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See how women curse themselves. love wey dey struggle to make relevance in the absence of finance. The thing that keeps the marriage going would be mutual respect and principles we hold concerning marriage and parenting. Women if he is a good man in and out and he has shit load of money to spoil you. If he is not lazy and depending on others for his wealth eg mom and dad financed then you have found 10000 yrds of husband material pick him. It's not by love that Joseph decided to not disgrace Mary when he found out that she was pregnant. It was his principles. That was why God picked him for Mary. Women are always misarranging things.

It's expected in Naija. If the men no rape woman naim be say life Don end as we know it. Rape is a characteristic of the average Naija male.

Let me just sit here and monitor the growing number of pedophiles we have in our society as the RAON come out in droves to blame the victim and give reasons why her rape was legal.

eni4real:
It is not a lie tho. Many examples abound. Being broke is fleeting...

Many men with multiple wives started taking new wives as soon as their finances improved. Some started having high class sidechicks as soon as status improved. My advice to women is to be with a man with good principles whether rich or not. But do not ever think that you must marry broke men in order to be happy in future. Not every broke guy will become rich and not every rich guy will spend his wealth on things that will make you happy. Marry men with good principles of life.

Naija is infested with rapists na. From fathers to sons only a few are decent. Majority na rapists. One can't even leave kids with their dads alone. If kids are not safe with their own fathers, who can be safe again Tufiakwa!

magicminister:
Wooooow!!

This is why I always advise ladies to preferably marry a rich person or at-least someone from a well exposed middle class (lower or upper). The only reason this lady died is because the man didn’t want to spend adequately to get her proper medical attention or it could just be that he can’t afford it. Regardless, the lady is dead and that child will never know the love of a mother.


My friend, married a poor man. Too bad I didn’t know her before she married the poor man. She’s a beautiful woman that could’ve had any partner she wanted but she didn’t know her worth.
Unfortunately, the man started beating her for the slightest provocation, her first daughter (4 years old) got sexually assaulted by unknown neighbor(s).

When she got pregnant with the second child, she got free antenatal but when it was time to give birth, the husband shipped her to the village and hired a cheap dirty local doctor. The second child died at birth and she almost lost her life.

Ladies, let them call you gold digger or whatever but never ever ever ever ever marry a poor person... marry a man that can atleast put food on the table for you and your children (2 atleast) and pay medical bills during child birth. He doesn’t have to own a mansion or fancy cars but he must be able to provide the basics for the household.

things can always change for the better or worse but wise up!

They fall for the cheap trick broke niggas use to marry women above their level aka hussle with him so dat when he becomes rich you will enjoy. That is the greatest lie ever told and women are mostly easy to fool.

No time for time

If she is 18 and in agreement what's their own there? The only time I will. Complain is if she is being forced to marry. Inshort I think a panel should be set to talk to young brides to be. If they are marrying under pressure then steps should be taken to help them.

Assassination. Na codedly dem kill am. Na only people made of steel dey get right to separate fight o. Me I don't try it. Fight until you can fight no more.

How Dr no recommend CT scan sef? Stab to the head dem just suture am and hope for the best? I tire abeg.

Na wa o. Man rape woman yet the juju instead of punishing the rapist choose to punish the husband of the woman (Indirectly the woman too is punished a second time cos I believe her husband will have to be distant from her during this period until the ritual is done). Where is justice for the victim in all of this sef? Na the husband dem rape ni?

Secondly, If she had consentual sex nko and the innocent husband doesn't know about it? Na so the juju go punish am for nothing? Or is it only in rape cases?

That Juju hate people no be small. People of that land should better go and ask that juju to start punishing the criminals instead of victims.

Why stress the fact that you killed it in a church? What is the big deal in a church building where more than half the people attending it are demon possessed? From fornicators, thieves, closeted gays, prostitutes, pedophiles, thieves etc our religious places of worship from the 2 major ones to traditional demonic human sacrifice, selfish interest perpetrating houses of dark magic known as native drs; house the most vile of minds. So what is the big deal if a snake comes close or enters such a vile filthy place?

What has bubu got to do with this now?

Leebeedo:
He's a lecturer at fed uni Lafia , nasarawa

Awwww. So sad. May the most high comfort those they left behind.

Leebeedo:
Ohhhh... this was the accident that claimed the life of Dr. Pam. May her soul rest in peace

Who is Dr. Pam?

LordReed:
We should learn yet when you are asked questions you are so reticent to answer it looks like someone is fighting you.

You generalised that Nigerians don't love the god that's why their prayers are not answered. Now when asked to provide an example of a country whose people love the god and have their prayers answered as a contrast, you say everything but what matters. It is either you have no proof of the thing you are asserting or you were just saying something for saying sake because it sounded good to your ears.

I said go back and read all my omnents maybe if you remove sentiments you will get your answers. If I say Nigerians don't love God with all their hearts, did I say I know other nations that do? Why do you guys always sensationalise your thoughts and make them someone else's? From the start I said what my comments were reffering to. I repeated that I was only argui g over the comment which says if its by religion Nigeria should be developed now. I stated a million times that I wasn't arguing about other nations whether it concerns their religion or not. That I am focusing on that particular point. I stated that religion should not come I to play as a factor determining the destiny of Nigeria if the people claiming to practice it don't follow its laws to the letter. You can not claim your medicine works or doesn't work for a particular condition if you only mass produce it but have never used it to fight that said disease before. I think the issue here is that you want me to claim what I did not write. So yeah I don't know what else you want from me. I am tired of arguing honestly

Muhammadson2020:
No anyother holy book that I know except Quran

He was just a human being. Stop worshipping or fighting for a man like yourself. No other book on earth praised him as great. They feared him and bowed to his god under fear of domination. No normal human will see the beheading, death and carnage he and his foot soldiers wrecked that will not consider changing religion to save life and family. The taxes also and the freedom the people who converted enjoyed pushed some to switch religion. He and his army spread his beliefs by violence. He used religion as a tool of control and domination just like others. May God judge harshly all who claim to be doing his will yet turture, murder, kill, rape and destroy precious souls for their benefits.

gensteejay:
Lol, I no get your time. From my experience on Nl, it is smarter to ignore acrimony-laced comments of mad people, armed with a smartphone, on this forum.

We shall see who is mad. Time shall reveal

Get ready for the legion of demons that will take you over.

gensteejay:
Can you quote a comment where I made such a claim? Hope you are not hallucinating.

I am a knowledge seeker, as I stated on some threads. And I strive to be a rational thinker, which is why I don't usually waste my time arguing or discussing with some religious folks, like you, who sacrifice rational thinking on the altar of blind faith and dogmatism when looking at life issues.

I would rather engage irreligious members and atheists — people I can learn from — who show depth in and appreciation of philosophy, science, history, and are civil.

This is my last response to you on this issue.

Yinmu! You are too proud. You lift yourself above where you are. You remain ignorant when you think only a particular type of person, thing or people can enlighten and educate you. Only foolish people bask in such low level places. The wise man knows that wisdom can come from the most unlikely of places this he never shuts the door of his heart to any knowledge. He knows where he stands, he receives and filters. Even if he doesn't believe, he still has an interest in how others reason. This is why the white man can tell you more about Sango than a black man from Nigeria. They may not believe in sango but they don't say its bullshit. They investigate, visit those lands, even stay with the people to see how they reason and function. Tho to them these people are still considered barbarians. In that barbaric tribe they may learn about plants, curative herbs, metals etc they take the knowledge back home and try to see what makes it work, modernise it and sell it back to you. I hope you have opened a new door of knowledge from me so far even though you thought I could never have something that will make you reflect on life

Innocent kids. Some people are heartless sha.

Help us post it here na OP. Please

gensteejay:
Do you meditate regularly? And have you been able to discover a method for doing transcendental meditation (TM) that works for you?

You can only be possessed by demons in your quest for whatever shit you think you want to achieve. You are not pure in heart, hate to hear the truth, hate anything that doesn't correspond to the mischievous devices of your heart, and are full of rotten ego which makes you a joke. Only dark spirits can come close to you and you shall be possed by one soon enough.

LordReed:
So which countries have fulfilled this condition so that we can compare?

Did I say there re countries which fulfill it? Did I not clearly say in my previous posts that religion is not our problem cos even the religion we all shouting we do not practice it right? Read through my previous posts and see what I think about this topic.
To be honest I do not have the time to debate this. You guys need to learn about the world, its elite and its leaders as it concerns spirituality.

eni4real:
Funny defense

If she married a young man from that same place, will that same ritual not be performed? What is the funny defence in that fact? Or do they do it only if the woman is marrying an old millionaire? If No then I stand by my word..... If she had married a younger boo from that same community, that same womanhood ritual would have been performed. Whether he is rich or poor, young or old.

gensteejay:
Anything else?

I like how you claim wise and knowledgeable but all the while only reject what others say with few sentences you can reject but have nothing meaningful to give as a reason for your rejection. Lol you kids of nowadays can't even argue intellectually yet you be forming internet warriors. Nothing else let's hear from your wealth of wisdom in 2 words again

LordReed:
The inference of what you are saying is true religion will be a booster to development not so?

Yes. If practiced right can booster development cos the leaders will do what is best for their people, the people will love and be kind to one another. There will be fairness and justice. But it is hard to find any society with true practitioners in position of power and authority. So let's forget that religion should even be considered as a means of upliftment in Nigeria. Even the religious leaders are corrupt today.

gensteejay:


I wonder if religionists ever think critically about things they post and say.

You just see some kind of reasoning and gape at the harm religion does to people's intellect.

I repeat religion has nothing to do with anything
If you keep a stick and claim its your god. If you believe that the spirit in the stick says do not kill, do not steal, do not cheat etc and you follow that law. You and all others who profess that belief then your society will be according to how your religion dictates. But if you claim to follow a faith yet do not do what it instructs then you are to blame and not the religion. So keep letting your hatred for religion blind your eyes to facts. Religion not folowed to the letter can not be said to influence any society. I still stand by my words, religion has nothing to do with where Nigeria as a nation is today. Look for another silly thing to laugh at.

You think you are wise but you have not experienced anything in life at all. But if feeling wise makes you sleep well at night,knock yourself out!

Yes I am a believer in God. I believe in Jesus.

tintingz:
You have no point.

LOL, grabbing at straws to avoid sinking in your warped thinking. Make a point let me hear you.

Where else would he be written as the greatest prophet? Bible or Bhagavat gita?

This small wind that will soon blow and pass is what you want yo die for? Imagine if you had died 2 years ago, Imagine all the fun and hussle, the ups and downs you would have missed out on? In 10 yrs time who will remember this shit!? If life no sweet people like Bill Clinton (remember Monica lewonsky) Kim kardashian(RJay sex tape) Chidinma (Cucumber) etc would have swallowed otapiapia na. Abegi, hold body strong, rugged for awon aye and push the silly barrier down. Your own no worse pass. Learn your lesson and move on.

Go feed the dog while the owner is beside you. Make it know that you and the owner are cool. For 2 to 3 days always go feed it while chatting with the owner beside you. On the 4th day go alone with the owner stand g at a corner.