₦airaland Forum

Hemanwel:
Good morning dear nairalanders!

I have two daughters: one will be 3 years old later in the year and the other will be 1 next month. I noticed that my first daughter is too timid. She gets easily frightened by her peers. She is quiet. She will allow just anybody to carry her - even those whom she is older and bigger than - without any resistance.

I really don't like these attributes about her. I want her to have the boldness to resist some of these things. I want her to be aggressive. I want her to grow up having confidence in doing things her way.
I also wish to instill that in the second child. Thank you!

i dont like to be that person that says it.. But keep her away from pedophiles... These are signs of pedophilia encounter.. I'm not saying she has experienced it, but with the recent light to the matter, you can rule that out.. Writing from my own experience..

McStoic:
The biggest land purchase in history, still leaves me in admiration of the US. A whole state of Alaska was bought from Russia. Like what the heck!!

asin eh... And cheaply so

nedu666:
Why respond to dat hater. How can 90% of lgbo investment be in the north. Do lgbos in the north have 10% of the properties in anambra. Just anambra only not to talk of entire se.
I have challenged people to mention 10 industries owned by lgbos in the north. No one has taken that challenge.
Mention 10 big hotels owned by lgbos in the north. No one has responded.
People think that lgbos will invest their life savings in the north of all places

my there are huge investments in the north owned by the igbos, don't say that, there are Igbo billionaires in jos, Kaduna, kano, sokoto, kastina even in Maiduguri (I know of a person who has lived in Maiduguri all his life with his family) and despite all the security situations there, they have refused to relocate down south.... So don't say that shit that igbos don't have much investments in the north.. Infact 90% of all hotels in Jo's are owned by Nigerians

nedu666:
Why respond to dat hater. How can 90% of lgbo investment be in the north. Do lgbos in the north have 10% of the properties in anambra. Just anambra only not to talk of entire se.
I have challenged people to mention 10 industries owned by lgbos in the north. No one has taken that challenge.
Mention 10 big hotels owned by lgbos in the north. No one has responded.
People think that lgbos will invest their life savings in the north of all places

my there are huge investments in the north owned by the igbos, don't say that, there are Igbo billionaires in jos, Kaduna, kano, sokoto, kastina even in Maiduguri (I know of a person who has lived in Maiduguri all his life with his family) and despite all the security situations there, they have refused to relocate down south.... So don't say that shit that igbos don't have much investments in the north.. Infact 90% of all hotels in Jo's are owned by Nigerians

Duru9:
Fear of IPOD is beginning of wisdom

Have y'all wondered why the north is calm in all this

The normal Northern nigeria we knew
Once one person is killed down south or east
They will retaliate in kano

most of them know those killings are the hand work of politicians who want distabilisation in the country

rhyme2all:
Gradually we are getting there.
I knew these politicians will start speaking in favour of MNK just to gain popularity and make people think they are with ESN.
Oga Abaribe why don't you sell off your school in Abuja to me first.

I tire

abaribe has been with NK since time immemorial... He was the one who stood as surety for his bail...

StagethemTVee:
Oversabi dey kill. I wish this is how these celebrities carry the case of politicians for head. But No, they rather dine and wine with the same politicians destroying and looting Nigeria dry, of whom many are peodophiles and now you bring yeye hypocricy here. Leave the police and the courts to do their jobs Iyabo, you are neither and emotions don't win cases. You have some good evidences already, get a good lawyer and try to get some penalty againt the offender. Use this activism to help us save our country from your man friends. Drops mic!

oga stop judging anty iyabo is doing her best to eradicate child molestation in nigeria.. What are you doing with your life, what have you ever stood for.. Even your government, how many times have you gone out to the street and tell them you don't like the way they treat you.. Una go get small data come online with all una suffer suffer come find fault and judge people like you are God.... What are you doing, ask yourself that question, can you save someone?

tkgz:
Russian lady tattoos Flavour – A Russian woman has inked the face of popular Nigerian singer, Flavour on her body as she declares her love for him.

In a video serving rounds on social media, the Moscow-based white lady revealed she got her first tattoo of the singer’s face on her shoulder in 2015.


Read More: https://www.cuzideas.com/russian-lady-tattoos-flavours-face-on-her-body

nkpocha

JonDon12:
This is wrong. As an Igbo person, I am appalled and disgusted by this cowardly act. Please IPOB fish out the culprits among ur ranks and bring them to justice.

my heart breaks seeing that pictures, this is the work of politicians who want unrest in the country

AgreatMan:
Depressed101, Masterkernel1

Funny thing is that it's guys that are calling me names
I would normally expect this from a female

E go clear for una eye. One day,
someone u have NEVER met in your life will accuse u of molestation n if u don't have hardcore evidence, it will make nairaland front-page. It sounds unbelievable right? Just wait long enough, it will happen

I believe the story based on its merit until that woman started shedding tears, n now she added half d video n left out the other half. Leave court matter for lawyer.

oga stop acting up... Them say matter dey with police, you dey. Breeeet.. Abi she go carry concorted story go police? I think she's wise enough to know that she needs concrete evidence to accuse a man such as ejesha... Stop acting like a pedophile that is about to get caught

Nbotee:
Bunch of liars... Dis house is no where in Nigeria or even Africa sef

ah is your house that ugly, that ordinary well kept house now look superficial to you?

mansakhalifa:
Scandalous!

I guess the above only happens in those 5th grade "nollyvoodoo" movies, right?

Bar somebody playing tricks on the palmwine(by poisoning it or something), I don't see how a man born of a [b]real man would succumb to or develop stomach upset from drinking a harmless cup of the Sap.
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If that were to happen to a son of mine{although, I am never having any}, I would disown him and then proceed to question his mother thoroughly.

Holy ajara remains the purest of all African saps.

I rise!

Court clerk, do the needful.

you don't see, because you haven't seen, doesn't mean it doesnt happen, although it can happen with order drinks, cases like that are not peculiar with palm wine alone..
Take the case of THE purported 50 young people who died from eating at a birthday party somewhere in Lagos.. It happens

AgreatMan:
@Incandescent
@henrybangs44
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When dullards like u all are faced with facts, u resort to insults n emotions instead of invalidating whatever I said.

There r two videos involved. The one where she said he confessed, And the one where it was alleged he was committing d crime. Why didn't she just release d CCTV n blur d girls face? Is she trying to say all of our IQs is too low to decipher d events for ourselves?

She did d right thing to set d camera, she did d right thing to report to d police n pick him up but the nonsensical think she did was trying to cry on camera n releasing half of the video.

If u want to take him to court, take him there n shut d f up. If u don't want to take him to court, release both videos n let social media decide. You can't play accuser n judge even in your own case.[/s]

oga you are capping rubbish... A case is already under investigation with the police.. And you want them to release video... Are you a detective, pedophiles, yall gon burn in hell

WalkerMichael:
wetin still fit revive this guy career like this?

na that why you dey talk... You nor even say make the judge wey dey handle e case nor give am 34years in prison, na career you remember?

Troublemaker007:
Yes. Pay consultancy fee first

that's actually how it works. But I down you are a competent guns consultant

blinking001:
Werner plays good football just that he's been unlucky lately.

Not lately.. Since time immemorial

chinjo:
The way some Igbo people are rejoicing over the killing of policemen and security operatives reminds me of how the Hausa's were rejoicing in 2009 when Book Haram were bombing churches and police stations. Now they are the worst victims of Boko Haram. Same will happen in the Southeast. Very soon, southeast will become like Sudan, Somalia, Yobe and Maiduguri. Those fanning the embers of war should go and watch this Korean Movie 'COMRADE'

nobody with sense will rejoice on this, this is just bloody politics playing out

Dollywood:
I just bought this midrange Samsung device for 100k at Jumia. The device name is Samsung A31 but what I noticed I that the phone's front camera is superb but the back quad camera is terrible it will look as if you used an entry-level itel phone to capture it. I need assistance with Gcam or any idea to make the camera better.

you see those Samsung phones that start with A and double digits run from them, they are all substandard phones made for people who cannot afford their standard phones

daveyjay:
Good day NLers, please I need your take on this.
I'm a student in one of Nigeria's prominent public universities.

A girl decided to vie for admission in my school via the predigree programme but she had no accommodation. Because of the relationship between my parents and hers, I offered to take her in from January till now

I offered a roof over her head.

The first night she came, she slept on the floor and I wasn't okay with that, the following night, I told her she could have the bed, I vacated my bed and relegated myself to sleeping on the floor, we can't share same bed since she's neither my babe nor sister. And this sleeping routine has continued ever since then. The floor is my new bed

I gave her my spare key, uncensored access to my kitchen and everything within my legal occupancy.
Cut long story short, last week Tuesday she woke up, had her bath, ate then stepped out briefly, when she returned we were outta water. Tap water of course. She called my attention to it to which I remained calm. Meanwhile I hadn't eaten neither had I bathed. At noon, she came to me that she was hungry but couldn't cook due to unavailability of water, I then asked her if I am to fetch her water??!.

She said she was gonn take food stuff to her friend's place (upstairs) to cook.
I replied by asking how many of her friends had lacked water and brought food stuff to cook here??!


She got angry and took some money and left


That same Tuesday, I went to see Chelsea game, when I returned, I asked her if she cooked but she didn't dignify me with her attention talk more of a response.
I thought it was rude but considered it as one of the many tantrums of ladies

The following morning, she woke up, acted like I don't exist, couldn't greet... had her bathe and left. Returned, unlocked the door, walked in like I wasn't there, ate, left to her friend's place.

On Thursday she repeated the routine, I called her back when she was going out, I asked her if she considered me as her father, brother or boyfriend that she'd wake up and start throwing attitudes...
I made her understand that I am her benefactor.
Hardly did I finish before she left. She returned and continued in same path and that has continued till this very moment...

Last night she didn't sleep at home, when she returned in the morning, she unlocked the door with her spare, walked in, ate, brushed, dressed and walked out without a single word e come be like say I be ghost.

What I did, I changed the locks, took some stuff, sealed my door with strict instructions to the caretaker then moved to a friends place outside my lodge and I've been there ever since.

She has returned and has been calling my line but I've been ignoring...

Now, is my action too harsh or still in line??!

you a man indeed for keeping things straight with her, you are a benefactor to her not her father, or brother, or boyfriend.. She should respect you.. If she can't she is better off parking out, although I suspect he has seen and stupid Bobo that has promised her roof over her head, she will soon understand that People like you are rare, very hard to find.. I am very sure by the time that Bobo is done with her puzzy, she will have to find a place to go

They use them for their evil machinations.. And dump them like used syringes...

They will get really angry soon and turn to either the people or the government to reckhavoc... As for the people they Can do nothing, they are already dieing from hunger...

This is bad, God help us

Both in the north and the south... God what have we done.. Please forgive us..

Why are our leaders so heartless, that they deliberately sacrifice these lives for their selfish interests...

These lives, the lives of the small innocent ones will cry against this country in years to come.. What am I seeing.. God have mercy

uc4uandc:
NEVER DATE AT WORK PLACE
(A personal experience)

It was early August of 2020 when I got an invitation text to come for an interview in newly established entertainment industry here in the East.

We numbered over 300 who came for the interview and after much screening, 62 staff were selected.

The daily training was intense and interesting too because of the Manager we had, he was so detailed and funny also.

Amongst trainees were beautiful ladies of all shapes and sizes and intelligence.
The first day I saw my girlfriend, I didn't feel anything, she's very young and beautiful and opposing too (one of my likes about women). I realize she's a little opinionated, hence she got my attention.

We were all given appointment letter to our various positions. Mine was what I applied for but my gf didn't get hers, she was rather given something else. She came to me to complain since we are now friends and I told her that maybe the reason why she wasn't given the position she wanted was because she's short (Sarcastically, but I meant it)

She got angry and opposed me (I have a thing for women who oppose actions, especially when they have reasons). I apologized and we got along....... Boom we started dating.

#FASTFOWARD#
The next month, I got promoted to one of the managers, everyone was happy for me.
I have been a senior staff for like 8 months now and I must tell you that it has been a terrible experience.

My girlfriend is choking the hell out of me at work. She's very lukewarm in terms of carrying out her duties, when I confront her to do her work, she will tell me that I'm being too harsh on her. How can you litter your department like this and go home? she will tell me she's tired, I will have to assign someone else to do it, but it's her duty.

This keeps happening all the time, if I shout at her at work (when she gets on my nerves) she won't talk to me again for weeks and she won't greet me at work. If I ask her questions about sales, she won't reply me.

The most recent one was her and her colleagues misbehaving and I queried them, others replied my query, but she didn't. I wanted to let go, but one of the senior staff asked about her own reply to the query. I was forced to surcharge her N5,000 since she didn't reply, that means she's guilty.
After I served her the letter, she got angry and said "all the managers in this company are stupid" she said this to my face. Something she can't say to other managers.

Mehn! I was so furious and I was walking away when she threw her book at me, in front of other junior staff. OMG!...... I just walked away.
She's still keeping malice (her specialty) with me. I am not happy with her either.

I keep avoiding her so as not to get into more of what we are. But the work is suffering because of her dereliction.
Currently, I don't know how to tell her I don't want to be with her again, but I love her.

My advice
Never date at your place of work especially when you are bossing over her!

have her sacked na? What are you waiting for

iluvdonjazzy:
It is good ESN is fighting against killer herdsmen but where they miss it all is when they started burning police stations and other government facilities.

you really think they burned those police stations and robbed banks?

BeautyO:
The first sign to know an unserious guy is a man that keeps tabs or create post on how to know unserious women when his mate are hustling

very good.. Na yeye dey worry them

thorpido:
Yes,you don't have to share with anybody.As per making more money,na lie be that.P-Square as a group is bigger than all individual units combined.

them dey tell person.. Some people other african countries probably think the duo are dead... Not much people know their singular act
..

sexiestharam:
Always be careful of statements you make! Even if she is innocent, nobody will ever believe. The tongue can make or break you! I will never look at madam Rita the same way again.

she's a witch

ggood:
Southern Kaduna Christians are still crying till today because of the Dead of Yakowa, it's was a well plan assassination, The Muslims terrorist in Kaduna never wanted a Christian to rule over them.Northern Muslims believe that it's a Crime against Allah if you allow Christian to rule over them, No wonder Shekau was calling him out and swearing for him they know them selves

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powerfulguy:
https://www.nairaland.com/6486030/gunmen-attack-soludo-kill-3#100370997



https://dailypost.ng/2021/04/21/breaking-nine-attackers-of-ex-cbn-gov-soludo-arrested/?amp&__twitter_impression=true

yeye statement, you not going to take prisoners, you are going to kill them, hian, oo, audio statement, they probably the taskmen that's why they want to tactically sweep this under the carpet

Heavens1stson:
Enugu attack: https://www.nairaland.com/6516548/breaking-unknown-gunmen-attack-enugu

Femi Fani-Kayode, former minister of aviation has condemned the attack on Enugu police station by unknown gunmen.

Fani-Kayode on Wednesday via his Twitter handle described the attack as shameful.

According to him, it would be a tragedy for anyone to turn Enugu which is a peaceful State to a theatre of war.

His tweet read:



https://mobile.twitter.com/realFFK/status/1384779071188504577

see what fg is doing just to cause unrest in South East.. Shamefull