xin5: Please is that how it's been done? I bought a land early 2018 and now I feel like selling out. The families who sold it to me said they are entitled for their own percentage from the money the buyer is offering. Please I need to know if that's how it's done. I only went to inform them I would be handling the piece of land to a new owner and thought kola nut and palm wine would be it, since they also sold to several people there and also have some available I thought I should let them know for future reference... instead they are asking how much I am selling and wants to know every details of it.
Meanwhile the deeds that's about to be prepared would be in my name and that of the buyer, what consigns the family?
I had to tell them that's not possible it's my own land I bought from them I am selling, he went further and said it's either they buy it back from with same amount I bought 2018 or I give them their percentage from the appreciating amount or I develop and let matter rest.
Please help
Look for a reputable military personnel with high rank that you can trust with the details to handle it. If possible visit the family again while he goes with you or he shld call them.
You have made a big mistake by involving the family in the first place. Make Dem no come do u jazz.
Lasslass tell them you are selling it the same amount you purchased it from them that you have financial issues and decided to let go of it and you shld offer them 10% if you can let go of that amount comfortably. I said this in order not to have any spiritual issue from them.
A friend of mine had similar issues , he purchased a large sum of land and after few yrs he got an Intel that the seller wanted to resell so he went there and he was been threaten by thugs and a woman who claimed she was the rightful owner.
He asked them to produce documents which they can't then he told them he will bring the doc with him the next day that they shld meet.
He spoke with his security personnel and they went there together. On getting there they saw only him and decided to hurt him not knowing that a comfortable police pickup is in a corner waiting to pick all of them up.
So when it gets to issues like this bit shld be treated the proper way. But have it in mind that you will surely spend. So if you can't follow the first suggestion you can look into the second one . But you will surely spend in both ways.
Try and stay out of trouble, so many people have ended up in 6feet just because of landed issues .
I also have an experience, which i had them to resell but they couldn't get a buyer all because it was sold to me twice the amount they sold land in that environment. Lasslass I asked them to refund which they did after 8month .
So be wise about this and try to connect with those that sells land or property to give u more insight .
tecnolad: I'm not saying Nigeria can't replicate this, but e go tey
This is not about Nigeria. I believe you don't know shoprite is been owned by southafrican. Every shoprite in Nigeria is been owned by spithafrican , the mall where the shoprite is been placed is the only thing owned by Nigeria. Even if you want to apply for a job at shoprite. They have their own email which is @co.za. whole the can decide t bring the truck to Nigeria after test running it over there for months cos Nigerians love glowing things...lol. We will surely fall for it like children fall for wheel barrow ice cream.
nedekid: I doubt a woman that has been married for 25 years will carry belle and put on the husband. Most likely she will be around the 45 to 50 age range.
If she no sabi how to go about am. Na d husband load b dat
advanceDNA: Old flame ... They never die.... 20 - 50 years later....they can become an inferno
...this your wife wey don dey send money, dey send pórn....Las las e be like say she go off pant ooo
Just Brace your self.... U can't force an adult from fvcking up if their heart is there ...and it's clear ur wife wants to fvck up with this nigga cos she don fvck the nigga b4..... in addition to all her lies that she doesn't think she was doing any wrong or the implications of her action...
She will surely off pant. I'm sure she's been crushing on d guy for yrs... This was what broke my younger sisters home
bokondogi: Hello Nairalanders, I will appreciate your comments and advice on this post
I have been married with 2 grown up kids for more than 2 and half decades, 2 months ago my wife got in contact with one of her secondary school classmate, someone she has lost contact with since they left school 3 decades ago.
So they started calling each other, though my wife told me about him and sometimes they talked on phone in my presence but later my wife will go to her room to talk with the guy, most times in the night.
This calls always excite my wife that I could hear her laughing and I begin to get jealous and I decided to get to know what they usually talk about.
They later moved to chatting on WhatsApp and will be doing call at night. I noticed my wife started making sure her phone isn't within my reach, making sure she didn't leave her phone carelessly. We both know each others phone password, One day I get access to her phone and I open her whatsapp. I noticed that my wife is flirting with the guy, the guy wil be refering to my wife as his wife but my wife usually won't respond to this, They were exchanging pictures, and admiring each others pictures.
The guy was proffesing love to my wife but wiffy won't reciprocate to this advances. Once a while I use to check wiffy's phone for any new development, and I find out wiffy use to send both money and airtime for data to the guy (my wife is into a lucrative business and money isn't her problem).
So one day a friend of mine send me a short porn video which I showed to my wife, she requested me to forward it to her, (I was surprised by this her request because she usually frown at porn), I sent it to her on her Facebook messenger instantly, but I was suspicious of what she wanted to do with the porn video. 2 days later she called me that she wanted to send the video to a female friend of her on WhatsApp but she didn't know how to forward the video from messenger platform to whatsapp.
I now forwarded the porn video to her on WhatsApp because I was curious what she wanted to do with the porn video, lol and behold my wife forwarded the video to this guy with a vulgar comment. I can't imagine my wife using the word 'toto', I have never heard this word from her I now find out that this guy has earlier sent to my wife a porn video which she later deleted. I was shocked by these discoveries. My wife that frowns at obscene words is now using one in a chat with a man and even exchanging porn with him.
Even some gift items I kept in the house, I discovered my wife gifted them to this guy. After these discoveries, I confront my wife with the evidence but she find it hard to deny and she said that she didn't know what she was doing with the guy was wrong that she didn't know the implications, She told me she did not have any sexual contact with the guy and she swear about this, but I find it hard to believe, though I didn't find any evidence of this in their chats, I am heart broken, this is a woman I trust so much, Though she begged me and told me she won't have contact with the guy again, but I find it hard to believe.
I plan to throw her out. Is this the best decision?
Let her family know. Old habits never die . she might be crushing on the guy sind sch days. Bro. Anything can happen at anytime. She can lie about her location and meet up with him and have a nice Bleep. And if God won catch u, she go get Belle And put it on u. Or contact STD while you treat her���. That specie can't be trusted . she turned you to FBI overnight ����. Let her family know what's happening before she provoke you and push you to the limit. The devil comes to do 3 things and I know u know it.....
TheRareGem1: Two and half decades is such a long time. Try and manage the situation for the sake of your children. It hurts really but your wife is your wife.
Not everyone can manage the situation.
He needs to let her family know
One day she will lie about her location and meet up with this guy and Bleep. Na that time you go cry your eye out .
Let her family know what's happening. Bad habits never die.......
Factory name: lush hair Working hours: 7am-6pm Working days: Mondays- Saturday Shift: one week night, one week day Salary: 35k-50k depends on how hard working you are Free meal: yes; every Saturday Payment date: 28th of every month Accomodation: yes Address:Address. Km 5, Itokin Road, Itokin Road, Ikorodu, Lagos, Nigeria. Note: please inform me before coming . Check my profile for my watsapp number
Factory name: lush hair Working hours: 7am-6pm Working days: Mondays- Saturday Shift: one week night, one week day Salary: 35k-50k depends on how hard working you are Free meal: yes; every Saturday Payment date: 28th of every month Accomodation: yes Address:Address. Km 5, Itokin Road, Itokin Road, Ikorodu, Lagos, Nigeria. Note: please inform me before coming . Check my profile for my watsapp number
NovoLag: So I recently came back to Lagos and man has been terribly bored.
I think I should use this opportunity to beg Nigerian girls to please consider us fine boys If anyone had told me a full blooded fine boy like me will find it hard to have a decent relationship with a girl, I would’ve laughed it off.. it’s just soo hard to get a girl to date these days as a fine boy. They’ll think you’re a cheat or something It’s darn tiring.
So back to my story; so I sent out a few messages on Facebook to some girls who were into the hookup business and after a few minutes I got replies from a few and I finally settled for one that lives closer to me.
We settled for an amount. Sent her my pics and got hers She looked pretty average and decent.
First red flag when this girl refused to come in the afternoon. Said she had a few errands to run and can only come about 7 in the evening.
When she finally came, it was past 9. Had wanted us to use my apartment but on a second thought I paid for a room nearby.
Omo when this girl showed up, she was entirely different from the person I met on Facebook. Not that it was a different person, but something was just off about her.
As per se body don full, I welcomed her into the room, gave her cash as she requested.
Now down to business; “where is your condom”? She was just looking at me like she never heard of condoms before.
She said she didn’t come with any o… that she doesn’t mind going raw. Ha
I’m grateful that my head won over my prick.. I went down to a nearby Aboki and bought a condom.
Came up, wore the bags, was about to penetrate and this girl coughed so loudly I had to go put on the main light and saw that this girl was visibly and obviously sick.
I don’t know what she was sick of, but she was shivering. Omo
She kept saying I should go ahead that it’s just small cough… mehn at that point my prick don go down. Then she said I should try raw, then if my prick gets strong again I can then use a bag.
I kept trying to understand the mumu talk.., like I should penetrate without a condom, then wear a condom later when my prick gets stronger..
This girl was out to end my life!
I just wore my trousers and left the room. I think there’s a set of frustrated people who are out there sharing diseases in Lagos. Man gats be very careful these days.
Danm !!!
The fact that I don't like condoms would have made me go raw... But wait. I don't do olosho or hookups. I can hold myself for a year....
[quote author=nairavsdollars post=117936395]The All Progressives Congress (APC) campaign council has released another presidential picture of what Asiwaju Bola Tinubu will look like as President.[/quote
No b only dapper... Na diaper, d one wey dem dey use wipe shit...
Hustle938: Hello Nairalanders, please I need your help urgently as regards a banking transaction on my account
I have a Pos shop in Ibadan which I put someone there to manage for me, we accept card transaction and also transfer from bank.
It happened that on the 15th of October 2022, someone came to do transaction in my shop so he sent 20000 twice from Opay with the account name FOLAKE KOLAWOLE and the transaction was confirmed and the person paid his money.
To my greatest surprise last week Friday which happened to be 21st of October 2022,I received some money into my account and I realised the sum of 40000 naira was withheld in my account so on getting to the bank today 24th October,22 I was told the bearer FOLAKE KOLAWOLE reported the transaction as fraud and that was the reason the money was withheld.
I asked for the way forward and I was told I will have to contact the said kolawole folake so she can go to her bank and clear the transaction whereas there is no means to get the lady and no phone number attached.
So I am appealing to all and sundry if u know any kolawole folake that banks with Opay and did a transaction of 20000 twice to an access account so I can reach her or if there’s any other means
The document received from the bank is attached below
Ohh its opay ?
You have been scammed!!! Ibadan scammers are always updated .
Itsrm: It's a new scam in town. People go to POS shops to withdraw money and go back to the bank to report the transaction as fraudulent or that the transaction failed. The bank usually will try contacting the POS agent and in cases where they can't be reached, the bank debits the account of the POS agent and credits the fraudster.
In your own case, good thing the bank can reach you. I think all you need to do is prove that Folake was indeed paid by showing them the receipt of the transaction.
Even if the person you paid is not Folake, its none of your business. It wasn't you who compromised Folakes account neither do you have a means to determine fraudulent transactions.
Hustle938: Hello Nairalanders, please I need your help urgently as regards a banking transaction on my account
I have a Pos shop in Ibadan which I put someone there to manage for me, we accept card transaction and also transfer from bank.
It happened that on the 15th of October 2022, someone came to do transaction in my shop so he sent 20000 twice from Opay with the account name FOLAKE KOLAWOLE and the transaction was confirmed and the person paid his money.
To my greatest surprise last week Friday which happened to be 21st of October 2022,I received some money into my account and I realised the sum of 40000 naira was withheld in my account so on getting to the bank today 24th October,22 I was told the bearer FOLAKE KOLAWOLE reported the transaction as fraud and that was the reason the money was withheld.
I asked for the way forward and I was told I will have to contact the said kolawole folake so she can go to her bank and clear the transaction whereas there is no means to get the lady and no phone number attached.
So I am appealing to all and sundry if u know any kolawole folake that banks with Opay and did a transaction of 20000 twice to an access account so I can reach her or if there’s any other means
The document received from the bank is attached below
Kindly check the bank she transferred from. Visit one of the branch and see the manager or a top staff. Explain to the person. What they will do is to contact the folake through the details filled for the account. Through that, both of you can have a conversation... But I don't think Nigeria bank is that reasonable, they might not want to get involved, this is a secure route to the solution. At the other end, the folake is a good local scammer and I believe this is not her first time. I'm sure folake will get the money back if her bank did not take the right action . there are lots of local scams out there.... Very soon, we will all stop using banks, cos the rate at which citizens loose money through local scams is alerming and banks will fold their hands and do nothing .
I feel I’m impotent and I’m really worried. Extra worried. I’ve never had penetrative sex all my life and I’m 26. Since 2013, I’ve been a chronic masturbator. I felt it was safe since i read online that it had no side effect. So i felt I’m good till i was with my girlfriend. We tried having sex and I couldn’t penetrate her. I wasn’t hard enough. We tried several times again and it was the same thing. She broke up with me. Fast forward to February this year. I was with another babe, we linked up and tried to have sex but still the same thing. I felt I wasn’t attracted to her. Another in June and I wasn’t even erect one bit.
Then i got so worried. Went to the hospital, and the doctor said i was okay medically. Tried herbs and still didn’t feel confident. I read somewhere on nairaland where a guy saiid he used Zinc supplement. I’ve stopped masturbating. And I’ve been using the supplement too. But I’m really not convinced cos I don’t wake up with erections but when I’m awake, i get hard.
Please, I’m dying. I need help ������
Calm the Bleep down.....
Firstly. Stop masturbation.
Secondly treat yourself with herbs... Try buy harb at home and use regularly. Its the masturbation that is affecting you. Then use jekanmo before your next trial..
nlfpmod: Several parts of Nigeria have been hit by floods. Some people, families have been displaced. Some properties, farms, houses, cars have been swallowed up by flooding.
There are several reports of how floods are ravaging Kogi, Bayelsa, Nasarawa, Largos and other parts of the country.
According to a report by Vanguard, as at Sunday, October 16, 2022, the Federal Government, while assessing the current flood impact across the country, said the disaster had killed over 603 persons, displaced 1,302,589 more and partially destroyed over 108,393 hectares of farmlands across the country.
Also, 2,407 persons had been injured, 121,318 houses partially damaged, 82,053 houses totally wrecked and totally damaged 332,327 hectares of farmlands.
Flooding: Are you a victim, survivor or eyewitness?
Share your stories with pictures and videos, and provide the location.
The flood fell off my parents fence for the second time this year... This is so sadening .
This year flood get as e be o. Thus is my parent house
This is the second time this year the building fence will fall off.
We just fixed it last week. Got a call today that the fence has falling off again due to the pressure of the flood... I don't even know where the flood is coming from.
gaby: A three-year-old boy in Syria's Golan Heights region has suddenly become the centre of attention after he revealed that he was murdered with an axe in his previous life.
The boy, of the Druze ethnic group, was born with a long, red birthmark on his head. According to Druze beliefs, birthmarks are related to past-life deaths. When the boy was old enough to talk, he told his family that he had been killed with an axe blow to his head.
As is the custom, the elders took the child to the home of his previous life to see if he remembers it. And sure enough, the boy knew the village he was from and once he arrived there, he remembered the name he had in his past life.
Locals told the elders that the man who the boy was claiming to be had gone missing four years earlier. When asked, the boy also remembered the full name of his killer. When the alleged killer was confronted, his face turned white, but he did not admit to murder.
The boy then took the elders to where the body was buried and in that very spot, they found a man's skeleton with a wound to the head that corresponded with the boy's birthmark. They also recovered the axe with which he had been killed.
Faced with the evidence, the killer then admitted to the crime.
The boy's full story has been documented in the book, "Children Who Have Lived Before: Reincarnation Today" by German therapist Trutz Hardo.
If you can take your time and make more research you will come across so many stories like this. It happens all around the world. There was a day the thought came into me and I began to make research. Nobody can tell me reincarnation isn't real..... Its as real as the air we breath..
Solofresh2: There is this lady friend of mine. We have been friends before she even got married and she is aware of my single status. I have decided to remain single until am ready for marriage.
So she told me how her husband has been maltreating her and she told me her husband is cheating on her. She told me she has always admired me but don't know how to tell me.
Though I noticed this but decided to overlook it. She said she wants a tight relationship with me and I should keep it secret, telling me she finds me attractive. I was just surprised because I never expected her to say all this.
However, I told her to resolve the issue with her husband and talk things out with him but she seems to have lost much interest in her husband who she has two beautiful girls with already.
Sex is not a problem for me as I know where to get it, but having sex with a married woman is a no no for me.
What do you guys think over this issue?
Why don't you just keep your mouth shut and keep all this stories to yourself. Don't know what's wrong with guys of now a days. Whay did you bring this here ?? You want to claim you are a real man ? Have you ever seen girls post this on here? Una go dey act like children... Her husband can be here sef reading it,but might not know cha.
Abeg handle your shit yourself . no deceive anybody .
Chokhmah: Factory name: lush hair Working hours: 7am-6pm Working days: Mondays- Saturday Shift: one week night, one week day Salary: 35k-50k depends on how hard working you are Free meal: yes; every Saturday Payment date: 28th of every month Accomodation: yes Address:Address. Km 5, Itokin Road, Itokin Road, Ikorodu, Lagos, Nigeria. Note: please before coming inform me before time. Check my profile for more information.
A Nigerian man has shared a beautiful experience with a girl whose life changed after he took her out of Makoko, Lagos.
@Otto_Orondaam revealed that he met the little girl in Makoko over 10 years ago, before taking her out of the Lagos community where it is believed a “girl shouldn’t go to school”, to an Abuja school with annual school fees of N1m.
He added that though issues from home affected the girl in her scholarship exam which she failed at first sitting, she rose above that to become a top student in her school.
Was in this makoko once, I went there for a children program organized by a NGO.
That place is another country entirely
It was even table water I drank while on line of duty. Mhen I sick for a month o... Serious typhoid. I promised not to go back there. Even if they will pay me millions. I was scared here and there with the faces I was seeing .
Ehismarkninetee: Before you start to judge me, remember that the girl you are sleeping with now is also someone’s Ex. Well I cannot say I am totally in the right for sleeping with my friends Ex girl friend- They broke up 2 years ago.
So coincidentally she rented an apartment close to my house. As I was driving I saw her on the way I offered her a ride and that was how it started. That same evening she called me that she is coming to know my house and I accepted. When she came I noticed she was giving me the green light. I took the opportunity and slept with her so good.
Now she cannot get enough from me. She asked if we could date officially. I told her it will be difficult since she was the one who broke up with my friend. I will not lie to myself I have developed feelings for here. And I think I will give Love a chance.
[color=#000099][/color] Give it a chance bro... Weytin u gain ? Every girl is someone's ex and its vice versa
Truvelisback: Good day, fellas. Why do most ladies end up with irresponsible guys? This is really annoying and disgusting.
Funny enough, these ladies tend to act like they are very smart or clever or they know what'sup. They tend to claim or play high class babe But most times fall in the bossom of irresponsible guys. If you see them like this ehn! You will be so astonished. You would be like, so as u get sense reach, na the person wey give u belle be dis?
You can not eat your cake and have it. Those so called ladies have served their husband as boyfriend . so they have to end up with the irresponsible ones. They tend to have misused the opportunities given to them by responsible men. So its their cross let them carry it.
Witnesstony28: I had this sexual encounter with a girl without condom in February of this year and since then my health has not been the same.
After 2 weeks of meeting her, I started feeling sick, had rashes at the back of both of my legs, tired almost all the time, sore throat, and since then I have taken all sorts of drug - orthodox and trado but yet no response.
I have to gone for several test. One result Said beta hemolytic streptococcus pyogenese was seen in my urine culture and I was given erythromycin and augmentin for 2 weeks. I felt a little relief. Then I started having tongues thrush.
It's almost 6 months now and I have not felt any better.
I have had HIV test done severally but all come back negative.
But my worry is, I still feel sick. What could this disease be.
The girl confessed that she only has what they call - heat. That's my first time hearing this. I stay in ik and really need help. I sincerely regret that sexual encounter and wish I could retrace my steps.
Someone help!!!
Bro. So basically you have been to the hospital and gone through series of tests and your so called doctors couldn't afford to tell you what is wrong with you and you came over here to tell us all these .... All these epistles .
Guy !!!
What kind of hospital or doctors are those ?
Was it a healthcare center. Please don't tell me its not. Because if it was an hospital you should be able to get to the root of your problem.
Like we do watch in Yoruba movies when a doctor will tell his client to visit a traditionalist, where you ever told to do the same ?.
Properties › Re: The Families Who Sold Land To Me Wants Their Cut. by dhoncesar(m): 12:30pm On Sep 07, 2023
but why is our own footballers always look ugly and always dress rough.
