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Kobojunkie:
So what you are saying is that, Jesus Christ, the one who outright told you that your marriages have nothing to do with God's Kingdom, lied?

Kobojunkie:
Who send this man dey preach about marriage in God's name though?

Jesus Christ said your marriages are of this world and not of the Kingdom of God - Luke 20 vs 34 - 36 - so why would anyone who ìs a follower of Jesus Christ preach or give advice on marriage in His name?

QuotaSystem:
I’m not sure but that could amount to desertion which is a punishable crime in the army.

QuotaSystem:
Even the best trained foreign soldier will always take cover when clearly outnumbered; while they wait for backup.

DoggoneDogg:
Ukraine wanted to chill with the big boys but everyone is gangsta till Putin shows up


Note to all those pro-US noisemakers here.

Russia has the deadliest nuke in the world
Russia has the fastest missile in the world
Russia has the largest bomb in the world
Russia has the best missile defence system in the world
Russia has the worst war terrain in the world

Nuff said.

Abiodunspectre:
I really wish I have such cooking skills.

Simran94:
Bitter? LOL, I am only stating what I learnt from some of these same women who are now grandmothers in this present day. Many of them didn’t have a choice than to stay.
You should try to make researches on your own before coming to conclusions.

Simran94:
Very wrong. Our mothers had no choice, they obviously couldn’t go back to their father’s houses because their fathers told them to go back to their husband’s houses. It had nothing with being smart, majority of our mothers remained in toxic marriages where their husbands beat them on a daily basis and a lot of them have died in the process, why didn’t they leave? Where they being smart too?

The fear of leaving especially not knowing the fate that would become of their children is the sole reason why many of our mothers remained in their marriages with serial cheats and wife-beaters as husbands. Will a mother of four or five children in the olden days leave her husband’s house with them to her father’s house just because he sleeps around or he beats her up every now and then? How will the children fare? You need to ask mothers and grandmothers that have experienced such why they decided to remain in that marriage and you will get the same response from all of them.

Our mothers took a lot of bullshits and were made to believe that they were more like slaves to their husbands and that their sole responsibility was to “bare children” nothing else.

PENISgod:
Russia is mad and Ukrainian military are fools...
This is exactly what Russia wants, to negotiate terms that would favour them and not the Ukrainians..
All this nonsense is happening because the Ukrainians are afraid to fight back and Russia has capitalised on that fear.. Trust me if Ukraine say "4uck it, since it's war you want, it's war you'll get" and takes the war too to the Russians, rain fire too on Russian cities and infrastructure and make them feel the heat of the war, I'm very sure the Russians would back down because they too deep down don't want war. It's the fear the Ukrainians are displaying that is giving them confidence..

These guys literally share the same boarder with Russia and are busy playing defensive waiting for the U.S and CO before they can make any decisions for themselves.. I don't think these guys really value and deserve their freedom.. Don't they have jets to send to Russian territory too to rain bombs on Russian cities and infrastructure too? Don't they have troops, tanks, armoured vehicles and missiles to send across to Russia too? Can't they take the war to Russia too to make them feel the heat of the war too? Ukrainians are just busy

suffering, bearing the full casualties and cost of the war while Russians are in the comfort of their homes relaxing with reckless abandon, not even acting like their country is at war... At least the Ukrainians too should take the war to them too and make these guy feel some of the heat too...all these their defensive attitude will only make the Russians more relaxed and confident...

Omo, me I don't like fight ohh, but if I see say I don beg you, beg you tire you no wan hear, even though you are stronger than me, thunder go fire you because one of us must be hospitalised... Nonsense

hungryboy:
you must be an Ediot supporting breaking into peoples houses at Night without a warrant to search for drugs

This is how you clowns like you supported the likes of Abba Kyari ,and the became monsters that killed innocent people and took their money in the name of dealing with criminals

LeoDeKing:
And I used to think this gov is intelligent.

Now that you have announced your knowledge of their whereabout, you expect them to remain there and be waiting for you.

What happens to liasing with appropriate govt authorities so you get the support you need in any form?

Alusiizizi:
Don't mind them. Whatever they are being paid to do this is definitely not worth it because it is the same generation that they are trying to destroy that will form the society that their children will live in, of course then don't see this because their vision is too narrow.

Alusiizizi:
Because they are being paid by foreign gay rights group to brainwash Nigerian youth.

Macphenson:
Even governor Sanwolu admitted that two people were killed that night by forces beyond his control

Pls go for more lectures from Lai. You are still a learner.

Romanoff:
Yes. But Jesus agreed to Moses' teaching on the subject in verse 32.

Romanoff:
Matthew 5:32.

That was Jesus speaking. Not Moses.

I refuse to believe infidelity is a hard time.

If it was the woman who committed the infidelity, will you be saying all of these?

Romanoff:
So bad times includes infidelity?

Bad times are things like sickness, brokeness, and down times, not infidelity please.

In short, infidelity is so bad that it's the only ground Jesus allows for divorce in a marriage.

Romanoff:
I kind of feel it's best to leave a cheating partner, especially if they do it all of the time.

The kids are watching and they will think it's how men are spos to behave.

My neighbor is a serial cheat, he cheated on his wife when she was very Ill and was even bringing his lovers into their matrimonial home.

This woman died even after she had gotten well, e no go pass high BP wey kill her because of her husband's infidelity.

If she had left, she'd have still been alive to raise her kids.

Now the man has sent all the kids to boarding schools and has moved on, guess what?

He's still womanizing and it's not even been 6 months since his wife died.

Raph82:
How many men can take in their wife if she mistakingly intentionally gets pregnant for another man?

VEXT:
Not suprise...Most women are lesbian

Neddstark:
Guy, sex with many women no dey affect person destiny. Except the sex brings disease or attachment to the wrong things or you straff witch. You dont want to know about the sex life of big guys. Very very dirty, abi you see Dangote yansh last year. A certain big boy I know does threesomes every weekend. Mostly different girls. Sexis better than substance abuse. Loose sexual lifestyle is not good but the thing they preach in church that it ties your destiny with all your sex partners, I don't believe it.

Neddstark:
Guy, you no wan know how many these big celebrities don do. Dbanj, Davido, Tubaba, Timaya, but their destinies still in tact

Adakintroy:
If it's bringing the truth out then that's what the truth does. Truth don't care about your feeling.


Lies is what tear families apart. If something is a lie, wait for it. One day something will bring the truth out and everything will crumble. That's just the nature of truth and lie war.

If this kind of things keep occur. Maybe cheating women will think twice before they bring another man child home. Don't build things on lies and expect it to stand. Oga go back to your fictional worlds if holywood and make believe. This is reality

BJanta:
I quite agree with you and especially appreciate your civil approach to it. What I mean is that he must have acquired that understanding from the Ibo culture , being an Iboman. And I've heard it said before.

BJanta:
That's definitely in Iboland where there're no illegitimate children, not in all Africa or any other part of Nigeria .

laiperi:
I think the Op is taken literally.

In this day of women's lib. with prosmicuity embedded, a man may need DNA test. One of Bill Cosby children that was not his threatened to sue him because she was not getting enough money after she had tuition fees, vacation once a year and spending money.

Cosby had to resort to DNA test.

Again, the Op is right literally because if you are well off, your brothers and sisters children call you Dad. Even househelps in the same compound call you Dad. We also have big Dad and small Mummy. Sometimes the kids ask: how many mums and dads do I have?

Situations have changed, money is scarce and nobody wants others' responsibilities, especially from a promiscuous woman.