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Vitamin D
Red ginseng
L- arginine
L- carnitine

Check if there is history of cardiovascular disease and obesity in your family.

Run away from unnecessary carbohydrates as much as you can and live a healthy lifestyle.

It may not be taken serious but I have noticed that lots of young guys between middle 20 and 30 are seriously having erectile problem.

Live good lifestyle they won't.

Some of those yoyo bitters have side effects on the long run.

Most of you don't get it up anymore at 40.


I forgot one other supplement.

Generally, low carb and loads of veggies with protein is the best.

Fruits have unnecessary sugars. Fruits have loads of sugar.


We have good veggies like bitterleaf, utazi, uzìza, ùkazi, and so many that are highly medicinal.
Making a puree of them isn't a bad idea.

Is it only the nursing mother that died?
Why the sensationalism .
These hugs have been killing every week. Is it only this one he know of?

pocohantas:
It looks interesting in a way.

What soup is that?

Somebody posted it the other day here. Seemed people didn't know and he mentioned the name.

folake4u:
Very nice soup. I eat it with rice, yam or eba.

No wonder your brain is on fire
It's really nice

loveymom:
Name and what leaf did you use?

It's edo black soup

Actually, the first day I saw it on YouTube I was
Then I saw the lady's kids devouring this soup.
I was like, if these kids can eat this, I can too

The day I made the first one, I have already sacrificed everything I put inside if it goes south.
To my greatest surprise, house shocked me especially the kids.
What happened is you blend your veggies. That's why it's dark.
It must have bitterleaf scent leaf and uziza. I think ugu too but I didn't put that one
Highly medicinal.
The best soup for diabetics.

I don't know why the soup is not well known.
Edo people dey fall hand abi they are afraid people will yab them cos its black?

KanwuliaBaby:
Of course they have privacy. The areas with cameras are areas they must not enter.

They must keep their own areas at ALL times.

That your picture is dope.
You look so beautiful

Thugnificent:
Looks like shiit

The shit still lives inside your body 247. As you offload, more forms. You walk and sleep with shit.
Anù.

paschal47:
Boss what is this na.


Does it taste nice? Was it the cause of you sleeping like a baby?

That's edo black soup.

He should start first.
Charity, they say starts from home.
Countries should boycott his oil and gas equally after all going green is the best for everybody.


When people of low iq rule over an empire,this is what you get

I discovered this soup recently.

Ate with cauliflower and white cabbage foofoo. Used 2 spoons of Oat as binder.
Slept like baby.

theForth:
He is not the one, get your facts right abeg.

Cos I do know him or watch his skits.

Yeah, I've commented severally on the comment section he should stop sexualising women. They are not his toys to be used as he want. Stopped watching those disgusting skits and I am hoping that people should start seeing it for what it is.

Of course, the bulk of his fans are Nigerian boys

IAMBlesssed:
Oga there are many good hardworking ladies out there but stereotype/ generalization won't allow men approach them.. How people believe a financial stable woman must have bad character amaze me..

Cos men hate when a lady is above them in a well known patriarchal society like ours.

Hence the stereotype

abobote:
In our culture it is not in a place of woman to provide for the family, but if there's a source of income that will not alter the family equation, it should be an added advantage.
Most ladies with source of income, don't understand the place of a woman in a home, they claim equal right, and want you to share domestic work with them, since they are contributing financially.
My wife doesn't have any source of income, and I'm okay with it
She is keeping the house clean, do the cooking, wake up early, get the kids ready and take them to school

Which culture, if I may ask?

Igbo people here never learn. Their heart before their brain everytime.
Clout chaser. when push come to shove, he will represent.

Is this not the same man that got popular in sexualising diff women in his skits?

How is he diff from those haters?
Mtcheew

El rufai, call your boys to order.
Whenever things don't seem to go your way,u unleash your boys on Nigerians

sisisioge:
Haba! Who let you out? Gosh, sometimes you people amaze me .

I am a Yoruba woman by the way, hope you feel less strained now.

Wanted to tell that poster uou are yoruba.

Just like seeing me going hard on igbos. They have called me unprintable names. I don't care. Somebody gat to say the truth anyway.
Benue and edo men are like that man.

bukatyne:
There is another breed of husbands that works, earns more than the wife and still not contribute (financial, domestic etc) in the home.

The things I have heard and seen.....

A husband splitting mortgage 50% with his wife when he earns way higher & only husband's name is on document.

Abi wife struggling with fees while husband is buying designer shoes and wristwatches.

That's why when I hear split bill 50 - 50, I am wary.

When people shout that all women should work so that their husbands would not ridicule/disrespect them, I laugh.

In addition to looking for you don't want, one needs to look for what she/ he wants.

You know,when I see these small children screaming redpill and yellow pill, I just shake my head cos they will grow to see the realities of life.

Babe, I wish you live in Abuja highbrow.
You will see shocking things.

Half of our able bodied men are political jobbers.
Graduates o.
The ones on nairaland are small. In the morning the put on tie and suit like they are going to office. For where. They are so proud to do menial jobs.
I was paying school fees of able bodied men's children before I left. They will circle and start discussing politics. You need to see them. Just that if you see the wives struggling to make ends meet.
BP of a young mother so high, you wil be moved to help. One day I screamed at one. Today, he is my caretaker and working now. Wifey is like a sis to me. This man is was out of work for 4yrs yet driving suv
Still refused to join wifey doing what she do to make ends meet and who are you to talk to him any how. The day I screamed at him, wifey was begging me to stop. But it yielded good result. This man don't earn anything yet controls what wifey earns. It's well.
May we never meet what will destroy us emotionally

Irrespective of tribe, we have allowed hatred eat into the fabrics of our soul.
We are not diff from terrorists,ritualists and cannibals.

We were conceived in hatred in this country and breath hatred.
Including the @op

Ishilove:
God

You haven't seen anything yet.

Them full Abuja. And the funny thing is their wives cover for them.
That car they drive, na madam buy am.
House o, house rent, giving him money to give his people. His people will thank their son and probably bad mouth wifey

Just to make him feel like a man.

One lost his job and packed up. Wifey was doing everything. Her income wasn't enough. She was going about meeting people to help her husband with job.

At a point she resorted to begging to buy food. Told the man to go to his father's family house with the kids for now cos she can squat with somebody and the kids will eat and be taken care of in lagos. Oga said that's an insult. And she loved this guy so much. She indulged him. A masters electrical engineer degree holder and so handsome. Always in the house. He don't talk.

Women dey suffer. Just that society makes them mute. Don't un-dignify your husband. Respect and honour him. It is well

Chris is not pressing charges.

Case dismissed.
Mixed emotions from celebrities. As a big boy, it will just die

loveymom:
Oh wow, I will have to talk to my kids about keeping their mouths shut in case they get questioned by the school authorities or social service.

Hello stranger

It's real o.
Just be their best friend and others will fall in place.

The guy is always planted as a mole.
Anything for money.

Mariangeles:
Cameras around the house?
Isn’t that too much?

At least, they deserve some privacy when they’re in the house na.
I’d go cray cray!

When your kids reach a certain age, it's a prerequisite.
It will save uou jail term or bad record in the future

Beremx:
you are indeed a good daughter. The daughters of today are something else. They think they know more than their mothers. It is well o!

I tell you my sis. My colleague is battling with her eldest daughter here. Her son has 2 kids already.
Baby mama has refused to work. A nurse o.
Guy pays 700 pounds every month plus other stuff. One day he said, auntie, I learnt the hard way. His sis is gallivanting the whole world with friends. Work, make money and spend it on frivolities. It is well.

KanwuliaBaby:
It is ridiculous. Then those busy bodies aka school social workers and school nurses will keep interrogating in school and won’t concentrate on the children that truly need help.

The police even goes to the school to take the children OUT OF SCHOOL TO INTERROGATE THEM WITHOUT YOUR CONSENT! Ha!


GIRLS ARE THE MOST DIFFICULT ENTITIES TO RAISEEEEE! Kai!

Boys get their own wahala sha- I don’t even near that area. I let my husband handle his OWN 3 boys! I nor fit deal with testosterone- Very unemotional creatures. You can NEVER tell what is going on their minds . Pass good morning and good night - finish o. IF THEY NEED ME, LET THEM APPROACK ME! Shikena. I only do estrogen abeg. With boys YOU HAVE TO GO PHYSICAL! Naaaah. I can’t. ✅

Retire as a nurse ke? Never. I just work from home. Over 20 years as a bedside nurse? I can NEVER go back to working in ANY HOSPITAL. Too much time away from home o. With these “fast tails” under my roof?
Before we comeback from work, dem go do reach down town, shoplift with their useless gang-touts and be back home like nothing happened.


They are FILTHY!
They are MOUTHY!
They are EXTREMELY HORMONAL!
They are MANIPULATIVE!
Extremely PSYCHO-SOCIOPATHIC!

When boyfriends enter nko? Na competition to belong with street urchins!
God! I don DIE!!!! Dem go make mouth like:
“I garra boyfren. . . I garra boyfen. . . . yen yen yen yen yen. . . . *

MADNESS !

I gerra boyfren


It's indeed crazy.

I have only boys. They are agbero.

One knucklehead called my first child coconut head. He warned him and told me.
I asked him, are afraid of him?
He said no, I said, do the needful but don't mention my name when you are quizzed
Since then, pure respect.

My prayers everyday, I don't want to have hbp cos of kids.


As for your girls, they will calm down. Hormones are raging now.

KanwuliaBaby:
WHAT HAPPENS WHEN YOUR CHILDREN CALL THE POLICE ON JHOOOOO!

7. The Trial and beyond.
Most of these cases NEVER make it to trial.
They are designed to mess up your record and your life. YOU WILL NEVER HAVE TO FACE TRIAL.

Your lawyer will give you SOUND counsel and tell you how to clean your record and it will be SEALED.

Conditions:
1. You must be free from ANY PRIOR CRIMINAL RECORD.
2. No drug or alcoholism
3. No Psychiatric problems- you must pay for a psychiatric evaluation from a Licenced counselor from the court’s list. The report will be forwarded to your attorney. Your attorney will tender that to the court and sweeten the judge’s ears.

Within a week, your record is SEALED and you can continue with your life.

Devil don shame your children!

Oh my God

Never know it's this serious.

This abroad eeh. Its well.

Beremx:
I am actually referring to we born in the 70s and 80s.

Beremx, during my time, I was given free hand especially as l entered my teen. I got anything I want. My mum was my girlfriend.

That freedom I was given made me a very independent human being. Contrary to what those being beating and re stricted were doing, I did the opposite cos I don't wanna disappoint my mum. Good daughter

KanwuliaBaby:
Very important!
If done properly, the children will be very appreciative.✅

I was not supposed to laugh but I have been laughing really hard here

Well done mama.
It's not easy especially with girls.

So far, so good in my home. Fingers crossed. The discipline I installed before crossing over helped a lot. For now.

I noticed what works again for me.

You misbehave, I will send you to boarding school in the countryside in Nigeria.

My vicinity is all white and their school all white.
Everytime, child service will pick on my kids and start their useless interrogation.
One day, I went cray cray on the school authority.
Said I will report them and child services for harassing my kids cos they are black

Since that day, everybody maintain their lane.

Even when one was admitted in hospital, these idiots were there asking him some stupid questions in front of me. I trust that one. He gave them befitting answer.

Have you retired as a nurse?

baby124:
Well my dear, this is how you have been carrying on before marriage. He married you because you are sympathetic to his plight and enable him. I am sure other girls abandoned him and you picked him up as your project.

The fact is, a lot of times, some women are smarter and more intelligent than their husbands. They have a higher earning potential and they recognize this. So they don’t mind marrying a less ambitious man because they can cover the family financially. But the husband mostly must be very reasonable for that agreement to work.

Also, he may work hard at work but never get the kind of favor you will. Maybe you need to start being reasonable and find new financial agreements. Sit him down and tell him his spending habits are becoming a burden and you both need to start planning for your future so things need to change.

Ask him to please commit to deducting automatically from his pay to a joint account for household expenses monthly. Do your calculation and determine what is needed. Leave everything outside that alone for him. This will include feeding, school fees, bills and money for projects.

Open a savings account with your bank and keep money there, while what is in your regular account is just for little errands here and there. So when he takes the ATM, his spending will be minimal. Put a limit on your daily spending on your checking too, so if he goes on spending sprees it will not go through. You do not need to disclose what is in this savings or that you have it, as he will start thinking up business ideas to squander it. Do not get ATM for your savings and limit online access or transfers in that savings account. It’s very important that as a family you have emergency savings.

I know you see many women being spoiled, financially by their men and probably feel bad. But many women put up fronts and tell lies and just in your shoes or worse. Doing things like you did, transferring school fees into his account so he will feel more manly. Make sure he also does not have a leech in the name of side chick he is feeding.

If he does not agree to the joint bill account, which you will manage. Please assign him bills like school fees and rent. If the rent is too high for his pay then you can help him out there. But school fees, he should pay if he’s working and it’s reasonable. Not that you went to enroll your kids in Atlantic hall while he has a government job and, you expect him to pay such fees.

Baby 1234, all these won't work. Guy already had his target in the beginning of the relationship.
Hook up with a hardworking woman, nack her belle, relax and enjoy.

I have a friend that's in worst condition than this lady with 3 kids. She left and moved back in. Guy didn't bulge. He always have big dream. Big pastor . Goes to all the big churches, practice how to speak like big man of god. Stopped his flourishing business.
I quietly detached myself from her family cos its everyday complain. Before I will say one bad thing

If he is doing the house duties, why cry?

Place him on monthly allowance.

You saw him that way and married him.

You can never change him.

It wil be a concern if he don't help in the house.

Some husbands are naturally that way.

They do well in secured paid employment.

Epileptic power supply contribute to these things packing up too.

That's a huge blunder.

Chinese companies use inferior quality materials to manufacture stuffs for sub saharan Africa. Just little bribe and caŕy on

You guys have started again?

Praise singers association of Nigeria.
Lazy youths.