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Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Dexter08(m): 11:42am On Jun 24, 2023
MetalJigsaw:
One sad truth:
Simps and betas will always be the majority among men...


"Good morning nairalanders.

I've been dating this girl for about 3yrs. Initially it was sweet and rosy untl she cheated. First time I forgave her then she repeated it again with another guy, still I forgave and yet again she did it with another guy. My attitudes towards her changed and although I loved her, I just started changing my attitude towards her and for the past 1yr we fight and quarrel all the time but cos I love her I'll still go to apologize to her and trying to make things work.

She practically has been staying with me all these years, we live like we're married. So we quarrelled about 2months ago and she moved her things out of the hse, which is her regular routine every time we quarrel. I tried to talk to her to settle things out but she refused. I tried my best and got tired until 2 weeks ago I agreed to the breakup she has always been asking for after her friend told me she already has a new bf.
Now after that day, she has been calling me everyday till today, she calls and randomly paid visit once, the second time she wanted to come visit I was not at home. I've made up my mind to move on but this her act of calling everyday, I'm not comfortable with it. Should I block her
Or instruct her to never call me again (although I feel that'll be harsh) I'm a very gentle man and the least word that will hurt a woman, I don't like uttering it.

She told her friend nobody ever made love to her like I do and for that reason she always want to come back to me but just for sex. But I believe one day, she'll get over this sex thing that's intoxicating her and probably stick to the dude she'll be having in her life.. The one time she visited we had sex. That was about a week ago and yesterday she wanted to come visit but I wasn't home.

I forgot to mention the part where I am actually taking care of 100% of her bills.... I'm working in a financial institution where I earn about 150k monthly . Although the pay is not much but I'm not outrightly broke.

She does nothing at all.. the little career skill she has, I sponsored her through.

So what do you all advise I do?"
Ha!!! What did I just readhuh

What is wrong with men today?? Where did it go wrong for this guy to simp like thishuh

Ha!!!! God abeg o
Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Dexter08(m): 12:41pm On Jun 18, 2023
Dear men,
Even on father's day, men are not spared.

Not to stir up gender rivalry or something but when people offer pean to fathers on Father's day, there is one peculiar word that goes side by side with father's day celeberation and the said word is: RESPONSIBLE

You see something like this: "Happy Father's day to every Responsible father out there."

Are we then saying only men have a disposition to be irresponsible?? And that women by default are cherubichuh

Funny I tell you.

Check through your social media, check the mail from the office congratulating fathers, there is always that responsibility clause that comes with celebrating a father but for mother's day no said clause.

Sad indeed

Here is me not even talking about how single moms have now hijack the Father's day celeberation.

Dear men, Beyonce was not wrong that year when she sang that it was women that rule this world.

For as long as we continue to live in a bluepiled world, one that attaches a clause for father's day celeberation and not do so for mother's day celebration, men would continue to lose the war against the matrix and I fear we all may not be spared.
Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Dexter08(m): 9:54pm On Jun 08, 2023
YES, BROKE MEN ARE ALLOWED TO HAVE STANDARDS TOO.

Do not allow anyone broke shame you to accept or settle for less.
Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Dexter08(m): 8:57pm On May 27, 2023
jayAjoku:
My Boy’s Girl just left him A few weeks Ago . Guess what ??
he Was the one that took her virginity They Dated for Over 3 years And she still left.
What makes you think your Virgin Wife Or Girlfriend will not Leave or Cheat on You if the Conditions are Favorable And Reasonable Enough for her to ? 🤣😂

The Only Thing you should do in any situation you find yourself Especially with women is to Enjoy the present moment While being on Guard It Could all be over tomorrow 🤌🏾
"A woman is never truly yours, it is only your turn"

This should be the back of every male's mind
Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Dexter08(m): 2:43pm On May 26, 2023
Dear men,

Simps are surely bound to suffer.

Never ever envy a simp.

A simp and his resources are sure to part ways like the red sea.

A fool in love is a simp. That you provide all of her wants, furnish her lifestyle, yield to her every whims, sponsor her to school does not make you a PROVIDER, it makes you a simp.

If you must indeed simp, simp for mummy, simp for sister but never simp for anyone that is not blood.

Dear men, I write to you this day that to simp is a dangerous journey. It is indeed our nature as men to be like Clark Kent-a super hero, to save the day.

But I write to you this day, that you must fight that nature, for it is a good fight, for no woman on God's green earth is worth simping for.
Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Dexter08(m): 10:23am On May 25, 2023
Dear men,

While we must hold women accountable for their actions, we should also get to look inward.

We should look to grow, we should look to evolve, we should look to be masculine.

Take a look at the mirror, if you see deficiencies(not physical deficiencies) you are not proud of, work on them.

Do exercises; burn the midnight candle; before carrying out investments, do a thorough research; learn a skill, hone it.

Carve thyself into the man that when you look at the mirror, you can say "it is (Your_name) am looking at."

Dear men hold thyself accountable.
Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Dexter08(m): 8:59am On May 24, 2023
Karlifate:
Nice one 👍

@ bolded:
I thought of posting something related to it, when I'm less busy...
Boss, fire on please I would like to read your submission on it.
Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Dexter08(m): 7:27am On May 24, 2023
Dear men,

Never ever mistake the beauty of a woman for innocence.

That she is the finest thing you have ever seen or that she rival Katrina Kaif in beauty does not tell that she is innocuous.

There was a time in my life that I was sure ladies do not visit the loo. grin given how wonderfully they are made.

Growing up, Disney and others also helped accentuate and portrayed that they are this gentle soul, innocuous and cherubic beings.

But reality would show that this lot are sharper than blade, wiser than serpent, cunnier than fox and that if you don't meet a particular standard, they won't think twice before discarding you.

Many of us here found the redpill because of their ruthless nature.

Mistake is accidentally falling that glass cup; mistake is recharging your line with ten thousand naira instead of a thousand naira you had in mind; mistake is stepping on someone's shoe.

What mistake isn't, is taking the beauty of a woman for innocence.

Dear men, you are permitted to make mistakes in your daily life, but never ever mistake the beauty of a woman for innocence.
Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Dexter08(m): 6:59pm On May 21, 2023
Dear Men,

If you must choose a wife, choose one who is untainted, who has not be drilled, one who is a virgin.

Turn deaf to those who say, "Virginity do not matter and that it is what is in the heart that does". Turn deaf to those who says "He is not matured or man enough to handle a woman's past."

I mean the bible, the quaran and archaic laws of different cultures in years past cannot be wrong na.

I shudder when I see men pay huge bride price for women who are not virgins. I mean this are virtue ladies give free to other men 98% of the time. To now see other men pay huge bride price causes a pang in my heart most times.

One consequence of a tainted lady is that she can give it to every Femi and Emeka; for the Okafor's law as we so know it, is so well, alive and kicking.

Dear men, if their standard is having a fit, rich and handsome man, yours should be that of chastity and it should not be negotiable.
Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Dexter08(m): 4:20pm On May 12, 2023
logicalhumour:
^^^
@Dexter08

What if I told you that the "black" behaviour was (mostly) genetic?

And what if I also told you that you shared false statistics according to the Census Bureau's Current Population Survey?
I don't seem to follow boss.
Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Dexter08(m): 4:16pm On May 12, 2023
akwesenana:
Dexter08, the 'spare the rod part', do you mean you cousins beat him up?
Yes boss.

It was that bad.
Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Dexter08(m): 4:05pm On May 12, 2023
Dear men,
I write after a long while to tell you this, that you are only love for your resources.

Just this week I lost my uncle. I dare say, his death was not as a result of his time coming to an end, his was as a result of losing the qualities that made him a man, husband and father.

Many years ago, he was what men were suppose to be or what men were groomed to be: a provider, a protector, a leader.

But one day things would go awry in 2005 I believe, as my uncle was shot almost 16 times by a gang of thieves on his way to the capital. How he survived all that to the year 2023 is a mystery in itself.

He might later become strong physically after that event, but mentally he never recovered. He lost his job. And losing his job meant he was no longer the provider, the protector, a leader and a beloved father.

This man that was loved by all, became something of a joke in his family. His wife disrespected him, his children cussed him out and sometimes they did not spare the rod on him which normally reverse should be the case.

I am definitely sure all of that frustration surely culminated to his death.

As I sat down thinking about the man, it hit me hard that as a man, you are only love for what you bring to the table. Nobody loves you for your hair, your bodily features.

You are only love for your resources. I dare say even your mothers are not left out.

I write to you today dear men, guard your resources judiciously, ruthlessly most especially when you get to the pinnacle of success.

They will call you stingy, wicked, even close the divide just underneath them. Dear men that shouldn't deter you from being frugal with your resources for should things go awry today, they won't hesitate to shame you and give you my uncle treatment as posted above.

Dear men, you are not love unconditionally, you are only for your resources!!!!
Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Dexter08(m): 7:54pm On Apr 16, 2023
zayyadidris:
Hello guys,
I'm a simp, and I've been simping for quite sometime. I don't know how to get out of this circle. The problem is she knows I love her, and she knows I'll always forgive her. Even if she does any wrong. I still love her regardless. But the thing is how can I gain my grounds back. Currently she was actually suprised that I told her I want to cut all ties with her. And she's just busy posting stuff on her status to make me feel bad for something she did wrong.!! Though she has apologized, but I know is not like she's going to change anytime soon. She basically takes me for granted.
Boss good evening.

I was once in your shoe. I thought I would die if she ever leaves me. I can still remember the day she called it quits, I cried like a baby.

What am I saying?? I cry pass baby but I picked myself and ditched her.

My advicehuh DITCH HER.

You won't die if you do. True, there are days you will pant for her, pine for her, crave for her, most especially on days things at work or life in generally will be bad but I say unto thee you will not die.

Boss, if you know what is good for you, leave her. Leave her be.

And one more thing, start from the beginning of this thread and begin to take in everything that has been posted here.

I swear before six months, you will come back here to provide succour and strength to another guy that would be going through same thing in the future.

Know this, you won't die if you cut ties or ditch her today.

You won't!!!
Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Dexter08(m): 7:35pm On Apr 07, 2023
Dear men,

One of the best things that has ever happened to me was finding this thread.

There are days the old nature would want to raise it ugly head, you know that simpish nature na, yeah that one which at one time saw me bend the knee, kowtow, even when she cheated, with me trying to make her understand that I love her still despite her unfaithfulness.

Yeah that one.

So when that nature tries to creep in, I run to this thread to find succour and strength, imbibing the words carved in marble of those before me and the experiences of many here in, which in turn brings me back to immediate consciousness.

Well, yours might not be this thread, yours might be on telegram, on twitter or on WhatsApp or wherever, never forget to take a dose of the Redpill when that old nature does show face.

For dear men, it is only a daily dosage of the Redpill that can flush out so foul a nature.
Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Dexter08(m): 10:40am On Apr 07, 2023
Pukkalolo:
Luminouz... Great input. You obviously seem like a smart dude. I feel you for that.

But try and read this open mindedly so you can get my point.


Shit test is a made up concept... Some nerdy fellas pick out certain kinds of behaviors from women, label it as shit test, then say passing this test is what is gonna get you laid...

Isn't it contradictory how those nerdy fellas say you should never put women on pedestal, but they still put women back on that same pedestal by saying you need to pass women shit test in order to get laid.

The nice guy feels he needs to spend cash and simp for women in order to get the pussy. The redpill junkie think he need to pass women shit test in order to get the pussy.

The redpill junkie may beef on the nice guys and call them simp, but he and the Nice guy are the same: they are both hoping to be rewarded with the pussy. And that's one of their fundamental dating problem.

*Taking a deep breath*

I'm just starting....

Pussy is similar to money in a particular aspect:


Money only has value because the government says it does and its citizen agree that it does...Basically, Money only has value because everybody thinks it’s valuable.
Money, which is just paper is practically created from thin air, without any effort. It was just printed. Government can print as much copy.

We believe that money such as dollars, pounds naira and so on are actually of value, but in reality money is only a store of value and not the actual value...but, sadly, many of do not understand this. This is why the rich concentrate more on what is actually valuable, which is Asset.

Pussy only has value because the media, society and women say it does and then the men agree that it does....

Pussy is mainly for enjoyment and procreation. And that is. But we make it seem more valuable than that. No wonder men attach their self-worth to getting pussy. Pussy is overrated.

The other day, a lady was telling me that anytime she's taking her bath and she looks at her pussy, she wonders why almost every guy she meets are dying to have a taste of it...

She was like, "What is even special about this pussy that all this men are chasing...Men are just so foolish"

Although, I found what she was saying a bit funny, but she's absolutely right. There's nothing special about the pussy. The pussy is for enjoyment, but there are other enjoyable activities. But men attached so much special value to the pussy, and that's a big problem.

Basically, pussy only has value because everybody thinks it’s has. And women are taking advantage of that. But the high quality guy that actually understand pussy knows that there's nothing special about the pussy, this is why he concentrate more on what is actually valuable, which is, Attention.

The girl was born with pussy, she didn't have to work hard to own a pussy...it was given to her for free. When she reach her teenage years, she realized that guys are competing to get a taste of it. Then she assume this pussy must be so much valuable for these men to be dying to have a taste of it.

These make her start acting like an entiled bitch and start acting saucy towards men.

The nice guy sees her saucy, rude and entiled behavior, then he thinks, "I needs to spend money and try to please her so I can get her valuable pussy."

The redpill junkie sees her saucy, rude and entitled behavior and call it a "shit test", then he think " I needs to pass her shit test so I can get her valuable pussy.

The high quality guy sees her saucy, rude and entitled behavior and call it a crap, then he thinks, "if she doesn't behavior right, I'll channel my attention somewhere else."

The average guy think pussy is valuable, that's is why he strategize is dating game around "acting" a certain way so he can be giving the pussy.

The high quality guy think attention is valuable, that's why he strategize is dating game around adjustment to the amount or intensity of attention he gives or withholds from her.

Attention is everything. Attention builds popularity. It sells products and services, and it builds wealth…

Attention gives value to something. It makes something worthless seem worthy. Pussy seem worthy because men give so much attention to pussy. The value of Pussy has overblown due excessive attention from men.

Pussy will become worthless when men stop giving so much attention to it. A LACK OF ATTENTION FROM MEN can pratically make a woman go insane. Even if a womam is not interested in fucking or dating you, she still want you to give her attention.


If you’re willing to give any woman your attention, then you are in for a lot of troubles. One of the best dating skill that will increase a woman desire for you is your ability to know when to withdraw and give attention to a woman.

I learnt the power of attention years ago... Just like most guys here, I noticed that when I pay less attention to certain girls around me, they seem to want me more... Suddenly light bulb goes on in my head. I began thinking, "If this lady, want me more when I give her less of my attention, then my attention must definitely be valuable to her."

Everybody always tell women to be cautious when it comes to giving men sex but nobody told men to be cautious when it comes to the amount of ATTENTION they give women

Then I was struck with an ingenious paradigm, I started thinking: "If a woman give her pussy to a man as a reward for behaving right, then how can I increase the value of my attention in a woman eyes, so I can give her my attention as reward for behaving right towards me?"

Now, I command the respect of almost all ladies in my life because they know my attention is scares and valuable and they know they must not joke with it: I'm very stingy with my attention. As a lady, you should be happy I'm giving you more of my attention.

The ladies know this about me, and they always make sure they be at their best behavior around me.

A lady was telling me a week ago, "you are difficult guy."

I said, "how?"

In her own different words, she said, "I don't just know what to say that will please you or turn you off..You are just unpredictable. I just have to be careful with my words and actions around you."

In my mind, I smiled. That's the exact psychological situation I want girls to be in when dealing with me. I want ladies to be scared of messing with me.

The nice guy thinks, "How can I impressed her enough so I can get the pussy?"

The red pill junkie thinks, "how can I pass her shit test, so I get the pussy?"

But I think, "she needs to prove to me that she's worth it, or else I'll withdraw my attention from her."

When you stop being pussy focus and start being attention focused, you'd suddenly realized that female shit test doesn't matter. It's now your test that matters now.

I'm attention focused, that's why I can quickly identify the type of ladies that are most likely to waste my VALUABLE ATTENTION . In few seconds or minutes of interacting with a woman, I can immediately tell if she worth it or not.


I treat my attention the way women treat their pussy. I do the shit testing, not women. If a woman pass my shit test, then I'll give her access to more of my attention. That's a mindset shift.

Stay blessed brothers...
Ha!!! This here is gold. Everyone should read it.
Romance › Re: I Need Your Help And Advice In My Relationship. by Dexter08(m): 10:25am On Apr 07, 2023
Guy what are you still doing being in a relationship with herhuh?

This lady doesn't love you na!!!

Guy, my advice to you is MOVE ON!!!! You won't die!!!

Guy MOVE ON!!!!!!!!!
Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Dexter08(m): 8:25pm On Apr 05, 2023
Dear men,

Commitment is not something that should be handed to every pussy and Harriet.

Your commitment should be hard to give. Your commitment should be sacred and your commitment shouldn't be wasted on women who during their prime lived a riotous life.

Only weak men would commit to the other gender who is a libertine.

As a man no matter how low you sink in life, no matter how poor you get, no matter how hard things get, no matter how sugary and fanatstic the s*x maybe, never hand out your commitment.

For commitment are not charities. They can make and mar a man. If you think I joke ask Maurizio Gucci(oh, we can't ask him for he paid dearly with his life).

Men guard your commitment!!!
Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Dexter08(m): 7:35pm On Apr 05, 2023
leocollins:
Good morning redpillars, guys please i need an advice on what next to do in these situation.

Early January i met a girl, around 23 yyears,i approached her and we exchanged contact, then we started vibing, we had sex on the second day of our meeting and she latered slept over that night, to be candid i just wanted to hit and run, but guys this babe became nice to me, all of a sudden she wil go to market and buy food stuffs and come and cook, we have bleeped couples of times tho.she washes my clothes and takes good care of me.tbh guys shes nice.
Actually all these times, there is a contact that she saved as her uncle, tho i was skeptical about it, finally last week i discovered that the man isnt her uncle but she was having an affair with the man before she met me, when I confronted her she started crying and begging me that she is just with the man because he gives her money, the man looks wealthy, that she loves me that's why she's with me, that i make her happy,menh I was devastated even tho have nt really spent much on her, because at the moment am not financially stable.
I told her to stop all form communication with the man in which she agreed to.but yesterday i
Night while going through her phone I heard a converulsion she had with the man, and i noticed lot of things in that conversation.
I noticed she do call the man sir, and she is always tensed when talking to the man and Also during the conversation the man was asking her to send him nice nice pictures and videos, can you imagine, he was really emphasising on the pictures. I called her that night and played the tape for her, she told me she wouldn't have sent him those pictures that she was just playing along in order to get her house rent from him just that, she begged for forgiveness that i shouldnt leave her that she loves me.

Please guys am confuse , should i just keep her and allow her to be billing the man and we chop the money together, because to be sincere the gal dey take care of me wella no lies, and I do like her she's loyal and respectfull, but the thought of another man fucking the pussy is always getting me mad..
Also i wanted to use the record tape against the man,like billing him or should I just forget about them and enjoy the fun while it last,
Advice needed thanks
Guy no matter what you do in this life, never ever blackmail a person. Blackmail is a very serious crime in every part of the world.

It can land you in prison, not only land you in prison, should things go awry when trying to deal with the said man, you may lose your life in the process, for you don't know if he "belongs" or something.

Stay away from blackmailing boss.

If you must succed, do it with the works of your hands. Nothing beats success that comes with rest of mind.

As for the lady, continue your work in the "other room" while she takes from the man and give to you. A win-win situation for you, if you ask me.

But never give her your commitment. Never ever wife her!!! She is for the street boss.

But if your heart cannot take it, then discard her boss.
Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Dexter08(m): 5:31pm On Apr 04, 2023
Dear men,

When people go out of their way to help you show gratitude. When that your guy gives you update show gratitude. Even on days when everything is going well in your life and someone shows you love show gratitude.

That we are now redpilled aware does not mean we should be stoic, hard, inexorable, intransigent.

Just the other day, a friend asked for a favour, after going all out for him, not even a "Thank You" dropped from his mouth. It was indeed sad I tell you.

Showing gratitude is not weakness, to show gratitude is to create a room for more boon down the line.

And why you must show gratitude at all times, make sure the people around you are also grateful to have you around.

Gratitude is not weakness!!!
Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Dexter08(m): 7:48pm On Apr 02, 2023
Dear Men,

If you go through the good book that is the Bible, you will find in the creation story the lady Eve was the only person deceived by the serpent.

Yes, Adam was very much aware when he ate the fruit. Knowing the repercussions, knowing that he will surely die the day he eats the fruit, Adam would defied God, take God on when the lady Eve offered him the fruit.

Some christian commentators believe Adam ate the fruit so as not to allow Eve bear the wrath of the creator alone. Man loved her too much that he lost everything that day in the garden of Eden.

Adam was the first guy to play the knight in shining armour. Ha!!!

Dear men, playing the knight in shining armour will not take you anywhere. It might indeed give you some coition in the sack, but it doesn't guarantee commitment and happily ever after.

She is not your responsibility dear men.

All playing the knight in shining armour has ever done is bring heartaches, depression and if you don't recover from the stated consequences then a free ride to the after life.

Dear men, focus on yourself, focus on your family, focus on the work of thy hand, leave her with her responsibilities.

Maintain Frame at all times!!!
Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Dexter08(m): 11:04am On Apr 02, 2023
Kimcutie:
Similar?? I only brought facts to the table, I don't go around throwing words or use derogatory names, she said self deceptive, it should be called self awareness instead, how did I underestimate, omo ur free to do what u like bro, peace.
We don't quote that guy here na. Why you dey waste your time nahuh
Romance › Re: Please Help, It's urgent by Dexter08(m): 7:25pm On Apr 01, 2023
So sir, you want to end your life because of a womanhuh

Your forefathers didn't conquer lands, marrried more than three women to produce offsprings that would be depressed because of a woman na.

Guy man up!! She has moved on, you too move on!! True it is indeed hard or tough to move on but believe me you won't die if you don't message her or love her.

You won't boss!!!!

When we tell people to be Redpill aware they do think we are mad or something, now look at you boss. Look at you

Same woman you are depressed for, is who another man is disrespecting and having s*x without a single care of the world with.

Sir better wise up and focus on your business, no allow your business spoil because of woman. You see hunger, hunger bad o!!!!

Hunger bad pass break up

Dust yourself up and move on. You won't die if she doesn't love you no more.
Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Dexter08(m): 11:02am On Mar 30, 2023
Karlifate:
10 things every man must learn from Thomas Shelby:


1. Loyalty:

Thomas is fiercely loyal to his family and his gang.

He'll do whatever it takes to protect them and keep them safe.

As a man, it's important to be loyal to those you care about and stand up for them when necessary.


2. Confidence:

Thomas exudes confidence in everything he does.

Whether he's negotiating a deal or engaging in hand-to-hand combat, he's always cool, calm, and collected.

As a man, it's crucial to have confidence in yourself and your abilities.


3. Emotional intelligence:

Despite his tough exterior, Thomas has a deep understanding of human emotions

He knows how to read people & use their emotions to his advantage

As a man, it's important to develop emotional intelligence in order to navigate complex social situations


4. Discipline:

Thomas is a man of discipline.

He's able to control his emotions and stay focused on his goals.

As a man, it's important to develop discipline in order to achieve success.


5. Strategic thinking:

Thomas is known for his exceptional strategic thinking.

He's always several steps ahead of his opponents and knows how to play the long game.

As a man, it's essential to develop strategic thinking skills in order to succeed in life.


6. Leadership:

Thomas is a natural leader.

He commands respect from his peers and is able to rally his troops to achieve their goals.

As a man, it's important to learn how to lead effectively and inspire those around you to achieve greatness.


7. Adaptability:

Thomas is able to adapt to new situations and environments quickly.

He's comfortable in both high society and the seedy underbelly of Birmingham.

As a man, it's important to be adaptable and comfortable in any situation.


8. Resourcefulness:

Thomas is a master of resourcefulness.

He's able to make the most out of any situation and use his limited resources to his advantage.

As a man, it's important to be resourceful and learn how to make the most out of what you have.


9. Resilience:

Thomas has been through some tough times, but he always manages to bounce back.

He's a survivor and never gives up.

As a man, it's important to develop resilience and learn how to bounce back from setbacks.


10. Vision:

Thomas has a clear vision for his future and knows exactly what he wants.

He's able to see the big picture and make decisions that will help him achieve his goals.

As a man, it's important to have a clear vision for your future and work towards it every day.


And that's a wrap!


📖 Mindset Machine
Boss you is on fire, keep up the good work boss.
Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Dexter08(m): 8:00am On Mar 30, 2023
Dear Men,

Time not women is the enemy most especially if you just became Redpill aware.

Time is an enemy in the sense that it does takes time before the Redpill sprout out it root, bear fruits which in turn can leave you frustrated on days when your old nature(simp nature) raise it ugly head

Days like that can leave you frustrated, questioning your belief, make you wonder if you are indeed on the right path.

But I say unto thee, brother stay strong!!!

Stay strong brother on days it is easier to just simp, stay strong on days that simping might likely be the only option you are faced with.

Stay strong brother and know that you are not alone in this. We might indeed be few but together we are many.

I repeat women is not the enemy but time when gulping the redpill is.

Have you gulped the Redpill today??
Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Dexter08(m): 9:38am On Mar 29, 2023
Dear Brother,

I write to you this day to tell you that the spirit of Oneitis is real.

Growing up, I have always looked up and admired Shah Rukh Khan. If you watch Bollywood movies, you will understand why.

The man made love beautiful, his chemistry with the female actors can even convince one that he is probably dating them in real life. Man was that good.

So good he was that the movie he acted with Kajol some years ago is still being showed in India theatres to this very day.

Shah Rukh Khan shaped the way I saw love growing up. So last year when my girlfriend broke my heart I didn't sleep for days, tears ran down my eyes, my heart couldn't take it.

Even to this very day I still feel the pain of her saying NO. There are days I want to message her telling her not to give up on us, asking for another chance but the red pill in me will not let me.

Brother you might be in the same shoe like me, but I say unto thee when you find thyself in such situation, gulp the Redpill.

Focus on your hustle, do a work out, hang out with friends. Believe me, you won't die if you don't reach out to your ex.

Focus on yourself brother!!!!!!

Oneitis is real and alive, only a dose of the Redpill a day can quench it fiery darts.
Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Dexter08(m): 8:39am On Mar 28, 2023
Dear men,
Do not be fooled, the Redpill like chloroquine is a hard and difficult one to swallow. It is not as easy as many of us here paint it or want you to believe.

But that shouldn't put you away from the journey that is the Redpill. Yeah the Redpill is a journey. There are days the Redpill will be broad and smooth and there are days it will be narrow but I say unto thee brother persevere.

There are days that you will be like the average simp out there but I say unto thee, learn, pickup thyself and move on. There are days you might fall to the wiles of the feminine, don't worry, learn from it, pick up thyself and move on.

After all, the Redpill is a journey.

It will take time, even ages to become Redpill aware but I say unto thee in all seasons, PERSEVERE brethren.

Don't forget to gulp a pill today brethren.
Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Dexter08(m): 8:53am On Mar 25, 2023
luminouz:
Jesus fuqin Christ!!! grin grin
The obsession of that F moniker above. Like others before her, she will fade into obscurity.

I just pray nobody gives her the attention she dey crave for.
Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Dexter08(m): 10:04pm On Mar 24, 2023
Still strange how guys here are still quoting the F moniker on this thread.

If you want to relate with females, do it on other threads, relate with them in your area, and if it were possible to relate with them on the moon, by all means do. We won't stop you.

All we are saying, is don't quote the F moniker on this thread even if the said intentions of the F moniker maybe good, enlightening or whatever.

Do it on other threads.

There are over a thousand threads on this forum na.
TV/Movies › Re: What Series Are You Watching Now? Part 2 by Dexter08(m): 3:03pm On Mar 05, 2023
Baddestguyp:
the fact that you are so pained is funny grin
K
TV/Movies › Re: What Series Are You Watching Now? Part 2 by Dexter08(m): 2:49pm On Mar 05, 2023
Baddestguyp:
Keep crying.
Grow up man!!!

People worst than you derailed this thread and yet the thread still stood, like them you will soon slide in to obscurity.

Don't worry kid, it is your time enjoy it.
TV/Movies › Re: What Series Are You Watching Now? Part 2 by Dexter08(m): 1:54pm On Mar 05, 2023
Baddestguyp:
more tears pls

You've not cried enough
Guy honestly you do need to grow up.

Funny thing is most of your reviews here are usually subpar. Dey form say you be intellectual.

Grow up man!!! Attention seeking has never done anyone any good.

Smh.
Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Dexter08(m): 1:49pm On Dec 26, 2021
I thought there is an agreement not to quote ladies on this thread abi am I mistaking or something. undecided

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