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Nonsense and ingredients. She's behaving as if she's not cheating on you. Check her phone, not only Whatsapp, check Snapchat, email and Instagram and see how she entertain other guys, zero boundaries, and she wants to turn you to remote zombie.

While growing up, the sweetest part of Christmas was when counting the days your relatives will return to the village from the city. That euphoria was Lovely, I guess that's why I will always prefer someone telling me she's coming instead of coming unannounced.

My girlfriend did it once after I have repeatedly told her that I don't like surprise visits. Inform me first. She was returning from school and decided to show up unannounced, I was angry but I didn't send her back. When she left that evening, I used one hour to lecture her about understanding someone's feelings and decisions. Till date, I will still insist she called before coming. It is the anticipation of your coming that gladdens my heart, when you come I easily get bored.

The first time I experienced this in Yobe was when I was going for NYSC camp. I was rather amazed than terrified. Our driver drove into it and said it's a normal thing here. I video it and posted it on my status, and people were asking what movie it was.

Marriage have outlived its sanctity. These days we only have people who wants a wedding but don't want marriage. All thanks to the Internet and the wokeism called Gen Z.

Last month, a married woman was being celebrated for sleeping with Chike, let's wait and see if Leonard would be celebrated or the mother of four would be celebrated.

KINGTELLER:
I think most women are applauding what Chike did because they feel cheating in marital affair should be applicable to both partners. To them they feel if the man can cheat, the spouse should be entitled to cheat

This might attribute to the reason we have surge in "bastards" ( pardon my french) in this current generation and the surge for DNA test circulating the media

Aptly put, you nailed it. However, the standard should be that when your partner cheat, you can walk away or work things out, it's entirely your decision. Staying in that relationship or marriage and cheat back mentality is absurd. I have no intention to cheat, but when my partner cheat, she leaves my house, not me going out to cheat.

Stephen0mozzy:
Mehhhnnnn.... She's a keeper.
Me don go praise my babe for dm like this too for being different. Better women dey abeg. Not all of them their brain don lose.

I agree with your last two sentences. We still have good girls, they are rare, but they exist.

ThunderFireAgba:
Not if he would be alive by then. At what age?
That man is actually a novice. After 2023 we saw the indices and told him to team up with Atiku, but his Obident mob advised him otherwise and they will be the end of his political career.

Peter Obi is doing the same mistake Atiku did with Wike, he should have been patient and hanged out with Atiku.

idonhammer:
Tinubu is scared of Obi and kwankanso

the earlier you stopped fooling yourselves the better for you

I will never wish Tinubu to be president of any country but my wishes have nothing to do with reality.

If you are truly a forgetful person, why didn't you forget the breakup?

Good women have finished, her kind are the only ones left on the street.

I used style ask my babe what she thinks about this Chike and Sandra saga, I was ready for a breakup until she started saying nothing justify cheating, and anytime she discovered that I cheat on her, I have lost her. I changed my mind. Why not walk away?

ThunderFireAgba:
Not if he would be alive by then. At what age?
That man is actually a novice. After 2023 we saw the indices and told him to team up with Atiku, but his Obident mob advised him otherwise and they will be the end of his political career.

The career doesn't look promising anymore.

Tinubu should prepare his oath of office speech in 2031 because he is winning this election landslide. I have no penchant for Tinubu but the foolishness of Obi has given him another four years on a platter of gold. Obi can wait till another 12 years to try his luck.

Before a girl tells me no sex before marriage, she must be a virgin. Kpekus she distributed round, e reach my turn you said no sex till marriage. I look like mumu abi? If you are not a virgin, anytime you are visiting, please don't wear pants.

This jandor guy should leave politics and join AY live comedy show.

How Atiku dumped Wike for Ayu and Okowa was one of the most unintelligent political decisions in history, and he is about to make another groundbreaking mistake with this woman.

Atiku, to me, is like those students that went to school, but are not intelligent, so can never pass an exam.

After over 30 years of politics, Atiku have no major support groups apart from those who leech on him during campaign and left after his defeat.

Atiku is too politically clueless.

They don't want to miss heaven, but they don't want to die and go to this heaven.

Enjoyment is in heaven and earthly luxury is vanity, yet, pastors are enjoying earthly luxury at the expense of their gullible followers.

Those who will miss heaven will cry, but Nigerians are already weeping while on earth.

To whom religion is given, common sense is taken.

It seems like Amaechi and Akpabio share ancestral gene. They both have mouth diarrhea. They talked before they think.

Those people shouting he made careless mistakes are Albert Einstein na, so they are above mistake until it happens to them.

I remembered how I made a mistake by sending 29k to the wrong person. My first salary from my new job, I called the person for four days, from his body language, I let everything be.

Nigeria has more bad citizens than bad leaders, the bad leaders are nothing but the reflection of the Nigerian society. The criminal tendencies to cheat the other person is so embedded in us.

Sorry about that experience, but like they said, they will be rescheduled for later dates.

That was how a mother accompanied her daughter to Jamb center yesterday, and instead of asking the officials, they sat down gisting useless gist for four hours. This girl didn't write the Jamb because she was supposed to write with the first batch.

Some candidates were even kidnapped in Benue because of this Jamb.

obonujoker:
I never said I'm not a sinner Sir.

Just that I know my son, I'm convicted of sin, and therefore I plead for God's mercy everyday I wake up and come back.

The difference between I and a pagan traditional worshipper is that I worship the true God by believing and accepting His only begotten Son as my Master, Lord and Saviour.

A pagan traditional worshipper honours fake gods and goddesses by participating in their rites. Which is wrong because it's all deception.

It is the grand delusions for me. This self righteous all knowing mindset, that your own imported religion is the right religion while others are worshippers of the wrong God.

In modern English, the word PAGAN is slandering. The word pagan is religious profiling. Worship your own God and respect others with their choices. You have no moral ground to call others out for doing masquerade, it is what their fathers did long before the thieves came with Bible to brainwashed others like you.

obonujoker:
A sinner is not a Christian, and a Christian is not a sinner.

Anybody doing evil , being an hypocrite, selective sins etc, is only Deceiving themselves, as you cannot deceive God or ourselves.

On the Last day, such people will hear , "Depart from me, I know you not".

Let's not get it twisted

I am not being judgemental as I am a sinner by your religious standards. Answer this question, what makes you think you are not a sinner? And if you say you are a sinner, what makes you different from those you called a sinner or pagan?

There's something about religious people that baffled me all day. The moment an individual calls himself a born again Christian or Muslim, you started seeing how far sense is far from them. They start behaving and talking like APC members.

What's the need for validation in a society that allows freedom of worship? As a Christian, don't mess, as a Christian, don't laugh, as a Christian don't climb bike, everyday. But as a Christian you can hide from your landlord, as a Christian you can lie to your boss to avoid going to work that day, as a Christian you can disturb others in a vehicle by preaching as if you don't know address to your church alter.

Religion is a man's creation to give his soul a purpose and consolation. As a Christian, why don't you relocate to the North so that bandits can help you go live in your mansion in heaven.

All these hypocrites, talking gibberish.

OP

Whether masquerade, New yam festival, Eid, Easter or Christmas.

We are all selective sinners. We choose the sins we are comfortable with and judge others for the ones we are not comfortable with.

If we should go by the standard of Christianity, even Pope and you will never make heaven.

PS: The word " PAGAN" is a Latin word Paganus which means a villager or civilian.

In the 4th century, the Roman Catholic in Rome started using the word to describe non Catholic.

If we should go by the religious meaning of the word PAGAN, any Christian who is not Catholic nor Anglican is a pagan, including all your Daddy G.Os and yourself.

Our parents should have pushed financial literacy on us the way they pushed religion on us while growing up. Like the Bible says, "Money answereth all things"

It's unfortunate that most of parents lack financial literacy and accountability, and it's more tragic that we inherited this abnormally from them. Most Nigerians, people generally, don't know how money works, when their sources of income increase, they upgraded their lifestyle immediately. No investment plans, no clear cut business ideas, no saving culture, just a consumer mindset.

Back in the University, I see people laugh at those students selling awara, pepper meats, doughnuts in class, they were actually considered poor.

In the religion where tithe, offering, donations and charity is so exaggeratedly preached, isn't it logical for members to be taught how to make money, multiply money, invest, save and trade money? Let's not even dive into the section of religion that glorifies poverty as a yardstick for living godly lives, placing emphasis on the many mansions they have in heaven, the heavens they are so pitifully afraid to go by not wanting to die.

Every General Overseer and Chief Iman live in affluence, private Jets, luxurious cars, security guards, mansions in Lagos and Abuja and holiday mansions abroad. Every Sunday, you see multitudes going to church, dressing dandy, and Friday? The roads are blocked for prayers in the mosques. Every Nigerian politician is either a Muslim or Christian, then who is stealing the common wealth if it's an earthly possession for vanity?

The extremism and religious jingoism bestows on us by our parents would have been better if financial literacy was also taught. 40 days fasting and prayer doesn't solve house rent challenge if you don't work, neither does it reduce unemployment if people don't invest.

When you have 2 million, before you buy that iPhone or move to the bigger flat, ask yourself " What should I put this money that would make it yield double in the next six months or one year?

Religion is a man's creation to give his soul a purpose and hope, it won't solve practical life problems. Go to church, go to mosque, when you teach your children CRK, make sure you teach them Economics twice. When you teach them important of tithe, also teach them important of house rent, savings, investment, self employed, learning a skill, dangers of unemployment, effect of entitlement, the dangers of political apathy, benefits of human management and communication, etc.

Most parents raised their children in a rented apartment and die in a rented apartment, the only property left for the children is Bible and Quran. Why not great education, connection, name that opens door?

This article is not to downgrade religious knowledge, it is not an attack on any religion. However, it is a wake up call for us as a people to prepare our children for the real world beyond religion. Religion evolves, television that was considered evil by Deeper Life years ago is in every Deeper life church today. Jehovah Witness made some changes to no blood transfusion doctrine recently, imagine people that have died from it. But Bill Gate children and Microsoft? Dangote and his group of companies?

We all cannot be billionaires, but we can make life better for our children than our parents did.

Push financial literacy and African consciousness to your children, not religion.

Anyebe Francis Augustine
anyebefrancis1997@gmail.com
Demigod

I understand what they did is morally wrong, but we are still backward in this clime. Why stripping two adults naked for having consensual sex?

The husband can file for a divorce and conduct DNA to be sure.

The saddest thing is that people don't even need any reason to cheat these days. Getting married in this generation is terrifying.

I have this strong belief that I will never check my partner's phone, funny enough, it's not out of trust, but something that doesn't freak me. I have never checked a girl's phone before.

The first time I decided to check my current girlfriend's phone, I saw a very inappropriate chats between her and her elder sister's fiance, the man was asking when last she kissed, if she had been in love, always wanting video call.

The second time I checked her phone, her friend's ex who she once told me tried to ask her out, I saw her she started giving him attention, agreed when the guy asked to visit her, she took him to her choir rehearsal, asked him to buy her a drink. The guy is always telling her that he misses her, even when my girlfriend travels to Lafia, the guy was the first person she called to inform that she was around, and when the guy didn't answer, she was disappointed the guy didn't call her back.

Loyalty has been thrown to the dogs, getting married in this generation is so scary.

seppuku:
But I thought the Igbos have no King?

A king that the colonial government created for them for the purpose of effective colonialism. They are the same like Tiv and Idoma. Prior to colonialism, they were non centralized States.

That's the colonial psychological game. Any evil is black, like black market, black sheep, devil whom the Bible describes as the most beautiful is now black with horns, but Jesus died on Friday and it's Good Friday. Religion is a scam.

These Igbo guys in diaspora are definitely high on something. What's the obsession of having a king in a foreign land? Og what use are the Kings at home? Can't you do your business in peace?

I condemned violence of any form, but these Igbos are definitely losing it.

When I read stuff like this, I wonder if the OP wasn't brought up in love, if he isn't loved at home that makes him to be begging for love where it doesn't exist.

Perhaps, you want to be a victim of disastrous marriage by all means. A woman that will become your wife will mother your children, and such woman is such an irrational religious jingoist, incapable of making sound decisions without her pastor's input, and you are not worried?

Better save yourself from that tragic joke you are about to entrap yourself in the name of marriage.

I have listened to the advice given.

Dogalmighty17:
As far as I'm concerned, he is the best governor to emerge from Nasarawa state. He is building a number of flyovers and underpasses that will put to an end the gridlock in Nyanya and Mararaba axis. If dat goslow never do you shege you no go understand wetin I dey talk about.

Get your facts right. The Mararaba roads are being upgraded by Federal government, not any yeye Sule Audu.