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if these ladies are blaming the man for his action, I wonder what they would tag him if he was the one that behaved like the Lady!
am sure they would have been cursing the government for not taking the man "lady animal " to jail.

eneres:
the things is some women believe our 'fragility' gives us the go ahead to do whatever we want and then play the victim when the consequences come forth. That is total BS. She deserves all she got. How do put that much strain on someone's self-control and expect it not to break? She expected it, she probably didn't think the guy would be the one to win the fight

imaging!, someone that could not even control herself over "her guy talking a little mean to her friend", is expecting someone else to control himself over her verbal and physical abuse against him!
the level of most women hypocrisy is astonishing and irritating.

logica:
Not all the women. From their responses, you can tell those who had a father figure from those who had none (and ended up as men haters as a result of series of failed relationships). Being close to a man is essential for a girl child; she picks up her understanding of men from her father and other men in the family (uncles etc) and hopefully these are normal and sane men. Without that understanding, she will stumble from one failed relationship to another; and continue to get angrier and angrier at men.

I agree not all women here, I modified before even this mention.
and the rest of your post is damn correct as well.

the reply of some women here is just making them look like a lesser being

everyone that advice the guy to manage his anger and blame him for not having self control,those advice are right but,
YOU ARE ALL BIG FOOLS.

because those advice are meant for the lady,
I guess you all need to go learn what self control means,
* it means you should not behave like the "posters" gurl. very simple, isn't it?

I love being a man
just like the way some three brothers on here described how the black man nature should be

Smh

ekiloui:
Oga why should your wife be beating you? Are you married to the female mike tyson or something? How many women can actually beat up their husbands.

If you like beat your wife to death because u want to show how much of an animal can be. That's your biz

No real man will beat his wife and that's the simple truth...instead he'll hold her off from beating him

the hypocrisy in your posts is so silly
*if a woman slaps a man he should calm her down(because its just a slap)
*if a man slaps a woman,( he is an animal and the woman should pack and leave)

*No real man will beat is wife( but you didn't tell us what a real woman will never do)



*a man that slaps a woman does not respect her (a woman that slaps a man " its just slap" )

let me give you a piece of advice, "do to others what you will have them do to you"
in ethics:that's the golden rule
am sure even the bible/God tells you this.

ma'am don't advice someone not to slap you when you slap him
don't expect someone not to slap you when you slap him
if you see me on the street,try slapping me for telling all this and I will give you back the gift in very pleasant manner
now my turn
a woman that slaps a man is an animal and not real a woman
no woman should slap a man, no matter what.
men be careful before you choose a wife, any atom of violence from her, leave and don't look back whether children are involve or not,( but don't forget to return favour before leaving )

veave:
1. Their latest sugar boi
2. Ssss'xxxxxxxxxxxxx



3. Others

you must be from akwa ibom?
you seem to know a lot

sweetcocoa:
Okay.

This is why parents should educate their kids and be close to them.

If you had felt safe you would have been able to tell your folks, there wouldn't be any need feel ashamed because it wasn't your fault.

true to this.
I and my siblings were so disconnected with my parents when comes to sexual issues.

Sexycleopatra:
ohh I gerrit. Dah boy is a bad boy eh. I wil rape him instead

from this post, I guess he has met his match.
well since you understand his intention and you are ready to take control, I will just let the both of you get on with it.
just don't spoil anything, so ride it nice and steady.
goodluck

ileobatojo:
I'm so sorry for what you went through.

in as much as I hate overwhelming emotions, I really do feel some sense of peace but a little ashamed over your sympathy rendered.
thanks a bunch
am really glad I could get well.



that boy needs help
it was such a sad prison/feeling, one has to fight with his thoughts every second

sweetcocoa:
This is serious, glad you overcame it.

Hope you don't mind my asking why you told no one?

I bet, I would have told my mum if something like that happened to me. A friend's kid came back from school one day and told her mum, how one of her teachers(a guy)told her to follow him to his house, so he'll give her what he kept for her but that she should not tell anyone about it, she said she asked him why he bought something for her and he said it's cos she's a good student and deserves something, she then told him, she wasn't allowed to go anybody's house without her mum's approval, so he had to ask her mum, after which, he told her to forget about it.

when I was below 5 years, I didn't know how to say it.

when I was 9-11, I thought it would have been embarrassing on my own part and I was ashamed to tell it to my parents.....because of this "as long as any of their child was around their vicinity my parents never really talked about sex and none of their children dare show any sexual knowledge else you will be tagged a spoilt child"

Sexycleopatra:
wat did he mean? Is it a bad meanin?

bad?
no, not at all!!.
america is an understatement, you actually will get to heaven if you want to, as long as he can push forward real good.

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Sexycleopatra:
hahahaha. Boys hav suffered in d hands of girls. Ok I want u to push me to amelika. U knw u wil hav to cross seven rivers and seven seas. . I trust u can do dat.

I think you need to understand what he meant by " pushing forward"

don't molest a grown man

ritababe:
Its ur responsibilty,


thats why i will not marry for love alone, but for love and money.

what!!
who would want to marry you for love alone?
talk less when the man has money

or are you not the person on your profile pics?

please I meant no insult

wow good for her!
now she has no need to cheat, if she gets tired of one or one becomes boring she will just switch to the other.
what an advantage she's got in that marriage

Shollypopzz:
I'm just happy folks like TV01 will be going to hell after all.........

don't disturb that man's (TV) peace, he recently took possession of a baby princess

BTW congrats to him

I don't know much about what marriage feels like, so I really can't say.
but I will never harbour anyone that takes away my sanity, NEVER!, as long as I do everything to please you > the first one time you decide to be my death, everyone goes their way, there can be forgiveness but no reconciliation concerning continuing the relationship.

I have once met a guy who was raped by a group of cult girls.

I don't know why someone who does not have something will argue on how it works with people that have it.
the penis can even get erect by caressing it ' even while the owner is asleep'
It can get erected spontaneously even without any thought of sex
read this
http://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Erection
(Nairaland has changed the word " erect!on " to "attention" in every part of this post, so the link above should be corrected accordingly before browsing on)
and also see the meaning of " parasympathetic" in that article.

HIS STORY( I can't say if he was lying but I know even if I wasn't interested mine would have stood at one point in the same situation, even if it was just for a second of erect!on)
his story was funny to me though(I told him I would disarm them all if it was me)

the moment he was violent against his molesters his concentration was focused on defense, so there was no erection,
later he relaxed avoiding injuries that may be inflicted from weapons held by the rest five girls in the room and one started rubbing the stuff with all she got, his stuff got up,
he is a very shy guy so when his clothes was about to be taken off he resisted and erection was lost.
after some more threats with deadly weapon his clothes went off and the girl (who was also naked) did some many things on him with everything she got and that was it, his stuff came back up and she climbed but in less than 15 secs it started going down because his attention was divided by the other girls watching, some humiliating him with dirty words and harsh romance, him been angry and shy.........
it continued a little bit in this manner " off and on"
they also force him to take some "not too much" amount of liquor,
he said he actually cum at one point but it just came out with no real impact of pleasure but just a Little sweet sensation after which he could no longer get any erect!on even for a few secs.
he said he was going to humiliate those girls one after another in the same manner.
from what he told me the girls didn't really meant for it to be violently carried out , they thought he would gladly obliged at one point ( just as some people here thinks)

my take on erect!on is this:
though erect!on can be hindered by distraction and unwillingness, 'that' can't completely stop a penis from erecting.

I read your post again
I have to ask you this " ARE YOU MAD!!?"
ahn ahn!!

na wa o, what nonsense is this?
did he charm you (I mean spiritually)?
cause I don't see any reason why someone will be this ........... ( a beg am not ready to insult anyone this morning)

pleaeeeese move on with your life don't even think a second about him, and make sure you insult him like he is a piece of trash when else he calls.

if you're under spiritual control please go to mountain of fire and miracle ministry for deliverance.

what a painful pity

I see another money rituals coming up

all this people saying slap isn't the solution
why don't you just campaign for robbers, rap!sts, terrorists ......to be sat down and counseled instead been punished by the law?
you see when a young person start showing bad traits such as stealing and molesting and ask he be advised without given him a sample of what he will get in future if he continues that way ( even after being counseled at the first ' act of stealing')
I say slap him hard and counsel follows immediately.

am sure its because of the moms over pampering that got the boy to this stage ( one can see "that" from what the naval guy told the OP)
the mother must be very supportive in regards to her sons action and she will call it counseling

they will pet and pamper their kids and when the law gets them they cry "what have I not done".

OP just be sure you don't exceed reasonable punishment.
am saying this so you don't go about thinking you're doing your kid something bad

but since he is not your son just don't let him close anymore, if you must then you must teach him the right way by all means ( which includes punishment)

ikanium
I think you should say " thank you ma'am" to somebody for forgiveness and don't even expect the promise she attached to it but take the advice given by her

I beg you guys please even if he will never get any help from any one here again forgive him o.
and let him carry his cross


just forgive for accepting his foolishness
I can be very heartless but not to someone who has surrender

all I could do is
I see bunch of pained bitches all around
go ahead and f*uck all you want when it slacks don't forget you've got an alternative ' the asss hole'.

just need someone to cheat on me so I can have an excuse
.

what a pity
ikanium you wasted an opportunity given to you by God out of insincerity and greed , you should really be ashamed of yourself , apologise wholeheartedly to everyone that has ever contributed in any way to your education and ask for forgiveness from God and everyone you have collected money from.

crackhaus:
She has disappeared for now, she will come back when she guesses I must be asleep to avoid any prompt replies...

una nor go kill person
are you indirectly saying she's a goatward?
oooh sorry I meant coward .