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Gotocourt:
Omo, na which school Abeg 😂

Guy, any tertiary institution is guilty of this promiscuous lifestyle. Private schools curtailed theirs because of the secondary school lifestyle of dormitory. Schools like University of Benin, University of Port Harcourt, University of Lagos, Federal polytechnic Nekede, Auchi, Bida, Nasarawa, all public schools.

This era of hookup is something else.

Kobojunkie:
The girls were playing wifey to men who lived as husbands, right? Why, in the year 2025, do you go around believing it is OK to condemn the girls for living that way, but not the boys in this case? Is it some bias against the female gender that I sense here?

2. Well, what is clear from their action is that they do not believe they owe you or anyone their virginity. So, the question is really, why do you think it your place to claim that which you have none to offer in return?

The thread is about girls' lose behavior in school, that's why the emphasis is on girls, when girls here start creating topics on boys, it will be balanced.

However, of course the boys are not innocent. It takes two to fornicate. I also have male neighbors that were banging other neighbors' girls. A guy called DJ was shooting his shot on a pregnant girl who was living with her boyfriend at the time, and we condemned him for such move, but the expectant father was murdered and the girl terminated the pregnancy and moved in with that DJ guy.

My point is, the youths in school are living a denigrating life bereaved of any iota of moral compass, a decadence lifestyle, irrespective of the gender.

So a 22 year old girl bought a car, rented her own place and an apartment for her boyfriend? Maybe accommodations in Enugu are not as expensive as it is in Abuja and Lagos.

The picture doesn't look 22 though, maybe she looked older than her age.

As a parent, your daughter said those sentences to you and because you don't have airtime you didn't contact anyone or call her back?

The entire world was marvelled when William Shakespeare fantastically told the story of ROMEO and JULIET, how someone easily gave up her life and his life for love. The world doesn't know that Nigerians will actually bring the fiction to non fiction.

Love is War, war is death. Rest in peace to the dead.

I lived off campus and in a lodge of 45 rooms, more than 15 rooms have campus couples living campus marriage. You will see these girls cooking, washing, cleaning and being wifey.

The tertiary institutions are a crazy place. My experience for four years convinced me that I can never date a student no matter how beautiful she is.

How sex is being given and received in school like two neighbors sharing salt is mind-blowing, many girls you don't need to ask them out, during birthday party, end of the year party, neighbors in the same compound, classmates in the department, staff to students, even the bike men, a Mairuwa got a student pregnant in my school, even a secondary school boy in the University secondary school got a 300 level Sociology girl pregnant too.

Sex is really common and cheap in school. When a neighbor has a birthday and throws a party in the compound, a neighbor must bang a neighbor. Cheating and fornication piqued in school.

School is the place that even the good ones turn wild. Those girls that went to school as a virgin and graduated as a virgin without smooching, sucking, fingering, masturbating, anal sex, send nudes, are quite few and rare.

All these religious hypocritical characters should rest this morning. Because you are not having sex before marriage doesn't make you better than the people doing it. All these funny people self. A lecturer receiving sorting will go to Internet to condemn premarital sex.

Sex is not the only sin, but these religious characters are just so obsessed with it. Some people may not even have sex in the next three months, but they can insult others, steal from office everyday, gossip, bear false witness, fight, smoke everyday, these people collect contracts and do substandard projects and still come online to chants premarital sex.

A government who failed to do good roads that is taking lives will claim holiness over ritualists that are taking the same lives.

Sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex

Sex is spiritual, sex can hinder you, sex can destroy you, sex can do this, sex can do that, sex hinder goals.

With all the sex billionaires are having from Dubai to India, they are still successful.

All these unproductive and illogical Africans camouflaging their inadequacies with religion are becoming annoying.

Lol, the woman faint ke? She should accept the divorce with the heart of a lioness. She doesn't want the divorce and ask the judge to help her plead with her husband to reconcile because SHE HAS NOWHERE TO GO. I guess if she has somewhere to go, she would have willingly walk away.

Seriously, I hate to see marriage disintegrate but divorce is way better than toxicity and chaos in marriage.

The logic and intent of releasing this woman is purely a result of rotten and irredeemable system. Even the kidnapper that terrorised Delta, Benue, Rivers, Edo etc was pardoned as how na?

Tareq1105:
Would you prefer that the woman be killed while the children become orphan and social security to the community bcoz of lack of parental care?

The granpa said he was tired of doing school run at age 80, very close to his grave?

Who would take care of the kids in the event granpa passed on?

Did you read the place that her family is wealthy? Or you pay no attention to where the late husband have siblings and parents?

zero8zero:
Does this amebo and self acclaimed professor of guesstimation aware that the father of the deceased has come out openly to tell us he was the one that pleaded for pardon for the woman.
After sitting down on his laptop writing his usual bullcrap, he will then come back to retract as he had done several times.

Did you purposely refuse to understand the write up or you didn't have the patience to read all.

Didn't you read where he said that Maryam Sanda's wealthy father recruited the deceased's biological father who is a deadbeat father to do the conference just to play to gallery? The Bello Haliru family that adopted the man, raised him, educated him claimed pardoning the woman is the worst form of injustice against any family.

I met names like Sugar, finecountry, fineface, champagne, Nice, Pretty, Document, campaign, Harcourt, Smiles, Kindness, pureheart, Baby and Laughter in Rivers State.

The entire Plateau State must have ancestral history with China.

Some parts of Edo are breathtaking with names too.

It's unbelievably surprising that Oxford and Cambridge are nowhere to be found on this list.

Marriage is a humongous societal fraud. A very big scam. From those gibberish testimonies, I read how these ladies, two ladies didn't take the Men seriously, but they married someone they didn't take seriously because the first one foolishly came as second Jesus to save her from her traditional father, and sponsored her to become a lawyer. Then the second one married him because he opened a salon for her. Even her brother saw how foolish the man was for his sister.

I was waiting for how any of them made the sacrifices that made the marriage good, but none, all the testimonies are on how a man took either financial gamble on them or put his life at risk for them.

None of these women assisted themselves to be financially stable before marrying or assist the victims called husbands to accomplish extraordinary great feat.

I am satisfied with women being Feminist while Men patronize hookups and baby mamas. If Tiwa Savage like she can be Ned Nwoko 12th wife, her business. Toke Makinwa for let Love Machine impregnate her instead of Man na, why Linda Ikeji end up being a babymama?

Awon agent of destruction.

Sandra Maryam was pardoned. Innocent army doctor was burnt, many men died of food poisoning from spouse, paternity fraud.

Shalom.

Believeintruth:
But there was also ASUU strike when Tinubu was governor in fact there was school protests. Even PO increased the lecturers salaries. Abeg look for another lie.

If Peter Obi is better than Tinubu, he wouldn't have kept students and lecturers at home for six months. You statement now is using Tinubu's failure to justify Peter Obi's failure.

They are all fraud.

givedemwotowoto:
The focus here is education so stop derailing. We’re not comparing who got the highest federal allocation or who has the highest oil. We’re comparing who achieved the best in education with the resources available, and Anambra comes out tops.

By the way, Anambra is a much larger commercial city than Enugu. I can tell you haven’t been to either state, maybe haven’t even been to Eastern Nigeria because many of you don’t travel.

This is an attached report of a screenshot, from Vanguard, showing how Anambra State University lecturers were on strike for over six months under the fraudulent Peter Obi.

You said your point is Education, can you prove if Kano State has been on strike under Kwankwaso? Or in your lame understanding, development is limited to Educational sector?

Good road network is not part of development? Or building a hospitals across communities is not development?

I have been to Enugu, and I have been to Awka, I will tell you with full chest that Enugu is more developed than Awka generally.

Under the fraudulent vision of Peter Obi, Anambra have no airport, no international conference center, bad roads, dilapidated NYSC camp, should I talk of the internal ASUU strike or the Catholic -first politics he played?

givedemwotowoto:
Aren’t you ashamed to always compare Anambra to Lagos that has taken trillions of Nigeria’s oil wealth to develop?

I am so ashamed, unlike the shameless you that can't show me where I mentioned Lagos in my comment.

Is Anambra better than Kano under Kwankwaso or Anambra is better than Rivers State or Anambra is better than Enugu?

Stay there and be gloating in denial.

Peter Obi is the most artificially repackaged fraud in Nigeria politics. When you go to Kano, Kwankwaso developmental strides are there, is it roads, schools or hospitals?

Who will argue that Ambode didn't work in Lagos State?

Akpabio even as careless as he could be with his mouth and corruption left legacy projects in Akwa Ibom.

And you will said Rotimi Amaechi didn't work in Rivers State?

Or you didn't see Wike building roads in Abuja currently?

Peter Obi should go and rest. Eight years, Anambra isn't better than Kano nor Rivers State, not even Enugu, so what's the noise about Obi's vision and prudency?

Peter Obi, Tinubu, Atiku are all the same, nothing to write home about any of them.

Saint99:
See, nobody is impeccable, not even Obi himself, but come on, we are tired of leaders looting Nigeria's resources. Obi does not have that track record and that is why people are rooting for him.. The only thing his detractors continue to hold against him is the Pandora Papers and investing money into the businesses in which he has shares. These are nothing compared to the grand scale looting with impunity going on in the country right, left and centre. He is one of the few governors who left office without EFCC chasing him up and down.

Are you not informed or you started following politics yesterday? Someone that invested State money in his family business is not looting State resources or you want to tell me you don't know about the White paper about Peter Obi looting Anambra? Willie Obiano did far better than Peter Obi in terms of development.

givedemwotowoto:
Many of these undercover Agbadorians went from “I’m not a fan of Tinubu” to full time Tinubu attack dogs.







Peter Obi built new school campuses and renovated existing schools throughout Anambra, equipped them, and the results are being felt today. The argument “Peter Obi didn’t build a new school” is a low IQ argument.

I hope Otti doesn’t fall for it and anbandon existing dilapidated schools to build new ones just to satisfy critics. It’s like building a coastal highway of fraud when existing highways are death traps.

https://www.nairaland.com/8071392/schools-peter-obi-built-over

And then after his eight years, Anambra became the best Nigerian State with best schools, best hospitals and best roads? No wonder people are traveling to Anambra for vacation after Peter Obi eight years.

Well, she could genuinely have low libido or being frigid. Didn't you guys discuss sex during the courtship while abstaining?

To avoid this funny scenario, I have sex in my relationship before marriage, and if my girlfriend happens to be a virgin and she's worth waiting for, I will openly and clearly tell her that I am a sexual person, and we are going to have a whole lot of sex in marriage, make her mind dey.

I will rather go have sex outside than to be starved. My girlfriend can't even try this with me. We can go four months without sex, but if I am in the mood, we can go two to three times in a month.

The saddest thing is seeing people justifying the destruction of their homes because North is also Boko Haram infected.

During my NYSC days, I had this Igbo friend that usually boast about the unknown gunmen and how the soldiers are scared of them. I will look at him with pity. How does burning of government facilities and destruction of businesses and killing of citizens, fellow Igbos affect a nonchalant Buhari from Katsina? If the unknown gunmen were destroying things in Abuja, it would have been justified but in South East? I am speechless.

Nigeria is damned, a place where government invent insecurity instead of innovation is no place to survive.

SpencerForbes:
That’s the goal bro. Find someone that wants to be loved not someone that wants to be bought

🚶‍♂️

That brings peace that you never imagined it's possible.

"When the children refused to learn from History, what happened in 20 years ago will repeat itself in the next 20 years"

The saying is right. African States desperately and prematurely jumped on Democracy without considering the fact that we are multi-ethnic society with multifaceted cultural inclination, now Democracy has caused more harm in the continent than any system of government. However, inasmuch as I applaud the revolutionaries, I am worried that the fundamentally corrupt ideology will continue with these new crop of leaders. I haven't seen much difference in Burkina Faso, Mali, Niger etc.

anonimi:
We had democracy before colonialism.

How is Britain and its hereditary head of state and monarch more democratic than old Oyo empire

He said "WEST" which includes USA, Canada, Germany and many other Western countries camouflaging Democracy.

Oyo Empire wasn't and isn't a Democratic society. No Nigerian Pre-Colonial society practiced Democracy. While the Igbos, Tiv, Idoma, Anang etc practiced Non Centralized system which could be fondly called Republican, the likes of Oyo, Sokoto, Benin etc were purely Monarchical.

PS: Britain practiced Parliamentary system of government, not Democracy, and that was why Nigeria started with Parliamentary system of Government immediately after the Independence before the coup.

Her love language is "Giving" buying of gifts and sending money,yet she cannot speak her own love language.

Love wey they use money buy, they no dey pay finish.

I mean the goal is not to be stingy towards one's partner, but to meet someone that is worth it, love has to be genuine and mutual, I don't want to be loved because I am feeding you. I bet if this lady will convince this guy to set her up with reasonable business for her to be self reliant.

I guess that's why I respect my girlfriend, she's got nothing on you, she just wants to be loved, no pressure on you.

I saw someone eating akara and tea, I couldn't stop laughing.

I have drank garri and bread before, even bread and garden eggs, pawpaw and pepper etc.

Baronthecelebri:
Just like that lady that burnt her husband to death, nobody will ever want to marry from that family

Perfect example. She has earned herself a very bad reputation, a stigma that will affect others in her family.

The idea that "where someone comes from doesn’t matter" is mostly untrue in real-life situations.

In our society, where family reputation still carries weight, a person's background often shapes how others see them. Parents owe their children not just care and education, but also good conduct, because their behaviour directly influences their children’s future.

When parents live uprightly, they give their children dignity and opportunities. But when a family's moral character is questionable, it can affect how society treats their children, even if those children are good, respectful, and well-behaved.

That's why in many cases, a person may struggle to find suitors or acceptance, not because of who they are, but because of the reputation of where they come from.

Good name is good...

For the first time this year the DSS has done something right by arresting those two unethical, unprofessional and careless journalists.

If bandits in Katsina are posting videos and Elrufai threatened election observers, does that give the quack journalists liberty to exhibit overzealousness?

Even a 200 level Mass Communication student won't do what they did.

"Imagine securities stopping pastor from entering COCIN church because of a Muslim"

Awon journalists practicing whack journalism.

gerizzim:
She wnts to torment you mentally. Dnt press for further clarification Frm her.
Just ignore her and occupy ur mind with something worthwhile.

Thank you for this.

koladata:
The another person can be her sister, her friend , her mom .... If she said another man will, then that's a red flag

This is logical reasoning, just that the context is a bit misleading. Let's say you asked your girlfriend to come cook for you then she refused, you tell that another person will, realistically, she won't think if your brother or father will do the cooking as the another person, her instincts will tell her that it's another girl, which she's largely correct.

Silentgroper:
Sounds like a joke

Yeah, it was a joke, but does the guy's statement warrant such a response of a joke?