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U will see, nothing might happen after this and the harassment continues. someone would do same to his daughter i am sure

Timolanki:
virgin + other manageable good virtues. Cos nobody is perfect.

I do too but its hard to find these days

[b]Naija Mentality.[/b]

Amodsun:
Being a lawyer can be crazy and weird at times, but hey, there are still many things about being a lawyer that I love so much. For some of us, it may not be too much money or a luxurious life characterised by sleek cars and great mansions; but it just could be other little crumbs that falls off the table of the profession.

I know you all would be expecting me to go talking about how heroic our works can be; rescuing the oppressed, protecting the week, fighting for people’s right and all of that, but I won’t. Of course those are noble deeds we do as lawyers, of which we take pride in. But can we be a little selfish here? Already they call us liars, how about them calling us selfish too? Like we care! Here are my little selfish reasons why I love being a lawyer-

1. I Love The Attention It Attracts

Oh please, who doesn't love attention? We all do, though the degree at which we crave for it may differ; so don’t give me that look. I love the feeling I usually get when I walk into a bank and one of the staff calls out in greeting to the hearing of everybody thus- “you are welcome barrister”. You can imagine the stares that such greeting generates, and to think that I am the focus of such is so cool. By the way, this is not peculiar to banking halls, it just happens everywhere. You all know most folks don’t know us by our names, and even the few that do, would rather call you a barrister than your name. This plays out in so many ways and I enjoy every bit of it. You can call me a kid, it’s okay, am just being honest here.

2. I Love The Feeling Of Fear We Trigger

Are you in doubt of this? Ask some policemen. I laugh when some of my colleagues narrate their experiences with policemen, especially at the police station. A policeman on sighting a lawyer at the police station, probably on the invitation of a client, who is being detained, immediately turns into a tiger. It’s funny. Why would they turn into tigers all of a sudden? The guys are intimidated. Why are they intimidated? They are the bad guys, and here comes the good guys who won’t let them have their devilish ways. Naija police I hail o! You know what I do when I confront such scenarios? I pity them and try to assure them that I am their friend, while laughing in my mind because I know I am not their friend in anyway. They are bad. Yes I said it. Same goes for other folks who won’t just want to do the right thing. Talk of landlords who wouldn't want to follow due process in ejecting tenants out of their houses, creditors who also won’t follow the right means in recovering their debt, and many others. We are the good guys, and the bad guys hate us.

3. I Love The Controversial Aura

You will be shocked to hear all kinds of opinion people have about lawyers. Seriously, they don’t just think of us as liars; they think a whole lot of shit about us. I heard some even think we all are occult members; can you beat that? I intend to conduct a public opinion on this one of these days, and I can’t wait to really hear stuffs people think and say about us. But come to think of it, who even gives a heck about what they all say and think? I just love that controversial air. Don’t you?

4. I Love The Fact That We Can Be Trusted

It takes a lot of faith and trust for people to share intimate things with you. We are talking about secrets and confidential information here. People literally lay their lives bare before their lawyers. Folks trust us with their lives. It’s humbling. I know it also comes with a great responsibility of not betraying that trust.

I love being a lawyer, don’t you? Let’s hear your own reasons why you love being a lawyer. I actually mean your selfish, crazy reasons!
Legooooii

buja- Security operatives attached to Justice Gabriel Kolawole at the Federal High Court, Abuja, on Tuesday prevented Charles Okah, the alleged mastermind of the 2010 Independence Day bombing from committing suicide in court.

Okah, who is standing trial on charges of terrorism, had sought the permission of the judge to speak on what he termed “endless trial,” as his counsel was absent in court.
One of the four Abuja blasts suspects, Mr Charles Tombrah Okah, in handcuffs, being led out of the Federal Capital Territory Chief Magistrates Court, Wuse Zone 6, yesterday in Abuja

One of the four Abuja blasts suspects, Mr Charles Tombrah Okah, in handcuffs, being led out of the Federal Capital Territory Chief Magistrates Court, Wuse Zone 6, yesterday in Abuja

The judge granted the oral application and permitted Okah to speak for about five minutes.
http://www.vanguardngr.com/2015/10/breaking-charles-okah-attempts-jumping-from-courts-third-floor/
Okah said: “I have been incarcerated for about five years now and I have a family to cater for. My children would grow up without feeling the warmth of their father and I am tired of this endless trial. I really do not know what I have done to be treated this way.

“Is it not better to die than to wait and be messed up this way?” he asked.

Immediately after Okah ended his speech, he grabbed a chair in the court and quickly moved toward a window on third floor of the five-storey building and attempted to jump down.

He was immediately pulled back by security operatives, lawyers and other litigants from embarking on the action.

Consequently, Kolawole adjourned the case to Oct. 20 for continuation of trial.

Others charged in the case are Obi Nwabueze and Edmund Ebuware.

The fourth accused, Tiemkemfa Osuvwo, died in Kuje prison, while Ebuwari has been jailed for life as his case was separately decided.

However, Okah and Nwabueze have been facing long trial as a result of the introduction of numerous injunctions from both the prosecution and defence teams. (NAN)

jou9d:
Does it feel right or wrong?

All the chics shouting gender equality no go talk na. man carry, you carry, is it not the equality thing?

danbrowndmf:
Question For The Ladies, come tell us your Answer.

All these chics here saying they cant marry a guy making 50k per month, would one day come back here to start a thread " Why you must marry an older girl"

Hello Nairalanders,

I am a critical thinker but something bothers me of recent, how Naija babes go open mouth tell a man “you are not handsome”. They know we are not judged on the same platform and yet they act this way.

When they wake up, they relax their hair – We go bone carry skincut, some go carve, no shaking.

Apply series of foundation to cover sports, Use eye pencil join – Men no apply anything.

Use fake eye lashes and fix multicolored nails – We no use.

Wear padded bra and butt – We no use, our mothers prevented us from using pampers beyond infancy.

We are trying to be as natural as God made us and yet most of our better halves don’t appreciate that. I know most of us are handsome despite the economic hardship, but I bet you, if we were giving that opportunity by God to paint, most guys go fine pass most chics.

What’s your take?

Blackett:
[color=#200000]Well, what can I say about Number one? My generation is the video game generation. Wives and gfs have to understand. [/color]

What struck me the most when I saw this post was that it hasn't been up to 48 hours I checked the price of PS4 with FIFA15

What a woman said!

Nowadays many women waste time dreaming about a knight in shining armor. They cannot realize that even knights are mere men who’re full of advantages and disadvantages. I’ve done my own research for all women to understand that almost all men have the same annoying habits. If you think that you can easily reeducate and change your man, then you’re seriously mistaken. You can surf the Internet for hours, looking for effective ways to make your man get rid of these habits. I advise you to accept this fact, because indifference, carelessness and simple manner of life are significant parts of men’s nature.

But it doesn’t mean that women should give in and refuse to stand their ground. I think constant rivalry between men and women keeps the spark alive in their relationships. Wise women know that sometimes it’s necessary to close eyes to their husbands’ bad habits. If you find the bad habits of your man extremely annoying, you should try to solve this problem together. By all means, avoid criticism and blame, if you really love and respect your significant other. It will help you reach harmony and mutual understanding in your relationship. If nothing works, you can change your attitude towards the problem and try not to get annoyed at everything. Happy relationship requires a lot of patience and wisdom. Read on the article and try to admit that there’s no perfection in this world.

1. Playing video games
I don’t know why but nowadays many men behave like teenagers. The statistics prove that men play video games too frequently. It steals their free time and makes the whole family suffer from the father’s video game addiction. I’ve already tried dating a gamer. I can state with assurance that dating a gamer is not a good idea at all. It seems to me that these people are living in a virtual reality and notice nothing except video games.

Have you ever thought of why do men prefer to play video games after a hard day at work? My ex once told me that his favorite video game was a perfect stress reliever for him. Unfortunately, many men can’t realize that they’re too old for video games. If you want to help your man get rid of this problematic habit, you should do your best to distract him from his high-tech surroundings. You can motivate him to go in for sports together or shift focus on other interesting activities.

2. Hiding their inner feelings and emotions
Unlike women, men find it difficult to open up and express their feelings and emotions. They’ll never pour out their soul or weep on somebody’s shoulder, because it’s not their pair of shoes. Unfortunately, they regard excessive emotionality as the biggest weakness of a real man. They also believe that secretiveness is the best way to avoid problems and protect themselves from evil-wishers. This habit is very annoying, because women often cannot understand what has happened to their significant others.

It’s been scientifically proved that women live a longer life, because they cannot keep both positive and negative emotions to themselves, like men usually do. Try to explain your man that unexpressed emotions can have a negative impact on his mental and physical well-being. It’s desirable to express inner feelings and open up together.

3. They think that women are the worst drivers
Unfortunately almost every man believes that a woman behind the wheel is dangerous. When I ask my boyfriend why all men do think so, he says that even scientists have already proved that a woman behind the wheel is a public danger. I do completely disagree with this statement. This stereotype is an outrageously offensive thing. I think both men and women have equal chances to become good drivers. I hate it when men try to prove that women are more likely to get into car accidents than men. Women can prevent car accidents even if they’re in the wrong place at the wrong time. I advise every woman to improve her driving skills in order to tweak the nose of her significant other and prove that women can be experienced drivers as well.

4. Wearing the same clothes every day
No matter how you slice it, men are strange and complicated creatures. I must confess that shopping is not their passion. Men don’t hasten to renew their wardrobes, because they think that one pair of sneakers, two pairs of jeans and a few T-shirts are absolutely enough to look great. As a result women have to put a lot of effort to persuade dear men that it’s desirable to buy more clothes. This annoying habit significantly complicates the life of women, because they often can do nothing about this fact. The only way out is to buy your significant other some beautiful clothing. This hint can give your man a push to create and develop his own dress style.

Read also – 6 Frugal Ways to Renew Your Spring Wardrobe

5. Excessive forgetfulness
This one is the last most annoying habit of men. The study proves that many men suffer from excessive forgetfulness. It seems men are sometimes flying somewhere in the sky. They often forget birthdays or anniversaries. It’s strange, but they can’t keep in mind all little things that women find extremely important. The habit of selective hearing makes them forget everything they’re not directly interested in. Women should also know that many other factors can have a negative influence on the men’s memory. Depression, stress and anxiety make it harder to concentrate and deal with huge amounts of information. Wise women advise to give a delicate hint or tell your man in advance that something important is going to happen soon. Women should understand that men’s forgetfulness is not the sign of indifference, but the part of their nature.

I hope this article will help you realize that these annoying habits are peculiar to all men. If you’re already sick and tired of these habits, you should once and for all decide, whether you want to break up or continue fighting for your love. Building a happy relationship is a challenging thing. Sometimes only a mutual desire to reach a compromise can handle the situation. I believe that men can overcome everything for the sake of love. What other annoying habits of men do you know?

Share your point of view!

http://womanitely.com/most-annoying-habits-men/

coogar:
naija women nor dey fall hand.....


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fsfceVB3vYk

she stole close to 3 dresses in that store. yet, this one would become someone's wife one day.

shame!

I still want to blame the owners of the store. You don’t install cameras because others are doing it the end result is not to see the thieves, but to stop them from stealing, either by catching them or preventing the action. Now you saw that someone stole, ehe? Is she afraid, ngwanu come and catch her. Then you see that the entire process was a waste of time.

In some developed countries, when you visit their shops, they would boldly right it from their gate “High security cameras installed in this premises” or camera installed everywhere in the premises to instill fear in you and you won’t steal anymore or by giving you the impression that once you pick it up and bury it inside your undies, the alarm could trigger off and you would be caught.

Here, we won’t write anything on the wall, so they would come in and still then. These ladies may never come close to Allen Avenue anymore.

I pray it doesn’t affect their business. Take heart!

I have noticed that anytime I come to Nairaland, mostly on all the threads, I see “Sai Buhari”.

Please what does it mean, are humans the ones typing these or a computer program.

MzJackBaueress:
At the podium with Ndi Eze in Lagos

Looks like rented igbo crowd

Hello People,

I have really noticed this anomaly a couple of times I have passed through the Lekki-epe expressway way, Commercial Motorists – PROUDLY carrying more than one passenger at the front seats of their vehicles in Lagos. These motorists usually ply Ajah-Lakowe axis using smaller vehicles and they pass road safety office all the time.

Could this be the right thing, has anyone experienced this before? How would these individuals wear safety belts and protect themselves.
I checked the offenses section of the Nigeria Road safety website, No 20 and saw overloading as an offer.

Please could this not be part of it?

Mhizkel:
From my own experience, i av never come across a non-sexual active guy before

I have a lot as friends dear

Seven held in Tanzania over latest albino attack

on March 10, 2015 / in News 3:12 pm / Comments

Police in Tanzania said Tuesday they have arrested seven suspects over a vicious weekend assault in which a six-year-old albino boy’s hand was hacked off with a machete. The assault came days after Tanzania’s President Jakaya Kikwete blasted the wave of killings and attacks against albinos, whose body parts are used for witchcraft, as a “disgusting and big embarrassment for the nation”.

“We have already arrested seven suspects… investigations are continuing,” the deputy police chief in Tanzania’s southwestern Rukwa region, Leons Rwegasira, told state television. According to police, the boy, Baraka Cosmas, was sleeping at home with his mother in the village of Kipenda in the Rukwa region when a gang of assailants stormed in late Saturday. His hand was hacked off and both the boy and his mother were being treated in hospital.

A UN expert says attacks on people with albinism have claimed at least 75 lives since 2000, and that albino body parts sell for around $600, with an entire corpse fetching $75,000[b][/b]. Albinism is a hereditary genetic condition which causes a total absence of pigmentation in the skin, hair and eyes. It affects one Tanzanian in 1,400, often as a result of inbreeding, experts say.

- See more at: http://www.vanguardngr.com/2015/03/seven-held-in-tanzania-over-latest-albino-attack/#sthash.NVYsdgeA.dpuf

[quote author=Mhizkel post=31493898]The ladies might not really want sex tho...A sister in church once told me about a guy she dated...she said whenever she visits him, all he does is talk and talk..not even a kiss from him..Not that she wanted sex but @least he shud be a little bit romantic...I advised her to talk to him or rather make a move herself...she said no because she doesn't wanna look cheap before him! So she ended d relationship[/quote

Teach me Rabbi, what do you suggest from your experience

rokiatu:
Why would i use photosh###p? makes no sense.


Anyways good taste, I like the 2015 one as well.

You are the best. love the gifts

Story highlights

Esther Okade is a 10-year-old British-Nigerian student
She recently enrolled at the Open University in the UK
Already top of her class scoring 100% in a recent exam
Took A-level exams, a British secondary school qualification, last year

(CNN)At first glance Esther Okade seems like a normal 10-year-old. She loves dressing up as Elsa from "Frozen," playing with Barbie dolls and going to the park or shopping.

But what makes the British-Nigerian youngster stand out is the fact that she's also a university undergraduate.

Esther, from Walsall, an industrial town in the UK's West Midlands region, is one of the country's youngest college freshmen.

The talented 10-year-old enrolled at the Open University, a UK-based distance learning college, in January and is already top of the class, having recently scored 100% in a recent exam.

"It's so interesting. It has the type of maths I love. It's real maths -- theories, complex numbers, all that type of stuff," she giggles. "It was super easy. My mum taught me in a nice way."

She adds: "I want to (finish the course) in two years. Then I'm going to do my PhD in financial maths when I'm 13. I want to have my own bank by the time I'm 15 because I like numbers and I like people and banking is a great way to help people."

And in case people think her parents have pushed her into starting university early, Esther emphatically disagrees.

"I actually wanted to start when I was seven. But my mum was like, "you're too young, calm down." After three years of begging, mother Efe finally agreed to explore the idea.

A marvelous mathematical mind

Esther has always jumped ahead of her peers. She sat her first Math GSCE exam, a British high school qualification, at Ounsdale School in Wolverhampton at just six, where she received a C-grade. A year later, she outdid herself and got the A-grade she wanted. Then last year she scored a B-grade when she sat the Math A-level exam.

I want to (finish the course) in two years. Then I'm going to do my PhD in financial maths when I'm 13.

Esther Okade, 10-year-old college student

Esther's mother noticed her daughter's flair for figures shortly after she began homeschooling her at the age of three. Initially, Esther's parents had enrolled her in a private school but after a few short weeks, the pair began noticing changes in the usually-vibrant youngster.

Efe says: "One day we were coming back home and she burst out in tears and she said 'I don't ever want to go back to that school -- they don't even let me talk!'

"In the UK, you don't have to start school until you are five. Education is not compulsory until that age so I thought OK, we'll be doing little things at home until then. Maybe by the time she's five she will change her mind."

Efe started by teaching basic number skills but Esther was miles ahead. By four, her natural aptitude for maths had seen the eager student move on to algebra and quadratic equations.

And Esther isn't the only maths prodigy in the family. Her younger brother Isaiah, 6, will soon be sitting his first A-level exam in June.

A philanthropic family

Not content with breaking barriers to attend college at just 10 years old, Esther is also writing a series of math workbooks for children called "Yummy Yummy Algebra."

"It starts at a beginner level -- that's volume one. But then there will be volume two, and volume three, and then volume four. But I've only written the first one.

"As long as you can add or subtract, you'll be able to do it. I want to show other children they are special," she says.

Meanwhile, Esther's parents are also trying to trail blaze their own educational journey back in Nigeria.

The couple have set up a foundation and are in the process of building a nursery and primary school in Nigeria's Delta region (where the family are from). Named "Shakespeare's Academy," they hope to open the school's doors in September.

The proposed curriculum will have all the usual subjects such as English, languages, math and science, as well as more unconventional additions including morality and ethics, public speaking, entrepreneurship and etiquette. The couple say they want to emulate the teaching methods that worked for their children rather than focus on one way of learning.

"Some children learn very well with kinetics where they learn with their hands -- when they draw they remember things. Some children have extremely creative imaginations. Instead of trying to make children learn one way, you teach them based on their learning style," explains Efe.

The educational facility will have a capacity of 2,000 to 2,500 students with up to 30% of students being local children offered scholarships to attend.

Efe says: "On one hand, billions of dollars worth of crude oil is pumped out from that region on a monthly basis and yet the poverty rate of the indigenous community is astronomical."

While Paul adds: "(The region has) poor quality of nursery and primary education. So by the time the children get secondary education they haven't got a clue. They haven't developed their core skills.

"The school is designed to give children an aim so they can study for something, not just for the sake of acquiring certifications. There is an end goal.

http://edition.cnn.com/2015/03/09/africa/esther-okade-maths-genius/index.html

Barselonia:
like serious the dressing is somehow For class teacher

She is wearing a butt pad!

missclassy:
I don't understand why guys always drool over a woman that has big bosoms.

Yesterday, my boyfriend made a comment that really annoyed me. He told me that he wished my bosoms were bigger. I felt very bad hearing him say that but I just hid my annoyance
My bosoms are not that big but I have a nice body and a pretty face

Must a woman's mammary gland have to be big before she can look pretty?
Does having big bosoms add to the beauty of a woman?

He must cheat on you.

rokiatu:
Stupid and useless list the real disadvatages.

1 She wouldn't be experience and so your deepest fantasies wouldn't be met just yet.

2 Some of them will take longer to adopt to various sexual styles as they are not very flexible.

3 The night itself ain't no walk in the park. Get ready for some work, and you better have load of patience and be understanding cuz this is no quickie.


4 Some of them remains uptight even after losing their virginity, because virgins were brought up to believe sex is dirty from a vry young age.


5 There is always a possibility of her thinking about what she missed out/is missing out on. Some dumb ladies in their quest to satisfy their curiosity will cheat on you.




[size=20pt]The pro is so many thou and we were all once virgins so kini big deal.[/size]

Being a virgin is the best state of life and widely recognized every where on earth and in heaven. if you have lost it, deal with it. don't make it look less important. God treasures it!

Drama happened inside first bank at osapa london branch this morning. I was inside this bank to withdraw some amount of money. Inside this bank there was a very huge crowd and a very long queue. This guy came in to deposit some cash (55 thousand naira) but when he saw the crowd he didn't want to queue and went to the front to approach a lady who is around no ten on the queue and begged her to help in paying his cash.

He gave the already filled teller to that lady and the cash after standing for about two to three minutes. He went to sit on a seat very close to the queue. Few minutes later, he really enjoy the coolness of the air condition and surrendered to sleep.

When it was about three people before that lady, she looked back and discovered that that guy is already
sleeping. She just told the next person that she is coming and left the banking hall through the exit door.

By the time this guy woke up, she was gone. It was like a dream. He asked the people in front if they saw a lady in green top and they reply she left few seconds ago. He ran outside but the lady was no where to be found. He was outside the bank shouting my boss money.

Now see what he caused himself by being impatient. Hmm my people be careful this is not a joke, I was an eye witness. It happened around 10:30 am Monday 22nd december

@http://www.kevindjakporblog.com/2014/12/how-lady-stole-55000-naira-inside-first.html#ixzz3Mnzn0AWm

naijaboiy:
if the man doesn't get her pregnant,,she wouldn't indulge in it.

If she didnt spread her legs.....

Meet a man who tied a knot with a wooden beauty in Colombia on Sunday.
Peruvian actor and activist Richard Torres married a tree for the second time in his
life.
Peruvian actor and activist Richard Torres has married a tree for the second time in his life. The ceremony took place in Bogota national park and included the placing of fruit and vegetable by young girls at the base of the tree.


The bride who looked rather apathetic and wooden was wearing a white veil

The bride who looked rather apathetic and wooden was wearing a white veil
The bride who looked rather apathetic and wooden was wearing a white veil. It should be noted that even a kissing part of the ceremony was performed. It is the second time Torres marries a plant in an attempt to raise awareness of environmental issues.

Even a kissing part of the ceremony was performed

Even a kissing part of the ceremony was performed
A year agon he married a tree in Buenos Aires. By his actions he struggles to pay more attention to the man-made environmental problems around the world, including climate change.

http://kevindjakpor..com/2014/11/man-marries-treeyes-you-read-it-right.html#.VHWe6LFLGlA

iceberylin:
Lol...this ur spelling ehhh

He would get national award next year

Chiefpriest1:
There are basically three kinds of cheats, the serial cheat, the occasional cheat and those who stray once in a while. More than 95per cent of nigerian husbands would fall into this category at a point in their life.

Your decision would be informed by the category he falls, but I want to believe he just strayed since this is the first time you ve 'caught' him.

Matters like this require patience. Some kids who have never had a relationship talk more of getting married will soon be here to advice you to divorce your husband. Fact is that most men cheat and many of those who are not cheating probably havent had the chance.

Depending on the kind of man you married (you know him better than everyone here), I guess what you should do is to have a heart to heart talk with him. Dont be confrontational.

Ask him if hes willing to swap his happy family with whatever pleasure he's getting outside.

Appeal to his emotions without being judgmental. The intention is to break him, make him 'confess' , apologise and promise that it wont happen again.

If he does this, forgive him and try forgetting, though it might be difficult. If you see him as your last bus stop, you ll do everything to make the marriage work.

I am not advising you to start asking yourself unnecessary questions, but you might need to check if you haven't shifted attention from your husband to your children.

Women tend to do that alot, forgetting that they met the man first before the kids started coming(marriage counsellors know this).

Whatever it is, dont hate him, dont get violent. Dont let the devil take charge. He ll come around and things Will be normal again.

You are really Chiefpriest, well said!

Familyfirst:
- Bisi Adewale

Many Ladies are known to base their marital decisions on things that will not endure a life-time. These have led many of them into wrong marriages and life time bondage. We need to identify and deal with them:
1) HEIGHT: Every girl’s dream is to marry a tall, dark guy with a baritone voice; I wonder where they got the idea that tall guys are better in marriage. Hey Girls, tall guy can give you tall problems; it is not the height that matters but the depth of the guy in God and in character.

2) MUSCLE: [/b]Muscular and heavy looking guys are also lucky, they are seen to be good suitors, and girls do say "they look manly" "they look like real men". Sorry Girls, muscles do not make a real man, character and ability to shoulder responsibility do. A guy with muscle without character will use his muscles to deal with you and batter your beautiful face.

[b]3) A WELL SET HOUSE: A guy with a well set house is the dream of any girl any day. Many girls will throw caution into the wind to grab a man who have a house with King size; beautiful Italian Settee, micro wave oven, well stock freezer, home theater, refrigerator, gas cooker, Plasma TV,6 by 6 bed, well stuff Kitchen, Dining table, washing machine, dish washers, split unit air conditioner etc is a dream catch for girls any day. Sorry girl, a well set house is good but it may be a well set trouble if the guy is not a man of character, manners or discretion, he will make the house look like a prison yard for you.

4) FAT BANK ACCOUNT: Girls are fond of trying to know how rich a guy is by checking the guy’s phones for bank alerts. They joyfully decide to marry a guy when they discover the guy is very rich with fat Bank balance. What a mistake? They don't want to know where the money is coming from; they don't even want to know what the guy does for a living. What concerns them is the money that is available to be spent. Many girls ended up finding themselves entangled for life in this kind of situation, don’t base your marriage on GREED, it won't turn to GREEN.

5) PLACE OF WORK: Some of our girls are in the habit of making marital decision base on the place a guy works. You dare not talk of marriage to them if you are a Teacher or civil servant. You dare not propose them if you are working with a small firm, or one man business. What an error? Girls note that, that a guy works in ACCESS BANK does not mean he will give you ACCESS to his heart or peace of mind. A guy that works in SHELL may put your life in a SHELL forever, you may not be the FIRST in the life of a guy that works in FIRST BANK, a guy that work in GUARANTEE TRUST BANK may not GUARANTEE your future. He may be working in NESTLE but not SETTLE you at home, So it is not about where he is working but about who is working in Him, God or devil.

Read more from......http://totalfamilylife.com/2014/10/12-wrong-things-girls-check-before-marrying-a-guy/

Women have been selfish since the world go. You want this and that, what will the guy gain from you? At the end of the day, most naija babes have made us to realize that its only sex they can offer. Since na only sex most can offer, Ash*wo them no ge be better option? Cos it’s the same thing. #Pleaselettheattack begin

MAKEWAY2029:
81 guys only were shortlisted for this stage from the email addresses on the mail sent to us. My guess is they wont be sending any more invites, at least for this nov/dec BHE set.

This kind of words used here is very bad and unprofessional. even if you work in Bakr HR, you dont make such comments that you don't think others would be called. its very wrong. even though that how you felt, learn to use encouraging words.

Nightingale99:
I'm guessing you guys have all completed your digital interview kini. Goodluck to us all as we await feedback next month

Pleas when did you do yours? i thought you guys said here that it has been cancelled, to be rescheduled

Jennydoris:
It shouldn’t come of any surprise to ladies that men are initially attracted to women via their physical appearance, but that does not mean all men are looking for the Tyra Banks super model type. Different strokes for different folks. Some men do like thick women, some like them curvy, etc.

But it’s the first five minutes that counts the most. That’s the time you have to use your physical appearance first and then your personality to “reel him in.”

Here are some characteristics that men say they tend to notice when they first encounter a woman.

• A woman’s shape- Relationship guru Dr. Paul Dobransky says men look at curves and shape. And he won’t hide it, either. So don’t be surprised to catch him looking you up and down when you enter his space.

• A woman’s attitude- Men love a woman with confidence. Her posture, her ability to look him straight in the eye and her air of confidence are all traits men will be attracted to.

• Her smile- Subconsciously, men are drawn to certain smiles. Some like sweet and genuine, while others like a mischievous look.

• Your girl friends- Oh yea. He is checking out whom you hang with. He will be intimidated by a large group of women, but will approach a lady in a trio. If he’s rejected, at least he knows the giggles will be at a minimum.

• A woman’s hair- They like well kept hair that smells good. So make sure your weave is fresh! In fact, research shows that men notice your hair before they notice what you are wearing.

• Your makeup- Keep it light and natural looking. And wear lipstick. It doesn’t (and shouldn’t) be bright red, but he will notice moist shiny (yet natural) looking lips.

• The butt and the bust- Yea, you knew that was coming. But be cool about it. That doesn’t mean you should wear spandex or a shirt that leaves nothing to the imagination. Do leave something to the imagination. And remember, some guys like a handful, while others go for the melons .

• Your bag- Yep. He will check out your purse. If you are lugging around a big ol’ bag, no matter if it’s Gucci or not, he will take that as a sign that you are high maintenance and that you are also materialistic (that you need a lot of things). So when it comes to bags, bigger is not better.

So ladies, look your best and show that smile , whether you are going to the super market or out with your crew. You never know when you are going to encounter “the one.”

i cant handle water melon, all i need is grape and the sizeable back, a minimum of size 14 to send me to wonderland. you have it? just marry me

adonbilivit:
these are words the average Nigerian uses when speaking english on daily basis. i bet most of us think they are really english words while some know they are not but still use them because they have been sort of accepted as correct. they are no longer considered blunders in grammar by Nigerians but if you dare use them during interviews and other corporate activities you are on your own (oyo). here they are:

1. sef: we often use this word in place of "anyway". i hear people say things like "what is it sef"?

2. eiya or heiya: this is used when u feel sorry for someone. for example, if a friend tells you armed rubbers attacked him your response will most likely be "eiya, hope they didn't injure you sha"?

3. sha: as you can see i used it in point 2 above. Nigerians use it in place of the word "though". here is an example; "I am tired but i will still work sha"...i am very much guilty of this point right here. when i use the word "though" most people don't seem to understand me.

4. na: hmmm, i don't even know the english word that can be substituted with this. we tend to use it when we are trying to make something clear to people. here is how we use it:

john: which of them bro?

james: the black one na

5. joor: this one seems to lack a substitute too. it usually portrays some kind of aggression and anger when used. when for instance, a guy is pestering a girl she might say something like "leave me alone joor".

6. shey: this one is used instead of "right". it is often applied when asking question. e.g "you saw Aminu yesterday, shey? notice that it took the place of "right" in the sentence.

e-sha!

e sha said i should come to his house and i said no.

e-sha said its over between us