₦airaland Forum

I will attend Christmas party on 24th December in my area till morning. Then I will go to church, after Mass, I will eat, sleep, when my girlfriend comes, I will introduce her to my Mom, buy them drinks and when she leaves, I will go hangout with friends.

I have realized this mistake long time ago. As far as you are not my sister, girlfriend or worthy friend, as a girl, you won't get anything from me. I am not stingy nor mean, but I am reasonable enough not to be taken for a stupid person.

Interesting.

Our conservative nature kind of protect us from some self inflicted disillusionment. I am glad Nigeria is reasonable enough.

However, the aspect that a partner gets the property after a spouse's death, I think writing one's Will should be highly encouraged.

This look more like a content to me, but there's nothing special about this. We have handsome men in all spheres of life...

She is kind and rare, if not because of the selfish and entitlement mentality of girls these days, this shouldn't be a thing to celebrate about, it should be one of the things we do for people we love.

Girls are frustrating men with financial pressure and unreasonable demands, with zero productivity to contribute in the relationship.

When I met my girlfriend and she is not demanding, I was confused because it has become a norm that girls will wound you with billings, but my girlfriend will never ask for anything, and when you give her, she still won't accept, as far as you are always chatting with her or answering her calls, she is cool. I am thinking about marriage now.

When you lost a loved one and I see you crying, I can quite understand, but seeing a full grown African Man crying because he is getting married is absolute nonsense and stupidity.

We are so doomed to the point of learning expression of emotions from White man? Why exactly are you crying for?

The annoying thing is that 80 percent of this new couples have had countless s*x before marriage, so why the charade display of this weakling and childish behavior?

You get married you cry.

You discovered that you fathered another man's children, you still cry.

Beautiful Town crier.

For this protest and chaos in Nigeria, man has more important struggles than just keeping a woman.

Love doesn't make marriage work.

Prayers don't make marriage work.

Money don't make marriage work.

We have seen good women broken by men who don't appreciate great things in their lives.

And we have seen almost perfect men destroyed by women too.

Marriage doesn't have template.

Lol, honestly, I will always be grateful for being a Nigerian. My country, no matter how things are not working, the hard work, smart work, humour and living life is second to none.

Nigerians are unique and overly talented.

Most people are sad, with smiling faces and broken hearts.

At some point in life, you have to stand alone.

They said blood is thicker than water, but life taught me that Love is thicker than Blood.

Being a good person doesn't guarantee good life. People will still mess you up.

Anyone that put food in your mouth, by all means, don't ever forget such a person.

Could God be so afraid of His own creation that he chooses to live in heaven?

The little help you give others today will go a long way, the best investment is investing in people.

Intelligence and Making money are two different things.

Don't conclude your story yet while you are still alive.

Be kind to yourself.

Etc.

Nairaland men will choose the old woman, anything to avoid billing pussy is welcome.

But only God knows the low self-esteem you are going through for you to bring yourself to this gutter level of comparison with Grandma on social media. That's another reason why they will not choose you.

However, you have advertised yourself, the hook up customers have taken note.

The guy see an opportunity and he went for it. It is not a new thing, girls dumb broke guys for rich guys everyday.

I will never settle for broke girls, that's why I am working my ass off.

Ilekokonit:
Someone I know in the UK lost 2 houses and 3 kids to his wife. I saw him a few months after the separation and the guy said he was going to go to all the beaches from Lagos to Benin republic and bury juju at the beaches against his wife. I pleaded with him not to do so as it might affect his daughters and he answered back saying he does not care if it affects the daughters and in fact he thinks it is better if it affects the daughters as that will teach them a lesson not to treat their future husbands the way their mum treated him.

I have another friend in the same UK who was at work and his wife told his 10 year old son to throw his Dad's things out of the window into the street. The same wife once told him on their way from Church to stop playing Sunny Ade music in his car if their children were in the car as she does not want her kids spoken English to be as bad as their Dads.

This is terrible. You can't do this to me and enjoy your life. I will squashed it instantly.

kalufelix:
marriage ended a long time ago (with the gen x) IMO..this is what you get when you rope yourself with a woman because the society has made you to believe that you are old enough to commit to the baggage of a wh¤re @35...

I like your statement bro. Marriage is past tense now.

Villa12:
The guy is from a rich home

We are all hustlers, rich or poor, hustling continues.

Genesiszero:
that's the code niggah, no Time for emotional manipulation, you can't stay faithful? you go!!! very simple. I ain't no gonna forgive cheating, I ain't a cheat either. can't raise a bastard.

Walahi guy. If you are mine, be mine and if you are not then you are not. The funniest thing was I gave this girl what she asked for, money for business, treatment or hair. She took shirts from my wardrobe, we talked about our s*x life, but girls are always girls.

God is just using all means to tell me that marriage is not for me.

Joygiver, how this ladies sense the work is quite unimaginable.

Actually, I have never thought about this question before, perhaps, it's natural for women to know how to cook especially in Africa. Most women I have a thing with are good cook, but most of them are poor in that sexual aspect.

I will still choose good cook, we can patiently learn the bedmatics together.

This was how I broke up with one girl last year after I introduced her to my Mom and elder brother.

She thought she can LovePeddler her life and I will be stupid enough to go waste my money marrying baggage.

After my constant warning and advice that I don't forgive any cheating or attempt to cheat, she still foolishly go visit a man who was asking her out in a hotel, and she thought I won't know. Before then, I already read chats with other guys and I know this one is for street. I waited for her birthday then broke up with her, she begged, cried, curse, threatened suicide, make she kill herself, there are too many whores already.

God abeg ooo.

I don't support violence but the woman deserve this treatment. What the fuckery is this cheating? If you don't love a man,why marrying him? And if you love him, why cheating on him? If your ex or lover is that good, then why marrying another person? There are things women do that even God will be confused.

May I not be a victim, any woman that decide to do this to me may not be this lucky.

Skooltynz:
DNA test will destroy many marriages in this country.

So cheating while married and paternity fraud won't destroy marriage, but discovering the crime will?

LoL. In this life, just continue to hustle. When God decides to answer your prayers, hustle go pay.

All I see in this picture is a guy hustling for the bag.

Honestly, you can't do this to me and go scot-free. I will destroy your life. We have so many ways to kill a dog and the traditional way is one of them. I will destroy your life totally.

Bunch of lazy, unproductive, shallow minded, emotionally unstable, hoe.

Gerrard59:
Another Nigerian man gets into a relationship where the lady doesn't genuinely like him. I don't understand some of you people. A woman who likes you would spend on you and do things genuinely. My Burkinabe friend had this Burmese girlfriend cook for him, buys him clothes and iPhone accessories WITHOUT him asking. To date, he has not spent a yen on her. It was all genuine. If it didn't dey, it didn't dey. She even stayed in his apartment for a week before returning to where she studies.

Such ladies exist but very rare in Nigeria. These girls just believe they offer you the pussy and you subscribe. But no sex and too much billing is the Fraud of the century.