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Misslilbootay:
FYI
She has never asked the guy for money

Women need commitment, attention and resources asides others before they can submit to a man.

Women love conditionally

So she's getting either of those three or even all three from the guy

Misslilbootay:
I am not a virgin because the guy I dated before made it seem like sex was the only thing that could keep him.
Unfortunately, that is another story of its own.


Recently, a friend of mine came and asked me if sex was necessary to keep a relationship. She told me the guy has given her everything she needed in a man but he couldn't stop asking for sex. She said that she wasn't ready to compromise her faith that premarital sex was a sin but she didn't want to lose this guy as he felt that her refusal to have sex with him meant she didn't love him.

The question I'm throwing now is
1. Can a man stay without sex in a relationship and wait till she is ready. (As in this case, she wants to wait till she is married)
2. Why is sex so important to men in a relationship? Do they see it as reciprocating of love especially when they spend heavily on the lady?
3. Also, most men wants a decent lady. Here is a lady who wants to keep herself for her husband but the boyfriend sees it as she manipulating him. Since you guys want a lady that isn't a borehole, why do you demand for sex when you are not sure if it will work out?

Your intelligent opinions will be appreciated.

1)Virginity is a man's worst nightmare, so a man should never marry as a VIRGIN. BUT VIRGINITY IS A WOMAN'S TREASURE.

2)Sex is very important in a relationship because that's the only thing a man cannot do to himself. Men want women, women need men.
In a relationship men drop commitment, attention and resources asides others while women drop sex and submission asides others

3)BECAUSE MEN NEED WOMEN, WE ARE ALWAYS IN A DILEMMA. Men are polygamous by nature so we have to acknowledge this nature and also confirm to monogamy structure and its difficult because most men constantly fight this nature.
Men see women firstly as sex objects before anything else.
WE WANT TO WIFE VIRGINS who have good marriageable qualities BECAUSE THEY RAISE THE BEST CHILDREN AND KEEP A GOOD HOME.

So if women can accept men are polygamous by nature then there won't be constant cases of cheating and women will enjoy their husbands.

We Bleep hoes and whores but wife virgins that's our natural makeup.

YES SEX IS VERY IMPORTANT IN A RELATIONSHIP JUST LIKE MONEY IS VERY IMPORTANT IN A RELATIONSHIP

MEN ARE MEASURED BY THE SIZE OF THEIR POCKETS ASIDES OTHER THINGS WEN IT COMES TO A RELATIONSHIP, WOMEN ARE MEASURED BY THEIR PHYSICAL BEING WHICH IS SEXUAL IN NATURE ASIDES OTHER THINGS WEN IT COMES TO A RELATIONSHIP

Buliwyf:
This had me laughing like hell. Your conscience is partly a product of your nurture. If you were born in a warring tribe that believes in killing as many people as possible like the Aztecs, your conscience will not find killing to be unpalatable. Your god is man made and a figment of your imagination.

WHY ARE U USING SITUATIONAL ETHICS

ARE U TELLING ME MURDER IS GOOD??

generationz:
Same pussy being used against young girls who are raped and murdered in your country by useless men?
Same pussy being used when women are promised work but trafficked for sex abi?

Go and sleep, abeg.

Nevertheless it's THE POWER OF THE WOMAN

GavelSlam:
Ok.

Don't support him simply because he wears the christian toga.

I m not supporting anyone

GavelSlam:
Please point out where I did.

Just saying �

GavelSlam:
We are encouraging them to come forward.

Good

Don't judge people based on their religious beliefs please

ibuildstuff:
Ya but a country with majority population as atheist is considered an atheist country.

Even France was never a full atheistic country back then

France during the French revolution abolished God and religion and conscience

GavelSlam:
The grounds for prosecution have been made easier.

His victims should come forward.

They should not be forced to come forward jeez

But they should be encouraged to come forward

GavelSlam:
Seems you don't even understand this thread.

The man has confessed his wrongdoings.

I'm saying that is not enough.

He should be prosecuted.

Did you read me say he should he jailed?

Wen charges are set, then he should be prosecuted

But till then he should be left alone

U can't force prosecution nah

Don't b emotional about the issue please

ibuildstuff:
China, Japan, Iceland and many other countries way better then Nigeria are all atheist nation.

No country is fully atheistic

France did it and ended up in chaos and lots of deaths during the FRENCH revolution

GavelSlam:
And who on this thread has suggested people aren't free to practice their religion?

What people are saying is simple - despite one's religion, he/she should be prosecuted for crimes committed.

Appears you have a problem with that.

No I have a problem wen u judge someone because of its religious beliefs.

Wats the difference between Wat u hate about religion in respect to judging and condemning others because of their beliefs and nd what u are doing

He hasn't been prosecuted, no charges have been filed and yet u people are just dwelling on accusations

If charges are set then he will have his day in court even with this public apology

GavelSlam:
And what do they practice today in France?


What do Nigerians practice and how is that faring?

France is a secular state that respects religious rights and liberties

Nigeria is a conservative state that respects religious rights and liberties

GavelSlam:
Morality.

They would not do unto others what they wouldn't want done to them.

That's why French revolution which practiced atheism and humanism at its peak ended up with chaos and lots of deaths

ibuildstuff:
God is man made, without man, no god.

Secondly, u should read on who a humanist is.

Finally if u need religion to be a good person then u are not a good person.

Man is God made and without God there will be no man.

I have read about humanism and all

I don't believe you need religion to be a good or bad person, religion is just making humans reference God our maker, the beginning and the end.

Humanism is idealistic and utopian in nature and is not going to solve the problems of the world cos humans are so complex.

God is the ultimate standard for good and evil, that's why we have conscience

U can't use ur mind to rationalize good and evil

Unless you want to be naive

Timiofak:
No need answering you

If it was before the election I would have done, so that people that want to vote would see reason why. And I done that various times here

Now that Biden won the highest vote of any POTUS ever

I don't need to validate why

”FVCK YOUR FEELINGS”— TRUMP 2016

Okk

ibuildstuff:
It's funny how someone can commit murder, rape and all sort of evil, then pray for forgiveness and go to heaven but an atheist that commit no crime will go to hell according to your Bible.

Because God is bigger than man and no man is infallible

Wat u said is a fallacy

Wat does atheism use as standard for morality??

Timiofak:
Yeah obviously

They are two different races

in fact I have seen black people being racist to white people

Okayyy good

Timiofak:
What's more to acknowledge? Hillary conceded on the night of the election, Obama invited him, his wife and pences family 2 days after election, for transition ( which he botched ), on inauguration day Obama, Michelle, Hillary e.t.c were there

So what wrong did they do him?

Oh, you mean the investigations into the meddling of the election by Russia? Which intelligence reports confirmed they did interfere?

Lmao. Y'all know nothing

Trump is a goddamn loser, he knew he would lose and he would take it to the Supreme Court, that's why he kept pressuring for Amy's confirmation and told his voters not to vote by mail

He felt like was playing 4d chess

Meanwhile, he is just an orange-faced Buffon who would be the first president to lose the popular vote twice, get impeached and be a one-term President.

Why do you prefer sleepy Joe Biden and abortionist Harris to Donald Trump

generationz:
Is he supposed to admit to it in his letter?

So you believe someone who has been accused but don't believe all the women crying out bitterly? Okay, I'm not a Nigerian Citizen. I wrote it online so you better believe me. Shoot.



Isn't that why someone up there said he should be prosecuted and you people have been ranting since morning talking about forgiveness. Why bring that into a criminal accusation? Is it because he is a pastor?

Isn't that the next thing in a sane clime. He will be be taken to court to prove his innocence. Na wa.

Truly the power of a woman is her PUSSY

Timiofak:
Explain the racial abuse

Do you know the meaning of racial?

You might say he is tribalistic.

But racially abusing is a far reach.

Can a black man be racist towards a white man??

Timiofak:
Won't work. Because not all states in the south support trump and not all states in the north doesn't support trump

So move along.

It's bigger than Trump

Timiofak:
What rubbish pound of flesh?

Lmao, y'all are so oblivious to the fact trump knows he lost, he running away from his own doom

You think anyone cheated

So u feel democrats didn't do him wrong by not acknowledging his presidency from day one wen he entered office in 2016

Obviously there was election fraud or are you that naïve

wirinet:
Republicans are sore losers, they threaten secession every time they lose the presidential elections.

If republican dominated states no go even listen to Biden when he becomes President, you think Democratic states would listen to any other republican that wins the elections in the future?

At the end, the US might need to be split into two - Republican and Democratic States of America and the United should be removed.

That's the long term plan now

We were never together in the first place

Succession is the best thing and that's what Trump is after

Timiofak:
Trump would go down as the top 5 worst American presidents ever

Just watch. If any of these results to violence.

It will b sweet for America to split just like Sudan and South Sudan

Timiofak:
Stop shifting goal post, now you are trying to go back on your stupidity

Bigot and racist are two distinctive terms

A black person can't be racist towards another black person

Wat will u define a Nigerian based in the USA racially abusing a Nigerian based in Nigeria as

Timiofak:
Party of Lincoln. Planning a civil war.

Lincoln would be disappointed, McConnel destroyed that party with voter suppression and southern strategy.

Next time democrats won't cheat during elections

I can remember wen Trump entered 2016, they (mainstream media, democrats) didn't give him breathing space

The nigga is just giving them their own pound of flesh nah and it's fun to watch

America division is the best thing Trump ever did.

If Biden enters, omo republican dominated states no go even listen to him at all, trust Texas hmm does ones madt gan

Texas GOP chairman suggests ‘Constitution-abiding states should form a UNION’ after SCOTUS tosses election suit.

The Texas Republican Party chairman has blasted the Supreme Court for establishing a “precedent that says states can violate the US Constitution and not be held accountable,” and proposed a new “union of law-abiding states.”

State GOP chair Allen West floated the idea on Friday following a decision by the nation’s highest court to throw out a lawsuit brought by the Texas attorney general, which alleged that mail-in voting measures introduced in a number of states before the 2020 race were unconstitutional.

“The Supreme Court… has decreed that a state can take unconstitutional actions and violate its own election law,” West said of the ruling, noting that the lawsuit was “joined by seventeen states and 106 US congressman."

"This decision establishes a precedent that says states can violate the US constitution and not be held accountable... Perhaps law-abiding states should bond together and form a Union of states that will abide by the constitution."

Brought by Texas AG Ken Paxton, the suit looked to bar four key battleground states – Georgia, Pennsylvania, Michigan and Wisconsin – from casting their electoral votes, asking the court to shift the selection of new electors to the state legislatures. Seven out of nine justices ruled to dismiss the case on Friday, however, stating that Paxton had not “demonstrated a judicially cognizable interest in the manner in which another State conducts its elections.” Though Justices Samuel Alito and Clarence Thomas issued a dissenting opinion, they, too, said they would not have granted relief to the case, only suggesting that the court hear the complaint.

https://www.rt.com/usa/509456-texas-west-union-constitution/

Texas GOP chairman suggests ‘Constitution-abiding states should form a UNION’ after SCOTUS tosses election suit.

The Texas Republican Party chairman has blasted the Supreme Court for establishing a “precedent that says states can violate the US Constitution and not be held accountable,” and proposed a new “union of law-abiding states.”

State GOP chair Allen West floated the idea on Friday following a decision by the nation’s highest court to throw out a lawsuit brought by the Texas attorney general, which alleged that mail-in voting measures introduced in a number of states before the 2020 race were unconstitutional.

“The Supreme Court… has decreed that a state can take unconstitutional actions and violate its own election law,” West said of the ruling, noting that the lawsuit was “joined by seventeen states and 106 US congressman."

"This decision establishes a precedent that says states can violate the US constitution and not be held accountable... Perhaps law-abiding states should bond together and form a Union of states that will abide by the constitution."

Brought by Texas AG Ken Paxton, the suit looked to bar four key battleground states – Georgia, Pennsylvania, Michigan and Wisconsin – from casting their electoral votes, asking the court to shift the selection of new electors to the state legislatures. Seven out of nine justices ruled to dismiss the case on Friday, however, stating that Paxton had not “demonstrated a judicially cognizable interest in the manner in which another State conducts its elections.” Though Justices Samuel Alito and Clarence Thomas issued a dissenting opinion, they, too, said they would not have granted relief to the case, only suggesting that the court hear the complaint.

https://www.rt.com/usa/509456-texas-west-union-constitution/

If u want to marry in a western society then u will need redpill and a bit MGTOW to navigate relationships with the female gender there if not u go divorce like mumu and end up broke

The best thing is to marry here, travel abroad for business and not base abroad.

No place like naija

I so much hate programming

I rather prefer hard assets skills like real estate investing or starting a big business project.