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How do people actually d*e while having s*x? Is it that they don't know their limits or natural way to boost libido?

Delimadaddy:
Omo pple de try oh u leave ur babe for full 1yr for NYSC nd something like dis happened nd she tells u nothing happened na only Mouth Gig she did nd u believed nd 4give her 4 full 1yr.... Una de try wella oooo.

People actually the try. The full one year, she visited him, the guy made that arrangement financially, placed her on monthly allowance, bought her a phone.

Why should my girlfriend even give a guy handjob, what would even lead to that?

Savedday2:
Bros, I love cheating partners the mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmost. They are give joy givers.

I just 4give them and use them as intimacy gadgets till dey realize and run for their dear life. I love them, you should also.

Lol, intimacy gadgets ke? But you can't use s*x
to punish a girl unless starving her of it.

koladata:
Never say never... if bill gate daughter cheats on you, won't you forgive her? ... it depends on what I tend to lose in the relationship, it might not really be about money coz i'm not broke, it could be status, paper, children etc. But if what the breakup will ruin doesn't favor me in the long run then I'll stay but won't ever sleep with my two eyes closed because a woman that is capable of cheating doesn't love you anymore and can kill you.

I understand your point, but we are talking about a girl placed on monthly allowance by this yeye guy, he bought her a phone, gave her all his attention. Not that the girl is benefitting him in anyway, except the s*x?

Kobojunkie:
The same way women are able to forgive their cheating men is the same way your guy was able to forgive the girl.

It takes a lot of courage and bravery to walk out of a relationship when one has been cheated on. Sadly, many people who go into dating don't have plans on what to do if it does not work out in their favor. So, they hold on and suffer through it as though by doing so, they are rewarded in some grand way after it all. Unfortunately, it almost always goes downhill from there for most.

2. A reasonable person loved at home by whom? The same person who's cheating on him/her, or by parents who have never cheated on each other. Which one?

Reason should not be based on what others do or have done, but on what is best for one's personal peace and joy.

I couldn't stop laughing at your response. The part that you said people hanged on and suffering as if they will be giving a grand reward for it.

Honestly, the question goes both ways, it's not gender specific. In a generation where these lovers don't even need an excuse to cheat, I can't be stup*d enough to forgive a cheating partner.

Julia25:
Forgiveness is strength because you don't have strength doesn't mean you should undermine those that have🥱.

Strength ke? Una the justify things for this platform sha. I can forgive certain transgressions against me, but a cheating partner is none of it.

Dancebreaker:
Lol. In the West, there is social safety net provided by the govt.
If they get really badly broke, they can get housing and basic support to live. It's only that they have lived a luxury life that basic life may seem like poverty. But millions of Europeans and Americans live such basic life.

It's 9ja that has no govt social support.

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Did Nigerian players pay the kind of taxes those European players are paying?

Sonnobax15:

I'm just angry at the guy😡

Why'd a sensible guy forgive that kind of a Banny when it's very obvious that she had s*x with the corner guy............ wetin dey worry guys of this generation self...

Na me vex pass you. The red flag is so big that you can use it to sew Nigeria flag but Baba chose foolishness as sport.

Cerebellum:
Arindin, the guy thrusted your babe phekus!
The confidence this guy has can really move mountains, ode

Hahaha, the guy is a finished man.

Jacktheripper:
Na prank.

Lol, it's not a prank, it's real, overwhelming evidence.

AkhereOkaka:
I'm a married man with a one year 2 months old daughter. My rules right from our dating days my wife is aware of it. The day you're caught cheating I'm kicking you out immediately to go meet the person you cheated on me with. You don't forgive cheating partner hence she can't and won't change


We rise by lifting others

I respect you for this. Honestly, you and I have the same attitude towards cheating. I don't and can't forgive a cheating partner, no matter the circumstances that lead to the cheating.

These cheaters are sorry because they are caught.

SamuraiXXX:
Where do these animals come from?

Why would you kick your girlfriend, is she a dog?

I guess, we listen, we don't judge.

Jeon:
I can also give footjob , and nothing will happen.

No more 1 character to complete.

She even said the corper guy forced his gbola inside her mouth. How did one force a gbola in a girl's mouth?

Things dey happen sha

I have this friend that is dating a girl, so the girl went for her NYSC and met a guy, a whole lot of things happened. My guy got a glimpse during the girl's birthday, the corper guy posted this girl's picture with caption that can beat William Shakespearean love poem. So when my guy confronted his babe, she said the corper is just a friend, and I told him that his girlfriend is bedding that corper guy, he didn't believe. The girl lied that it was the guy that was pestering her for relationship, my yeye guy wants to go confront the corper guy, I stopped him from displaying foolishness.

I didn't know how he did it, but he just found out, the girl confessed that she only gave the corper guy handjob, that nothing happened.

Why I created this post is how this guy was able to forgive this girl with these overwhelming evidents that she cheated. For those whom have been cheated on, how do a reasonable person that is loved at home forgive a cheating partner?

Dancebreaker:
Some European footballers also go broke after retirement. Bad investment, gambling, substance abuse, financial illiteracy, huge tax arrears bills, demanding family members, etc. Despite that even an average European bank can give you good advice on safe investment of your money as a customer. Never mind the many accountants in private practice everywhere. They can help understand the tax implications of investments.

Mike Tyson once went broke. Many American sportsmen and musicians too.

Clubs should start supporting players right from the Academy level on managing money. The FA too. Footballers' Union must introduce such programmes too.

After retirement, many ex-footballers said they still had good money but became depressed. They had only known football since age of 6 or 7. Suddenly they were at home. The camaraderie of fellow players and the bubble ended. They could not just go out freely. So, locked at home, some turned to alcohol and online gambling.

These days, footballers do their badges before, start a tangible businesst or make inroads into punditry before before retirement.

When those European and American sportsmen go broke, they never rely on the government to feed them. They are not entitled.

nedekid:
Who does contribution to humanity help in the present naija reality? Jay Jay okocha is making a living through his betting company to take care of himself and family.
Naija is not a place you say you do anything for humanity, people will demand and take your give away while some will hail you, other will still yab you that you did not do enough. Peter Obi that is going around donating money for borehole, giving money to nursing schools and other critical areas, has the reactions not been negative from some people that have never done anything good before? That is why some considered sabinus foolish for tarring roads in his community in PH, if by mistake his earnings reduces and he goes broke, it is the same people of that community that will yab him and consider him an object of redicle. Ahmed musa that built stadium and others, let him go broke then you see how far if he wount be neglected. Those days guys considered mikel Obi a stingy guy that did nothing for humanity, omo, the guy kept his money, stayed abroad far from hungry people back home, he is currently enjoying his money in retirement. I bet you if he had returned to Nigeria, his story would have been like taribo, rufai and the others.
Omo, if you have money save it, invest it, take care of your family, as a man also enjoy your life, fly to London, Paris, Turkey, China for goodtime, eat the finest cheese, forget about charity aka humanity, cos they wount remember you when the chips are down.
Go and ask of Queen Naomi and that Ibadan radio guy that planned charity event that went south, no be jail them land? To say them use that money buy car, go London or chop am belle full, them no for go jail.

What Peter Obi is doing is not giving back to the society, he is only campaigning. Giving back to society is charity, you are not doing it for gain. A politician who stole from a State, is going about sharing that meagre amount of money, hoping to gain votes in the next election is not giving back to the society.

[quote author=omooba969 post=136544740]Can we be objective for a moment and examine the real reasons for the position we take on this subject. [/quote
Being friends with an ex can feel like a good idea—especially if the breakup was peaceful—but it often comes with hidden risks. Here are the main dangers of being friends with your ex:

1. Emotional Confusion

Old feelings can resurface, making it hard to move on.

You might misinterpret their kindness as a sign they want to rekindle the relationship.



2. Jealousy and Comparisons

Seeing your ex move on (dating someone new, being happy without you) can trigger jealousy or insecurity.

It may also make future partners uncomfortable with your closeness to an ex.



3. Delayed Healing

Constant contact can stop you from fully processing the breakup.

Instead of closing the chapter, you’re keeping it open.



4. Boundaries Become Blurry

What’s okay and what’s not? Hugs, late-night calls, deep talks—these can cross lines and confuse both of you.

It can also create awkward situations with new partners.



5. False Hope

One person might secretly hope for reconciliation, while the other only wants friendship. This imbalance can cause hurt later.



6. Interference in New Relationships

Future partners may feel threatened, leading to distrust or conflict.

You may also find yourself comparing your new partner to your ex.



7. Toxic Patterns Can Continue

If the relationship had unhealthy dynamics (control, manipulation, arguments), those same issues can spill into the “friendship.”




Being friends with your ex can work in rare cases (like co-parenting or a very mutual breakup), but often it slows healing and complicates your emotional life.

What happened to her welfare and career? So my friends cannot eat snacks from outside or what? What kind of crude mentality is this?

This husband must be an Igala man that was raised in the village.

There's a girl in my area that year, the moment she gained admission to the University, the mother took her to the clinic for the contraceptives implant, according to her, she doesn't want the daughter to get pregnant from school.

These generation is nothing to write home about. Morally, academically, financially, spiritually, socially, physically, mentally, psychologically and generally.

They are not thinking anything apart from relationships, s*x and drugs and fraud.

To be blunt and honest with you, I will break up with a girl who feels the friendship between her and her ex is big deal because they are not enemy. Let me rephrase it " I will never date a girl who's friend with her ex or keep constant communication with her ex"

I am not friends with any of my ex, no matter how we were close or sacrifices we have made, once we are done, boundaries are respected. I can like or comment on your post on social media once in a blue moon, but it will be RARE for me to start calling or chatting you.

I don't hate you, I am not toxic, but I don't do ex, currently I don't even have any of my ex contacts, I have too many friends already.

Those shouting emotional maturity and discipline will still go and mess up and blame it on the devil.

Make I discover say my neighbor dey do hookup, food don dey near house be that na.

OP, collect the hookup girl number give me, tell her I am a lawyer and I can help her in a Court - room.

Nigerians abroad should do better, others are taking the advantage of the enabling environment to set pace and put their name in the map of History, others choose to imitate INEC chairman.

Nigeria with this mentality is doomed. Someone should tell this Senator Opeyemi Bamidele that if he like, he should become INEC chairman and declare the governor winner, the governor won't support his governorship ambition he is nurturing.

papyjaypaul:
Explain

He have to resign to join politics,obj was his mentor,but like every mentee in politics he later but the finger that fed him

Audu Ogbe was already a Minister of Communication under Shehu Shagari oo.

Celestialsword:
Ogbe use to work with Obasanjo farm as a manager before Obasanjo drafted him into politics.

He have to resign to join politics,obj was his mentor,but like every mentee in politics he later but the finger that fed him.

But he was a very astute politician.

Lol, be calming down na.
Audu Ogbe was Minister of Communications under the Shehu Shagari Administration.

How come Obasanjo mentored him?

Nnamdipapa:
Mid 30s is still fine as you have matured, seen life experiences, understand yourself better and, able to make quality life decisions

Yeah, I agree.

Nnamdipapa:
Your brothers, what are their experiences? Are they happy or regreting about marrying lates?

The immediate elder brother seems happier, the wife is submissive and productive and respectful and she's really caring and lovely.

The first born, well I don't spend much time with them but he seems in love.

NAC1666:
I wonder why people are quick to judge men if God. Please,fact check before condemning the priest. The profile picture is from face book while the chat is a what's app chat. The picture and the chat are not one. This chat was screenshot to tarnish the image of the priest.

People are quick to judge so called men of God because they're there to set exemplary leadership. And if you are ignorant of their hypocritical tendencies, then so be it.

Zocalite:
Hmmmm

Some facts you broadly stated

If you look at the women people in their 60s or 70s married, what they persevered, their standard

Many women or to an extent men can't withstand it

Eg some women now can't draw well

That's why many people are going to suffer from loneliness in an advanced age.

Kobojunkie:
What generation was cut out for marriage? The generation of your ancestors who were notorious for abandoning wives and children, even for the slightest or just because? Or the generation that shamed abandoned women, labelling them outcasts to keep them from revealing they were abandoned, and why? Or are you referring to the Gen X's who still don't realize that abandonment is pretty much the same as divorce without a formal announcement?

O don't know who taught you History, from my knowledge of history, my ancestors do not abandon women like your ancestors, even when they were polygamous, they had successful marriage.

lollybizzu:
This here is screaming danger.

I have my SIL staying with us and some times, I look at her and pity whoever is gonna marry her or the kind of wife she's gonna be.

I pray God help this generation of young adults.

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Lol, she must be a dancing red flag. We are doing this I don't care what people think until we advance in age then reality hits us.