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obowunmi:
Hi,

Many of you may remember me.

My mother has been pressuring me to get married. I come from a very wealthy family.

I began dating this girl (fine babe) who I really, really like(not love bit I can manage her) but things just suddenly went haywire because she says I'm a player. Now she's left.

I've learned that one should always put God first. This dating life don tire me small. I buy every thing on planet earth for my babes but they still don't stay.

I've even paid different pastors but it's like God doesn't answer their own prayers sef.

I recently traveled to Singapore, upon my return, the babe has dumped me.

Pls what should I do? I want to marry this year (2015) at all cost. I don't believe in arranged marriages and my time as a fornicator has expired.

What advice do you have? Some old posters might know me.

Lesson learned is that put God first and in all things... Pls tell me, what could I be doing wrong? The thing don tire me sef. I need some kind of help and advice.

Neplusultra:
Pray and also answer d prayer? ?!

vizkiz:
never show a girl how much you love her...believe me, that is the first step in being her biiatch

Never tell a girl "you are the only one I will ever love"...nigga she will tag you as a weak ass! Don't you do that!

Never date a girl like missclassy...you life iyaf finish from the very first minute

dre11:
This your assumption shouldn't play on ooooo at the emboldened

nsiazu:
is?

nsiazu:
is?

AsherStorm:
move plssss...
the guy was obviously expecting and hoping buhari will fail in his tenure just like gej failed... its typical of most Igbo and south southerners, just a few of them think logically of other tribes... I've lived in the east and ive conducted survey...
core northerners are also like that... they show hatred towards core Igbos and ijaws....
must we have the country like that.?

AsherStorm:
child of hate...
some of u from SE and SS are just born to hate other tribes...
is it a crime to have the president from other regions apart from the SS and SE?

TheChosenOne1:
Nice 1 Bro!..I think ave seen someone that shares the same thought with me..This is exactly what I do too...you shouldn't in anyway please or force someone into loving you!...it's soo wrong...I wish most guys can wise up

sinaj:
nah nah ...m no perv. bwoy

sinaj:
Issorite

okwuvic wnt make me break my fast

Rawani:
Where are the bitter losers that were threatening fire and brimstone from the Delta because a Northerner is President?

Rawani:
Where are the bitter losers that were threatening fire and brimstone from the Delta because a Northerner is President?

kandiikane:
That's because if you are comparing two races, you have more blacks living in poorer environments than their white counterparts in certain countries. If you have those same white people, hispanics and asian living in that same poorer environment, they will have similar attitudes. Go to poland or these europeans countries that hardly have much of a black society and see their behaviours. Your ignorance only allows you to be bias and see black women as the devil. Bring up a black person equally in his richer counterpart's neighbourhood and see whether he will behave in that same mannerism as those in the poorer neighbourhoods. It was stup!d of you to quote me because if you were going to quote me at least quote me with an answer that negates my claim rather than actually acknowledge the point I made, which is, it is the environment that plays a role in the way a group of people behave rather than the race itself. Even in Africa, amongst blacks from different backgrounds you can differentiate those that come from poorer neighbourhoods and those that come from richer neighbourhoods by objectively looking at their behaviours and attitudes.

There is no "angry" gene in a black woman's genetic makeup. Why is it that when black people in Africa break bottles on each other and fight we don't mention the race but when a black woman in a white man's country shows some anger, the ignorant black man will be the first to scream, " the black woman is naturally aggressive" yet keep mute when the women of other races act in a similar manner. Is it only black women who quarrel and fight? You find yourself watching videos of just black women fighting and screaming at each other because you want to use it as a yardstick to paint your whole race of women as rotten.

kandiikane:
I can post videos of other races fighting and arguing if you want


What ignorance! it is not the race but the environment!

Raymie:
if it did happen, her dad deserves it. You do not come to my turf to fight me. Anything yhu see, yhu take. QED.

Amybijou:
OP,you need to be strong now.
DO NOT FOR ANY REASON LET ANY FAMILY MEMBER OF YOURS BREAK YOUR HOME, NOT EVEN YOU MOTHER.
You will be surprised that ur mother will leave you with the kids once u ask your wife out, she will not ask let alone care about how you are coping with the kids and work as a single parent.
Ur wife and u became "one" from the day u wedded. If your mum insists, give her space/stop every communications FOR NOW. Am sure the fight started when d attack got to its extreme. Hold ur peace my dear, family members have a way of breaking homes; I don't let them decide for me.
A colleague of mine said, the greatest mistake he made was to send his wife away cos of his family. Now he is lonely and his family members are living their own happy lives. His wife has refused to return due to his weakness of taking sides with his family members.