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hello its common to find such things in marriage, just discuss it with your husband in a nice ,soft and polite way. is not easy handling inlaws but never the less they will always be there. |
hi abujabooks, cool advice you have here , thanks very much my dear, i must say this forum has given me alot of relieve , i will stick to all the points all of u have given me here. |
hello Mohawkchic, thanks for your advice,i actually had some set expectations which i will wipe them out now and accept the transition.I will also try to be patient, i don't understand when u say every man needs his ego to be stroke now and then, what does it means my dear? |
Hello sista woman thanks very much for your advice, im 29years old and my hubby is 36, he takes care of my needs. we dated for 12months before getting married we don't live alone a friend of his come to the house for a visit and has not left till date, he's been with us for 7weeks now and his behaviour is not good at all, sometimes when we are in the room he is in the parlour watching tv with the loudest volume even as early as 5.30am he is already up,sometimes his music even distracts me from praying. He has even gone as far as bringing his girlfriend to spend the night with him in our house it has happened trice, when i tried complaining to my husband he said, i should be patient he will go.My husband does not shout at me in public mostly in the house, but sometimes neighbors hear it.he argues almost everything i say and claims to be on the right always sometimes when i ask a simple question, he responds with another question, he was never like this when we were dating, he even said he will make me the happiest woman on earth when we get married but now things are different.He use to be very nice when we were dating, he held me like an egg but now he even say nasty things to me saying im wicked, he wakes me up late night to ask for sex, disturbing my sleep, i find it hard sistawoman, adjusting to this new way of life please tell me what steps to take, im so worried and i don't want to quit the marriage cos my friends will laugh at me. |
quite an interesting and fruitful lecture, keep up and thanks |
quite an interesting thread, my hussy likes putting water in his mouth and shaking it loudly each time he finish eating, it aches me to dead, he never accepts his faults always claiming to be right all the time. sometimes he wakes me late at night to demand for sex these are the habits in him that i hate i wish he could change. |
2tait thanks very much for your advice, i will just follow it and see how things go.thanks for being there for me i was about giving up already. |
Hello nairalanders, i have been married for two months now but my marriage is turning into something else, we are not happy as we use to be when we were dating,my husband even shouts at me, we argue alot even when he is wrong he will never accept his fault. It pains me alot, i really want us to be happy like we were when we were dating, please house help m |
hello gentleman, there is no need waiting for this girl cos she has a boyfriend that she loves, as sista woman has said, just let her be for sometime, no visit, no calls, no mails, if u leave her and she comes back to you then she was meant to be with you, if not move on man |
hi princesa how can u ask if house girls fall in love, understand they are human beings just like your self, they are not meant only to serve ok? back to the thread, i don't believe in this story u said the girl is only 15, how possible could it be that he has been helping this boy over the years does it means she started dating at 10 or 12? |
hi your question is quite vague can u be more explicit? |
Muha i agree with you it seems u are yet to meet the true man,don't give up |
My first love was nice in the beginning but later broke my heart, but i did learn a lesson never to trust any man whole heartedly. When i think of him today i wish i had never known him. This guy really hurt me |
you sound really funny how can u be dating him and his friend at the same time, you seem to like s*x so much.well im happy to hear you have quit God bless u |
@jkpretty "[b]I don't get the reason why a proposal shld be on phone. Is he sooo excited he can't wait till they see. Phone talk, phone toasting, phone fight, phone kiss, phone Duh! Phone proposal again? Soon enough we'll have phone marriage. Shocked" [/b]hahahahahhahahahahahaaha this is really interesting, i won't accept any proposal over the phone. |
Lets not take fingering a five year old child as another topic within a topic. why are u all insulting him, he did it when he was young and it has been a secret but since u ask for it he is just pouring it out. |
Raimond im happy your problem is now solved. God bless you |
Raimond i will start by commenting on your English, it is really nice, how old are you? the girl is pretty yes but she is too young. Besides you have a pretty girlfriend already so i think you should just consider this house girl as your own sister don't let the devil tempt you into doing something wrong,besides she is staying in ur house hw can u be dating her? On a more serious not she is too young don't try to spoil her. |
im getting confused here, i don't understand your topic even. |
Damsal i agree with you. that is such a wonderful and wise proposal. |
it happens to me in the year 2005 i was heart broken but im vry ok now . Iknow how difficult it is but believe me those wounds will heal with time. Try having another girl , move ahead and stop looking back. |
hmmmmmmmmmmmm if i were a guy i would have had something to say if my gf says she is pregnant |
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you already have two kids i see no need for you remarrying again, get a better job and take good care of your children. If you need male company or someone to warm u up get a boyfriend. I pray your ex husband takes you back. wish you success |
you already have two kids i see no need for you remarrying again, get a better job and take good care of your children. If you need male company or someone to warm u up get a boyfriend. I pray your ex husband takes you back. wish you success |
Love has thought me not to trust anyman, it has thought me not to show your partner how deeply u love him. |
My guy is called solomon so i've stored his name on my phone as solo. |
let her keep the pregnancy while u do all the shoping and pre-natal consultation, don't even dare abortion. |
[b]hello please dear try writing to your guy in his mail box or even a hand written letter i don't think he will read this letter and knows its for him, even if he is a member of this forum, he may not get to your topic soon write in his mail box so he can see it even now. I feel for you, i know the kind of emotional truama u are going through, just take it easy so u will not develope heart attack.[/b] |