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LilMissFavvy:
Hmm......ok, I thought sperm donors donate sperm in the hospital, and go through some thorough processes. Thanx for sharing!

we have street sperm donors too they don't follow due process, they donate freely
You are welcome

LilMissFavvy:
What's the purpose of this thread? My blame was on the man because he is the one chickening out, and running away from his responsibilities.

Give your inputs, what should she do..... Forget my own inputs.

Well my blame is on the lady cause she inflected herself with this injuries she's publicly crying about, she is not the first and will not be the last getting pregnant outside wedlock the man is simply a sperm donor and his not the only one there are sperm donors like him everywhere she should deal with it herself sperm donors are not fathers

BlissB:
Thank you very much.....I Will report as soon as possible and try to gather evidence because as it is...I don't have any information about him

Very good do just that dear , good luck

BlissB:

October 2015 when i started working, i met this guy at my place of work and he kept on coming everyday for like 4 days for my num of which i gave him with the mind of blocking him when he calls....initially i was listening to him and he started asking me out and i refused....he kept on pleading and i kept on refusing.....At a point i eventually blocked his num because the calls were becoming irritating even on whatsapp incase he locates me there....i had peace of mind for sometime till my phone was stolen and i got a new phone and he started again and i blocked him. After a while the new phone was stolen and this devil started again .....then he started using other nums to call me but when i hear his voice i always end the calls and block him..... After a while, since he cant reach me, he comes to my place of work unannounced ........
Na so we don day turn around since that 2015 day come till last year Oct i got another phone and since i make use of the internet alot i got a torchlite so i can put my active line thereby not disturbing my internet work, na there the major wahala of since 2015 start because I can't block him again....every blessed day is now a nightmare, if to say e go call like 2 or 3 times then he go rest I for nor day disturb myself but how can a person in his right senses keeps calling over 20 to 30 times a day Some will say i ate his money thats why but before God and man nothing like that.....i never see he one naira even when my friend adviced me to bill him and i should make sure its something he cant do and as e nor fit e go run,so i did but still he nor send money and he nor won allow me rest,what have i done to deserve this....i picked his call one day and asked him what he wants, he said he is alone and he wants a friend, i said i cant be your friend, he said then i won't have peace. Am saying my existence is threatened because he knows where i work and he knows i close at night so this guy fit do anything and he stalks me once in a while. I have called mtn to know how i can block or bar this particular num they are not giving me any resonable answer. I just can't fathom why a person in his right senses will do something like this. To think MTN can't even help me to regain my peace, taya me. How do I go about this, I nor get connection......telling my dad will be a threat to his health. Pls advice me on what to do please

The guy is obsessed with you and you know obsession can be deadly if he can't have you he will harm you, report this guy to the nearest police station ,for him to say you won't have peace its enough threat to report him, I swear that guy will rape you and strangle you if he gets a chance on a lonely path , don't think his in love with you its not love at all its a mental disorder

Nasri100:
I dont even have any issues with it. If its 50/50 no qualms. I make my own money, a lot of money at that. I WANT A WOMAN WHO MAKES A LOT OF MONEY TOO. Abi

That's exactly my point bro ladies themselves should learn to marry according to their bank account just the way men do

LilMissFavvy:
In which of my post did I encourage unprotected sex?I wrote that my comment because rather than give your advice, you and others were busy asking her why she dated the man. Of cuz not every lady would feel intimidated being single and successful, but that isn't the purpose of this thread. Have I ever said marriage is the ultimate? Isn't it your society that says so, and puts some ladies under pressure? If you see nothing wrong in a married man having unprotected sex with a woman, impregnates her, and chickens out cowardly, then it's pathetic. Both share the blames, both should share the responsibilities.

But your blame was only on the man on why he didn't use protection cause men are the ones who usually initiate sex, I on the other hand, was asking why she noticed all the bad qualities possessed by that man, jumping from club to club, having multiple sexual partners, those are clear signs of a bad man they say nothing will harm you as long as you see it coming, is like she saw the train coming but remained on the train tracks purposely for the trian to harm her, you enter the car of a drunk man and expect a smooth ride how foolish is that? So it was a simple question why be with such a man

kennygee:
You men these days wanta working woman and make it your right that she splits the bills with you and still submit to you?

If she's sharing the bills with you, doesn't that make you both husbands?

I'm no feminist but you men are really letting feminism become stronger.

I'm done with replying on topics like this.

In short, the entire Romance section.

Like someone rightly told me this morning on one of the topics, y'all can't take it.

If she's sharing the bill with me we are both hardworking individuals in love coming together to help each other' and share in each other's strength and weaknesses depending on how strong each individual is, it shouldn't matter who earns more or less, what submittion are you talking about, Nigerian feminists are just been hard on themselves going about it the wrong way if Nigerian women really want gender equity they should work to earn it, not going about spitting on men struggling to build why they themselves asslike rich men and ride on their backs to the top they should work competitively with men without disrespecting them , is hard to find a humble feminists in Nigeria but they are a lot of humble rich men who respect women, how fair is that, 90% of Nigerian rich women don't cook or do house chores themselves so what submittion are u talking about?

Well you can't stop talking on topics like these cause Nigeria is passing through a lot of changies people are having mental changes on a lot of things from culture religion etc it will affect you one way or the other whether you talk about it or not, thank you

Nasri100:
Haha this reply is a deepfeel indeed

I think we African men should just accept gender equality to end this long conflict between men and women let's share the responsibilities 50/50

LuciferBible:
I love the way you replied with logic.

Once you engage feminists with intellect, they usually flee. They will start avoiding you henceforth because they always pick fights with those effeminate male monikers that apologize for being right & suck up to them.

They cowardly reported me enmasse just now (10 year ban ) because my comments must have hurt them deeply.



You are my son in who I am well pleased.
Pick any olosho you desire from the Ashawo / Beer parlour thread and I shall see it come true.

Lol who is your son am not here to fight anyone o ladies want gender equality and I as a man accepts it so just keeping it on a 50/50 level

kennygee:
Yes. And vice versa.

I wish them luck sha.

Thank you, ladies should change this statement from I can't marry a man who earns 50k a month to am earning too little for me as a lady to marry sounds fair enough right

kennygee:
I am not saying women shouldn't build with a man but starting a family on a 50k salary is not reasonable.

If they'll both take a year or two off too prepare better and save after the wedding, fine.

Me I can't bring kids into this world with a man who earns 50k monthly considering how much I earn.

In that case men earning little should go for ladies that earn higher so she can balance his weak salary right?

GoodBoi1:
I tried so hard to make her reason with me but the more I tried to convince her the worse it got. I told her that there is life after the wedding, bills, expenses but she did not agree with me. It's not that I can't afford a big wedding but I want to cut my coat according to my size. One thing led to another and I brought up a past issue where she wrecked her finance because of her friend's wedding she said I was judging her and she can't live with me because of that so she broke up with me.

Brother just thank God she backed out of the wedding no matter what don't marry this particular lady she will bring you down as a wife let her go, this type of lady won't be there for you if you eventually suffer some Financial crisis, kai were do you guys always get this broke but proud ladies from?

kennygee:
Tbh, what quality of life will a man like that offer his kids?

Public schools, poor nutrition?

If he has a business on the side sha, fine.

I met a man on a train two weeks back, he works with FCDA and earns 56k. Dude drives a Highlander SUV, he has another hustle asides his government job. He's now working on relocating to Canada with his family.

A cousin of mine once told me "never marry a man who has only a salary job as a source of income".

Some salary won't even take you beyond the junction of your office talk more of taking home.

You will be surprised how supportive his wife was to build him to that level, that's the essence of marriage, two people in love coming together to build a successful happy home, some of you searching for already successful men to share in their wealth won't find it easy

KristaPretty:
Their choices. I can never marry a man who earns 50k too

Hope you also planning on been a full housewife?

She should continue insulting Davido on Twitter

KristaPretty:
hahahahahha ya mad

Lol you sef check am na how you go sitdon dey listen to one irritating annoying gist for 2 hour's I bet you were all smiles laughing and nodding your head to it the guy sef con the see him sef like one top notch funny guy

Settingz321:
This is sent in from a blogger for immediate advice
She has been calling me saying she want to see me, after several attempts I created an avenue to meet, only for her start acting weird, saying how her friends start rapid development after they disvirged. I was like what the hell concern me with that, this was person I dated for 3yrs without allowing me to hit the Hot pie.

Fortunately when she get home she summoned courage and messaged me


This where am confused she has someone she's dating, so why me? I want to really take my time to know if this is really right to do pls advice me

How old is she Biko

KristaPretty:
It has to do with an Individual. Some MEN suck at dates too!

One date I went on, the guy was gisting me about his ex girlfriend who always urinate on the bed {for over 2hours he was just talking trashhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh }... like wtf

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Probably he ran short on gist cause all you did was seat and listen to him talk, why didn't you change the topic, it's a clear case of two suckers on a date

Groom price? wow it's a welcome development, this is how gender equality should be practiced

AmazonTopaz:
Ok indeed

Thank you,

AmazonTopaz:
I did not agree with you
So why the thanks?

You didn't disagree either so it's a yes, thank you

Lol but a lot of Nigerian girls don't verbally consent to sex even though they want it they allow the guy to just make the move and do it, they put on little resistance in words by saying no, no most times with no physical resistance or screams, so does it mean 90% of sex in Nigeria should be considered rape?

AmazonTopaz:
Indeed

thank you

They should calculate the cost in 25yrs and give it to her in cash instead

AmazonTopaz:
Ghen ghen
Next time the lady would not place a bet on a human being. You don't bet on people because you may be shocked and highly disappointed in the outcome of people you placed your trust on.
The girlfriend got served she did not know the lady she was betting with was a highly trained professional heavyweight sotay your boyfriend come deny you put.
Men can easily be deceived
Aunty leave that boy he nor consider you him girlfriend.

Just the way men can easily be deceived by what they see girls can be easily deceived with money

simeotexy:
you re an afonja right?

I don't understand, afonja what?

Charles Manson learned that in prison he had dozens of young ladies under him controlling them like robots to kill for him

Timekeeper:
I would love to know the best ladies prefers.
Who would you choose between?

A guys that loves you, cares for you, adores you and treat you as if you are the only lady in this world but you don't really love him like that

Or

A guy that doesn't really love you, he is just your close frnd but you love him. You care for him but he doesn't really love you. And he is probably the reason you don't love the guy that cares 4u genuinely



If you are told to settle down with one, who would you choose between the two?

Cc:
Saff
Pocohantas
Mannabbqgirlls
Queenice
Onyi22
MissRaine
Makydebbie
PrimadonnaO
ImaIma1 (my married nairaland crush)
MissSweet
mercy0008
Funmisticqueen
chiommy123
zinnyzee
QueenSekxy
Daeylar
sochey
MissSweet
ibkayee

Women don't marry for love na , Regina married Ned not because of love

If the great king David the man after God's heart can fall for a woman's seduction who am I not to fall

nkwuocha:
As long as he pays for child support to qualms.No be naija we dey?Who is having it easy?Even if its one kobo, let him pay.

Yes or na naija we dey that's why am more worried about her cause even if the man is forced to be paying child support he might not do it, the system is too F*cked up to follow up such cases, I know of a lawyer barrister Emeka ugwounye founder of the due process advocate, who handle cases like this and follows it up, but the man is in prison in Abuja cause of a sensitive information he posted in public regarding the murder of one of his female client

Well she turned you down 4 yrs ago but you two are still communicating fine I guess as friends right? Help her as a friend, friends help each other, she's not asking for a chance to love you or be loved by you why take revenge cause someone said she's not in love with you, don't be surprised even with your money she will still turn you down, she's a friend not a lover

nkwuocha:
No problem, when the DNA is out he will still pay na.Na just delay, but he go still pay las las

Las las they will just place him on a child support allowance of 10-20k the lady will still suffer more you know