computergeek:
And you call the stupidity you just displayed here what? Puke on yourself because you're nauseating...

Oga madam, I'm sure you've turned your husband to a vegetable by this your aggressive nature. I pray God will bless your husband financially, so that he'll stand firm as a man and do his job, otherwise you've taken over his role.

Donjazzy12:

Go back and focus on your own marriage! Are you a coded lesbian? How come your own son is more closer to his Dad than you? Yet you are the mother. Something must be off about you!

The signs are all there. You are only interested in her case because she is a woman you like to go down with. Why else would you go to this length?
See, I don't support domestic violence whether it is against a man or a woman but something about this your story for me puts more focus on your own marriage.

You are not close to your own Son, why?

I see these new trend of codes lesbians who picked up the deadly habit in secondary schools keeping an unnatural distance from their sons! But embracing their daughters with all seriousness!

I sincerely hope that is not the case with you.

You're not far from the truth. I'm sure she doesn't care to her husband the way she claim.

computergeek:
You're dysfunctional and too jealous.

So I should not mention that I drive the kids to school or that I took her baby to work?

Go get something doing and it's not my fault you've been seeing only failed marriages your entire life. Just pray, so that the generational curse of poverty and marital failure following you would be broken soon.


Jobless fool.

I don't exchange words with people on social media, for some reasons. Shalom.

computergeek:
I don't remember telling you that my husband beat me into the hospital. Even if we have issues or argue about something, he can never hit me. Trust me, some men are still like that. So let's focus on the one who was nearly blinded and killed, and forget about me.


Modified:
Please I think everyone should read the first post. A lot of people are here misconstruing the issue, saying that I'm painting a perfect picture of my marriage and my own life.

Some ladies here are really embittered. Why read a painful write up with the intent to find faults? It's not my fault I have a job and a car. My own marriage is not perfect cos no marriage is 100% perfect.

Some people are calling me out for talking about my son's activities. Read the first post and find out the trauma he went through when he saw that woman the first time.

Just pray hard, so, that the devil that do attack marriages will not remember you. However, you're too proud. What concerns us with your job and car.

Hmmmm

computergeek:
Update On The Wife Battery Case: She Went Back To The Abusive Man

What's up people? This is an update thread on the wife battery case. This one might also be a bit lengthy, so bear with me. Lots of people have been asking me about the case, and I had to make this update to fill everyone in at once.

So about two weeks ago I brought an issue here about my neighbor who usually watches my four-year-old boy for me.

Read the previous thread here:

https://www.nairaland.com/5483166/wife-battery-should-drop-police

Just a little summary. She's a stay-at-home mom of two with a nursing baby and a boy who is my son's age. I used to leave work to pick the two boys up and take them to her house while I return to my office. I didn't know this before, but her husband is a very abusive man and my son unfortunately witnessed him beat her to near death twice.

The second time, he was the one that called me with her phone and I came and took her to hospital.

The issue then was that she didn't want to go ahead with the police case my husband and I filed for her. The man nearly murdered her and threatened over the phone to kill her if she ever comes back to his house. We had the call recorded but she insisted that he was only angry and would calm down soon enough.


She begged us not to call her family or report to anyone, that she can handle it by herself. One of her friends came to help her in the hospital while I took her one-year-old girl with me. I actually insisted.

,......

So that terrible incident happened on a Friday, while I created the thread on a Sunday. On Thursday, the evil man finally came home. He hadn't called once to ask of his children. His son David was in the hospital and wasn't even going to school that week. I had to take the little baby to my office with me, and my only luck is that she's not the feisty sort.

He didn't come over to my house to check on the girl. I wasn't even sure he knew that she was with me. A fence separates our house and theirs but I heard his car rev in for the first time in days.

My husband and I had decided to bring her family into the case rather than just let it die off like that. We contacted her elder brother without her knowledge and told him everything. They are local people but we felt he would be more enlightened than others. He told us he would take things from there and that we should go and withdraw the police report. At least, we had done our bit and cleared our consciences.

My son kept asking me when David would resume school, but I told him to let David be with his mom. I didn't know how to tell the kid that he wouldn't be staying at David's house after school again. I can't have him in a toxic environment. I'd started picking him up and bringing him back to the office with me, and that's how I intend to keep things for now.


The lady came home last Friday, after about a week in the hospital. She called me everyday to ask after her child and I visited once with the baby while she was still at the hospital. She still has bandages on her arms and face and still can't open her left eye properly. She came to my house in the evening with her younger sister to collect her baby. I noticed she was embarrassed. She just said a word of thanks and demanded for the girl. I packed the girl's things (even the ones I bought with my money) and handed her over.

Before she left, she told me not to worry about David anymore, that she would start going to get him herself. I told her that even though my son returns to my office with me now, I can still pick up her son because I have to pass the street's entrance on my way back to work. She could be waiting for him whenever I'm about to drive by. She said no. That she'll be fine.

Well, we did our bit. We took some pieces of advice here and got her family involved. But we withdrew the police case for peace to reign. The woman has vehemently refused to take her life and kids seriously, but we've done our best. I don't know what her brother did, but I think he spoke to the lady's husband. I remembered seeing her on Thursday when I went to get my son from school. She was waiting to pick up David. I greeted her and offered them a ride. She refused, saying she'll order an O'Trike (Keke Napep that's like Uber).

Well, everybody should dey their own dey. God knows I've tried.

Thank you all for the advice and genuine guidance. For those who were more concerned about my son because of the violence he witnessed, he's fine. He misses playing with David and Sandra, but my network admin has two boys aged 5 and 8 who also hang out in the office after school. At least my son gets to play with them in the conference room. He's happy and I'm keeping him occupied with activities so his mind won't switch on those memories. My husband enrolled him in a new kids' football club and they go to play on Wednesday and Saturday evenings.

The best security a woman can have is her own gainful source of income. If that woman has something doing, I'm not sure she'd go back to an adulterer who beat her with the intent to murder. Women, please be careful with your lives. Think about your kids. If you die, who will look after them? Don't let society pressurize into marrying beasts.

Op you tried but the only area I'm not comfortable with is the way you always present your own family as a perfect one. Those that talk like you in my office have more internal crises in their family than others. Marriage is not an easy institution and also unpredictable. Shalom!!!

Freemanbobble:
The world is ignorant

Fuckkking the girl doesn't mean you Will get the virus

Hiv is not easily contacted and transmitted through sexual intercourse

If not the world would have been infected already

Your chances of getting hiv can only increase if you have other untreated sexually transmitted infections especially syphillis
Which means you can sleep with some one with hiv and you won't get it
But if you have syphillis don't sleep with someone with hiv

Please explain it more. Why is easier to get when you have other STDs.

FarahAideed:


I smell HIV NGO propaganda here .. there is no way all these symptoms can show up after one bout of sex na ...

What do you mean by HIV NGO propaganda?

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Come and buy my phone.. Camon 11
30k[/quote

If it's still good, why do you want to sell it?

Ratioaluta123:

Quincy1993 is a fraud star, i sent him 6000 he told me he is at ilesha in osun state, since den he has switched off his phone. His numbers are
09032961067 and 08160939403
D account number he gave me was Gtb: 0165572164
Acct name: awoyera olanrewaju johnson. Please don't fall victim

What gave you the confidence to send money to someone you've not seen? With this state of the economy. Do you know his Facebook name, from there you can do something.

Ok

Prettyvita:

FCT

Buhari pikin. Anyway check your DM.

Prettyvita:
Truth be told, she get as she take dey Sha!
But if she's not sick, then it's ok

But she look sick...

Prettyvita:
Does it mean NYSC will pay us arrears too?
I was still in service when it was signed, POP was in June.

Buhari nor take me play oo.
Pay me my allowee arrears


I just dey give myself unnecessary hope

Which state did you serve?

lilianofentse:
I gave him my virginity but he wasn't good in bed, since then I've not been able to enjoy sex.

How did you know he wasn't good in bed when you're still a virgin? Or do you mean 2nd virgin?

Divinerace:
i've-pass-through-this-ur-problem:-my-own-was-much-that-l-could'nt-come-out-of-my-house-for-complete-two-yrs...........but-there-is-a-solution-to-every-problem.

What's the solution?

Wish2Die:
thanks for your show of concern, I have been talking to therapist online, but it didn't help, as a trained psychologist you are, you must have known my case here is "tired of living but afraid to die" I did ask around for sniper but I couldn't find one to buy, so I decided to travel far from my loved ones, that was yesterday I also bought a rope since no sniper to buy,

set up of a hangman noose tie is ready and am about to go in and die, but like I said am still afraid, but it won't pass today instead of living a useless life I better die. whatever comes in the after life let it be.

thanks again!!

I just don't understand why my life has to be this way.

My dear nobody is finding it easy in this country, it's either Joblessness, marital issues, health challenge, Poverty etc. What actually is your major challenge?

LilMissFavvy:
Capital NO...... baldness is a turn off and most times associated with old age.

If that's your pics you're even a carrier.

respect80:
Wide puxxy
Armpit odor
Brown teeth
Halitosis
September school fees
Your landlords voice

Landlord's voice

Realdeals:
Your mental set is the key, what you consider as sin is a sin to you other may not view it same way.
Is your wife rejection of your sexual advances when you needed her not a sin? Is she not breaking the marital vow?
See, some religious rules and regulations which are man made but ascribed to God has condition us to self torture.

You should be prepared to defend your actions and ensure their is justification, don't be arm twisted to believe that masturbation, side chicks are outright sin. Be ready to stand by your action.

Even side chicks?

XavierD:
.

I don't think you and your wife are very close yet.

I mean, if I masturbate, my partner should be the first to know about it, maybe when my partner travelled or something. We will talk about it, make jokes about it. And later do it together sef.

At 27, you should be very sexually active. Your wife should know that too and your limits.

Partners masturbate in front of each other all the time. Nothing to be ashamed of ...

..

Is that really possible? Especially on the side of women.

Joystark:
If masturbation is a sin eh, many people will end up in hell.

Will you be among?

This governor is just nothing but a mess. This Matthew Idu was a commissioner when I was an undergraduate, very inactive then. They brought him back, to do what?

daben1:
petroleum products pricing regulatory agrncy

Please, can anyone work there or only Engineers?

Finally FTC. I dedicate it to all the men of goodwill.

infinitio:
Please, someone should kindly avail me the salary of an Entry level Officer with PPPRA .


cc @Tammyanybody

What's the meaning of PPPRA?

Please, one of friends asked me the government parastatals or agencies that pays very well. Who can help me and list them.

aminu114:
my guy im sorry to say but u are definately hiv poz. start treatment immediately. welcome to the system guy #it.Aint.Easy

I don't really know the best way to address you, but let me assume that you've some mental challenge.

binajiya:

Last year

Thanks so much. Please can I PM you to get his phone number for an urgent clarification