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RomanceRe: REDPILL Vs FEMINISM: The Disaster Waiting To Happen In Nigerian Marriages by DEMZEE(m): 6:52pm On Dec 13, 2020
REDPILL FOR LIFE!!!!!!!!!!!!!
RomanceRe: When Last Did You Masturbate by DEMZEE(m): 6:48pm On Dec 13, 2020
Almost on a daily basis
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FEMINISM MTSCHEWW

TUEHHHHHHH
RomanceRe: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by DEMZEE(m): 2:00pm On Dec 13, 2020
shaksman96:
but meeehn, jokes apart these two words don suffer 4 ur hand in this thread.
ITS FACTS BOTH MEN AND WOMEN TEND TO LOOK OVER......THAT IS WHY I HAMMER ON IT
RomanceRe: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by DEMZEE(m): 1:03pm On Dec 13, 2020
Magnoliaa:
I see it this way, too. Religious beliefs aside, sex doesn't diminish the worth of a woman that knows herself, her values, is evolved in every way. People act as if marriage in and of itself is something of a reward they have to secure with sexual 'politics'.
Hoes and whores don't make good wives and don't raise good children and don't keep good homes
RomanceRe: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by DEMZEE(m): 11:06am On Dec 13, 2020
wirinet:
How can I be anti marriage when I am happily married, anti children when I have 3 lovely children and anti love when I love my wife?

I am neither pro or anti gay. Whatever people I have no relationship or link to do with their genitals is their own business. As long as rape or paedophilia is not involved.
I'm sure you married ur wife as a virgin

It's not my business also, I m Just stating facts and stats
RomanceRe: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by DEMZEE(m): 11:04am On Dec 13, 2020
kazyhm:
You gave a condition for conditions....?

Natural submission is an old school normal situation in a relationship.......this is a woke regime.

You wouldn't want to be at disadvantage while you provide 100% commitment, attention and resources......it doesn't work that way anymore.......
Yes u can't commit to,give time and attention and even resources to a HOE OR LovePeddler now

HOES AND WHORES don't make the best wives and don't raise the best children and don't keep a good home
RomanceRe: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by DEMZEE(m): 10:58am On Dec 13, 2020
wirinet:
Why only for the woman?

Are you the one to determine how women enjoy sex? Many women are not even interested in marriage and are self sufficient and don't need any man to be materially, emotionally and spiritually complete.


That's hypothetical and not the law. Not all married men have baby mamas. And men is polygamous marriages also gave side chicks and baby mamas.
How do you rationalise polygamy with your views on virginity, sexual fidelity and family values?





There are examples of millions and millions of good successful children raised by single mothers.


Western culture promoted rape? You must be smoking your bible instead of reading it. It's African culture that promotes rape. Women that are raped in Africa are often stigmatised and scared for life, while the male perpetrators are left to go scot free and sometimes celebrated. How many rapists have been convicted in Africa?

Western culture promote divorce to make the man sit up. A woman does not have to endure neglect and abuse because of some misogynistic religious doctrine. If she woman is not happy in her marriage, divorce is an option.


False. We African men want to have our cake and eat it. We want to keep our women who we met and marry as virgins at very young age at home, sealed and wrapped for our pleasure and convenience, while we go conquering other territories (bodies).


Just more Hoephobia (fear of hoes),

Social where is all this your hoephobia rants going? You want to enact sharia like laws banning whoring or hoeing? You want to enforce the stoning to death of hoes, whores and adulteress?

What punishment do you propose for single girls who are not virgins?
I talk based on science and facts

Marriage is the institution that women are the happiest to be in. Women are the ones who celebrate getting married and staying married more than men

Men are polygamous by nature and by African traditions, women are hypergamous by nature.
African traditions frown on men and women who insult marriage institution by not adhering to the rules of the institution. That is why the best way to get married and stay married is by marrying a virgin woman or women who have marriageable qualities.

Statistics show that single mothers raise the most useless set of children in the society.
A functional family where the man and woman, who are not divorced, raise the best and most useful set of children in the society.
Divorce is the worst form of raising children.

Google it up.

Western culture promotes "DIVORCE RAPE" ie men are the most screwed wen it comes to family courts in the western society.
It is so FEM CENTRIC AND BIAS TOWARDS WOMEN SENSIBLE OR NOT AND MAJORITY ARE SENSELESS WOMEN. (HOES AND WHORES)

That is a archaic view of African men and an insult and assault on our intelligence. African Women choosing to be housewives is not a man's choice to make. If a man want to marry a lady and he wants her to be a housewife then he should seek ladies who want to genuinely b housewives to marry and settle down with and especially she must be a virgin with marriageable qualities.

I AM FOR FREEDOM OF CHOICE FOR BOTH GENDERS. IF A WOMAN WANTS TO BE A LovePeddler IM ALL FOR THAT, I SUPPORT LEGALIZED PROSTITUTION AND I AM A BIG FAN OF 5TH WAVE FEMINISM

STATS SHOWS THAT HOES AND WHORES DONT MAKE THE BEST WIVES, RAISE THE BEST CHILDREN AND KEEP A GOOD HOME AND MARRIAGE.

Don't blame women's problems And choices on men that so SEXIST AND STUPID!!!!
Every gender should take responsibility for his or her actions and choices

JEEEZZZZZZ
RomanceRe: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by DEMZEE(m): 10:41am On Dec 13, 2020
wirinet:
Why only for the woman?

Are you the one to determine how women enjoy sex? Many women are not even interested in marriage and are self sufficient and don't need any man to be materially, emotionally and spiritually complete.


That's hypothetical and not the law. Not all married men have baby mamas. And men is polygamous marriages also gave side chicks and baby mamas.
How do you rationalise polygamy with your views on virginity, sexual fidelity and family values?





There are examples of millions and millions of good successful children raised by single mothers.


Western culture promoted rape? You must be smoking your bible instead of reading it. It's African culture that promotes rape. Women that are raped in Africa are often stigmatised and scared for life, while the male perpetrators are left to go scot free and sometimes celebrated. How many rapists have been convicted in Africa?

Western culture promote divorce to make the man sit up. A woman does not have to endure neglect and abuse because of some misogynistic religious doctrine. If she woman is not happy in her marriage, divorce is an option.


False. We African men want to have our cake and eat it. We want to keep our women who we met and marry as virgins at very young age at home, sealed and wrapped for our pleasure and convenience, while we go conquering other territories (bodies).


Just more Hoephobia (fear of hoes),

Social where is all this your hoephobia rants going? You want to enact sharia like laws banning whoring or hoeing? You want to enforce the stoning to death of hoes, whores and adulteress?

What punishment do you propose for single girls who are not virgins?
U are a supporter of anti marriage and anti children and anti love

But I'm very sure u are for pro gay marriage,family and love

Pathetic
RomanceRe: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by DEMZEE(m): 8:45am On Dec 13, 2020
purples25:
Perhaps, who knows.
I know from research and experience
RomanceRe: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by DEMZEE(m): 8:44am On Dec 13, 2020
kazyhm:
Sex will not keep the man. 100% correct


However does financial commitment keep the lady ?
Ladies love conditionally

If he gives her commitment, attention and resources then she will submit to him naturally

That's how women become loyal to their men

Conditions are: she's a virgin and the man is planning to wife her
RomanceRe: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by DEMZEE(m): 8:42am On Dec 13, 2020
shaksman96:
we do try dey upload am, na by grace man no go fall into the hands of lovepeddlers, if no be because of giving ur pikin full parental care who 4 reason marriage matter. procreation go sup without marriage, as for societal pressure, na their own wahala be that.
Exactly family structure na the best to raise and train up a child or children.

It's not about societal pressure

Sex is a choice that has causes and consequences

Unless u no wan give birth sha
RomanceRe: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by DEMZEE(m): 8:17am On Dec 13, 2020
shaksman96:
there little we can do 2 change that, the western culture is already taking over
It's taking over but as men u need to uphold to our tradition and traditional values especially wen it comes to sex and marriage

Make una no marry hoe and whores all because western culture ti take over oo
RomanceRe: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by DEMZEE(m): 8:03am On Dec 13, 2020
Liposure:
unfortunately our morally conscious african society is being eroded by crude western ideas and cultures we copied from the media because we think it is modern and progressive.
Ahbi

That's why we need to uphold our traditions and traditional values especially wen it comes to sex and marriage.

We can't b like the west that has revolutionize sex for women, that is why marriage is worthless over there SMH!!
RomanceRe: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by DEMZEE(m): 7:35am On Dec 13, 2020
wirinet:
You are persisting with your arguing senselessly again. You are the that made a blanket statement that women don't enjoy sex, I debunked it, by pointing it that they pretent because men feels women that shows they enjoy sex are seen as whores, now you are going of the tangent once again by saying women enjoy sex only inside marriage.

Really? You just make up crazy assertions with so much confidence.


African societies that promotes polygamy and female genital mutilation is foolish?
The same western society that gave you your religion, culture, system of governance and economy is foolish? You are obviously delusional.


I don't know about good homes, but hoes and whores raise good children as any Christian or pastor. Most wayward children are children of christians and pastors. You have a conditions known as whorephobia or hoephobia.
Sex is meant to b enjoyed only in marriage for the woman.

Polygamy is our culture, but it is outlawed in the west and yet men in the west still have plenty baby mamas whom they may never marry.

I m not using religion, but I'm using biology, science and my traditional beliefs.

How do u want to raise good children under a single parent system??
It's the worst way,especially single mothers, to raise children.

Western culture that has promoted divorce rape through ur fem centric family court laws

We Africans hate divorce and value marriage, our women and children

HOES AND WHORES DON'T KNOW HOW TO KEEP A GOOD HOME TALKLESS OF RAISING GOOD CHILDREN
RomanceRe: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by DEMZEE(m): 6:59am On Dec 13, 2020
purples25:
Well there's the truth but it's easier said than done.

Kudos to those who can do it though. I guess they're the ones who end up married.
I kinda doubt

But they might be the ones who stay married till death do them apart
RomanceRe: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by DEMZEE(m): 6:57am On Dec 13, 2020
wirinet:
They actually do, but it make the male folks feel uncomfortable to see women show they enjoy sex. That's why they have to pretend and deceive. 99% of women lie about their sexual exploits and experience.

Ever wonder why most African societies cut of a girls clitoris at birth? The society can't stand the thought of women enjoying sex.
Men love it if their wives love sex. Sex is only pure and undiluted in marriage anything outside that is just diminishing the woman's worth or value especially in terms of marriage.

Nooo African societies want to raise good families by ensuring most women are virgins b4 getting married. Then u can enjoy sex with ur husband

African societies don't promote hoes and whoredom for women. We are not like the foolish western society whom have made women and marriage worthless.

Hoes and whores don't raise good children and they don't keep a good home
RomanceRe: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by DEMZEE(m): 12:01am On Dec 13, 2020
purples25:
If we want to see road, everyone has to tone down on their desires. That's the beginning of the language of a true relationship and love : SACRIFICE.

Part of relationships is sacrifice for the right reasons. Not because he wants to have sex or because she needs to be spent on to be happy.

Its hard but both parties need to agree for something sensible to happen. And that's what shows they are serious, because they are ready to take that road of working together.
It's makes sense on paper but that's not our societal reality
RomanceRe: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by DEMZEE(m): 11:50pm On Dec 12, 2020
purples25:
Who said sex is an assurance that a man will give a woman all these? Are we not even in an age where men expect to have sex without a woman collecting anything, else she is a gold digger? Its not as simple as that..

No sex, no financial giving can be agreed on. Both parties can give attention and love without weaponizing it as a trade for sex or money. From giving love and attention to each other, they can see if they are compatible. If they are, good. If they are not, they part ways. This way nobody is severely hurt. Cuz everyone gave equally.
But men love sexually and women love conditionally

So it's kinda unrealistic to downplay the role of sex and money in a relationship
RomanceRe: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by DEMZEE(m): 11:22pm On Dec 12, 2020
purples25:
And that is why sex is not necessary in a relationship.

Because of choices and consequences. Of which the choice and consequence is not favorable to the woman. grin
But you want to receive commitment, attention and resources from the man and its also Not fair and favorable to him if he doesn't receive sex in return
RomanceRe: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by DEMZEE(m): 11:10pm On Dec 12, 2020
purples25:
Who made man a judge
Through whom women pass
Losing their virtue if they don't pass a man's test
Being fvcked and dumped for nothing.

What right does any man have to run through someone's daughter and leave her without virtue?

OK life isn't fair for both genders anyway.
Exactly life aint fair

Nobody is a judge or been judge

It's all about choices and consequences
RomanceRe: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by DEMZEE(m): 11:09pm On Dec 12, 2020
Liposure:
men love sex. Women weaponise it
Gbammmmmmm
RomanceRe: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by DEMZEE(m): 11:03pm On Dec 12, 2020
fati2001:
KING OF HARLOT AND ALL THE ABOMINATIONS IN THE UNIVERSAL....




COMING FOR SOMEONE WHO SIN AGAINST HIS OWN BODY....


GODFORBIH.


PUBLIC DICK HOLDER, PREMARITAL SEX MASTER!!
Goodnight make sure you masturbate tight

Kisses******
RomanceRe: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by DEMZEE(m): 11:00pm On Dec 12, 2020
favor914:
Who told you?
I have not heard it as a norm that women pay for sex just because they love it so much
RomanceRe: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by DEMZEE(m): 11:00pm On Dec 12, 2020
purples25:
If only men would just marry and love their virgins first and last. Oh well.

Lets hope all the remaining and upcoming virgins are only picked up by men ready for marriage who will wife them up and instantly love them.

Asides this, I wouldn't advice any virgin to give in believing that he's going to love her or something. Based on the deal, marriage first.
That's the whole point of being a virgin, it has a good marriageable quality with it.

But there are also other marriageable qualities that she should also have.

If she doesn't have such qualities she will b bleeped and dumped
RomanceRe: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by DEMZEE(m): 10:57pm On Dec 12, 2020
fati2001:
DOUBLE STANDARD KING OF ALL RAPISTS...


WHY EN DY PAIN YOU? ... SHEY YOU SAY YOU LIKE TO PROMOTE IMMORALITIES AND DECEIVING THE LOST SOULS..
QUEEN OF ALL HARLOTS BOTH PHYSICAL AND METAPHYSICAL

TUEHHHHHHH
RomanceRe: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by DEMZEE(m): 10:55pm On Dec 12, 2020
Liposure:
its becos women are sexually reluctant. why do you think men pay prostitutes to have sex with them when sex is free
Exactly women are very calculative wen it comes to sex

That is why I doubt if women enjoy sex so much.

Men love sex and can pay anything to have it but women don't
RomanceRe: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by DEMZEE(m): 10:49pm On Dec 12, 2020
fati2001:
yes ooh, the master of immortality and calamities.... promoting premarital sex.
Double standard Queen of all bitches
RomanceRe: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by DEMZEE(m): 10:45pm On Dec 12, 2020
fati2001:
okay ooo, PUBLIC DICK HOLDER OOH.
Okay ooo barren LovePeddler ooh
RomanceRe: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by DEMZEE(m): 10:41pm On Dec 12, 2020
fati2001:
I can feel ur pain... nobody force you to lose you virginity to premarital sex and become polygamous in nature... .. MR WORLD WIDE DICK HOLDER......


IT IS CHOICE, SO I CHOOSE TO STAY ON THE PATH
My dick is on plugged

I don't know why you are ashamed of ur marriage and children though

Pathetic!!!
RomanceRe: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by DEMZEE(m): 10:35pm On Dec 12, 2020
purples25:
cheesy cheesy

You THINK?

All women used to be virgins, not so? If we calculate by that, then a lot more women would be married by now. Because the men who took them first would have loved them and therefore secured more of them through maximum effort.

No, a man can disvirgin a girl, and feel nothing for her.
Lemme break it down for u

Wen it comes to marriage, MEN CHOOSE TO WIFE A VIRGIN AND ONLY HER CAN RECEIVE THAT TRUE NATURE OF MEN LOVING EMOTIONALLY AND SEXUALLY

We also have other qualities we seek from the virgin, not all virgins have marriageable qualities

Wen women look at men they don't get attracted to his penis straight up, they are attracted by his financial status

Wen men look at women we are not attracted to ur financial status but ur physical being (sexuality)

That's why women are sexual objects and men are success objects
RomanceRe: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by DEMZEE(m): 10:33pm On Dec 12, 2020
fati2001:
y so pissed off....


is it you?
Don't Quote me again

U overstretched pussy of a woman tuehhhhhhh

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