family. I don't even know how she got my mum's number nd start communicating with her. I single handed sponsored her 3 years NCE education. From the comments I am seen here on nairaland is as if as I am the only man that sponsored a lady's education with out regrets uptil date. My only problem with this lady is that she and her family are so poor to the extent that they see me as their meal ticket, as if as am the best thing that ever happens to them. I thinked about the liability of marrying this girl and her family own I run. Uptil now the lady is still waiting and begging for me to come back. She is always asking what she did wrong. I beg I no fit kill myself, love and loyalty alone can not sustain a marriage cos they can't pay bills.

was she materialistic?

It wasn't her fault to be born into that kind of family bro. If she was good to you, you shouldn't have left her like that, you've left her a permanent scar

KlausMichaelson:
I consider the realest so far. She may think I only care about her food.

Lols I can afford the restaurants but it's once in a while.

She's already too comfortable that's why. She knows no matter what she does, you'll always come through for her. Just wake her up. If she calls you to come and eat, just tell her you have no appetite or that the last one you ate gave you some stomach trouble.

KlausMichaelson:
She likes that Bossy part of me. It makes her sit up. Atleast she made this known to me at some point.

I should stop eating her food?? Well I don't have time to cook delicious and well cooked food like that Or Will you feed me if stops feeding me??

Stop deceiving yourself, you think you are like a boss to her but you are making it seem like you can't do without her food. Maybe that's a fact she's already aware of and she knows for a fact that she can take you for granted. How many minutes does it take to cook if you can't afford to visit restaurants for delicious meals.

KlausMichaelson:
Yeah you're right. perhaps she's found more interesting people. Good for her. But atleast she should reply me whenever I chat her up. Afterall I don't chat her up every day.


Sorry I didn't describe that part to you. She is not a wayward girl. If she was, I would have cut off ties with her a long time ago. Im of the streets so I know when a girl is doing **Bedmatics Stuffs**

Ignore her totally, including when you two run into each other. Tho i doubt if you have that kind of ability cos you sound like one of the famous nice guys on earth from your write up.

Just ignore her and concentrate on other things and let her start wondering what she did wrong.

Oluromantic:
You ignored the word most

It's rather "few"

Impostor:
These days women are competing with men on the cheating scale. Generally I noticed this generation of men r unreasonable. Imagine blaming Chioma?

What was she expecting from someone like Davido? Even Chioma herself can't complain, she knew what she was getting herself into.

Riele:
Smh ! . Oya go and stop her na

Stop crying dear. If Chioma is not satisfied, let her take a walk. But she won't, she has gotten what she wanted, just to be attached to Davido. And he's right, let her go and cheat if she's bold enough if she won't lose everything. Chioma is just another vagina carrying vessel, the only difference is that there were too many ceremonies attached to it cos Davido is into showbiz and he took advantage of it.

Please i have been done with you since. Stop quoting me as i don't want your account to be linked to mine, it's irritating.

I'm not "bodyshaming" you, I'm just saying things the way it is. You are a cheap earthworm and most guys will actually vomit and flee when you uncloth yourself. And with your 200 Naira sandal and 300 okrika gown, there's no way in seventh hell i can ever have something personal to do with you in real life.

Please and please, i acknowledge my mistake for getting involved but stop quoting my moniker. If you need a back and forth, you know where you normally get them.

Bigdanns:
Leave her bruh na wen all d alpha's gang up flog her flat lukin nyash like dah of a toad/frog she go get hersf

It's not her fault, and the problem is not what we can fix. I heard a male moniker here edited his profile and change the m to f and he started receiving pm. So you could imagine what that periwinkle looking kid must have been getting, in form of attention and the likes from simps, paedophiles and sex starved guys. She has been fed with so many lies that she doesn't believe that some guys will vomit and flee at the sight of her unclothedness.

Petyprincess:
Stop dreaming mumu!! You guys with new accounts nd no pictures do think your opinions matter even your shadow can't get close to me ode brokelyn
I wish you the best with searching your fwb
#lastmention

Whatever you think kid. Only dogs eat sh*t not Lions. Leave the idea of getting close to you to the Locals in your area.

Get a job
Start wearing something of at least average quality, not bend down select gown and sandal less than $1.
Eat well and don't look malnourished.
Then you might fall into the bracket.
For some guys, you having only vagina won't cut it.
Adios.

Petyprincess:
We have girls that prefer fwb stuff,so it's left for you to find someone that prefer what you want with no string attached! You can't expect all Nigerian girls to be interested in what you want moreover that's why we have escorts for people like you except you also broke to pay one

Trust me, I'll never lay with a professional hoe. I won't even be able to get an erection. There are girls everywhere, church, mosque, work place, mall etc.


To me, all Nigerian girls are potential fwb once you have what they need and you can attract them.
The last two girls i got down with, one of them after we got really close via chatting told me that she has a bf and hope i don't mind sharing ,I was like no and then said in my head that this is just a fling.

The second one told me too, that she hasn't been completely honest with me, that she has a bf and hope it doesn't change anything, i was like Hell no.

Guys just need realise the truth and know how to adapt to it. In this age, if you want to thread the path of Romeo, you won't be so lucky.

I'm also very picky too. Like you, if that's really you on your profile. Forget it, erection won't come, only pity will. Unless i put you in a conducive environment first, for like 2 months and feed you properly. Then we'll see how much you are able to change.

blinking001:
Guys stay away. It's a trap.

Lol, like the need for an emergency bf. One that will shoulder the responsibilities of the birthday.

Bigdanns:
It's a bit crazy some of u guys myt feel I am ladies hatter, bt I'm not I only speak d truth nd represent my fellow niggers. Hvin bin in a lot of abhorrent, ghastly, horrendous relationships I jst gt to understand dah ladies r scoundrels wen it xomes to mtters of rltionship. Only for the niggers whom ve gttn to learn d hard way will grasp wat I am dispensing hr
Las mnth I met a lady on fb, she ws so much into me, as a matter of fact we arrenged nd had to meet each to see fr real if the humorous each oda claims to exhibit is real.
I met wit dis yang ladi twice, paid her a visit all twice.Though I knew stuffs like this always clash like ponzi schemes. Or fork tales of d old dah sounds mystical.
One thing I luv abt dis gurl is she is very natural nd exhibit gud chatin engaging traits. Nvr trust a being wit 2 openings. We wr ballin nd I felt we wr gud all of a sudden fr dis gurl to start ignoring my chats, ohh yes!! OK!! I knew well. She found a new price tag.
1 faithful day a frnd of mine saw dis gurl wit anoda niggr flirting pwrfly, around his neighborhood. He kept it silent nt to be talkative.
2 days aftr my frnd saw her, I affirmed d shit via watsap wen she posted "I tink I'm luv wit him".
Dis prompted my quest to undr if ladies really knw wah de want fr real. Ladies r like zombie na fllw fllw dem be, as I narrated these incidents to hr, she couldn't denial nd had no reason, rmous fr her actions. Ppl change bt ladies r de most unpredictable creatures dah act without cautions. My niggers ur contract wit ladies shouldn't las lng ooh, except u visage marriage, bt I

Why were you even looking for a relationship? If history should repeat itself and such lady isn't really bad looking and poor. Just have fun and get a move on.

Petyprincess:
We ladies dnt have time for long talk! The lady had probably cited your brokness hence the ignoring attitude! So it's either u move on to another girl or leave us alone!!

These days, people just want to furck and move on. Dunno when most Nigerians will get used to the concept of flings and one night stands.

Justbehave:
And non of you had sex with them? Lies.

Even the title of the thread should be. Ladies, at what point did you realise you were dating a married man.

Of course sex and even abortion must be involved, but it's not like they will say it here.


The truth is that most of them are aware, but they only back out when they get threatened or get scared.

Lol, you see them all with potbellies. Protruded Front and back.

Propose to her there. Her father can not kill you.

dauntless15:
Why would i slander xaomi, i use a redmi 7 64/4ram, i am serious about an issue and you're making jokes.

picture/screenshot?

Confusedgirl869:
Hello everyone. This account is created for this .

This issue has been bothering me a lot and I am very confused on what to do.

We have been together for more than 2 years now and we hardly have issues, infact we are a perfect match or so I thought.

I am 26 while he is 35, we both working and I never disturb him for money, I take care of all my needs myself. He is very calm and peaceful, doesn't hit me and I really admire him a lot. I on the other hand is also good, hardworking, not materialistic and all that makes a good woman.

So after thinking of our relationship thoroughly some weeks ago, I realised that there is really nothing stopping us from getting married this year or next. I decided to hear what he has to say because he never talked about us being or getting married. I also noticed that whenever he sees or hears about bad marriages he felt lucky he is not in yet. This always makes me feel bad because I know myself. I also wasn't a fan of marriage before I met him because of so many bad men out there, but everything changed when I met my guy, he is what I want. The very first day we met, the first thought that came to my mind was 'this is my him' I don't know why I had that thought being our first time meeting.

Anyways, few weeks ago I decided to ask him what his plans are. Are we in on a long thing or not? I got the shock of my life when he made me understand that he doesn't want to be tied forever, he loves his space and the way nobody disturbs him. That he only wants a baby mama, he wants me to be the mother his kids but not in marriage. I was mad and I cried for days. He was even sounding like nothing is wrong with being a baby mama, maybe not but I just can't.

Well, I made him understand that I can't be a baby mama and it will also be hard for me to move on with another person. I've bonded so well with him and all that. And I also hate jumping from one man to another. I told him to talk to people who are in successful marriages and stop looking at the bad ones. Today when we were talking I asked him about it and he is still maintaining his stand on the mama.

I don't want to give birth to kids that have 2 homes, I grew up like that(it took me lots of self discipline not to become useless) and wouldn't want that kind of life for my kids, I want them to grow with their parents in ONE house. At the same time, I don't want to lose my good man and relationship.

I need your opinions please.

You are not confused, you just don't want to accept the truth.

He already told you what he wants and how he wants it, but unfortunately there's conflict of interest. The only thing left for you is to walk and find another man that's interested in marriage, and do that fast before you mistakenly get pregnant.

I'm sure you already know the truth and what to do, you are not just happy about it.

tensazangetsu20:
K
You are very right about African countries. I was shocked to find out that shithole Liberia pays their doctors hazard allowance of 800 dollars monthly. Doctors in Gambia and Ghana earn really well.

It's a place one could go to from Nigeria and work to go to the west.

I don't know about Liberia or Ghana, but I'm connected directly to someone who left for The Gambia when he didn't have the resources to go to Europe and he's faring better than when he was here. Good pay, decent Power supply, good security, but most importantly a good and well equipped hospital that makes saving lives easier.

Even in Nigeria, we have quota system and catchment areas