Dreytonisback:
Give her a stern warning of her malicious acts
It's a big red flag when your wife keeps malice with you more than 1 day
If it exceeds 2days then you must've hit her, else it mustn't exceed 1 day .

If she still doesn't change, the next time it happens just take few of your clothes and leave the house for her and never respond to her calls for a month , just go to ur friend's place to chill , avoid her food
If she cooks the best soup in the world , avoid it and cook yours period
That one go pain her die, and don't let her use kpekus to scatter your brain, avoid konji .

Lights up my kpoli in peace

hit Kwa??…. Who raised you boy?

timesupreloaded:
she nor purchase anything.una too mumu for this country. he fvcked her like a dog and gave her the car to sample online. These idiots are not worth a dime and will fvck for 2k dols

Kee yourself

Gabless:
I am 28 years old, a graduate of one of the university in South West. I work as a contract staff in a bank.

[b]I met this guy about a year ago [/b]through my best female friend, and the journey started. I took him to my parents and he also took me to his parents too, and the wedding preparation started.

We were suppose to do family introduction but my parents says there is no need considering some logistic reasons. Although my mum has her reservation concerning him. But since my father has no objection I think am good to go.

He has sent money for some preparation since he is not residing in Lagos. The problem started after I went to idumota with my aunt to buy our engagement clothes. It was my aunt that drove me to the market. When we returned, my fiance called me, we talked for some times, but he couldn't appreciate my aunt for her kind gesture. Although my aunt didn't say anything that day but she wasn't happy. My dad also complained that he has been rude to him. The same goes with my mum.

The last straw that broke the Carmels back was when he was arguing with my aunt over the phone. He did not know I was in my aunt's house that particular day. I wasn't happy at all, thinking that if he would not regard my parents how would he treat me after marriage.

So I confronted him the second day over the phone, telling him that I'm not happy about the way my parents where complaining about him, and that attitude of him is creating fear in me. Instead for him to be a little remoseful and even call those people and apologize, he was arguing with me, still in my aunt's house.

So I told him, maybe we should put the preparation on hold thinking he would at least try and apologize to them. He just said, is that what you want and ended the call.

Everyone was surprised. He didn't call back it was his mum that called my mum, she didn't even persuade them to stop me from taking such step, and the guy too didn't call me for like too weeks until when I called him and he said he wasn't interested in the marriage again.

Actually, I wasn't happy and I have been downcasted since then, but on the other hand, May l ask this question does this guy really loves me?. Is he really mature enough for marriage. Is it all my fault? Please don't insult or abuse me. I just want to know if it's all my fault.

one year ago is too short a time to allow a man court you.
Infact, dating for just one year, a man isn't suppose to meet your parents yet.
You are yet to know each other and you'll already planning marriage. Do you know think marriage is for small children??.

It's the best for both of you. Lick your wound and heal. Get buisness with other things. Get an education, start a buisness, get a hobby...
Marriage is not priority and tell your family members to Rest!.

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Other computer work on the go.


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I'm interested in the tab. How much

Oktane:


Again, my apologies for sounding so detached from reality but let's attempt to adjudge this thing dispassionately.

Oyedepo has made a very undeniably significant contribution to our National growth through the set up of Covenant university. So has Atiku, Elizade, Age Babalola, Igbenedion, etc. Now the controversy surrounding the source of the initial funding is a totally different subject matter.

For all purposes and intent, some other people should set us scholarships, endow grants, and provide angel student loans to people who are brilliant enough to study in these schools but cannot afford them.

In my opinion, Government at all levels should divest from Education especially at the tertiary level. It is too serious a matter to be treated with ignominy as is witnessed now

Believe me, if you ever have the chance to interview many Nigerian graduates you will discover why we have been retrogressing in leaps and bounds.

Public education is a big SHAM.

Be it First generation, second generation federal and even state institutions.

We really should be thankful to Oyedepo and co for RESCUING us from the sinking ship called public education.

If I am granted life and the wherewithal, I would rather my offsprings learn a good trade after a good foundation in a private secondary school than attend a public university.

My two pence though.

you write so well sir, are you a product of private university?

St.upid boy. Continue to describe your wife's VA.gina to the world, I hope you get a photo of your Mama's..v.agi.na too. We need to know how wide she is even though your father never complained

MrBrownJay1:
this one is ok... at least he had a good time with her and fukced her well well.

in South America, there is one scam that many fall into: you will see a fantastic looking "babe" that will just hit on you. "she" will tell you all types of stories and say:" just lets go home to you, give me 10$ and fukc me like there was no tomorrow"
so most men would see that as a great opportunity and take the "babe" home. by the time you start smooching and get the "babe" undressed, you will now realize that this is a ladyboy/tranny and will stop and say;" kai, get the fukc out of my house!!!!!" na that time this tranny will start telling you that you owe him $500 and start screaming at the top of his lungs:" i am a tranny prostitute, you picked me up and wanted to have sex with a tranny bla bla bla!" just so that everyone/neighbors could hear it. of course, out of shame you want that dude to shut up as you dont want your neighbor to think that you are into this homo yeye nonsense, so you pay him to shaaattttap and to get the Bleep out your house.

hahahahahahaja

Wawelexy:


Same thing I was thinking....

Not only the Nigerian girls are useless.... All of them.

small boy with mummy issue. your mama na the most useless woman, she left you and you're still hurting.

Kingzeez10:
A hustling man's biggest enemy is lifestyle inflation.

explain this bro

KaluwisxPRO:


You have a choice to use condom, you deliberately refused. You’re not just putting yourself in harms way with infection, but with unwanted pregnancies which both a man and a woman have a choice to use condom or not.

Now you’re pregnant, you want a government guided professional to terminate the child because you were not being careful with yourself.

Pregnancy is never in this life a mistake, except in the case of rape, which itself is a crime.

Who do we blame should you contract HIV..? Is it you or the government?? With your answer, we will know who to blame for getting pregnant without protection.

You should carry your pregnancy cross the same way you have no choice with HIV. No one is to blame but you and your choices.

see how invested you are in a woman's Womb!. Channel the same energy into your life situation and solving your erectile and financial dysfunction.

The hate on the girlchild is innate..same way you don't care about your mother.
We know you'all don't care for the baby as much...
if not, you'll be out there getting the homeless kids off the street.

But get ready to feed on the aborted foetus!
Yes! stuff those living blood clot in your A.n.a.lh.o.le!

Can you work at a POS shop? Where is your location?

What is your qualification?

Poor woman. I’m sure it’s her money she used to cook the soup.

Mariangeles:


No go dey do pass yourself to answer "supportive"
Body go tell you laslas. Na that time you go know say man and woman no get equal physical strength

There was a reason God Almighty established some laws.
God made laws that protects the woman. Don't give that up at the detriment of yourself.

don't blame them. A lot of women have never enjoyed the full support of a man. Gone are the days! Some of these women paid their own dowry and fund their own wedding. Pay the rent and other bills... all the man does is give her a Mrs title. They only come online to keep a straight face. They cry inside. They are only keeping up appearances.

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yettymuse:
all these qualities are stale, archaic and plain conventional. How much does your sister have in her account to demand a well to do husband?

hahahhahahah

Bunch of hypocritical Nigerians that would allow sentiments rub off practical actions.
You all mentioning Ify and saying she went overboard with investigation are the reason we are having a returning atiku in this country. Y'all are a bunch of mess.

On this same nairaland ifyalways has helped tracked down countless scammers and saved a lot of people their hard earned money. Yeye people everywhere

tttmar:

My sister, I think you are taking this too far. I sent the message to the person who wanted to help me to see it not you.
You are not the person that helped me with the sewing machine, Why are you so pained?
I don't think your kind can help people.
I have helped people in the past when I was okay financially, I just found myself in this condition and I have three children to feed daily and other expenses to meet up with.
Presently some people are owing me but mere looking at their condition, I couldn't pressurise them if you have experienced this you will know what I am talking about.
I sent the request to the lady if she can help me with the plan I have in mind I am not forcing her.
Learn to be soft with people, you don't know the condition you might find yourself in futures.

Nigerians love to be overly spoon fed. You went from 0 - 100 all rude just because someone advised you on how you can find your feet one step at a time.
Why do I feel the sewing machine is only a strategy, what you needed is the 20k,nobody gave you a sewing machine. You know you would draw sympathy when you ask for sewing machine

vingeophysicist:
Yeah I cannot even marry a single mom. But if it's a widow I can manage that.

you don baff?

yettymuse:
Aura, cologne

plus fat wallet

yettymuse:
Divorce is not even an option because the devil you know is better than the angel you don't know. You just have to make your marriage work. I hate to hear about cheating causing dissolution in marriages or relationships.

By the way your wife could be flirting and not cheating completely... Are you still doing those things you were doing during courtship? 9 years is a long time and trust me you must have begin to adopt the mama and papa style. When was the last time you both went for a dinner, movies, walk, vacation...?
Do you even still remember to call your wife sweet names?? Some foot massage after a hectic day?... Raunchy whatsapp message whilst at work?, breakfast in bed.... Little gift, lingeries, etc..

How's is your sex life? Do you communicate your fantasies and cravings? , when was she last time she got an orgasmic gift and said "THANK YOU"! Hunku you're married so no limits, no boundaries... Set everything on fire!

Maybe your marriage needs a rejuvenation, we sef dey get bored sometimes..

Reignite 'em romantic spark and set the atmosphere on fire. Instead of snooping, change your mode of dressing, stay trim and fit, wear a clean hair cut and smear some cologne mix n match.

If all this doesn't work, pray and watch WAR ROOM, please watch this movie and your marriage would be back to how it was.

Oga make this a sticker.

Antina:


Madam, your boyfriend is married over there, your instinct is right, if not, you wouldn't have been seeing their pictures together! Don't be deceived by sweet words!

Before further action, make sure you ask him questions and do further investigation.

Thank you

Good day nairalanders, I just need to be convinced more that I'm either walking a danger lane or not.
My boyfriend has a child which I'm aware about and he claims never to have been married to the baby mama. He visits the child every week and even pay her rent but it doesn't bother me but lately I had this feeling to probe further. I searched and found pictures of him, the lady and the son together at different events and occasions. I searched more and found the said lady goes by the name MRS lagbaja (my boyfriends name).
From the look of things, he lives a bachelor life here and lives a family life there.

I've not confronted him as I need to be sure I'm not just being paranoid.
I am a very independent woman and this scares me because I don't want to build anything with someone else's 'property'.. Please I need matured input, thank you

You reek of pride!!!! I pity that woman if she allows herself fall victim of your stupid sob story

yettymuse:
Yes, very very very gradual, I started off with a 3bd foundation and went off.

At my lowest ebb in life's sojourn, I went on to build a 2room, roofed and moved in with my family... I saved a lot and my mum did a lot of labor job... We needed to save a lot of cash.
It was looking all rough but we needed shelter.

I moved on to building the bricks for the 3rd room, kitchen and toilets... Prayers answered, I roofed.
Then came the remaining big sitting room and dinning room...
I don't even know how it happened, but I fixed the bricks and just took a chill pill... I cannot come and kill myself...

God never leaves his own people, he saw my wahala, goal and strive, he made a way, and I roofed the last batch.
Few months later, we tiled, plastered, fix windows and burglary, toilet and the likes.

In all, my mom did a lot of labor work.. I was determined! I saved like my life depended on this project. I need a decent home for my family cos we have suffered shelter a lot growing up. In all, if you put your mind to it, you'll make it happen. Start small, weigh you pockets and responsibility, be determined.

Wow! You're an inspiration o I swear. Following your diary like bumper to bumper. You got a new fan here girl!

thanks.

I wonder Why you are up and doing with 'Keeping up with your thread' but ignored your whatsapp conversation. Should I be ignored because I asked for my items?

Education plus vocational skills to me is a perfect combo.If your cerficate fails you in the labour market,your Tools will not
..An Educated tailor will Open a fashion school,with wonder clothing lines.An Educated carpenter would makes lovely upholsteries and even own a show room.
Its best to be educated and still possess a vocational skill IMO

lanrizil: Why Tiwa's own dey wrinkled ? ....jst wondering

NEPA

@olajide.I got it at MicroStation ikeja...
So far.....
1.why does this tab charge like ASAp.am scared o..
(And yea,it looks like it lasts too.).
2.Have been rocking Airtel bis on non BB plan on this chick and its been super fast!!..(Ehhn pls smbody should explain why a device is faster with a network speed and another device is not.
3.The camera is not toooo good.Maybe cos have been using a TECNO A+ with 8mp(anyway I just transfered my camera 360 and cymera apps from my A+ for better use
4.The sound is Lovely(2 speakers).
5...I love Tecno earpiece.lawd!.


For the camera.I increased the exposure to +3.and it was clearer in the dark.
Above all.this device is Sleek!!!

Finally got mine at ikeja for28k.

All accessories is intact as stated by bigsammysam.
I'll post my reveiws ASAp