Enchantaurl: She took loan from Bank of 1million and invested in the business , he bought a bus with it and the bus has just his name. She kept borrowing and ended up borrowing 5m from the bank for this business and whenever they make profit he takes it all and gives her crumbs, things were so hard for us and she kept saying he loves her whilst complaining to us.
She took 2m from a contribution, gave it to him again and it sinked. Lapo and accion bank too she's owing them.
As if that wasn't enough he tried to break my family by calling my elder sister a witch and my mum supported him, my family almost divided.
Note: I didn't know of all this debts until recently a pastor saw her on the road she was walking like some one that was suicidal according to him, and he asked her what the problem was and she narrated things, he called for a meeting with the man and everything was revealed.
The banker who helped with the loan was in the meeting and when they asked my mum how she wanted the debt to be paid she said she was going to pay all that he should just give her the bus. The pastor said she was charmed but I don't believe she was, I feel like she was too desperate for love. This guy even beats her but she denies it, he talks to her anyhow.
I'm happy she's left him but right now to eat is a problem, the money I saved before entering school 60k I gave it to her and there's no hope of getting it back. He's destroyed everything. We've relocated to the village and I feel depressed and I've developed a hatred for men as I've never had a good male figure in my life, they are all assholes (my latedad inclusive).
I believe women should deal with men without their emotions. Be mean to them and they will adore you. After reading why men love bitches I realized a lot of things.
You need to tell us what killed your dad, because what goes around comes around. With your statement, You people must have jointly suffocated the man. Go and ask God for forgiveness, otherwise more suffering is on the way.
HIV is just like the or H.Pylori or HPV virus that affect millions of people but they never fall sick. millions of humans have HPV and yet it doesn't make them fall sick.
Though It may cause genital warts or cervical cancer in women.
A HIV patient should stop taking drugs, eat very very healthy balanced diet, drink enough water, sleep well and exercise.....then keep checking the so called viral load (CD4 count), it will always be normal
AIDS is failure of immune system which makes the body vulnerable to all available diseases and thus death occurs, death of an immune system has been around for a verg long time now (it's as old as mankind), it isn't new.
Some nonconfirmists say HIV is a passenger virus (meaning that just like other viruses n bacteria living inside us without harm)...HIV virus causes no harm and shouldn't be treated at all.
Some other nonconfirmists also said that HIV is just like a particle in the human body, completely safe n causes no medical illness at all.
The nonconfirmists I'm talking about are renouned medical doctors, molecular biologists, Chemists, Phd holders in their respextive fields. They written books to disprove the HIV causing AIDS false theory, they have made count less videos on the matter and they have called on the doctors selling HIV SCAM to come and meet them in a televised national debate on the matter, but the scam doctors refused. Isn't it odd that governments have refused to arrest these nonconfirmists, withdraw their medical licences n sue them to court for misleading the public?
One of these doctors even brought a very popular American celebrity who is HIV positive on television, collected the patients blood and openly jnjected himself wit it, all in the view of proving that HIV is a scam.
Meanwhile Late Dr Sebi, A Black Herbalist from Honduras have cured Sickle cell, asthma, cancer, AIDS, High blood pressure, diabetes etc several times.......He even won a court case against the city of new York wen they wanted to send him to jail for misleading the public and practicing medicine without a license.
The world is a wicked place and the HIV shittt is a business for some people, that's why these lies as being sustained.
HIV does not kill, what kills HIV patients is the toxic anti-cancer drugs used in the 1960s to shrink cancer cells, those drugs are very deadly. Now they are giving same drug in low doses as cure for HIV.
HIV PATIENT'S DONT FALL SICK UNTIL THE DAY THEY ARE TOLD THAT THEY ARE POSITIVE.....From that day, fear, hopelessness, regret, sadness, anger, Etc will lead them to depression, lack of appetite, lack of will to live...
Lack of appetite will cause them to starve their immune system of nutrients needed to power it, the immune system dies and then AIDS occurs.
A HIV patient should simply stop taking any drugs n live their lives, nothing will happen to them because they are not sick.
Go to Google, search for IS HIV A SCAM? U will see countless YouTube videos made by professors of medicine n professors in molecular biology disproving HIV and AIDS nonsense
This is my first time of seeing something like this and really interesting and convincing, So, if HIV is a normal thing in our body, why does it show positive or negative?
Greatdre: I really feel your pain bro. I am not surprised by the comments I have seen so far, some stating you should have a heart to heart talk with your wife, buy gifts, apologize etc As a married man like you, I am very sure you would have done all these to no avail. Our case is similar just that my wife doesn't deny me sex. This is the point, marriage is not easy for a man. I want you to know one thing, women are very manipulative in marriage irrespective of the number of years you guys spent courting. Marriage is different from dating or courtship. This manipulation is what makes many men divorce or beat their wife. They mostly do this when they have kids (their love and care shifts to the children). The earlier you understand this, the better. All you listed here are all acts of this manipulation. Solution: Be patient, do your best to try talk to her to change, if she doesnt bulge, carry your cross bro..Ignore her acts, make yourself happy, take care of your health, never report her to any of her family members (mum or dad). Pls, do not divorce or beat her. I repeat again, do what makes you happy and take good care of your health.
Best advice so far "do what makes you happy and take good care of your health"
You married a wicked woman. Gosh I’m angry I swear. She hoodwinked you into marriage and is now showing her true colors. I say you surprise her. I wish I could give you just a bit of myself. She go come Dey beg you I swear to God.
mrgoodd: The love started rough at first because she didn't want too give in at first, But with patiency and transparency she fell, Not that I am not rich but I know I don't have what she has and that's not my problem at all and that don't even bother me at all, Now the question is this , How can I control someone wealthy than I am without me getting her mad or making her feel I am doing too know,, You know the way a lady with money think is different from the way an average girl think. Please Keep your comment if you have not experienced this type of relationship before, I need matured and experienced men here pls.
When a woman has the greater amount of cash she will turn it into a knife to be used to constantly stab the man's ego.
PECON1: Before my father died, he was on injection for 40 years.he had diabetes.op believe me diabetes is worse than HIV. If ur not well to do u will die of diabetes.the experience we had, u will not wish your enemy the sickness.Hiv is not the end, there are people suffering more sickness thats deadly than HIV. Chai, and I have been having unprotected sex with my girlfriend that is 21yrs since last year.
We're in the same shoe, after going through this thread, I have been having small HBP, I don't have mind to run the test. Any little health issue, I will be scared. May God help me. � � �
I know your issue and why they left you unceremoniously. Virgins are the most annoying people you can relate with. Most of them are antisocial, any move you make they think you're looking for sex. My dear, currently it's very difficult to get a man that can endure and understand most virgins and their ignorant nature.
omochelsea004: yes she was circumcised... the person that did it no even try at all, & i knw that's the problem with her, but if there are medications that can help improve her sexual drive, i am ready to take it as one of my responsibilities, as a matter of fact i heard about one "Spanish fly" but i don't know much about it & i don't want anything with side effects
Bros, make sure you have "Tiger nuts and Dates" in your house 24/7, ensure she eats it regularly, she'll be the one begging you for sex.
proudly feminist choke on my feminism You guys are just silly, any lady with a different opinion from you daft beings gets tagged with feminism or insulted. what manner of humans are littered all over this platform
Professor of feminism, just be ready to turn into a witchcraft at your old age because that's when the reality of life will set in. I pity any guy that would come close to you as a suitor, his future will be miserable if he didn't realize himself on time.
you are too proud, ego is your major problem which you need to work on. see how you painted your wife , you just want us to see the demon in her and perfect husband in you. for 10months your inlaws didn't call and you didn't bother calling nor visiting to know how she's fairing. That woman should just leave you and focus on being better because being with you will never be productive.
A feminist spotted. You didn't even read the story and his responses to some questions, all you cared for is to lay down the blame on him.
Useless government, what of those that have been receiving more than 30k? Minimum wage should be across board. If the minimum wage is only for those earning less than 30k, what's the essence?
kudosamass: I doubt you are from Enugu. I also doubt if you actually visited Enugu of late. I am not a fan of the Governor, but the guy is beating my expectations of him. He is one Governor I respect in Nigeria today because of his unparalleled leadership qualities. I really wonder which Enugu you are talking about! Or maybe you are talking from the podium of the e-oposition in Enugu.
Go and sit down, the governor is already a failure in the first term and I think this last term will be the worst. You that claims to be in Enugu, mention one capital project he can be remembered for... Sycophants everywhere praising a failure for doing nothing.
Go to any big pharmacy , it is sold there, and very cheap, like up to 10 strips, u could get for 1k5 or 2k... Also buy the buffer, u can ask them to teach u how to use it, and that's it .
Its easy to dish out this advice, pray not to be in that Guy's shoes, you will understand the despair and utter hopelessness he is facing!!! That HIV is about the worse thing that could happen to someone... Are u aware at the moment he can't travel to some countries, and will have difficulties taking up most paid employments? Even finding a spouse is an uphill task as most people will run from him... This is someone whose life just changed like this, at an instance!!! Bro, it isn't easy, I can only imagine what he is going through!!! I'll advice him to be strong, but to be true!!! If I was in his shoes, I ain't sure what I'll do!! I tell u... I have a HIV strip test with me, in my ward drop... Any girl I have issue of burst condom with, or mistakenly did raw, my strip is always handy!!! This is terrible mehn!! I'll advice all guys to get that.
Please, how can one get it? Can I buy it in the market?
Please don’t Mind my English, am really typing this in tears and pain.
So there’s the babe I’ve been dating, I truly love her and we’ve been setting up my new flat and making plans for our Traditional wedding hopefully this November but something tragic struck and took away all d Joy and Happiness....
This was how it began, she took my phone and went through all my chats and I had some female friends I’ve been flirty chatting with but honestly I I was dumbed to have done dat...
I lied to them that I was single and searching I never accepted that I had a Fiancé just for the fun of it I also lied that she was my cousin and she found out all those stuffs and now she has ended the relationship...
I’ve cried and wept because my stupidity has made me to loose my angel...
She’s an ideal wife I never knew what got over me to just try being flirty....
I have involved my Family and her Family to beg her but she has refused. She told my eldest brother that she can’t love me anymore.
I’ve also pleaded with her best friend and siblings to plead with her but she’s not willing to come back.... I’ve sent her over 50 apology SMS I’ve called her line over a 30 times but she’s not willing to take my calls.
When I call with an unknown number and she hears my voice she will drop the call. She doesn’t wana even talk to me.
The whole house looks empty without her I just can’t forgive myself for loosing the best gift God gave me. Now I feel so downcasted...
Brothers and Sisters please I need your candid advice. Your Free to Insult me
Am writing this because I’ve not been able to sleep. I can’t Forgive my self. I truly Love her.
Mods please move to front page.
Bros, go and hustle first. If she eventually accept your apology, you'll be her slave forever. Be careful how you go about it.
kevin25: My neigbor got married to a woman that is financially and academically ahead of him yes they started with love at initial stage she did everything possible to make sure the man suceed i mean everything she sacrify evrytn kudos to her, but the problem now is how the woman talks to the husband with no atom of respect she goes around telling people what she has done for the man to the extent her friends no longer see the man as anything .. The one that pains me was the day she told the man to go and dish out food for himself even in my presence, wen the man try to force her my dear come see insult from how she feed him to how she made him who he is,just because the man ask her to go and bring his food even dou the man is working now but stil the woman stil look down on him.. The worst she stil call the man by his name . The man is talking about bringing another woman that wil respect him as The man of the house.. This is a big lesson without money i dnt think you can control a nigerian woman .
kevin25: My neigbor got married to a woman that is financially and academically ahead of him yes they started with love at initial stage she did everything possible to make sure the man suceed i mean everything she sacrify evrytn kudos to her, but the problem now is how the woman talks to the husband with no atom of respect she goes around telling people what she has done for the man to the extent her friends no longer see the man as anything .. The one that pains me was the day she told the man to go and dish out food for himself even in my presence, wen the man try to force her my dear come see insult from how she feed him to how she made him who he is,just because the man ask her to go and bring his food even dou the man is working now but stil the woman stil look down on him.. The worst she stil call the man by his name . The man is talking about bringing another woman that wil respect him as The man of the house.. This is a big lesson without money i dnt think you can control a nigerian woman .
Family / Re: Do You Think My Mum Was Jazzed? by desoul2004(m): 8:05am On Aug 22, 2019 
, you just want us to see the demon in her and perfect husband in you.