₦airaland Forum

victorioushands:
Compulsory DNA testing of every born child in a marriage will do more preaching than they do in religious homes these days. I tell you, when women stop bringing in strange children to their husbands, most of their madness will stop and, when most of their madness stops, the world will begin to heal. In real sense, it's women who build families and not men. So, if this is gotten right, families will heal and men have no options than to fall in line.

But, women have been enduring sharing their men imposed by society since world began na. Why is this small one so terrifying have we not been making women pass through worse? Having multiple wives, jumping from one wife/woman to another, expecting the wives to forget that we just nyanshed her co wife and expect her to spread her legs lovingly to get her share not minding what her mind will be feeling etc claiming that women should get used to it and not complain if not they are bad women? Something a man would Never endure yet our women swallowed it and endured just to look good in society and answer good wife LoL.

Jokes aside, I believe DNA testing should be done after the birth of kids to know what's up. I agree and concour.

OP, when you bring kids into this world, you owe them all you can to make them develop in every way to stand a chance to compete with others and win. You brought them forth and not the other way round.
But yes, while at it, plan for your own future and then train them with love. Many dad's forget that part. They act like gods when teaching, helping and correcting their children even their wives. The kids just hang around because there is no where to go. As soon as they mature and can stand on their own, they leave home and lose interest in visiting(in which case they just send money home for upkeep) unless if their mom who surffered the abuse with them is alive. Once mama dies, dad becomes abandoned kids just send money for his upkeep (Like their dad trained them to believe that being a good provider is all that is important)
Train your kids with love, dignity and care bring their face close to home, to love family and to unite as one. That way when they are grown and you are old, the love that binded you together in the past will be stronger.

È Don happen

No be police release am before? They were not expecting the outcry that trailed his release. They prolly know his sponsor or took bribe from his family. Nigerian police wahala

KELLSNELLY:
had we not qualified would u have needed an experienced head bw d sticks Let's give d little lad (Ezenwa) d chance he deserves to prove himself

World people for you na.

Spylord48:
This is exactly what someone sent to me on whatsapp and I keep wondering how can somebody stay in his room and conjure such lies and start spreading it around. How can Nigerian Army infect conduct free medical care to inject people with virus. The way we spread rumors in this country is something else. Worst still, it is the literate ones among us that will rush and forward the message on whatsapp without even thinking of how true the rumor is.

Governments have been known to use biological warfare against their citizens as a means of control and research. Even the USA did it too and many believe are still doing it . I laugh when I see people who truly and innocently believe that their government cares for them come what may..,.. it's truly a pity that the average man thinks his government seeks to help him and make him strong and capable. Look around you and see that they truly don't give a rats ass. If they will gain power and financial reward by using you or members of your family and community as a lab rat, THEY WILL!

Nice one. Let someone try it and let me know if it works.

mrphysics:
@First bold sentence ---- Op is a student, she have expressed herself, and she rightly pointed out in the bracket that she is single. She wasn't talking about any father or husband.

@Second bold sentence----You are trying to bring gender into this. No one attached gender issue here. Just like you will condemn an action irrespective of the gender, same way people are doing here. Please, kindly respond accordingly.

Lastly, you didn't seem to offer her any advise rather, you tried interpreting what she wrote. It seems like its the same person using different moniker.

You got it wrong...


She (OP) is a student, she got pregnant and unfortunately has to raise the baby on her own(single parent). By the time the baby will be born, she would be on break from school but 2 weeks after the baby's birth, her school will resume. She plans to stay home for another 1 month (4weeks) which means baby will be 6 weeks old by the time she is finally ready to go back to school. She is asking for our opinion what is best for baby.

Good advice. Thank you OP

Who wouldn't confess to being responsible for Buhari's ear infection when faced with "confess or die" mob? Na wá .

Most Nigerians don't care. Ask Bihari if he apologized for his thugs that claimed lives after he lost the elections. He did not distance himself from them, he did not condemn their actions nada. That I how it works in naija.

Did Bihari apologize for his own dogs that killed? Did Nigerians not vote for him?

raymondFirstborn:
@delishpot

Na this kind tinz na EFCC supposed they involved in

I know say na one Naija guy ,sit down for some wia dey try scam him father

Na so o. One premature alika naim dey control him papa mates mind . LoL. But Sha, it all boils down to greed or desperation. The point people should know is.....Don't pay money to get money from strangers. Even family and friends sef dey scam each other talkless of strangers

alignacademy:
Seems you understand the "format"

Scam na brain game sometimes. yes I understand the format

It's the mothership. ET Is coming home.

raymondFirstborn:
thanks for the advice.

You welcome. They will just tell you to pay some money to them which will enable them get the funds out. They will say they will pay you back your money as soon as they get the haul out. They have millions but the millions are locked and they need to activate something with cash, if they are kind they will say you all will bear the expenses and then you will pay your share(therein lies the scam) they will promise that everyone will get their refund once the money is out.

raymondFirstborn:
My friends have been telling me to play along and see what happens.

Of course na scam play along and SEE WHAT happens? LoL. Unless you just want to play along and take them for a ride. But as for seeing what happens, nothing will happen except to waste your time.

Unfortunately I have never listened to BBC pidgin broadcast so I can't help with the survey.

ULSHERLAN:
So no point in what he wrote cos it's about pastors right?

Did you read what he wrote at all? Did Celine call on pastor TD Jake's to go donate? Do you think American pastors are different from naija ones? Celine did not wait for them because she knows that waiting would mean those who need help would almost never get the help they need. Daddy freeze can also do same and then call on pastors to Join hands with him. Don't think I have time to be hypocritical. I don't look at pastors face and I don't look at imams face or native doctors face o. If pastor fup I don't do the touch not my anointed shii. What I feel is wrong I will voice my opinion not that I can't change it Sha if enough reason is given.

It's not a scam. Feel free to invest your savings.

Is Celine a pastor. Freeze and his off points Sha. Why doesnt he also donate his one month salary after all Dion is a celebrity and he also is a celebrity too. Not that I think pastors should not donate their tho.

It's well. You could look for a daycare that accepts babies of that age around you. Not the best but instead of nothing you can utilize them and make sure you pay close attention to what is happening to your baby while it's in their care.

iamrex:
twas a post about telling people facts they never knew so that dude dropped his name and he was told a fact, he tried sarcasm, but he was savaged

hahahaha. Now I get it.

For naija even if 1 million people die due to their negligence they will rather call for us to pray for naija instead of bowing out of office na there main one person dey resign because of sex scandal.

What does it mean? I don't get it OP please explain to me na.

Good. Very good we need more of this.

SBG04:
G boys are now looking home. It's like the EFCC is harassing international operations.

They have been looking home since. They started from home but graduated to the abroad because of exchange rate and the nativity of Oyinbo to 419 games.

Roseey0:
U are lucky this one has not gone to Babalawo to cook his tongue.
You would have sent that money without even knowing what you were doing.
Cheap scam
So na 7500 be him pay after the whole drama?
This one is still a learner

They start charging with something small just to keep you invested in the game. After wards they ask for maybe more or a bit less but they will try to take until you decode and logout.

SalamRushdie:
I never carry anything for anyone when travelling not even pencil , I usually tell people if you love me you can save me the trouble by cargoing it urself

I do carry but I make sure you send me the money and I buy the good myself for you or I organise the person who will buy them. I don't carry goods already packaged by unknown persons.

This is not new, it has been used and successfully so for a while now. Someone just wake up and decide to dash you iPhone, laptop and 900 pounds...... They succeed because Nigerians think Oyinbo people or anyone living in obodo oyinbo are all millionaires who can throw away money without looking back. If it was a strange naija guy that wrote those messages from somewhere in naija Will people believe their free goodies so easily?

Wow. If he was caught, many would not believe his story. That is why it is good to inspect goods before helping someone to deliver them abroad .

That is the punishment for armed robbery. I wonder why kidnappers and ritual killers and rapists don't face the same fate too.