₦airaland Forum

Villa12:
The guy is from a rich home

We are all hustlers, rich or poor, hustling continues.

Genesiszero:
that's the code niggah, no Time for emotional manipulation, you can't stay faithful? you go!!! very simple. I ain't no gonna forgive cheating, I ain't a cheat either. can't raise a bastard.

Walahi guy. If you are mine, be mine and if you are not then you are not. The funniest thing was I gave this girl what she asked for, money for business, treatment or hair. She took shirts from my wardrobe, we talked about our s*x life, but girls are always girls.

God is just using all means to tell me that marriage is not for me.

Joygiver, how this ladies sense the work is quite unimaginable.

Actually, I have never thought about this question before, perhaps, it's natural for women to know how to cook especially in Africa. Most women I have a thing with are good cook, but most of them are poor in that sexual aspect.

I will still choose good cook, we can patiently learn the bedmatics together.

This was how I broke up with one girl last year after I introduced her to my Mom and elder brother.

She thought she can LovePeddler her life and I will be stupid enough to go waste my money marrying baggage.

After my constant warning and advice that I don't forgive any cheating or attempt to cheat, she still foolishly go visit a man who was asking her out in a hotel, and she thought I won't know. Before then, I already read chats with other guys and I know this one is for street. I waited for her birthday then broke up with her, she begged, cried, curse, threatened suicide, make she kill herself, there are too many whores already.

God abeg ooo.

I don't support violence but the woman deserve this treatment. What the fuckery is this cheating? If you don't love a man,why marrying him? And if you love him, why cheating on him? If your ex or lover is that good, then why marrying another person? There are things women do that even God will be confused.

May I not be a victim, any woman that decide to do this to me may not be this lucky.

Skooltynz:
DNA test will destroy many marriages in this country.

So cheating while married and paternity fraud won't destroy marriage, but discovering the crime will?

LoL. In this life, just continue to hustle. When God decides to answer your prayers, hustle go pay.

All I see in this picture is a guy hustling for the bag.

Honestly, you can't do this to me and go scot-free. I will destroy your life. We have so many ways to kill a dog and the traditional way is one of them. I will destroy your life totally.

Bunch of lazy, unproductive, shallow minded, emotionally unstable, hoe.

Gerrard59:
Another Nigerian man gets into a relationship where the lady doesn't genuinely like him. I don't understand some of you people. A woman who likes you would spend on you and do things genuinely. My Burkinabe friend had this Burmese girlfriend cook for him, buys him clothes and iPhone accessories WITHOUT him asking. To date, he has not spent a yen on her. It was all genuine. If it didn't dey, it didn't dey. She even stayed in his apartment for a week before returning to where she studies.

Such ladies exist but very rare in Nigeria. These girls just believe they offer you the pussy and you subscribe. But no sex and too much billing is the Fraud of the century.

Gerrard59:
I think ladies who want to be celibate while dating should stick to men who are also celibate. Dating a sexually active man yet complaining that he cheats on her is foolhardy and dishonest. I like being straightforward. Should I date such a woman when I am sexually active, I will inform her that I will fvck outside, but she should not complain.

I dislike dishonest people.

You took the thought out of me. I totally agree with this opinion of yours. A celibate girl shouldn't be in a relationship with a sexually active partner. And no excessive billing, Period.

talk2hb1:
Girls will always bill you, it's their natural instinct.
Imagine a girl telling you to send her money because you call her fine girl, don't take it personal when they do that.
First never try to impress them (girls) with money, let them impress you before you give them a dime, let them earn it.

You are right. I don't throw my money on girls anyhow. Unless genuine ones.

YoshihideSuga:
VinnyBaba,

Have you seen why you should NEVER try to dictate how much a man should spend HIS OWN MONEY? Is there any land in Ughelli that costs more than a plot in Abuja?

@demigod22, I'm curious, what does your guy do for the a living?

He is into Tech, freelancing for some firms in USA and Canada.

Trustmea:
Hmmm there is one i meet recently that said no sex untill marriage. She accepted to date me but i won't hot spot till i marry her. She is virgin though from the way she act. Anyways she doesn't bill me oh but i am sexually active. I just dey imagine the possibility of us staying together with those her beautiful asset without accessing them

When I am ready for marriage, and she is a virgin and she is not billing me, I will date her for one year, then we will marry. That's if she is my kind of woman, but honestly, I will cheat on her for that one year. I can't stay two weeks without sex, I almost die during NYSC camp.

Dyfynezz12:
How do u confirm if a girl is a virgin

By putting the tip of your penis or finger.

Tallesty1:
The no sex condition can come from a man

Yes, I told him that he should tell the girl to give him money and he won't be having sex with her. Why do girls feel like it's okay for guys to give them money and not doing anything with the guy?

talk2hb1:
This Billing you are talking about, did she put gun to his head? No
Does she ever forced him to drop requested money? No
You Don't need to advise your friend to dump her, all he has to do is say no.
If he is comfortable with the no sex relationship, what's wrong in that
He might be benefiting in another way from the girl beyond sex.
If he want sex, he should get another girl that will give him sex back2back.

If you have meet a billing girl before you won't be saying this. How do you enjoy a relationship with a girl when everyday conversation ends with billing, a girl that calls a boyfriend that she is hungry?

Well, the guy asked for my opinion and I told him that I can't do such relationship.

helinues:
Change the car. Why should you be wasting money on buying fuel all the time

Words of wisdom on marble.

KingEarnest:
I envy her.

Hahaha.

Mental health is underrated in Nigeria. All these rough- violence inclined sexual kink is as a result of trauma.

Some ladies were taken by force the first time she had sex, others were raped, assaulted. And since they didn't go for therapy to properly heal, it has become part of them.

So many damaged people out there.

I had a girl that always want me to beat her for everything. I ended the relationship. Another one came, whenever I want to have sex with her and she said know, she wants me to beat her to submission. Gosh, I grew up in a healthy home, had great education, well exposed and read, I won't allow these victims of improper first time sexual violence destroy my sexual life.

helinues:
So what's stopping you from cruising around?

The car want to be fueled and not doing her work.

VinnyBaba:
Your Guy na Confirm MUMU.

In my community in Ughelli, Delta State, a Good Piece of land is 850K.

Well, I can't tell a rich man how to spend his money. He already has three plots of land in Abuja.

After paying the girl 200k, he collected an apartment in a hotel, that's suites that cost 150k per night for three days.

iamtardey:
FxckIt - she should go fxck herself.
#NoDeal

The simping neighbor of mine is reading these comments. If he didn't do the needful then he is doomed.

No deal.

If you don't have money, why didn't you do soapy instead of this embarrassment?

My guy paid 200k for hookup last week. Both the girl and himself were satisfied.

KingEarnest:
She don catch maga!

Hahaha, big, juicy, fat maga.

Kornfusedman:
It's like asking me "Do you want to be a Simp?"

NEVER.