Ogbemuo:
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Ogbemuo:
Between LG G7 and LG V30 which should i go for am considering ordering from aliexpress

PoliticallyInco:

While a friend can be of any gender, race, class or creed, I have always counselled that a man keeping a woman as a friend or bestie or staying in the friend zone should be totally discouraged and unacceptable by the man in question. I for instance do not keep women as friends. If you catch me smiling with a lady, then know we have had sex. Not that we are about to, but we have actually had it. And that is the only reason I'll say 2 or 3 words to her in public, especially in the officrle. Otherwise I'll only speak to her on strictly official terms.

Reactions in this sort of situation, however, depends on personalities and what your INSTINCT and REASON tells you. You are considering not hurting her feelings by leaving the friend zone? Please LIVE FOR YOURSELF FIRST (and no one else), then your dependants who are too little or too old and require your assistance. It is after this you can consider what she thinks. Think of yourself first. What is it you really want? What was your original intention, how is your psychological make-up and how is the current situation. Is the "friend zone" parasitic, symbiotic or commensalistic?

Let me explain the scenarios for you.

If by instinct you wanted to have physical, sexual and romantic relationships with her, then it is advisable you limit or totally stop talking to her at this stage. Pull away. Completely. Simple courtesies like "Good morning" and nothing else. I would have added "How are you"?, however you may get dragged in loose self controll and go on and keep talking, worsening your case. Most of you kids do not know the virtues of speaking little and being difficult to read and figure out. Additionally, besides simple general courtesies, she should know nothing about you, or your day, or your activities anymore, unless the one she stumbles upon. And even then, immediately limit her from knowing any further. Also, pay no attention to her business and whatever she is doing. None at all. Live your life. Drawing close to her or putting and poking your nose into her business MAY only cause you the following:

-heart break when you realize she keeps pulling away and doesn't "love" you. Wherever love means.
-jealousy when you see her with another guy happy and smiling
-anger out of frustration
-envy of the guy(s) she is with
- money you spend to impress her and do her favours
- time you spend to be a "friend" and assist her with errands
-effort/energy you spend in impressing her and doing her favours as a "friend".

Stop all outings etc with her. Create excuses and limit the interaction with her. Now don't do this in a sad manner. Be happy and associate with other people. Live your life happy and healthy but without her in it in any form. To keep chasing a woman headlong, who is running away from you is the most antiseductive thing a Man can do. I don't want to delve into the psychological science of this. I see friend-zoning as subtly ridiculing the romantic advances of a man." Sorry you can't eat this food, but you are allowed to look at it, long for it and take in its aroma".


Now if you are made differently and by instinct you do not feel any desire to have anything physical or sexual with her, then go ahead. It is your time, your pride, your money and effort. A lady will hardly ever want to be your friend if she is not getting something out of it. Either company, protection or material/financial benefits. If you do not mind being used this way or if you are also gaining something else from her, then why not. Keep staying in the friend zone. Like I said if the relationship is parasitic against you, then it isn't worth it. If it is Sybiotic,then weight your costs and benefits and decide. Such relationships are hardly commensalistic, sorry.

Astrology101:

You simply can't accurately check if you are compatible using your sun signs only.

You can only know how compatible you are if you check your other placement. You need to check your natal chart and how will you do this? If you know the exact time your Mom gave birth to you or better still consult a good Tarot/Psychic Reader.

lekki1444:
so he is virgo sun and moon is alpha pisces means this is a fallen alchemist meaning someone who delights in esoteric wisdom however is a fallen entity and therefore is disconnected from going within to connect to the source of wisdom and therefore has to be taught by someone else but because this is his inclination he will be very receptive to the wisdom. it will resonate with him. a fallen angel

she is Libra sun and luna is in the Cancer-Capricorn portal meaning while she is his karmic mirror however she is a transition portal and by the two of them joining together he can ascend out of the pit of darkness and so these two are spiritually compatible and will enhance each other to rise out of darkness. They are a transition paired soul and in joining together as one the man can come out of darkness and then become the shining light to the other

AND MAYBE THIS IS WHY YOU CALL YOUR SELF DESTINYLINK BECAUSE SHE IS THE LINK TO YOUR DESTINY