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ToluSuo:
But come to think of it o, why would a minor follow a guy to an hotel room am confused if this is rape or a deal gone sour... I don't support rape though, its disgusting, I mean how can u continu lashing a girl even wen shez crying and begging u not to... Chain KONJI... Well... #PEACE...

They tempted him to come do a job in the hotel. I don't see where they said she was sexually assaulted in the hotel premises. And can you guys please stop using this Konji bs excuse?

gmoney12:
I have noticed that the aura and things about it has been hidden away from humans for some reasons.the very first day I read about the human aura I knew something about thing that I couldn't explain in words..making some research I found out there are so many lies about this aura...

let's share what we know ...johnnydon22,etc your presence is needed here

What are the lies you found out?

Flame4chi:
yes I am a christian.. The Bible Said "anyone" not "any man" that passage shouldn't be use in this context.

Bible said a man not anyone. If your Bible says anyone then it has been edited.

mmsen:
Does the wife also offer physical protection?

Does the wife also keep a cool head when things aren't going well?

Is the wife accountable for her actions?

What protection can a bully give? Rather the wife would need protection from his abuse.

[quote author=tintingz post=61289830]So, why do many people complain when the wife doesn't cook, calling her different names even when she works? Does the woman also loose the value as the good wife?

You have a good point here and i agree with you.

Making the positive move is an exception in this case, i have stated that in OP, but when a man does not make the positive move, can he still be called the head of the household, that is the question, what is the quality of being the head of the house?[/quote]It is the double standard in our society. Most Husbands don't consider a woman who doesn't play wifey roles as good wives if she doesn't do some chores due to circumstances esp her job but if the tables are turned, people will tell the wives to not be angry because no matter what, he is her husband. They expect a husband to flex muscle and react if wifey goes astray but expect wifey to swallow any problem(even if proper beatings and abuse is involved) and pray..

Better than selling her kidneys. Selling her eggs is like a man selling his sperm in my opinion.

Na wa.

Before now African prints were not mostly printed in Africa just like stock fish(Opkoroko) though much consumed in Naija is not produced in Nigeria.

But Africans have a loong history of making fabrics tho and we love bright colours. I think if the collection is named as African print inspired then they are good to go.

tintingz:
Well said.

The situation here is wide when using logic, that was what i want to get from the lady above when she said "responsible in character", if the husband is good to the wife and kids, that is normal in marriage, anybody can do that but when the husband is not footing the bills, what quality does he still deserve to be call the head of the house? Anybody can be good in character but can anybody take the financial aspect?

There are some women doing the financial responsibility and they have even spend more than the bride price.

Not supporting the bills doesn't mean he doesn't want to na. Situations change and the fact that he is down doesn't mean he lost his value as the man and leader of his home. He may be broke but trying to get back up on his feet. He may be broken after so many failures in his search and needs his woman to support him back to faith, hope, trust and looking positively to the future for he and his family. That doesn't mean the wife has become the king maker of the home. Marriage needs a lot of wisdom and care from both parties it's just that is humans esp the males have turned it into show of power and dominance. They should not even be looking at head over tails in a functional family. Husband and wife should support each other as they travel down the path of marriage .

tintingz:
Interesting, so as the wife you did the responsibility your husband suppose to have done but he still deserve the head of the house?

If Buhari didn't do the responsibilities as the president but he is responsible in character and tries to break through, does he deserve to be the head of state, will you vote him in next election?

If he is responsible and good to his wife and kids he is the head of the household come what may financially because a real father and husband would not just lay in bed and relay on his wife to do it all. But if he is a lazy lay about, who doesn't even care about his husbandly and fatherly duties, he is the head only on paper the woman in reality is the head because she sees to the upkeep, success and progress of the household. She can and should decide on what is best for her and her kids eg, if he is a womaniser who doesn't support his family when he has but would rather spends it all on strange women and flexing along the line, the wife has some money to start a small business and the husband tries to use his veto headship powers to ask her to hand him the money to invest in some business. She knowing how he spends and wastes money can say NO and go ahead to start her business to secure her family's financial situation.

Life throws challenges our way and the man being broke doesn't mean he has become useless. The wife knows he has her at heart and he is happy he married such a stable and dependable wife. On the other hand, a fool who doesn't care has lost his respect but will be tolerated by his household they may accept his headship but that is all there is to it. Such men pay the price later tho.

If a man uses the I feed you, cloth you and house you excuse to call the shots in a bullying way in the house, why can't the wife also call the shots when roles are reversed?

In this your example, the man clearly doesn't want to be involved in the household

PierreDeFermat:
o ni laakaye jare omo yii. 2 brim full cups of sepe, one wrap of SK and a dozen bottles of Codeine for you

You dey bless am ABI you want kill am?

Mrkumareze:
Single sweet die, used to have 100% freedom and can embark on any journey without a second thought . But the moment man marries, everything changes, have to limit everything hence making my family and wife a priority.

Works both ways you know. Your wife is also giving up stuff so that YOU and the kids are her priority. You probably have more freedom than her as it stands being that a man can just wake up and travel for 2 weeks on "official duty" while the wife may not have that chance and even if she does, not as often as the man. But I feel I get where you are coming from generally.

Tolexander:
So it is so easy to kill this python like this?

I thought we were told when we were young that python has a ring that can make one so wealthy.

When I was young, it was a precious stone which shines so bright and they need it to see. If you take th3 said stone, the snake would chase you and if it doesn't catch you, it will bribe you with wealth to give it back. If you still reject the offer, it will then harm you.

They could have killed you and claim shootout with cultists. Prolly because they found nothing to rob off you or they just did not think it was your time to die.

coolestchris:
bad government

Typical... Always using a neutral person as VP while the cabal clings to the Prudential seat don't worry the gullibles would fall for it

They should have used them to clean their houses, fetch water, wash madams cars and hold madams bag while shopping too.
Anyhow, no cause for alarm because many Nigerians are professional arse lickers. They would still go to work the next day and not challenge the Chinese ogas that locked them in.
Their leaders are even worse, they will punish the citizens to please their Chinese lord's.

sorextee:
Date a common man, No.
Na celebs wey their ways no pure dey want. Sorry for ur loss sha.

So common men don't die?

Elnino4ladies:
Nobody is saying anything about the third guy "chime" that Davido killed.

Because he doesn't have any celebrity or millionaire family to publicize his case.

Harrynight:
u mean the guy was empty and poor yet could afford to...
1) pay ur bride price
2) organized and financially sponsor ur Traditional marriage
3) organized and finacially sponsor the white wedding

a poor and broke guy cant afford that

Sigh! If only you know how many women sponsor their own weddings in Naija. Not that it is bad but it is not something that never happens. They just won't tell you.

Will comment later.

Dem dey fear Duke na. They know it will be a land slide.

Maybe na the same drug kill the first guy? Are they(the crew) doing some fake poisonous drugs?

josh123:
Konji na bastard

Yeah yeah... Because it's a man involved. If the case were reversed you will not agree that it's konji even if the man has not touched her in years.

Scavengers of human misery every where. Person dies they come out creating SM post to gather sympathy. The true family and friends mourn in private unless there is cause for publicity while the sympathy gatherers throw pity parties by creating lengthy posts on every SM handle they operate.

Jumping from one woman to the other, having unprotected sex with prostitutes, Keeping series of girls for se.x. Even if marine wife no do you, your wayward life sef fit arrest you put for spiritual bondage. I pity the woman you will marry after roaming the streets like bingo. Ya waka waka sef come lead you to ogbanje join am.

As for solution to your problem, seek a mature religious person to support you in prayers.

Wow. This goes to show that when it comes to power and money..... No paddy for jungle. Nigeria throway face and Ojukwu throway face(Trust is a foreign language when your life is on the line) yet some people still allow the government to speak for them. They blindly believe that the government loves them and would empower them to be independent..... Greatest like a man ever told himself.

The dead can't speak so any story can be told.

Use sand or bleach

Bad comment LOL

fuckingAyaya:
And they recovered ordinary flag in shekau's home

Did they also list the corpses they carted away?

Troygod:
no sir...an Insta pic I came across on a friends phone...she's the girl in the pic

Ohhhh, Í gerrit.

Why are his boxers and pants quarreling? OP na you be that ba?