Or11: The question is for married women. What is/are the reasons that you would avoid or refuse sex with your husband?
My wife's own is when I get lazy at home and I don't help in the house chores e.g cleaning, cooking, bathing the kids etc. She won't fight with me or argue but when I touch her like this, she will find a meaningful excuse. She's tired, not in the mood, headache, tomorrow, I need to shower first and I'm too lazy now etc. I found out myself that it was when I helped at home that there were no excuses, it's always a happy ending.
Mercychen: How can I wish a friend to become a boyfriend by gifting him something? Far from it.
Do you gift all your male friends abi acquaintances something? Be honest, let someone advise you accordingly. You don't need to form with us. For a girl to, especially Nigerian girl to gift a male friend something means he's special to her.
Rachel98: Merry Christmas Everyone. I promise to be brief. Pls Pardon any typo errors. I'm so confused right now. Pls I need mature advice
My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a year now. He's gentle (he talks only when needed, and he listens more), good looking, hard working and smart. He stays in a well furnished apartment. He don't smoke but drinks alcohol only occasionally. Everyone in his area respect him alot elderly, young even little children of age 4 and 5 calls his name and waves at him. I would be like how do this kids know you. He will laugh saying "me self tire". I'm faithful to him and he loves me. Despite my parents are strict, I always find ways to be with him.
Yes, We do have intimacy in our relationship. Now here is the problem. He prefer to have sex with me in an Hotel, which I hate so much. If we're together in his house, he will just say let's go out, the next thing we're in a hotel. He wastes his money on hotels. I don't like it. Maybe we can go there to eat in the restaurants, swim or drink but not to sleep over. Me personally I don't like it. But I have talked to him about it yet he won't listen. I angrily asked him if he's an occult, ritualist, or something.....Or will he die if he have sex in his house. He said God forbid!!
What he displayed yesterday got me really angry like I'm fed up. I'm an auditor in my uncle's firm. My uncle celebrated his birthday/end of the year party in our firm yesterday. There was food and drinks. We the female staffs were the ones that prepared the food. I reserved like 4 take-away packs of rice nd chicken, cake and 3 5alive drinks for my boyfriend. So I called him that I would bring food for him. When I got to his house I gave him the food, he was happy as usual. So He said I should follow him to his car, he tried to touch and have sex with in his car like I'm a prostitute. I told him to stop. I was so angry, I took my hand bag and I went home. He has been calling me since yesterday (16 missed calls now) I haven't pick.
I don't know if I should end this relationship. He behaves like I'm a prostitute or something....I need a good advice I'm confused.
Has he introduced you to any of his relatives? From your write-up, he doesnt value you.
Another quick question is: how or where did you meet him for the first time?
Let us get things straight and stop selling blames indirectly.
Did the tricyclist point a gun to her head and escaped with the child or did she forget the child there?
Negligence or kidnap?
Who looks for change sha? Passenger or rider?
By the way, if it happened in a bus-stop, he could have been caught with the rate of bikers always available at every bus-stop!
For this detty December? If the tricyclist is a bad person, the child is gone. It will take the grace of God for the man to start looking for the mother in this evil world.
Can we now say every potential neighbour who laughs at our children is looking for a particular moment when we are not aware to use our children to make money?
It depends. I have seen where passenger looked for change and driver too.
thesicilian: She left her child in the keke and crossed the road to look for change. That's carelessness, not kidnapping. I'm sure she didn't leave her handbag or phone behind.
You can't blame her that much. You don't expect her to carry her child to be looking for change since she believes she was still coming back.
Besides the wickedness of man, this wasn't supposed to happen. Any of us can lose guard.
EBMedia: COVID-19: How I Was Almost Swindled And Subjected To Quarantine — Amanda Chisom
Nigerian media personality, Amanda Chisom took to her Facebook page to narrated how she was almost defrauded by Ethiopian airline authorities who gave her a fake positive COVID-19 test result, IgbereTV reports.
Helper1991: I got her engaged 2019 after my NYSC, she was in her final year. I met her on facebook, she was a nice girl. Though, as a born again brother I am, she thought I will be bleeping her but to her surprise I didn't do that. Instead I helped her to control herself and drew her closer to God. I engaged her three months into the relationship. She was nice but very aggression. After a year and six months, I discovered that she couldn't be my wife due to the consistent revelations I had at night. I couldn't quit instead, I did 14days fasting asking God to intervent. God did and we separated peacefully. We are still friends til date.
Wakando: She was about to travel abroad, i spent more than a million for her travel, engaged her then she traveled, few weeks later her father called me to stop disturbing his daughter, that I'm too poor to be his son in law
If your fellow guy ask you for #20k now, you will swear heavens you don't have. Now someone you are not even married to, you spent #1millala.
TempleHouse: You must be joking if you’re still hoping for a civil service jobs or employment.
Swallow your pride ! Motivate yourself and learn about online business (not yahoo) that brings returns. Enrol to drive UBER Take private coaching / teaching jobs Get Married!
Marriage is a liability especially to most Naija girls. Continuous billing, inability to pay, you get a fair share of their toxic mouth.
Omicronvaccine: Kogbagidi Sends Zazu Zeh Crooner, Portable, Packing Back to His Village (Photos, Video)
Rising singer and Zazu crooner, Portable, has been sent packing back to his village in Ogun state by his benefactor, IgbereTV reports.
International show promoter, Kogbagidi, sent the rising star packing after he called out popular dancer Poco Lee on social media.
Kogbagidi, had people pack Portable’s belongings and said he should be returned to his village in Sango Ota, Ogun state.
In a video shared on the promoter’s page, he was heard asking the Zazu star if he ever collected a dime from his hand despite all he had done for him. Portable confirmed that Kogbagidi had truly not collected money from him.
Kogbagidi then asked Portable why he was then worried about the money with Poco Lee. The promoter added that the Zazu star did not have a single bit of common sense and told those around him who tried to plead to lead the singer out of his premises.
Portable was heard protesting in the background and claiming that they were sending him packing now that the Zazu song was reigning. Kogbagidi added that he needed his space and the Zazu singer should be taken away. He also said if the singer had been monitored, he wouldn’t have called out Poco Lee online.
Denvacandy: The goal of every student is to graduate from school and secure a good job, but seems the country has changed that line
Graduate since 2016 NYSC done
no employement yet, still in my fathers house with no hope for tomorrow
What course did you study? I don't see this trend changing soon if students don't research on their proposed course. Some courses are just names while others are oversaturated.
Pauldollars: I recently bought this plate of rice for #100 from a roadside vendor in Bauchi State. Food items in most restaurants and eateries in Bauchi State are still very cheap compared to other parts of the North and Nigeria in general. A well known eatery in Bauchi State: Shukurah restaurant charges N500 only for specially prepared Fried rice, jollof rice, pounded yam, semo with other special exquisite cuisines.
Goodlyhrt: The story of my uncle's wedded life is a horrifying one.
My uncle has gotten more than he can ever bargain for in this journey of marriage.
The wife has been a source of sleepless nights and so much pain for my uncle. She is suffering from full blown madness that comes and goes, like when it strikes, my uncle will do all he can to bring her to normal. From endless borrowing to even taking long loans from his place of work to make sure she is revived. Which seems to be futile anyway as before long the illness will come back again.
This has been going on since they got married. And my uncle has been handling the situation like a good husband. There have been three episodes since I started staying with my uncle early 2018 but this last one seems to be the worst of its kind. Made worst actually by the economic situation of the country.
Because the people he goes to for help his christian colleagues in a redeemed parish cannot afford to help him again. Not thier fault.. as things has changed the past few months.
Anguish have taken over my dear uncle. Sometimes I fear for him not to take an extreme measure or for his health not to detoriate further. Do we start talking about millions in debt.
My uncle has become a symbol of "it shall not be my portion" and I don't want to advice him because I will make sure he severes any ties with the wife kpatakpata.
My self I am deeply affected as I cannot watch him suffer and refrain from helping him from the little I have. Right now I have given up my savings that was to fund my binance account for trading. And I will definitely borrow to help him as he's being like my other dad since I came to Lagos.
The story is long I'd have to stop here.
It's a spiritual problem. Take her to MFM for deliverance.
BABANGBALI: what’s this one saying? What has his down below got to do with the problem. You think sey na everybody get problem with their down below like you? To give person advice no be by force o
Shift go front. Shift dey go. You go jam transformer, hug am.
ikennamadu1: Bro lemmi give you one advice .. since her mother and brother are in your house presently.. tell them you want to do a little get together between you and her siblings including her...
* Go out , buy small chops * Buy soft can drinks and red wines * Buy cake
After you must have done all this , call all of them inside .... Start your speech by saying .. you wan to appreciate God for a good and wonderful year.. despite all that happened this year .. God kept us alive ... That this is just a way to say thank You God ... Then say mama , tell your daughter I'm no longer interested in this marriage .. mama despite everything I did for your daughter , she has successfully showed me how wicked and evil she is .. mama can you imagine she has successfully thrown all my family members out of my house.... But whenever yall come around she feel happy... How can a good woman be so evil and wicked to her in-laws .. this is a woman I sacrificed my all for ... Mama at this juncture tell your daughter to pack her things and leave my house.. the children is mine ... I will take care of them .. let her leave with the last born .. I'm no longer interested...
Then sit-down and wait for her kneeling down to beg you .. that she will change ..
So after begging, you think everything will change? She will just wait for chance to kpeme you. Besides her mum will side her.
Family › Re: Dear Wives, Why Do You Deny Your Husband Sex? by deltateam: 7:01pm On Dec 24, 2021
