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Business / Re: Which Side Hustle Can I Start With 70k. by Denvacandy: 9:54pm On Dec 06, 2021
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harqinhola:
Buy thrift clothes and resell online . If you have taste for selecting quality clothes , buy from either Yaba ( for a start ) or go to catangora to buy bail , wash them very well , select the best ones , get a good phone with sharp camera , business has started .
Business / Re: Which Side Hustle Can I Start With 70k. by Denvacandy: 9:52pm On Dec 06, 2021
if the game cut nko?? lol u wicked oo
Coronavirus123:
Use the money play 2odds.... Boom, 140k
Business / Which Side Hustle Can I Start With 70k. by Denvacandy: 9:42pm On Dec 06, 2021
Please i have one 70k i am not using for now, i am thinking of a side hustle to start with this money,

note i am always busy, but i will love a very fast sale business that can gve good profit.

I work on my laptop everyday, if the business can be online it will really make allot of sense, thanks
Family / How My Brother Wife Destroyed Her Home After Husband Travelled Abroad. by Denvacandy: 8:19pm On Nov 27, 2021
This is a true life story of how my elder brother home was destroyed when he traveled to oversea for greener pasture.

He married his wife in the 90's and they gave birth to thier first girl in the year 2000, he traveled in the year 2007 to UK ( London ), as at that time the wife was pregnant and she gave birthday to the second child in the year 2008.

Maybe things where not as good over there and he stayed longer leaving the wife and the two girls in nigeria for so many years, but he actually took care of them fully, buying and sending all sort of things home for the family and making sure everything was smooth.

He later bough several houses in nigeria and he bought a house for the wife and girls to stay while hes working in UK.

Unfortunately the woman could not bare it anymore as she start going out with a man friend and started dating several guhs while my brother was away.

to cut the long story short, she eventually brought her lover into the house my brother bought and both the wife and the guh started living together with my brother children under thesame roof.

People in the community noticed and they have to inform my mum about what is going on and we have the courage to go see for ourself after many month, we meet the guh and we gave him beating of his life and drive the wife out of the house.

Now my brother two girls are now staying with thier grandma and the wife has been pushed out.

How is it difficult for women to stay faithful to one man. imagine bringing a lover to the house your husband bought.

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Family / Re: My Mum Reaction To Me Doing Better Than My Brothers by Denvacandy: 1:01pm On Nov 27, 2021
For everyone saying i am proud with the way i talk, please this is not about pride, i am telling your reality, how can you say i am proud all because i am telling your what is happening ?

About my brothers not being serious that i said, this is a family issue and every female in my family knows that well, even my mum do say it that, that is why lagabaje is not serious or focus, that is why so so so is doesn't understand what hes doing with his life.

I feel my mum is just toxic and doesn't understand how i made it easy sitting and sleeping at home and making money.

And about people saying tables can turn, kindly note i will be very happy about that, i only needed love and nothing else, i dont envy another man sucfess.

There was a time i was even angry if my brothers where rich and everyone is rich, it will be easy to stay rich because yeah i know my brother is capable of dashing me a new car or so.

But honestly how can you not be able to ask your brothers for even 1k and they are over 30+ each? while i am just 25 soon be 26.

It's sickening and its something i feel very bad about.

Talking about the hate going on, my brand is doing well online way larger than thier own and everytime i post about a job done, they already know i am earning good. its might not be much but atleast far better than what they earn.

Have lived alone for 3 years before deciding to come back before going for my NYSC in a few months.

So i know what i am saying, this one no be pride oo, this na just tory make una reason am with me.

All my prayer to God is just for him to bless me like cubana way and this people can see the difference btw rice and poor.

All this things i buy and do is nothing to me but its shocks them allot and i keep wondering is this how poverty has deem deep into thier vein.

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Family / Re: My Mum Reaction To Me Doing Better Than My Brothers by Denvacandy: 11:00am On Nov 27, 2021
Bros, i dont even talk about how much i make or tell them when i recieve credit alert, this my 2 brodas live far away from each other, infact we have not seen each others for close to 7months now.

Let me make this clear to you, you cannot hide money for long, people will notice you already have money.

When you dey fresh and change shoes cloth and even making crazy moves, how will they not know you already have money

I try as much as possible to hide it away from people that i have money but no.

Do you know the meaning of someone that has suffered and smells compare to when you see the person now and the smell of peff won make u hug the person? you see fresh shoes and cloths?

Shey hin go steal am ni?

Ammishaddai:
Oga, you don't need to start blowing your trumpet just because you have started early on the path to success. Secondly, you have hastily judged your elder ones and classed them in to the "unserious ", and you think you're right about that ? Baba, e go shock you when thing take a turn around

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Family / My Mum Reaction To Me Doing Better Than My Brothers by Denvacandy: 10:45am On Nov 27, 2021
Seriously i am getting a mixed feelings and i think i should pour this out, i just finished my HND program and i struggle to finish, i am the last born of the family and i have 2 elder brother who are nothing close to being serious in life.

I create a goal in my school days and immediately after school i secure a job with it and i am earning and living fine.

Recently i had to leave my apartment in school and come down to my parent house just for another goal set again and my goal plan is working very good.

My mum has seen a very drastic change in my lifetsyle and the way i do things now, money don come lol

i even now give her monthly pay for food and within the month i buy allot of things just a normal thing for me.

Now the problem is, shes not happy with the way i am earning more than my brothers and how successful my brand has grown.

Most times when we argue, she start saying " have i not seen someone who earn low and make it better than someone who is earning big " all this things turns me off.

I feel shes suppose to be happy as i am not dependent on her for anything, and even now that i am doing back to the house, but no.

Can someone explain this or if you have any similare experience about this thanks

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Career / Which Country Can I Relocate To With My Skills by Denvacandy: 11:07am On Nov 24, 2021
Hi, I am a graphics designer and i also do printing press.

I want to know which country i can relocate to, it should be europe.

To live fully for atleast 20 years before i can think of coming back to nigeria.

Kindly advice thanks
Family / The Harsh Things Your Wife Has Ever Told You. by Denvacandy: 12:25pm On Nov 19, 2021
We got married in 2018 and things where going smooth, i was working with a company in port harcourt and i can bodly say i was very okay, taking flight is not an issue.

When she wanted to give birth to our first child, it was through CS and i paid every damn bills amounting to 500k or so.

We moved down to ogun state and i was taking flight monthly to see her from port harcourt.

Fast forward to 2020, the comapny fold up and i lost my job, i came down to ogun fully with my wife and everything went down, feeding was hard and my savings is drying up.

You know how woman do and how to satisfy them so my savings eventually dried up and the reality was down.

She applied for a teaching job at govt school and she got employed and i was always at home.

Do she was supportive but its didnt took long when she changed and started treating me badly.

I was so sad the day she utter all terirble words to me, on how have not been a good husband and how i have not been dropping money for food and co.

how i have not been taking care of her, i almost moved to tears and i refused to eat her food for some period, i was being supported by a street friend.

How can someone you have sacrificed so much for all of a sudden change and bring out thier true color.

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Nairaland / General / What Doest It Mean To Say " You Are Allowing People To Control You " by Denvacandy: 9:02pm On Nov 17, 2021
Anybody has an idea and what it really means

Dont let people control you, How does that happen like.

Spiritual minded, what do dey mean by they are controlling you.

How can one stop and and be able to control oneself all the time.

So later we can be able to say i controled myself.

I need answer please
Nairaland / General / My Experience With A Vendor For An Expired Product by Denvacandy: 3:11pm On Oct 22, 2021
Na wa o!!
I went to buy hollandia slim milk. I checked the expiration date and discovered it has expired 13 days ago so I drew the seller's attention. She said it was a distributor that sold it to her a week ago. I told her to go and complain. She went and came back. I asked her the out come and she said the distributor told her that what if she bought it for her own personal use will she throw them away? That she should start selling it at a cheaper price that people will drink it. Infact! She has displayed it again for sales and told me thanks for the observation that she didn't check it at all and she still wan sell am after she don check. Chaaaai!!! I first saw this at iyana ipaja beside the bridge where people were selling this same milk cheaply and people were happily buying it. And una say make sickness no do yanga for inside people body?

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Nairaland / General / How Did You Cut Off Bads Friends From Your Life ? by Denvacandy: 9:54am On Oct 21, 2021
How was it easy for you to cut off bad friends from your life?

You might be a bad friend to another person but for sure you will also have bad friends who at a point in time you dont want to see them around you.

Here is my short story,

I had couple of friends whos only job with me is to come to my house and smoke blunt daily, at first i was comfortable with it but along the long run, this people not to have any purpose in life, as most of them still live with thier parent, they have no vision or goals and they see the way i am progressing little by little and this has bring allot of hatred out of them.

They always make me feel pain by talking down on me and never appreciate anything i do for them, rather they start finding fault in whatever i do.

Fast forward to when its time to cut their ass off, i had about 5 of them which i confidently delete thier number off my phone and since then i stoped them from coming to my house and we only say hi when we see each other on the road now.

I took the bold step without caring about what they will say outside because i know they will have already published allot of shitty story about me cutting of my friends.

One even had to post on whatsapp status referring to me on how i cut my friends off and immediately i delete and block his number.

At this point, my eyes where clear and i started seeing everything they have done and how their absent from my life has given me a great and clearer vision on whom to make friends with.

i keep my circle small now and i am grateful to God for making me take that bold step.

Kindly share your story
Nairaland / General / The Link To Tiwa Savage Sex Tape by Denvacandy: 3:01pm On Oct 19, 2021
If you never watch am, na hin be this

https://gistlover.net/2021/10/18/tiwa-savage/

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Nairaland / General / Re: I Finally Quite Smoking Marijuana ( A Sad Journey ) by Denvacandy: 12:53am On Oct 14, 2021
verybadmouth:

Mhen, I understand how you must be feeling now. It's really hard to quit smoking most especially marijuana. I also used to be a smoker. I stopped because i was going to settle down. I felt I needed to stay alive for my wife and kids.
Kindly find a very good location that will encourage you to spend time with God. Also try to get a God fearing partner that will drive you towards total withdrawal.
The urge might resurface anytime. You need to be prepared to fight hard. Don't forget to remain prayerful always bro.

Thanks boss, there is nothing that can trigger the urge again as i am verh discipline person when its comes to making decisions, i am good at that, i am only waiting for december to relocate and start my life again.

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Nairaland / General / Re: I Finally Quite Smoking Marijuana ( A Sad Journey ) by Denvacandy: 12:44am On Oct 14, 2021
verybadmouth:
Congrats bro. Sharply run a comprehensive health check on your heart and lungs. Make sure everything is fine, then move on with your life. All will be well with you in Jesus name. Amen

Thanks boss, will do that, as i have even resume my gym to keep fit, my plan for 2022 is to relocate this december to an unknown place and start my life afresh and move on with my life, as everybody knows me as a smoker in my neighborhood and this make me sad everytime, the only reason they give me respect is because i am not suffering and i look fresh and clean plus the fact that, i eat well after smoke, so i am not that kind of smoker that look tiny with a black lips.

Its just to sad, i hate smoking with passion now, it was like a demon inside of me controlling my life, i feel sad anytime i remember have once smoke heavily, its crazy, i just thank God sha

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Nairaland / General / I Finally Quite Smoking Marijuana ( A Sad Journey ) by Denvacandy: 12:35am On Oct 14, 2021
Hi, I am writing this with sadness in my heart, but i am also greatful to God for keeping me save and healthy till i finally leave this shit that has been disturbing me for so long.

I started smoking at a tender age all because i was exposed to social life at a young age, i mean i work as a dj while in secondary school and going to hotel to to play and mix music is not a problem, as i mostly visit all the hotel in my neighborhood back then.

Peer pressure wont allot me rest as i suddenly found myself smoking cigarettes, This continue and i kept it away from people.

There was a time my in-law came back from UK and i have the gut to smoke infront of him and all this is just me out of my senses.

Fast forward to when i finally want to leave my parents house and look for greener pastures.

I return to school for my HND program and this is the worst moment of my life, as a stonner, i quikly look for where i can buy weed to smoke and i surrounded my self with basically bads friends and gang.

I smoke heavily, most stonners will know this

SK ( Arizona )
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i dont joke with smoke, but i was not happy with it, i just cant leave it then coz i felt i cant be myself without smoking.

To cut the long story short.

I got serious with my life, after hearing my pastor preach at winners chapel.

I had to force myself to quite finally this time.

I have more than 10 friends that come to my side to smoke and guess what, i cut every single one of them off including thier number on my phone.

It was not easy because immediately i did that, they started broadcasting it that i am proud of something, but i was focused and determined to stop smoking for good.

Now its been over 3months now and i have not near anything smoke, as at now i detest the smell of smoking as i have also stop going to places that will trigger me to smoke again.


This coming sunday i plan to rededicate my life to christ and begin a decent life.

To be honest, if you are a smoker outthere, kindly note smoke is nothing, i was once a smoker and i understand how its feels when smoking, have defended smoking everytime.

The reasoning smoking give you will make you think you are the smartest but no, its make u procastinate and do unnecessary things.

I am not here to preach to people to stop smoking, i just thank God for changing me quiker.

I feel very emotional and i am just thanking God for making this happen.

One of the greatest regret of my life is when i remember i was once a smoker, like what actually put me in that dirty act, i pray God forgive me and wash away my sins

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: How Are You Surviving Being Jobless ? by Denvacandy: 2:58pm On Oct 11, 2021
Denvacandy:
Was just randomly thinking how people that are jobless are surviving in this country with the increase in price of things.

I earn roughly 100-130k monthly and i can say its not being easy, spending money on food, data and unkeep.


So i really need to know how people who are jobless are coping in this country, people that have no source of income.

Contact me for a professional graphics design job 07059378066
Properties / How Much Can I Budget For A Roomself Contain In Abeokuta by Denvacandy: 1:52pm On Oct 11, 2021
Please how much can i budget for a roomself contain in abeokuta, i am planning to relocate by december and i need a suggestion.

A nice and cool environment with security and privacy.

Thanks
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: How Are You Surviving Being Jobless ? by Denvacandy: 1:50pm On Oct 11, 2021
Danjikanbauchi:
Na them, they will come with sweet mouth looking for whom to devour. You earn from comfort of your home cool Yahoo Yahoo boy efcc will soon catch you. undecided

lol, dont be daft, this is a digital world, its not necessarily you go to an office to get paid, i work for a company and its a remote job, just to deliver online and sit down lobatan

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Jobs/Vacancies / How Are You Surviving Being Jobless ? by Denvacandy: 10:31am On Oct 11, 2021
Was just randomly thinking how people that are jobless are surviving in this country with the increase in price of things.

I earn roughly 100-130k monthly and i can say its not being easy, spending money on food, data and unkeep.


So i really need to know how people who are jobless are coping in this country, people that have no source of income.

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Phones / How Much To Change Iphone 11 Battery To A New One by Denvacandy: 8:01am On Oct 10, 2021
I need to know the price for changing an iphone 11 battery, as my phone battery health keep draining like say i offend am, Thanks

Romance / Re: Do You Give Your Ex Money? by Denvacandy: 6:26am On Oct 08, 2021
RightToReject:
There's nothing wrong in giving an ex money/any other form of help under normal circumstances, but there's everything wrong in giving this particular ex of yours this kind of help she needs from you now, citing your submission about what transpired between the two of you. Refrain from treating small-minded people like aristocrats, and vice versa.

God bless you, i mean, you left because there was no money, and now u want me to give you money
Romance / Do You Give Your Ex Money? by Denvacandy: 9:31pm On Oct 07, 2021
Good evening, There is this particular girl i was seeing like 7months ago, we live in thesame neighborhood.

While dating her, i was damn broke like my source of income was not really enough to even take of me not to talk of my girlfriend, but then i was just feelings lonely and looking for true love, first we had a good time and one thing lead to another, we broke up and i beg her severely to come back but she declined.

And have even seen her with guhs taking her out, so God so good, things has changed allot for me and now i can bodly afford anything i want.

I try as much as possible to hide it from people that i dont have money, but you know money cant be hideen when they see me doing some new stuff have not done before.

They know i already have money now and my life has improve greatly.

Now this my particular Ex request she want to change her phone that i should support her. i was even planning to give her the money she requested for but all of a sudden, i was just thinking if i am daft to want to give an ex money just like that. i mean she could not stay when i needed her the most.

Nobody was around when i was suffering now God don improve my level and they are flocking and trying to get close.

So please have u ever given your Ex money before, i mean someone you dont consider your lover anymore, thanks.

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Nairaland / General / 120k Salary And Still Not Enough by Denvacandy: 7:32pm On Oct 06, 2021
Good Evening everyone, i just got my salary increased to 50k this month of october and from my other gigs, i make atleast 100k+ monthly and this money is not alwahs enough for me, at the end of the month, bank will send statement and the total will be around 140k+. But most of it always got eaten by bills.

Note : i work comfortably from my one room apartment without moving out, just to make jobs on my laptop and send to my company.


I need advice on how to break down cost of things, feeding and co. Thanks God bless
Science/Technology / 3 Major App Shutdown by Denvacandy: 8:09pm On Oct 04, 2021
Please how can the 3 major app we have in the world and allot of people use for business shutdown like that. why will the three app even being controled by 1 host. I deh really vex like this coz frustration too much. abeg who send me come earth self coz i never asked any motherfucker to send me come this earth and be frustrated on a daily like this, real life job no deh, we create online job and now shit keep happening. Shey no be suicide be the next thing like this.
Health / A Redish Boil Around My Anus ( Graphics Picture ) by Denvacandy: 7:53pm On Oct 04, 2021
Goodevening, Please i have to create another account to bring this topic, I notice a redish boil around my anus 3days ago. At first i tought of ignoring it, but now my full mind is there, i am going to see a doctor tomorrow and i just know nairaland comment might be usesful too.

Dont mind my grammar

Below is the attached picture and what could be the cause and symptoms and hopefully if it is nothing to worry about. Thanks

Phones / Re: Whatsapp, Facebook And Instagram Are Down Globally! by Denvacandy: 6:11pm On Oct 04, 2021
Men, this is so bad, some people business are on all this shitty platform, can they fucking do something .
Nairaland / General / Re: A Redish Boil Around My Anus ( Graphics Picture ? by Denvacandy: 10:24pm On Oct 03, 2021
DoggoneDogg:


Are you male or female??

Male
Nairaland / General / Re: A Redish Boil Around My Anus ( Graphics Picture ? by Denvacandy: 10:24pm On Oct 03, 2021
Treasure17:
Experienced this around February this year. Was really scared cause I didn't know what it was. All thanks to Google. Anyway, with time it will disappear. Max a week.

Ok, What did you use to send it away, or did it just dry off naturally.
Nairaland / General / Re: A Redish Boil Around My Anus ( Graphics Picture ? by Denvacandy: 10:08pm On Oct 03, 2021
youngest85:

I've had similar experience
Mine took a week before it dried off

Ok thanks, i will try it out
Nairaland / General / Re: A Redish Boil Around My Anus ( Graphics Picture ? by Denvacandy: 9:56pm On Oct 03, 2021
youngest85:
Get potash, grind it to powder
Mix it with palm oil
Apply it after bathe every night

Ok, thanks, please how effective is this and have you had similar experiences, Because this is the first time i will be using what you listed here, thanks
Nairaland / General / A Redish Boil Around My Anus ( Graphics Picture ? by Denvacandy: 9:48pm On Oct 03, 2021
Goodevening, Please i have to create another account to bring this topic, I notice a redish boil around my anus 3days ago. At first i tought of ignoring it, but now my full mind is there, i am going to see a doctor tomorrow and i just know nairaland comment might be usesful too.

Dont mind my grammar

Below is the attached picture and what could be the cause and symptoms and hopefully if it is nothing to worry about. Thanks

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