Henvest:
There is this shop I normally stock my house from then. One day I came to buy things as usual, the guy, the owner of the shop introduced one girl to me telling me she is his sister. After that day I stopped seeing the guy but only the girl in the shop.

One day I traveled, while on the travel someone called, introduced herself and explained who she is. Obviously she took my number from my younger brother staying with me. She pretended to be angry with me for not telling her am traveling and for me not knowing her name before then. Of course I apologized but she demanded I should take her out when am back before she will accept my apology I obliged.

I came back kept to my promise but made it in an open place, National theater precisely.
But then she booked another date next week but insisted it won't be open place anymore.. The rest is history.

One day I came to her shop to buy something and over heard a close friend calling her Iyawo Ossy, that wasn't the first I heard someone address her as Iyawo Ossy but I become curious this time because this person is a close friend and should know better. She tried to wave it with excuse of anybody is free to call her what they like but when I insisted, she finally opened up.....

Ossy was not her brother but her fiance with whom she has been together for 6 six years.
But, according to her Ossy is waiting for her to take in before going to see her people.
The reason why both of them chose to be telling people they are siblings remain a mystery to me till today....

I got mad and call it quit with her for trying to use me to secure marriage. The whole relationship did not last up to 2 months but obviously it was a bit late already.

Weeks later it become obvious she is pregnant, deep inside of me I felt am responsible, but when I ask her she insist it belong to Ossy. I push but she stood her ground insisting it belongs to Ossy.
She went further denying the timing of the pregnancy, if doctor is saying 2 months she will be claiming her pregnancy is 1 month.

To my greatest surprise become hostile and start avoiding me even go further to claim they went for paternity test and the result shows it belong to the guy.

I gave up, dust my self and moved on.
Nine months later she put to bed to a girl..
Months later I move out of that area.
One day my phone rang it was her, she demanded that she need to see me, that she has an important discussion with me. I opt to recharge and call her for us to do the discussion on phone but she insisted so I sent her my new address.

Two days later she came, what she came to tell me was that she is leaving the guy that the marriage thing is not working.
She was seriously crying all through I tried all i could to console her but then one thing lead to another sex happened again. When she is about to leave she told me that am the father of her daughter not Ossy. That the story of going for paternity test was true but that the test never happened because the counsellor they meet ask them to go back and rethink it again but the Ossy changed his mind at the process.

I laugh off the story and asked her to take her leave because to me she is just trying to activate her option B. Two months later she called to inform that she has not seen her period I told her am not Interested in her stories again but then my conscience was never at peace. I keep asking my self what if pregnancy and the girl truly belong to me?

One year plus later I decided to go look for them I told my girl, now fiance and she give her support ..

What I saw when I reached there almost make me cry, her condition is so bad. There and then I decide to come in and start assisting her as much as i can pending when I go for DNA. My family kick against my decision, their reason is that the girl story is not to be trusted, on the other hand my girl was supportive but kick against DNA claiming if it is done and they are not mine my feelings for the kids will change.
But from then I start taking care of their feeding, schooling, clothing, rent e.t.c

After like a year my girl suggest I open business for the girl instead, so that she doesn't have to come to me for everything everytime except school fees and medical bills.

I bought the idea and asked the lady to go look for shop ...
While on that i told her of the need to open account for the kids.

Two days later she came back to tell me that her brothers said she should not change the name of the kids...

That the kids will bear the name of who ever that marry her or the name of her family if the person don't want them.

Now what happened was that, she once told me that she need to change the girls surname to mine. Before then i don't know their surname nor attach any importance to it. So while discussing the idea of opening the account for the girls I innocently suggest that she go do the change of name before opening the account.

I was hit by her responds and her body language so I told her that she and her brothers can go suit theirselves, that from then henceforth I have hands off her matter.

Later that day she called and begged but I told her that the only condition for me to keep assisting her is that she will change their names and also release one of them to me.

She said i should make out time and come down to her base so that we will discuss it. I discuss it with my fiance and she permit me to go. When I get there and raise the topic she flame up telling me she won't try it, that that is the position of her family.

Obviously she was expecting a fight or angry reactions from me so that she can push her terms and agenda to the table ..

But was disappointed when I don't fall for that, she start begging that she can change their names but can't release any to me. I told her is no longer an option.

The meeting end at that and I took my leave, go with the start up capital i was meant to give her for her business.

She sent people to me to beg on her behave but I insisted. Finally she agreed, but with a condition that she (the first girl) must be up to 5years which is few months away then before she release her.

I sense lies in the whole thing but my girl insist I should release the fund for her to start the business of which I did when her pressure become much.

Since then I still pay their school fees nd medical bills...
Late last year the small one did surgery it was on me.

The 1st is 7 now the 2nd is 4 years old.
This year she said she wanna marry, that someone is asking for her hand in marriage
I congratulate her and wish her luck. Then ask her her plan for the kids.

What she answered me is " let the will of God be done"

I called the woman, her friend who first told me about the marriage thing, after much drilling she open up that they have agreed with the man that he is going to marry her the kids.

I don't have any problem with that even though I feel used but my only problem is why lying to me again? At that point am yet to pay their graduation /party fees out of anger I decide am not going to pay it again. I told her to go meet their new father to pay the remaining, but my conscience kept battling me.

My fiance is extremely mad at her now and have withdraw her support and insist I cut of with her entirely .

I understand her, she has been very understanding, supportive and always fighting for them even without knowing them or them knowing her.

I feel so bad for putting her in that position.
That becomes a very messy situation for me now becus I cant afford to ruin my relationship / marriage because of a renowed liar.

But what will be of those kids if I hands off them keep am awake some times at night because I don't wanna be that father that abandon his kids but I cant afford to do anything which my woman do not approve or take her for granted in anyway.


Is obvious she is trying to blackmail me with the kids, But then am not even sure if they are mine ,and she have refused to release them because if she do I can be able to go for DNA. And know what next from there.

For a while now we have not talk, She called two weeks ago that the kids wanna talk to me obviously for school fees I turn it down and warn her against calling my line again ...

I don't know if that is right, I'm confused now.
My another worry now if those kids are mine is,
When it comes to Education we are at opposite end.

She don't attach importance to education but me I attach so much importance to it.
I can't trust her with the education of those kids.
Please I need advise on how to handle things.

You're as weak as Enugu State governor. You must not live with the kids before you do the DNA. Collection of the samples is very easy. Do the DNA first and know your next line of action, even though you lack the word 'ACTION'

Immediately I saw one name, I condemned everything. He was only trying to remember some of the former house of assembly members.

Labragadaya:
Please I Need Advise Urgently!

Pls I just registered this handle to avoid any form of backlash.

Here's my issue, I graduated in 2015 and I've been doing several things to keep body and soul together. However, late this year I got a teaching job in my states Civil service. The pay is somewhere BTW 45 to 50k and my place of assignment is in a rural area.

Pls also note that I do not have an education certificate which if I do not acquire soonest might cost me some years in promotions and maybe my job eventually.

On the other hand, I would like to pursue and build my career in the discipline I studied in school (a technical inclined course)and also further my education here (masters degree) which might provide me with better job opportunities and my teaching job provides ample time for this.

Well, the cause of my present dilemma is this - Recently, I got shortlisted for a job as a contract staff in a bank. I have just been deployed and I've been directed to resume within the week. The pay is around 85k per month plus other benefits.

Right now, I am confused if I should stick with the govt teaching job or I should go for the contract bank work which initially is for a period of 1 year after which it might be renewed (dicey). Pls I need the advice of people who have been in my shoe or in it currently? Which do I go for? What do I do?

lala pls move to front page

The worst mistake you'll ever do in life is to accept the banking job. You'll regret it till you die.

Op, so you want to tell us that you've not been having sexual intercourse with her since you started dating her?

Joe Igbokwe always sound childish, even in his Facebook posts. First he was at fault to have arrived at the airport late. I don't know what he actually want to achieve.

Where can one get all the past question papers and answers for ANAN examinations?
Please it is very urgent.
Thanks

Where can one get all the past question papers and answers for ANAN examinations?
Please it is very urgent.
Thanks

Where can one get all the past question papers and answers for ANAN examinations?
Please it is very urgent.
Thanks.

PrecisionFx:


HIV is a scam.

How do you mean it's a scam? I have seen many carriers and sufferers.

Passionate888:
Since 2018 post! She (computergeek) don 'fight' you before?

Just go through her posts till date, it has been fighting and abusive words ...

computergeek:
Some people really have no sense. Go and warn your husband to stop beating you and making you cranky all the time, okay?

You fight everywhere. Your aggressive nature will definitely put you in trouble.

computergeek:
That's how the broke will always remain broke. Shame on you. Why don't you go and hustle and join the so-called politics to increase your non-existent networth, you are here drinking panadol over another person's wealth.

Guys like you make me want to puke.

You fight everywhere. Your aggressive nature will definitely put you in trouble.

computergeek:
Oh please shut that trap you call a mouth. Dirty piece of sh*t. Don't quote me again, I have better things to read than badly articulated crap from an agbero.

You fight everywhere. Your aggressive nature will definitely put you in trouble.

computergeek:
The same number your future wife will have sucked before she moves into your house.

You fight everywhere. Your aggressive nature will definitely put you in trouble.

computergeek:
Comprehension is a big word for an uneducated asshole like you.

You fight everywhere. Your aggressive nature will definitely put you in trouble.

computergeek:
Meaningless rant. Who says rich guys can't have packs too? Flavour can buy you and your lorry mouth ten times over. Ebuka is also Rich with packs. Jealousy shaa

You fight everywhere. Your aggressive nature will definitely put you in trouble.

computergeek:


Don't mind all these fools talking rubbish here. Your wife may be suffering from a congenital condition called Vaginismus, a condition whereby the cervical muscles are too close together, thereby preventing penetration.

Each time try to go in, you cause her a lot of pain. Take her to a gynaecologist and they'll tell you both how to procure expansion.

Don't give up.

You fight everywhere. Your aggressive nature will definitely put you in trouble.

computergeek:
I don't need a job sweetie. I can employ you and your entire generation.

You fight everywhere. Your aggressive nature will definitely put you in trouble.

computergeek:
Don't mind the uneducated goats. They are just jobless kids who will one day learn.

You fight everywhere. Your aggressive nature will definitely put you in trouble.

computergeek:
How is she rubbing it in anybody's face? So she should not snap pics of her cars or herself on vacations?

It's not just Nigerians that have this problem. Poor people like you just hate knowing and even seeing that some people have it easy in life.

You fight everywhere. Your aggressive nature will definitely put you in trouble.

computergeek:
Young old brainless d!ck

You fight everywhere. Your aggressive nature will definitely put you in trouble.

computergeek:
And you foolishly clicked on the thread just to rant

You fight everywhere. Your aggressive nature will definitely put you in trouble.

computergeek:
No mind the mumu. Nairaland is a true attraction for half-brained misogynists
As if he'll still not marry someone's daughter to have those boys of his.

You fight everywhere. Your aggressive nature will definitely put you in trouble.

computergeek:
Who is this frustrated gas-emitting hose?

You fight everywhere. Your aggressive nature will definitely put you in trouble.

computergeek:
Only a fool would come close to a grinding machine. Congrats, receive your fool's award soon. Stinking RUGA cow.

You fight everywhere. Your aggressive nature will definitely put you in trouble.

computergeek:
This mumu couldn't even read my comment well enough to understand the idea. I cringe when I see people try to sound intelligent and reasonable only to make a mountain out a molehill joke.

Crass illiterate, go learn some sense. You just made a big fool out of yourself. Please deactivate your account so people won't know how dumb you are.


But to clear your confusion since you don't know how to read, I said that before finding out it was Ibadan, I assumed he was in Lagos, which makes sense that he has the fan because Lagos is stinky and congested. Simple!!! Did you see anyone else mention me with your dumb reasoning? That's cause they can all read.

You fight everywhere. Your aggressive nature will definitely put you in trouble.

computergeek:
Fool, why won't you be jobless and depressed when you're looking for who to rape up and down... You shall remain jobless until you quit having violent thoughts against women.

You fight everywhere. Your aggressive nature will definitely put you in trouble.

computergeek:
Thanks Ishi. That's my problem. When I called the fool on phone you need to hear the anger in his voice as he threatened to kill her. Thank God my phone auto records calls. That man is so violent that he can snap a wall in two. I feel bad my son had to witness the beating. I'll just keep him preoccupied with things that make him happy so he can forget this awful ordeal. What her own kids are going through is beyond me. Trying times mehn.

You fight everywhere. Your aggressive nature will definitely put you in trouble.

computergeek:
I'm a lady, dumbass...

You fight everywhere. Your aggressive nature will definitely put you in trouble.

computergeek:
This is too hateful coming from a woman. You should be happy that she's trying to fix herself and be a better person. Women can shaa hate ehh

You fight everywhere. Your aggressive nature will definitely put you in trouble.

computergeek:


May you all angry children find peace and happiness in your miserable lives. You are the reason why the human race will always remain divided. Your hate-filled eyes are blinded to beauty and progress, but I know that someday, you will all find peace. Those beautiful ladies are happier and far richer than any of you goats will ever be.

Wannabe trolls.

You fight everywhere. Your aggressive nature will definitely put you in trouble.

computergeek:
Fool. Grow up and grow sense, I'm not your age mate. Be shamelessly hating on a woman. Shaa, ball-less men like you are actually women. Your mates are out there hustling, fool like you is looking for who is wearing make up and who is not.

You fight everywhere. Your aggressive nature will definitely put you in trouble.