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ESSOHEngineers:
Work Place Sexual Harassment is common and both ways, however women are statistically more on the receiving end that the giving end. However as common as it is, it places a lot of emotional and psychological stress on the Victim. This is because it is just a step away from rape/assault.

Do not assume you are overreacting. Report him immediately to your boss. Escalate it. He is already stalking you by coming to your door. Perhaps creeping and peeping and listening.

Tell him you will report him to your boss. Tell your boss that you are doing so because it is the right thing to do in such a circumstance. The reason for reporting to your boss is not only because you want him cautioned. It is also because from an Occupational Health,Safety and Well-being perspective, it is simply the procedure to follow and the thing to do. Tell your boss to call a chat with you both and complain further. I am assuming it is a small company,hence no strong HR Team. Also, where possible report him to other male folk within the apartment. This is so that you have witnesses to show you have complained. If you want, also write a formal report of complaints to your boss and keep a copy.

And if he doesn't stop, tell him you will file a complaint to the police. Where possible avoid all manner of mundane and trivial gist with him. Keep your conversations and association formal.

Keep evidence of all his behaviors. You might need it. Where possible send him warnings via text messages and keep those too. Next time he does that put your phone camera on video record and make a video. Don't worry about if it is clear or if you got a perfect shot. Just make a video/videos of you warning him sternly about his harrasament and how you don't fancy it.

Harassers usually feel victims are playing hard to get. Generally for women they are usually harrassed by their Seniors. For men they are harassed both by their bosses and juniors as a matter of fact.

Where it is not conducive you might need to leave the job. It is better than living with the horrors and trauma of rape. The Nigerian hypocritical and patriarchal society is unforgiving to women assaulted. If you follow the trend, it is common for Nigerian men to lie and say the lady agreed to have sex for a specified amount and that when they didn't pay the woman decided to claim rape. He will even claim he has been dating you. Finally it moves to cognitive dissonance where they blame the Devil or blame the "thing that came over them" and how "they usually don't act like this" etc. At the end people will say why didn't you speak up. Why didn't you leave. Etc. So, be careful and speak out. Don't ever assume you are overreacting. Put a stop to it otherwise he will get bolder.

Eventually if it gets bad, you may have to decide if it is worth your continued stay of if you should leave. No one can make that decision for you.

One of Many Examples of Workplace Rape and Assault.

https://www.nairaland.com/5437096/man-rapes-co-worker-death-ogun

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JerryLegend:
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megamank:
This one na small one.... Very soon for any Nigerian to enter any country go hard....

Let us die here together o.... No body should be running up and down looking for grove and better life....

Block all your borders ..... Let us even know how many we be self.....
317 jobless people don come add join the millions already jobless.....

BOOOMNAIJA:
Ok let's settle this....

Guys only...if it's seduction, press like....if it's harassment, press share...

izzou:

While CBN is charging you 2% for deposits over 500k, FIRS is warming up to charge you for internet transactions

VAT is warming up to be 7.2%

Minimum wage still no enter 100$

Issokay

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youngbang:




May Every Nairalander Mum be alive to witness their Success and not their downfall and mostly importantly may our mothers eat from the fruit of their labour

post=82347228:
Ronaldo to momsie right now : Mama Why Now?

I have told you before the match i will score??

Why are you now fainting Mama?

WHY

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Ronaldo wasn't very spectacular in that match..it's a good thing he scored though.

I'm certain it was his lacklustre performance in the first half that made the Serbian fans start chanting the name of another obvious flop.

It was a wrong decision.
CR7 made it clear that the GOAT can only be compared with himself.

drips8:
The tag wizkid's ex is pointless

Jarus:
Yes, if that person has not had it. Strongly advised to go and run test now; if negative, start the 3 dose vaccination; if positive, commence management.

nairalanduseles:
Yes you can see your local gp