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Biglittlelois:
They result to insult when they have nothing sensible to type, and they still claim intellect, lol.

Cos you asked a question that he hates to admit the answer as fact He decided to use his tongue.

Reffone:
I thank God she finally left cause my own gf is doing almost the same couple with cheating so today we had issues and she is also leaving I am not happy but glad dat I won't get to spend the rest of my life with someone who is never appreciating

Congrats. Open eyes and choose wisely. I like when people call it off before entering into marriage. Best decision ever.

Ryan03:
And you decide that the op is a good man because he came here to give his own part of the story without him having any fault at all? So the woman is mad to just do all these without any response from the op or without him doing anything to trigger such attitude from her? The way some people reason in this forum is funny

This theory would hold water for many men if it was the wife that dumped the husband. That is when the average man will ask..... What did you do to him to make him act terribly towards you in the first place? So long as its the man doing the dumping, people hardly ask for the other side of the story. In Naija all husbands are saints. All are perfect and if any is bad then it's the wife's fault.

Biglittlelois:
Okay so what happens to the husband if he is disturbing the wife and not giving her peace? In the western world, she dump his silly ass, so I don't see how marriage there is a cage!!!

To the average Naija man, if the society or laws give more liberty to the men then its not a cage ie Naija and other Asian countries where the man owns the woman he marries. But.....if the society gives the woman any advantage in the marriage then such marriage is a cage.
The woman is not meant to flex any muscle in her marriage. If she is perceived to be bad she can be kicked out, if the man is bad (cos we can not say all husbands are good husbands) the wife should be the one fearing for her matrimonial home too. That is what a good marriage environment is for the average Naija man.
They want to be the ones telling ladies how to please them (Men) but don't believe that ladies are up to any good so they typically don't want to hear any sermon on how to please ladies

ericsmith:
do you think God would av said that ,if akata babes & naija gurls were in existence then.

Are you saying God did not know that they will exist? As in he isn't all knowing?

MUSAPLC:
Dear great people.
This week was one of my happy week since 8 year ago, i just returned my wife back to her parents because of following reason:
1 .She don't have any atom of respect for me including all my family member.
2.she is always compliant that she don't like sex or giving you conditions and time to have sex with her
3. She believed that her decision or whatever she said is finally.
4.She wouldn't Cook, because she cook yesterday I.e would you take Tea or
5.She don't like go to church and prayer,my little child of 4 year is aware that her mother don't prayer
6.She wouldn't pick my phone call n when she pick she would asking me with high voice why call her.
7.She don't want me to talk her, let me allow to do whatever she want
This demon wife am the one feeding ,clothing, housing ,I work with a multinational company.
I want thank God for his Grace all through that trying moment

If what you wrote is true, as in she isn't doing those Peper body things because she caught you creeping or your family saying shii about her on SM. Then I rejoice with you. No man deserves to live in prison cos he married a crazy woman. So enjoy the break but I will encourage you to use this time to check yourself, work on yourself and try to fix things.

Did you try prayers, counselling, family meetings etc before you packed her home? Cos if this was a woman we would encourage her to keep faith, pray for her man and do things normal to avoid trouble and divorce, we even encourage them not to confront the man if they see evidence of infidelity.

My advice, OP is to try see if you can fix things. Maybe you too have your own flaws which made her kick back. Go and work on your marriage. Cos this is. One sided story I can't cheer you on for long.

Na dem sabi. Na so dem talk the other time.

Investmentfreak:
What if she be Nigerian?!
Me that poverty is modeling
Did I run?

Hahaha abi na you dey model poverty You are heavily mouthed. Poverty go fear you from now on.

Mk93:
You know the girl before? Because me I no know am o so their story no be for me o

It's not about knowibg her o.
I am not saying for sure she was sold, all I'm saying is the case should not be dismissed with she ran away.

Anybody can forge WhatsApp messages. Until they find her and have proof that she actually ran away, I will say keep searching. But if na true say she run ehn, she Don blacklist herself from traveling be that o. No advanced country go give her visa for a loooooong time.

Una sure sey dem never sell her to prostitution ring come dey tell us story?

DavidEsq:
That doesn't sound like a warri proverb at all. I am part wafi and part safi. We don't have this particular proverb over there. Maybe its me who cannot read well sha.

Know your way no be curse

femi4:
Tell us who you know...leave God out of it. That agency job is for man know man

Thank you. I saw a comment where a guy told him to not forget to tell people how much he paid. He sent the guy a pm and the guy modified/edited his comment

Any how sha, both good and evil its God that allows to happen. Cos even if he paid #2mil bribe to get that job, if God no approve am his money go enter 1 chance I Don tell people, don't go and feel like God has abandoned you when you read testimonies of people who "put leg" in their matter only to come online and pretend that God did it with little to no effort on their side. Like those pastors who will do IVF after years of searching for children and then give testimony leaving out the procedures they went through.

I am not saying God doesn't work miracles, I am only asking for honesty when calling or using God's name. Acknowledge God for every process not to hide some and publish some.

Taqiyya and Tawriya at play

https://www.nairaland.com/5146744/demons-manifesting-live

gypsey:
Okay, Now, move on please!

Yinmu!

gypsey:
like i expected, you have managed to turn it into a Man Against woman war and in your stupid Atempt to defend one Female you have called my mother (another Female) a hoe. i thought you are meant to be a defender of All women? you appear like a low self esteemed individual. from the start you have taken my comment personal, But hey! if it helps you sleep at night, i accept. try not to slit your wrists Tonight over this irrelevant issue.

Good luck!

Really? If you have real life experiences to give you clues to think I was referring to your mom and sis as the starring hoes in my post, I can't be blamed for that. You who said an abused woman was complain g cos she wasn't fundled by Tuface did not see the fact that you were demonising a woman like your mom and your sis whom you are horrified I called hoes . Don't worry, I won't slit my wrists I have to be alive to check hypocrites like you who speak with forked tongues about how their sisters are free to feel anyhow regarding their bodies but then turn around and insult other women for feeling however they choose to feel. That girl you called a hoe is someone's sister and daughter. She would one day be someone's mother too. But you did not spare her. So yeah worry not your dada head about my wrists, even if you are a hypocrite all your life, it will not push me to touch my wrist. Thanks for your hypocritical concern as usual it's in your DNA

gypsey:
my sister has the right to do what ever she pleases.
If she likes been grabbed by her vagina, so be it.

what about your sister? will you support your if she accuses an innocent man of grabbing her Vagina just because she is Attention seeking? Donald trump was accused of grabbing by some attention seeking hoe, Donald trump is still walking around a free man

Some Females have been seen twerking and shaking their bottom against The groins of male musicians and NO complains of assaults.

If you believe your sis has a right to feel whatever way she wants to feel, why then are you antagonising the way this lady in question feels? Hypocrite much?
A woman dancing on the crotch of a man be he a star or a normal guy chooses to do it and its not the same as a guy forcing or rubbing her in the croth without her consent.

I will not support a woman or man who falsely accuses anyone neither will I assume she is an attention seeking LovePeddler if she claims to be violated by a man.
How do you know she lied? What in your past made you think she is a hoe?

Your hate for women is epic but I understand that some mothers and sisters are truly whores and their attitude have made the sons/brothers believe that all women who say they have been abused are attention seeking whores.

Bossontop:

He is crying because he didn't meet that day's quota set by the malam.......so him go hear am wen e reach aws

Exactly. Many of those kids are even kidnapped. One such survivor said people should not give beggers with kids any money cos most times the kids are mere tools/props for the career beggers. He says it's so lucrative that kids are being kidnapped, rented and birthed for the sole purpose of generating cash through begging. He said any child found with beggars or begging should be questioned incase he is a victim of kidnap

He is crying because he has to remmit money to the person handling him and if he fails to do so he might be punished. The solution is not to hive him money cos it will only reinforce the fact that he is a money making machine for who ever is sending him. Best bet is to know who is sending him and support him from there.

Kingosytex:
if hunger waya am, e go dey find ordinary garri to soak without sugar

I dey tell you eh!

Female friend or prostitute? Talk true wetin you really want. Cos you claim to be bored but you want only female to keep you company. Na your p£nis bored?

Hunger never catch am.

gypsey:
And what could be psychological about the alleged touching?


is because it wasn't Tuface or wizkid that touched her?

If Tuface or Wizkid grabs your sister by the pvssy will you tell her to celebrate it?

Many ladies complain that Igbo boys in the parks and markets typically molest females in the open. Pass by their shop and they start touching you and if the women complain they get verbally abused.

Dubai Porta party trip?

sketchlyrics:
to fvck their two just dey hungry me....

Go and fvck dem and rest stop spreading your sick perverted mentality on here. Disgusting children of these days.

Story targeted at giving the dog a bad name so that it can be crucified.

LilMissFavvy:
I doubt. If it was same day, they would definitely have stated it.

Seems they were held hostage somewhere prly her home and they took the 2 kids away first before comming to pick her and the younger one

LilMissFavvy:
She decided to wait till he attempted to kill her and the last child.

I am wondering too. Maybe they took the 4 of them on the same day but unfortunately they have used 2 of the kids before it got to her turn and she was rescued.

Edit - After watching the video, It seems they held her and the 3 kids hostage. They then went away with the 2 kids she claims were taken from her and then came back for her and the last one but she was spotted and rescued before they got to their destination.

The story confuse me. Did they take the kids long before her kidnapping or did they take her and her 3 kids on the same day but unfortunately they killed 2 kids before it got to her turn?

go4goldnow:
SU everywhere

It's not about SU. It's about learning how to be dignified and classy