I feel the moment you are about to quit is the moment a miracle is about to happen.

Few years back i was faced with a terrible challenge and everything turn upside down for me.

At some point at the middle of the night have tought of quitting because i was feld up.

At that point allot of things changed, peopel bleeped the hell out of me, terrible humiliation started coming in. But i was able to scale through with a calm spirits.

Not so long a very big miracle happened that change my life for good and now i am on my path to success.

I believe there is a spiritual effect about all this, the point you are about to quit is the point you should never.

i dnt think i am the only one on this table, share your experience...

Have been single for years now because i am more focused on my future and career, so konji no allow me rest.

have been thinking of visiting a near by ashewo house to quench my taste.

please can i know if there is any spiritual effect related to this act, thanks

no be this decision wey i don take alaye, i don talk say if i ever feel like to smoke again, immediately i go use the money for another fun, either food , swimming or any other thing.

DonBenny77:
Dem no dey quit weed finish oh!
You go always return

it is a crazy drug i swear, normally before i begin smoking i be foodie.

as i start smoking nasoso crazy craving oo, anythinf i see i go chop.

my only regret is the years have spent smoking i swear, its the worst decision of my life

CrownOfClay724:


That one sef na enough motivation to quit.
You know wetin food dey talk now?

I once tried doing weed.
First day, I put am for indomie.
Second day I run am with beans.
Baba, those two times were my last.

I chop half paint of rice in two days.

i pray oo, coz even food self no dey gree go, i can never imagine myself regeting food, me wey be say if smoke finish i fit chop nigeria budget

CrownOfClay724:
Withdrawal symptoms.
If will wear off with time.

Please doctors in the house, i quit smoking weed like a week ago and i did it in a cold-turkey way which is to stop without looking back.

Now i do have headache mostly in the afternoon and have been unable to have deep sleep, now i stay awake till midnight before forcing myself to sleep and by 4am i am up again.

Dunno if anyone have an idea what could be the cause abeg, just frustrated

I have no words to argue brother, but mark this day, you will always remember you came accross a thread like this, when weed would have done allot to you

SportsHD:
Weed reacts differently in each person's body.
Because it makes you lazy and all doesn't mean that it makes others lazy. It makes me productive and all. I'm on a tolerance break now btw.

There was a time weed has served me and i must say i really enjoy it then, because i was depressed, broke and passing through the worst moment of my life.

I consume chunks of weed, loud, arizona, ref, skushies and colorado.

Let me say i was addicted at some point because i have friends that actually smokes weed, so on a daily i must come accross 1 of my friend that we will surely share smokes together.

I didnt allow all this to stop me from chasing my dream, because i always remember the kind of home i come from.

You can't expect someone coming from a humble background, that has allot to do, fixing my career and also doing back at home to be lost inside life.

Last year, i became a graduate and will be going for my nysc soon and immediately i left school, i made a strict decision never to smoke weed again, because i think the time it was serving me is over and now i have to concentrate more on my skills and my income to get ahead in life.


This are the things i realise after i quite smoking weed.

Higher productivity: These are the things i do procrastinate about but now i don't hesitate to do them and have really help me allot in terms of developing myself.


Laziness : I know most stonners will say weed make them relax and calm, but its actually makes you lazy thinking you are relaxing. i got more active and soft.

Clear mind : The illusion about weed giving you a wide range of thinking is stupid, i actually found out on youtube thats smoking weed actually tamper with a part in your brain that involves thinking and this actually start working abnormally.

Clear Skin : I realise my skin get more clearer and the wrinkles on my face start to clear off, no jokes. you all know after every drag, your eyes must me red and your face squeezed up.

I also have to take a bold step in deleting every friend have come across thats the only thing that connect us is just weed. They have no purpose rather than we sitting down and taking some blunt then talk about bullshit all the time.


Life really feels good after quitting this dirty habit and i pray never to ever near what they called weed again.

It's actually irritate me now tho, the smell alone gives me headaches.


For every stonner out there, take a bold step and quite this for good.


You will remember this thread and thank God you making the best decision of your life.

Who be MJ, hope is not what i am thinking, coz i deh dnt mj oo

caesymore:
Mehnn...

I have had this reasoning about life several times with MJ and it comes to one thing, and I agree with the Bro above me.

Yeah, as MJ reasoned me that day say one is only sure of this life you have, so live it utilizing all opportunities around you cause it is the best shot you have got in life and never believe luck just happens without you contributing to it, that luck is a combo of preparedness meeting opportunity.
Also there is no manual other than actions and effect otherwise Karma and this alone have brought untold hardship passed from generation to generation . The core advice MJ gave me was to always stick to the golden rule.

I really need an honest answer about the idea of this world and meaningless life

Where some people live in luxury and some are waking up to poverty ever single day.

Where some faces a terrible challenges that's actually makes them have no faith or become a shadow of themselves.

Where there is no much opportunity for someone coming from a humble background.

and at the end of the day, they tell you there still a place called heaven and earth, where you will be judged either to enjoy eternity or rot in hell.

what is really the idea of this creation and when did we sign up for this?

honey i don't blame people that commit suicide because you really can't understand the whole concept of this bullshit called life.

I am 25 years of age and ever since have been in this world, its been a crazy ride, have been able to push and overcome all my challenges in life all because of how strong i am and with my believe in God.

If you have not really face anything in life, you can't relate to this

People living thier best life
people coming from shrink poverty
Mad peoole on the street

All sort of shit around the world.

I really dont think the idea of the creation of the earth is really a good one.

Because to be honest every creation on this world did not sign up to come into this world and start facing tribulations, trials and all sort of crap.

Crazy world i must say. bullshit

How can a loan company be this unprofessional.

I believe there is a way you can retrieve your money from your client without disturbing others.

and besides have seen this person over 4 years now and he never tell he register me as guarantor for a loan.

Put more pressure every single day, nobody was born with perfection, i try as much as possible to improve everyday.

It might take years but dont stop, when the money start flowing in, you will know you have improve.

Coz when you are not good, you even get a client

Stephen0mozzy:
Nice one.. Please can you point out directions where i can sharpen my graphics design skills? I design more than average, but I'm not yet confident in my skills

Hi nairalanders.

I am a graphics designer and it took me decades before i master my skills and start earning good online and looking forward to do more for the coming year.

At first like 5-8 years ago, its was actually rough coz the income was very low and even to get client self na war, but fast forward to today have been able to master my skills.

6 months ago, i got a full time job with a tech company, tho we started with a very little pay, but now have been able to convice my boss and he so much love me and have increased my pay to my satisfaction.

He also made me the head designer in the company and all this is a remote job, i work from home.

I know allot of people that are complaining of how hard it is to earn money online and i know allot of people that ginger me of how good they earn online.

Note: i am talking of legit money oo, this one no be fraud money. i love when its real.

Thanks.

Please, i am a gun of 25 years old soon to be 26 and will you believe i have no single beard like this sha, i have little mustache.

I get disrespect every now and then coz people
think i am a boy, this actually push me to the gym earlier this year.

Like all this small yahoo boy of 20-22 years will just talk to me anyhow.

The only thing that makes me not to worry about that is just because of how humble i am, i wont even look at it.

How can this really stop.

I am 25 but i swear i look like 20 without this beard of a thing, is there hope for me to get some at one point in my life

comrade no wine me o, me no fit wait for that time o, kilode

lilvicky68:
Yes it is normal..
I grew my first beard at 42..

Is this really normal, i will be 26years soon and i dnt have a beard atall, i am even less concern about it becoz na money dey my mind, but shey this thing normal like this, even small boys go dey call me name sometimes self nawa oo

The goal of every student is to graduate from school and secure a good job, but seems the country has changed that line


Graduate since 2016
NYSC done

no employement yet, still in my fathers house with no hope for tomorrow

I feel so down that i can't even type, the idea behind this world is just shit.

One day we all going to die, maybe if your problem are too much and the way God has decided to bless some people, if death come, all this pain can be over.

Bleep life : Bleep the world

Everyone knows how yahoo boys are quik to push out thise words " hustle "...

So can someone clearify us on this if what they do is really hustle, they are only interested in stealing peoples hard earn money and term that hustle.

Not like a real hustling man trying to achieve his goals in life without scam

i am in my mid 20s and i make roughly 90-100k per month, multiply this by 12, i have over 1mllion as annual income, please how much do you think should be saved from this amount.

i Have no girlfriend and and i am going for my nysc soon thanks

I was born into the family of 8, 4 boys and 4 girls.

The other 4 was for different father and almost everyday i regret belonging into that kind of family, Tho i really love my mum for her care.

I really don't think family is worth dying for as 3 of my siblings are in europe london, and they have refused to uplift any of us here in nigeria, we act like strangers and its been ages we talk, they dont care about our well being and i assure you, they are really doing well, with the properties they have bought in nigeria, but not and single 5k they cant give you in 2 years.

nobody is even asking them for money, becoz we are all doing fine, but imagine they shut all doors against thier own and , they keep helping outsiders.

I believe this is like a curse or something

you wont die young my brother, to be honest, being in a relationship or having girls is not the main issue for me, this particular stage i am in life, i just have to stay focused on my goals and achieve my dream, girls and woman can come later.... Them no dey tell person inside life o

yanabasee2:
Every man have that transition stage of deciding to stay focus to achieve a certain goal... Always a goal of getting himself ready before thinking of marriage....

That stage is a stage where women don't matter...


I put myself in that situation and I stayed for two years without a girlfriend nor sex.... And I had my neighbors tried to prevent their daughters to helping me fetch water down the road...

But when I stood strong and began to see change.... I relocated o a nice area and pimped up...


Had many classic girls and many fake classic babes....

So Op, you are in the right direction...

Your life go zeh ni, wetin we carry, wetin we throw, ogun ma pa iya eh ni

Johndagr8t:
Fool
foo
fo
f..
your mum failed in bringing you up fool,
weak men every wea fool,
go and secure a future foolish uncle,
go and make your mum proud useless man,

go and get a binance account now and start securing a future instead of been a fool for ever, foolish boy loook women are sex toool, don't try keeping dem.


once again .
useless man
stupid boy
mad goat
foolish cow
get a life and make mama proud.


fool!!!!!

The love of sex has actually drive me into having series of relationship at early stage, have had over 3-4 exes and have bleeped countless babes.

I got a job recently and i say to myself i am not getting any younger, i stayed focued without getting a girlfriend because i really need to be rich and will be going for my NYSC soon.

Is this really a problem for me, will be 26 soon and i have no plan to have a girlfriend for atleast a year, so as to make more money and be okay.


I dont depend on my parent for anything and i am earning atleast fine

should i be worried about this

You are very crazy, shes only thinking negative,

You know how many girls with big booty i dey shang, na my own sister pikin go dey enter my eye?

Furcko:
Your a pedophile and she knows it

Bros, i swear my life, she only tested me with the help of the husband all because they see the eah i show love towards thier kids.

After the event, they see i am genuine and have nothing negative atall, then they started showing fake love and giving me respect of some kind.

Even mostly if they want to go to the swimming pool, they will come and i will go and swim with the kids at the pool, this is after that bullshit.

But my love for them and most especially my sister reduce drastically to the point that i dont even like her a bit, if she can actually test me and not trust me with that, then she must be crazy.

and to be honest with you, they actually poisoned the girl mind.

The girl doesnt have an idea whats going on because even till today, when she sees me, we can play till whenever.

And now i am the one avoiding the girl, like i cnt carry her or hug her or even allow her sit beside me because of thay scnerio....

My sister already found out that i know what she did and every minute she get, she always try to do something for me to like ( like when u know u bleeped up and now trying to rectify a pain )

Baloranking:


Story no complete. What must have warranted this test. Wetin you do op

The little girl must have told them something

This is a true life story that has made me to hate my sister so much and never to have anything friendly with peoples kids again.

Shes my elder sister and she has a daughter of 5 year old, have always love little kids, maybe because i am the last born tho. so everytime i show love and care for her kids, not knowing shes thinking negative always.

She stays in abeokuta and i also reside in abeokuta, most times i do go to thier house every saturday and when i get there, i dont really interact with elderly people, i can play with kids from morning till night, eventually.

On this particular day, i informed her i was coming and offcourse she know i will get something for the kids. i got there around noon and when i greeted everybody, i noticed she and her husband left for the room and also sent the other girl staying with them outside and she now asked the little girl to come it beside me and everybody left the parlour expect me and the little girl.

My mind was actually not there because over my dead body will i be sexually attracted to a little kid, when i no mad.

So they have actually planned all this just to see if i have somethin in secret, the little girl started questioning me allot, asking various question just for me to give her attention, but i just stay focus watching the television till some of them started coming outside to the parlour.

Immediately i left, i recall that scenario and i was so devastated and sad, like this woman is my blood sister, all the love i show for them are geniue from my heart and i will never have any negative shit towards them.

To be honest with you guhs, the main reason why i care so much about this family is because of how she took care of me when i was little, i still remember everything, now me trying to show the love back, this is all the bullshit i got.


To actually confirm this matter, i posted something similar on my whatsapp group, blocking all my contact from seeing it except the husband, and he responded by posting something on his status ( Trust nobody ).

Anytime i remember i always thank God for not putting me to shame, like what could ave happen if the devil use my enemy or something, its just to sad this is a family member.

I know we have allot of great people in this forum, so i was thinking, if someone comes from the trenches and try to hustle hard to get money.

Tho hes still making money for 2 source of income.

He need advice on how well he can spare 50k to invest online and make good profit.

Anyone with a reasonable idea is welcome

I have 500k in my savings and i dont want to sip hnd into it, i want to tripple the money and start counting millions, kindly suggest a very lucrative business thanks