Family › Re: Help! I'm Tired And Want To Ever Forget I Had A Biological Mum by Dheartless: 11:22pm On Apr 20, 2015 |
go your way if you feel rejected.
don't put your hope on a human being, whether or not that person is good.
believe in yourself, achieve what you will.
don't let anyone who is not in your shoes hurt you more than you already are.
I have a step sister who i feel pity for because she deserve some apology, explanations and love whether in time of my families bad or good times. I wish I can do more than consoling her by showing not just my love, I wish only for the ability to connect her fully into my family. |
Family › Re: Looking For A Wife...? by Dheartless: 9:38pm On Apr 20, 2015 |
SisiNini: Dat Afghanistan got me laughing... #LOL... U ar a clown.. I humbly accept the entitlement you've offered. meanwhile I don't want to say you're pretty and I like prettiness. I hope you're are also searching and you do not limit your search perimeters by tribal borders!! ?? thanks for the compliment/polite insult  |
Family › Re: What Should I Do? by Dheartless: 8:19pm On Apr 20, 2015 |
agborodun: Thanks and God bless u. any human being man/woman that wants to be your God, will not prosper. this prayer will only come to pass if you apply wisdom to your dealings. I pray on your behalf happiness for you bro. cheers |
Family › Re: Looking For A Wife...? by Dheartless: 8:01pm On Apr 20, 2015 |
tribal sentiments I hate those south Africa is better than you I am not not igbo , Yoruba , Hausa.
do you know the right man might just be even from Afghanistan?
but all the same I wish you a very successful search and a happy engagement. I am really sincere, I wish you a successful search.
thank you |
Family › Re: What Should I Do? by Dheartless: 7:33pm On Apr 20, 2015*. Modified: 7:51pm On Apr 20, 2015 |
Non of the stated is a sin 1. she should be happy you love her children
2. if you don't have the cash nko? and can't she set up a biz for herself or is she handicap?
3. what of if the most of her family members instigate misunderstanding in your home? unless if you are just wicked to them, that's when there's a problem.
4: when someone does wrong the best you can do to that person is to let that person know.
5:so far you want her good, then you're doing the right thing. just don't kill her.
6: what if she was wrong?
these are my thoughts and questions, I might be wrong, but think about them.
if you find yourself guilty against her in some areas do the reverse and apologize
thank you |
Family › Re: Are You Ashamed Of Any One In Your Family? by Dheartless: 8:53am On Apr 20, 2015 |
milychocs: Choose to be proud of you and them instead, okay? Cheers that was the intending meaning of my post thanks anyway have a stress free Monday |
Family › Re: Lmao, see the latest father of many nations (pictured) by Dheartless: 12:55am On Apr 20, 2015 |
become born again so we can all be children and so non of us has to take care of another
cheers |
Family › Re: Lmao, see the latest father of many nations (pictured) by Dheartless: 12:54am On Apr 20, 2015 |
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Family › Re: What Are The Effects Of A Married Cheating Edo Woman On The Husband by Dheartless: 12:48am On Apr 20, 2015 |
you're dead!! |
Family › Re: Are You Ashamed Of Any One In Your Family? by Dheartless: 12:46am On Apr 20, 2015 |
Yes, ashamed of myself.
I need the ability and capability and facilities to do more good to each and every member of my lovely family
thank you |
Family › Re: Must A Woman Be Married To Get Respect? by Dheartless: 12:41am On Apr 20, 2015*. Modified: 7:19pm On Apr 20, 2015 |
NO if you respect yourself you will be respected if you do anyhow you see anyhow
respect is reciprocal irrespective of your marital status.
but I tend to get the first intention of showing more respect to a married woman, until I see if she deserves it or not. when she does not deserve it I treat her accordingly.
and when a single lady deserves my respect, I hold it not back but deliver unto her the respect she has earned
thank you |
Family › Re: Would You Delay Your Wedding If Your Elder Sibling(s) Is Still Unmarried? by Dheartless: 7:20pm On Apr 19, 2015 |
will he/she provide a wife for me if my fiancé leaves because of the delay?
even if he/ she will provide
my answer will still be NO |
Family › Re: Why Do Some Women Call Their Husbands 'our Daddy'? by Dheartless: 7:17pm On Apr 19, 2015 |
if you're not my child then am not your daddy
all those Igbo girls should stop that habit.
i am not igbo, I am not a Yoruba neither am I an Hausa, before some people turn this to tribal war |
Family › Re: His Wife Attempted To Remove A Meat From His Food by Dheartless: 7:12pm On Apr 19, 2015 |
other people things na im dey sweet women to possess.
it is why jealousy is their habit. |
Family › Re: What Part Of Marriage Do You Dislike? by Dheartless: 7:06pm On Apr 19, 2015 |
the part where my partner/woman becomes a " nagging celebrity" |
Family › Re: Where Can One Get It: A Quiet Place To Relax In Lagos by Dheartless: 8:03pm On Apr 18, 2015 |
iya pata nla close to Ojo local government council you can get sepe there too!!
readers discretion |
Romance › Re: Ladies, Was I The Only One Who Prayed For Big Boobs When I Was Little? by Dheartless: 3:23pm On Apr 18, 2015 |
I hate big boobs
they become fallen angels quite too early
and also I don't need a flesh blanket when I sleep I think it is better to buy a cotton blanket.
I am not insinuating anything. |
Celebrities › Re: 8 Popular Nigerian Faces Doing The 'Unusual' In Public [photos] by Dheartless: 12:25pm On Apr 17, 2015 |
fvck you for making this thread political |
Celebrities › Re: Denrele Poses With A Lady (see Photo) by Dheartless: 12:00pm On Apr 17, 2015*. Modified: 12:15pm On Apr 17, 2015 |
kennygee: He already has in excess.
I am a curvy size 10.
 OK .....its good then I am very interested I have been using android for long let me have a good experience of bb curve hope you caught the joke. |
Celebrities › Re: Denrele Poses With A Lady (see Photo) by Dheartless: 11:55am On Apr 17, 2015 |
kennygee: This dude has hips?

Not even a strain of masculine muscle on him.
He totally out staged Sasha who is even a woman.
Where is this boy's mother now? @ bolded have faith, God will provide |
Celebrities › Re: Denrele Poses With A Lady (see Photo) by Dheartless: 11:52am On Apr 17, 2015 |
double post |
Family › Re: Please Help Me. Am I Making A Right Decision??! by Dheartless: 1:30am On Apr 17, 2015 |
if only I know where you stay! I would really want to see you, I will give you a wwe smack down slap that will give you the ability to see your cheeks without looking into a mirror.
why do you want to live in bondage my sister? since I can't see you to slap. I sincerely beg you to move away from him and get a happy life. thank you.
but if you know you are a chronic nag, again I beg you, please repent, otherwise the next happy partner will turn into another monster. |
Family › Re: Pls, I Need Advice And What Age Is A Female Allowed To Leave Her Father's House? by Dheartless: 1:16am On Apr 17, 2015 |
patience, just be patience. your dad is actually doing the best for you by wanting you to go for masters and also wants to sponsor you. but if you feel otherwise then try the below: After your nysc, get a job and if your dad insist you quit, refuse and get a house, but remember that from this point you're responsible for all your expenses including your tuition fee, if/when you choose to go for your masters later in future. last option I have got a house and a job vacancy, yes it is as easy as sending a call through but...................  that's all folks |
Family › Re: When You Discover That Shes Not A Virgin On Your Wedding Night by Dheartless: 12:59am On Apr 17, 2015 |
actually i don't care whether a lady is a virgin or not , I love who I love.
but in this case she is a cheat, manipulator, lair, deceiver ......and so much more. and these I don't love, so I will send her to her fathers house/ compound/ yard/door mouth, but if where we reside belongs to her , I will go to my fathers mansion/palace.
that's all folks |
Family › Re: For Men Whose Wives Have Big Booobs! by Dheartless: 12:10am On Apr 17, 2015 |
one mans meat/love, another mans poison/hate. extreme turn off
well.....all you have to do is get yourself one but make sure you see it without a bra before homing the owner.......thank me later.
cheers. |
Romance › Re: Who Handles Breakups Easier! by Dheartless: 10:07pm On Apr 16, 2015 |
30 years relationship , will cost me less than a day to ignore forever |
Nairaland General › Re: Who Would You Stand For Among The Following People And Give Your Reasons? by Dheartless: 6:01pm On Apr 16, 2015*. Modified: 9:24pm On Apr 16, 2015 |
any of the last 3, the lady carrying a child comes last
but to be more sincere I think the old lady will first come to mind then any of the two men.
I won't stand up for the lady carrying a child, after all she isn't pregnant. |
Family › Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by Dheartless: 5:03pm On Apr 16, 2015 |
the encrypted summary of recent events: 1. I see two grown ups ( male and a female) quarrelling like children ( not too annoying sha). 2. I see one female child crying without a cause like a day old infant (very annoying) note: I am not judging anyone cause I can be very guilty of this same attitudes. #watching/reading and smiling until I read a new turn of event. thank you all for the entertainment  . I expect more, please carry on  |
Family › Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by Dheartless: 5:02pm On Apr 16, 2015 |
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Romance › Re: Help..my Guy Joystick Is Too Big ,am Scared..it Paining Me. by Dheartless: 9:17pm On Apr 15, 2015*. Modified: 6:48pm On Apr 02, 2016 |
in zulezu's voice
e dey pain you? yes. make I comot am? No, I go manage am so.
bear am small, e go better after some couple of practices, after all, "practice makes perfect". |
Family › Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by Dheartless: 8:40pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
coogar: thunder fire your weave on!  aproka! this is golden  |
Family › Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by Dheartless: 1:02pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
BlackLeopard: I haven't viewed it that way either, yet how we as individuals view something doesn't change the notion in majority group of anywhere.
Those laws were long overdue. It's a shame they weren't there sooner, that it had to be this long to even get laws in effect guaranteeing basic human rights. So your statement 'it's the men who enacted the original laws' could surely be viewed as men doing a favor of sorts to women... but if you look at the larger scope, guaranteeing any minority group basic rights they have as fellow PEOPLE, it's really not doing any sort of a favor, but very belated apology after years of that other group's inmesurable suffering.
But look at the next many women who don't for instance even hear of having any rights, who whole their lives just hear to suck it up, it could have been worse somewhere. That sort of logic doesn't get us anywhere; it's always worse somewhere. I thought the goal is getting be better.
And what desperate people do to get their voices heard is I don't think up for judgment of those not sharing that despair. It's as simple as that. It's not hypocritical to require respect however (preferably legally) available.
Neither. My first thought would be there's a naked person, who is walking, and depending the style of the walk and ocassion, it's either not my business, or my business to ask that person if they don't need an assistance, because a naked person in the middle of a street when it isn't a march specifically meant for that is surely experiencing a mental distress they better get addressed, and is requiring a medical attention.
The hurt party. The slapped person.
Individual. I can't respond to that with generic idea, there's multiple men who don't have that muscle mass and women who do.
Ditto, it's still individual.
The interpretation of those signs as masculine x feminine, is. We could well be simply talking of X trait, as required for Y activity, or as suitable Z activity instead of something else. We could be talking about bodies in a different way than label gender and the informational value woulda be the same, if not greater.
I haven't - thank you for the movie recommendation and I will ammend that as soon as possible, it certainly sounds as an interesting movie to watch. 
However, that some people are inclined to do this or that role, still doesn't speak about biological determinism, more shared cultural values passed through genetically, if something, but the beginning of that division was still cultural, somewhere along the way, and then deciding it works out just well, let's do it repeatedly.
You're entitled to your views, but you're still owing fellow people a basic respect, and a way for them to not feel threatened around you. Which spreading hate everywhere one goes, indeed isn't. This isn't just about being politically correct. This isn't about rhetorics. This is about lived feeling of safety. About being a decent person to fellow people. You don't have to adapt the same mindset, values, lifestyles. But to restrict people's right to live their lives in peace, with who they are happy with? Yeah, I do see an issue with that. who liked this very insincere post? |