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BonPatrick:
A mother of two who pleaded anonymity has taken to social media to ask members of the public whether it was wrong to ask her husband to do the dishes.
According to her, her husband lost his business to scam and she has been the one catering for the family with the little she earns from her restaurant business.
She said: “Truly, My husband was the one who opened the restaurant for me, I cook very well and I still do my cooking by myself as I only direct my staffs on what to do.My husband lost his business to scam and since then it’s been me carrying the responsibilities, most of my staffs left because I could not pay them and at some point, all of them left and I had to do everything by myself.

“My husband is doing nothing yet, he just sits at home and maybe go pick the kids from school and all, so yesterday I had lots of customers in the shop, I was doing everything by myself, so as soon as my husband walked in, I asked him to help me rush to wash a few plates while I serve, and he looked at me in some strange way, I repeated myself and he slapped me in public, and walked out.

“I ignored the embarrassment and even most of my customers left, when I got home I noticed that he moved his things, I called his phone and he said he is in his friends place till he gets a job he will come home, that I should take care of the kids.

“He cut the call I tried to call and the next he blocked me.

“What did I do wrong, who is supposed to be upset? I just need to clear my conscience.”

Muna4real:
No. It doesn't look normal for nigerian guys to do that.

Muna4real:
What do you think about this guys? How can a guy end a relationship ( he initiated the break up) but still sends money (without asking) and shows concern? It just looks like he's an elder brother, or still in a relationship without seeing each other. When asked why he still cares,he says" that how I am. I'm just naturally caring)

I don't understand. Is there a hidden motive? As I type, he's planning a Gift for my birthday. I no send am message oh!

NwaNimo1:
But the mugu suppose only put his name for the tenancy....... if he was paying the rent

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flyinnizam:
All were killed by my brother. Animal right activist over to you.

meobizy:
[s]That’s why Zuckerberg’s WhatsApp is more relevant. What a foolish mindset.[/s]

Forthispost:
Hello Nairalanders. I need your honest feedback on this issue.


There is this ex of mine I dated for approximately 4 years. During the course of our relationship, I Was totally in my best power not to be the toxic one and never cheated on her but she eventually left with no viable reason. There were times she messed up and I forgave her even while we dated.
Close to the time of her graduation from a reputable state university in Nigeria, she started messing up and eventually broke up the relationship.
I was pained though but I had to forgive her and move on.

After the break up (which is about 3 years away now) we still talk (greetings on phone) once in a blue moon.

Now the issue at hand is, a male boss of mine requested that I recommend a female staff that matches a particular vacant role in our organisation .
Note: This is an internal recruitment and who ever I recommend stand a 95% chance of getting employed ( the other 5% if for village people). The role is an entry role with pay centered around 80k-100k monthly. She currently earns 22k where she works now at at our last conversation. Though she use to be a cool person before her village people entered the relationship. Over three years of not being close as before gives me no clue of the type of person she might have become now. Maybe a scorned woman or a more sensible person. I'm doing far better than when she left me and it's super glaring to her.

The reason why I need advice is this: I work at the same organisation in question and I have no plan to leave soon. I'm trying to avoid a case where she will be the one to facilitate any issue for me at the said work place. Just avoiding anything that will result in regrets.

Update: I forgot to add, she's one of the person I know who suits the role. I don't have sister who matches the role.

I created this new account for just this thread hence the moniker "for this post"

Kindly advice biko. Bashing is allowed.

pitamah901:
Thanks very much am just scared of buying on jumia

Arewa1stSon:
Drips

CodeTemplar:
Some Igbos and lies ehn... Somebody wen hate am Don set am up.

LordJoffrey:
The most expensive phone I've ever bought cost me just 32k. Super awesome phone with 3gb RAM and 64gb ROM, snapdragon processor, fingerprint, proximity sensor, full metal body, LED light and many more.

Magnoliaa:
[color=deeppink][s]Story. *Yawns.* Nobody cares what you want here. You love a covered woman jdhixjjgkifdujfdjhf. Covered woman that your guy men will come and tell you they've banged shege out of her. Covered woman that is giving to another badder guy steady? You think women can be trusted? Deceptive creatures right from the time of Eve? I laugh in Tagalog. Body cream, V tightening cream, cosmetic/plastic surgeries, push-up bras, face lifts, every every. All to be deceiving and gaming men as they don't want to retire. Good girls do; bad girls do. Young girls will take over from matriarchal, pimping old women.

It's all your narratives me I'm spinning back to you oh, because you'll eventually catch yourself in a twist when you believe all sort of nonsense about women.

Point is, alfa meils can corroborate my claim that they've slept with thousands of "modest, covered women" and "left" them for you. Yunno, 'A good girl is a bad girl that haven't been caught.'

PS: I hold NOTHING against ANY woman here[/s].[/color]

Magnoliaa:
[color=deeppink]But I thought there's a theory that women who dress like that are actually flirts and teases, the hardest to get into their pants?

Infact I have seen an influenza alfa male on here say that - and I'm sure quite a lot of guys will agree with me. It is the women that 'cover up' that are the easiest to 'bang.'

'Show body, treat them with the prospect of sex, cash out and never give up sex?' I thought that's a lovepeddler's MO, no?[/color]

ojun50:
For this side of Palestine wey we dey so, we just dey chil

Last last the two country go dey alright... Just Nigeria with bokoharm

Theblacklistng:
https://www.theblacklist.com.ng/2021/05/i-didnt-go-for-any-hookup-i-was.html

NwaNimo1:
Northern Babes....chopping national cake anyhow!

Southern Guy's...... paying N1200 for a tuber of yam! (after a 45 min haggle, tussle and stand off?)

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A. nother

P. athetic

C. ircumstance

makemoneywbsite:
Why should it be north and south? Yoruba have their Afonja Muslims who will still introduce terrorism to the south. Why escape Fulani terrorism only to have Yoruba Muslims import terror into the new country. Can't you see they're not different from the other terrorists and are actively supporting those killing their own people?
There should be Oduduwa, Arewa, Biafra, MB and possibly Benin Kingdom.

Fahdiga1:
See his gorilla like face. A bribe taking punk that will surely end up in hell fire. I poo inside his smelly mouth

UncleKoboko:
Nigeria is surely drifting to SEPARATION, or restructuring at least.

It will happen very soon by peace, fire or force whether any tribe likes it or not.


The relationship between us is PARASITIC! Awusa - fool ani especially is barely contributing anything to the country but they are everywhere.

Go to any government establishment around the country and you'll confirm that they are just imposing themselves as rulers everywhere.
Illiterate animals with quota-system education.

They have stolen at least 70% of the oil blocs. Something that's supposed to be property of the state.
Even with all their greed, they are still the poorest.
95% of beggars in this country are them.
If they so like themselves and help themselves, why are the rich ones not helping their poor? Why are they shipping themselves to all parts of the states of the country to beg for halms?

How can a normanic savage animal come all the way from the north to own oil blocs in the Niger Delta?
IT WILL NEVER BE WELL WITH ONE-NIGERIA.

Fahdiga:
What an average club

olisaEze:
The Israelis have mastered the art of war because they have no choice but to survive in the midst of their enemies. One amusing comment the other day when the news of the attack broke even said we should pray for Israel! Funny Nigerian Christians, u have not finished praying for Southern Kaduna ure wasting prayer on people that don’t need it. Instead pray for Hamas & Hezebolla, na complete annihilation those ones dey so!

BKsoul:
she has been buried already.. Her family is not saying anything anymore.... I know something is wrong somewhere...

sammyscholar:
Recent picture of Trump and his workers from Mar-a-Lago!

Racial diversity and undiluted happiness displayed in one picture! Baba dey have the best time of his life. Melania is also having the best fun of her life, away from media lies and brouhaha.

https://trendingpolitics.com/hilarious-picture-from-mar-a-lago-is-bringing-joy-to-twitter-users/

PissfulProtester:
I have always said it. The urchins that keep shouting Biafla are majorly those not benefiting directly or indirectly from the government of Nigeria and those Nnamdi Kanu has successfully brainwashed that Buhari wants to fulanize Nigeria. You know, Hausa/Fulani is the biggest threat to their dominance..hence, the baseless hatred

Coldshisha:




[s]Foolish Senator decieving his foolish followers

14 years in the Senate, earning 30 million per month representing a poor state like Abia, with access to 350 million constituency allowance per quater..

Distinguished Senator Eyinaya Abaribe didn't for once raise his hands to move a motion for inclusion of Referendum in the Constitution or debate on Biafra as wanted by his people

Northerners and Easterners are both landlocked and both are looking for ways to access Atlantic Ocean, both North and East need Oil that they lack, both North and East try to leverage on other people. Eg we the Hausa / Fulani people, we the SouthSouth / SouthEast yet when it comes to politics they remember they are Ibos and Fullani , both North and East rush enmass to other people's region and soon when they get relived and succour they start redrawing boundaries[/s]



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