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tanigororo:
This is a test of your confidence as a guy, I guess I will respond with that is even better. At least someone will be doing that for you while I am busy.

Do you even ask your so called Babe the number of guys toasting her/asking-her-out ?
If she claims no other guy, either she is honest which is not good for her, or she is lying which is still not good for her. If truly no other guys coming for her means you are with a leftover girl that other guys don't want; or her claims is false other guys do come after her but decided to be dishonest I may be the other guy here.

I totally agree with you.

Goodmarlian:
You are dating a damaged girl with no emotions,na only you dey the relationship

Lol, I can imagine.

gerizzim:
She wnts to torment you mentally. Dnt press for further clarification Frm her.
Just ignore her and occupy ur mind with something worthwhile.

No need pressing further, commitment just left the relationship. It's all about warming bed now.

MikeofKd:
Both you and Ur partner make Una go find work.

Today is Sunday and most people don't work on Sundays.

writetopoka:
That ends the relationship straight.

It means not only does she have another partner but also the audacity to say it to me is a complete No No

These girls are getting bold about cheating daily. How do you want to convince your boyfriend that it was a joke? Like another person will? The guy's statement didn't warrant that response from her.

immortalcrown:
The guy's reaction, "My pleasure", is correct.

6 more characters needed.

I think so too, a guy who has self esteem know where to draw the lines.

So you are chatting with your girlfriend and she said she's stressed, you promise to give her a thighs massage and she said "Dhor" and you said you won't give her the massage again. And she said if you don't, another person will.

As the boyfriend, what would be your reaction to this statement "If you don't, someone else will"?

My guys in school that year.

Kolonize
Ace
Inikpi
Malex
Apostle
Nolly
Kojofunds
Noble
Demigod
Fumito
Document
Exhibit
Jaja
Bloom
Agbagba
Agbalagba
Cause trouble
Beta pikin
Talking Drum
Oracle
Akpabana

Etc

Funny years in school sha

Why would someone be so cruel towards a child like this? A woman left her child in your care as a trusted boyfriend and the child ended like this? How does he even sleep at night, knowing he X the child?

The feminine urge to be with a man becloud their judgement for the kind of men to be with. I don't understand why a lady would leave her child for a psychopath that fights with her every night.

When you drink kunu geda, Nunu and fura, eat jegele leave, you might have a rethink.

The OP said businessmen that built business empire without a University Degree, but I am still seeing people who got Degree and PhD. Is the OP high on weed from Osogbo?

Femi Otedola
Tony Elumelu
Aliko Dangote
Jim Ovia
Mike Adenuga
Orji Uzor Kalu

They all went to school. University itself especially in Nigeria may not give you the knowledge and skills you need to thrive in your field, however, it is never a waste nor a scam.

tivhador:
HAHAHAHAHAHAH ....... Simping at its best!

Simpson award of the year should be given to the yeye boyfriend.

sabbiboi:
The funny part is the guy said his babe has fish brain . Not knowing he himself has Kpomo brain

Hahaha, that's like pot calling kettle black. Some people behave as if they were not loved at home.

How do people actually d*e while having s*x? Is it that they don't know their limits or natural way to boost libido?

Delimadaddy:
Omo pple de try oh u leave ur babe for full 1yr for NYSC nd something like dis happened nd she tells u nothing happened na only Mouth Gig she did nd u believed nd 4give her 4 full 1yr.... Una de try wella oooo.

People actually the try. The full one year, she visited him, the guy made that arrangement financially, placed her on monthly allowance, bought her a phone.

Why should my girlfriend even give a guy handjob, what would even lead to that?

Savedday2:
Bros, I love cheating partners the mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmost. They are give joy givers.

I just 4give them and use them as intimacy gadgets till dey realize and run for their dear life. I love them, you should also.

Lol, intimacy gadgets ke? But you can't use s*x
to punish a girl unless starving her of it.

koladata:
Never say never... if bill gate daughter cheats on you, won't you forgive her? ... it depends on what I tend to lose in the relationship, it might not really be about money coz i'm not broke, it could be status, paper, children etc. But if what the breakup will ruin doesn't favor me in the long run then I'll stay but won't ever sleep with my two eyes closed because a woman that is capable of cheating doesn't love you anymore and can kill you.

I understand your point, but we are talking about a girl placed on monthly allowance by this yeye guy, he bought her a phone, gave her all his attention. Not that the girl is benefitting him in anyway, except the s*x?

Kobojunkie:
The same way women are able to forgive their cheating men is the same way your guy was able to forgive the girl.

It takes a lot of courage and bravery to walk out of a relationship when one has been cheated on. Sadly, many people who go into dating don't have plans on what to do if it does not work out in their favor. So, they hold on and suffer through it as though by doing so, they are rewarded in some grand way after it all. Unfortunately, it almost always goes downhill from there for most.

2. A reasonable person loved at home by whom? The same person who's cheating on him/her, or by parents who have never cheated on each other. Which one?

Reason should not be based on what others do or have done, but on what is best for one's personal peace and joy.

I couldn't stop laughing at your response. The part that you said people hanged on and suffering as if they will be giving a grand reward for it.

Honestly, the question goes both ways, it's not gender specific. In a generation where these lovers don't even need an excuse to cheat, I can't be stup*d enough to forgive a cheating partner.

Julia25:
Forgiveness is strength because you don't have strength doesn't mean you should undermine those that have🥱.

Strength ke? Una the justify things for this platform sha. I can forgive certain transgressions against me, but a cheating partner is none of it.

Dancebreaker:
Lol. In the West, there is social safety net provided by the govt.
If they get really badly broke, they can get housing and basic support to live. It's only that they have lived a luxury life that basic life may seem like poverty. But millions of Europeans and Americans live such basic life.

It's 9ja that has no govt social support.

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Did Nigerian players pay the kind of taxes those European players are paying?

Sonnobax15:

I'm just angry at the guy😡

Why'd a sensible guy forgive that kind of a Banny when it's very obvious that she had s*x with the corner guy............ wetin dey worry guys of this generation self...

Na me vex pass you. The red flag is so big that you can use it to sew Nigeria flag but Baba chose foolishness as sport.

Cerebellum:
Arindin, the guy thrusted your babe phekus!
The confidence this guy has can really move mountains, ode

Hahaha, the guy is a finished man.

Jacktheripper:
Na prank.

Lol, it's not a prank, it's real, overwhelming evidence.

AkhereOkaka:
I'm a married man with a one year 2 months old daughter. My rules right from our dating days my wife is aware of it. The day you're caught cheating I'm kicking you out immediately to go meet the person you cheated on me with. You don't forgive cheating partner hence she can't and won't change


We rise by lifting others

I respect you for this. Honestly, you and I have the same attitude towards cheating. I don't and can't forgive a cheating partner, no matter the circumstances that lead to the cheating.

These cheaters are sorry because they are caught.

SamuraiXXX:
Where do these animals come from?

Why would you kick your girlfriend, is she a dog?

I guess, we listen, we don't judge.

Jeon:
I can also give footjob , and nothing will happen.

No more 1 character to complete.

She even said the corper guy forced his gbola inside her mouth. How did one force a gbola in a girl's mouth?

Things dey happen sha

I have this friend that is dating a girl, so the girl went for her NYSC and met a guy, a whole lot of things happened. My guy got a glimpse during the girl's birthday, the corper guy posted this girl's picture with caption that can beat William Shakespearean love poem. So when my guy confronted his babe, she said the corper is just a friend, and I told him that his girlfriend is bedding that corper guy, he didn't believe. The girl lied that it was the guy that was pestering her for relationship, my yeye guy wants to go confront the corper guy, I stopped him from displaying foolishness.

I didn't know how he did it, but he just found out, the girl confessed that she only gave the corper guy handjob, that nothing happened.

Why I created this post is how this guy was able to forgive this girl with these overwhelming evidents that she cheated. For those whom have been cheated on, how do a reasonable person that is loved at home forgive a cheating partner?

Dancebreaker:
Some European footballers also go broke after retirement. Bad investment, gambling, substance abuse, financial illiteracy, huge tax arrears bills, demanding family members, etc. Despite that even an average European bank can give you good advice on safe investment of your money as a customer. Never mind the many accountants in private practice everywhere. They can help understand the tax implications of investments.

Mike Tyson once went broke. Many American sportsmen and musicians too.

Clubs should start supporting players right from the Academy level on managing money. The FA too. Footballers' Union must introduce such programmes too.

After retirement, many ex-footballers said they still had good money but became depressed. They had only known football since age of 6 or 7. Suddenly they were at home. The camaraderie of fellow players and the bubble ended. They could not just go out freely. So, locked at home, some turned to alcohol and online gambling.

These days, footballers do their badges before, start a tangible businesst or make inroads into punditry before before retirement.

When those European and American sportsmen go broke, they never rely on the government to feed them. They are not entitled.