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NewDadTroubles:
Good morning Nairaland


I'm going to be as explicit as possible and I need professional legal counsel/inputs to the issue stated below. (Pardon all blunders biko)

My wife recently got fed up with her place of work and decided to tender her resignation letter. She happens to be in the teaching profession and we all know what goes on in the private teaching schools (Most anyways).

On Friday the 4th of March which was supposed to be her final day at the school, the school's HM instructed her phone to put her phone on her desk (HM's) on the pretense that it was an open day and didn't want her distracted. She did exactly that and the day went just fine, after which, she dropped all the school's materials/properties with her and left.
On getting home, she went through her phone and discovered that her WhatsApp messages and conversations had been deleted, text messages deleted, all her contacts deleted, and all chats on her phone read. As if that wasn't enough, a few of her contacts called her to tell her they received messages from the school asking what her relationship was with them? Imagine!!!

Moreover, I think it is also good I state the fact that she and the HM haven't been best of friends due to an event that happened sometimes back between both parties. But for her to pick up her phone and go through it, and not just that, but also deleting her chats and wiping off contacts, deleting photos that has to do with the school, that's to the extreme haba!!!

Is there any legal ground to pursue this case or is it me just being emotional hurt that my wife's privacy has been trampled upon and I need to act. What should be my next point of action?

Thanks
NewDadTroubles

I'm sure its an android phone. No offence. Kindly restore your contacts through the backup email on the phone. That's if she backed it all up.

At some point. I don't fill comfortable picking up strangers on the road. I see it as a bad attitude of mine but its my choice. I still don't give a FCK .

She forgot vijaja sef na empire of bacteria. Smh. Comrades kindly educate her.

Tbvxl:
I don't know if this is the right section to post this but if not I trust the mods to do the needful.
We all know in some days time now ,this year would be coming to an end. So what have you survived this year Share with others .

On 3rd of January this year. I survived a rubbery on gunpoint at ajah bus stop. It was brutal and very physical. 3phonea where collected from me (iPhone android n turchlight phone) along with my bag where my ATM card is with some other vital documents. Before o could get out of the hospital two weeks later I discovered that 120k has been cleared off my account.

I'm presently still affected by it.

Raiga:
Nairaland antisperm bot ban e papa,this is my alternate you can reach me on Clintonwaterfall@gmail.com

I've msged you on hangout

Brokeloser:
Davido fvck up to answer the clout chaser.Now she has succeeded in gaining free publicity..OBO to the world.

Sure update don land o.Check my signature to claim free 10,000 terk.No waste time o because it will launch in march.

How do I go about it ? Tell me more abt the terkehh

kyber:
Entering into a Commercial transport vehicle and using sit belts has become a terrible problem and a bad decision to those who use it .

The fear of getting your white or any other bright fabric material stained with the Seat belt In the vehicle while going to work or any other important occasion has caused great worry

Drivers don’t clean the seat belts of their vehicle but why?

Same thing happened to me and I was devastated


Here is another example below (picture)

Narrate your experience !!!
What do you think?

That's the reason I don't seat in front. People thinks I'm kinda been naughty about it but it disgust me .

Imagine sitting in front while d seat belt will dent u
Imagine sitting in front and agbero will spit on u in d name of collecting 50naira from driver
Imagine sitting in front while d whole dashboard is dusty
Imagine sitting in front and d whole front seat is hot and smoke is coming out of nowhere

God will bless us all. Make we sef buy our ride.

I don't sit in front in uber as well

Looks suspicious �����

Daughter of eve can't be this good

dawnomike:
My brother in the Lord... Please flee!!!
If she is already like this 2 months into her marriage, imagine her after 2 yrs.
Thank your stars you did not end up with her

I pity her so called husband

doggedfighter:
What do I do?, you asked?


And I ask ' how do you feel about this whole thing?

Do you like it?

Are you interested?

If no, tell her in strong terms that you have moved on, so you both should face your family and partners.


But if yes, go ahead listening, analysing, sympathising and rendering the needed assistance in cash and even in kind.

YOU CAN ASSIST AN EX. Yes !

I always say, the only danger in sleeping with a married person is being caught by an angry husband, boyfriend or wife.

Nothing more.


It's all in your hands now !

Nice response

SportsHD:
I know one that was a crack addict. They sent him back to nigeria so he could have a change of environment and stop using. His family set up a business for him. The wife they arranged for him bankrupted the business and ran away with her loverboi. The man went back to drugs.

Wat a sad story with a sad ending

dreofGod:
Bro, I have a feeling that you've got the job and it might just be you deciding to take the job or not at the end. Also, the light issue will make it easier for the woman to remember you, she might have stored your name in her brain with 'power outage'.

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MITCHELL96:
Depression is nobody's mate

I can even tell you a while ago, I was damn depressed, sometimes, things don't go our way, and it hurts, but I can never take my own life

I immediately turned my data on and watched some funny WhatsApp Status


Most of us on here have been depressed too, It's a normal thing in our everyday life.

E go better one day, but na the time & day we no Sabi

Just Keep the FAITH! And ☺️

Ure right bro.... Staying strong is the key !!!

CXLVII:
The world is an animal kingdom.

If their are no foolish deers and antelopes, the lion will die of hunger.


If we are all wise, their won’t be hierarchy in life.

Stupid people are like meals to the wise ones

Word !!!

1sherlockHolmes:
I don't think I am yet addicted to betting. I started sport betting last year september when i was doing nysc. it was introduced to me by a fellow corper that time i have 200k in my account raised from the 33k alawee in just three month i lost it all.

I stopped betting and move on with my post nysc life when an idea came to my mind which is borrow from loan app and stake on 2odd if you win take your profit and repay the loan. without hesitation i decided to give it a try, but whenever i borrow and stake the game cut but when i play with my little money i win. Because of this now I'm in huge debt more than 5 apps are waiting for my loan repayment while I'm still jobless.

I really need help I think I'm posessed or someone cast a spell on me. Anyway i have decide to break my sim card block my atm and stop betting.

May god help me. #stay away from bet9ja #sportybet and #1xbet they r destiny destroyer.

The truth is that betting has a good side and a bad side. I've seen those that bought a land build a house bought a car even established a business with the money made from it. But that doesn't still implies that betting is for everyone . two years ago I kept a huge sum with a friend and before I knew it the money went down the drain and that was what ended our friendship all thanks sport betting .

So my brother, bet wisely or don't bet at all.

HenryDion:
So, my friend just called me early this morning to let me know that his newly married wife have a tattoo around her vagina area.

I was dumbfounded, cause that can only mean one thing, but we could be wrong.

Right now this so called friend of mine is confused and restless, and they were the 'no sex before marriage' crew.

I didn't bother asking for a picture, even though I was tempted to ask.

Dear NLders, what do you think about the tattoo? Should he be worried?

This is so funny
I just read a post on NL abt someone who is celebrating no sex before marriage and this is someone else lamenting.

Everyone will be well served at the end of the day

Though I don’t like the idea of no sex

They didn’t have Ben know if they are compatible in bed. If she can put in or not
If she sabi Fck or not

This life no balance cha

Y u no go come see tattoo. He never see anything

JackDaAlienz:
This guy is a huge big boy with tattoo
As in fresh guy from PH.

I was in his house for birthday 27th December.
As we were vibing and playing jams fine fine girls just enter. We reach like 20 inside his apartment.

He was playing music from his iphone connected to bluetooth speaker. I guess he went oustide and gave the phone to his guy to be doing Dj..

When a call came in and i guess his guy answered it forgetting that it was connected to speaker.

The next thing we heard was a lady voice saying "your loan at L credit is ovderdue
Please pay up blah blah...

I swear we were confused at first then the guy holding the phone was trying his best to end the call but i dont know why it took that long to end it.

Omo the girls started giggling and chu chu chuing around. It's when the guy came in he didn't know what happened and i guess nobody wanted to bring it up.

Naso the guy dey ginger say Make we drink well well say today money go scatter everywhere.

Some of his friends were laughing at him but him think say na vibes.
He didnt know they are laughing because they heard the call from the loan company.
Na that day I know say fake bros and hoes full everywhere.

Do you know I can actually plan this at my birthday ?

I thinks it’s a good vibe

I will pick the call myself and we will abuse each other.

Everyone is owing them.
That’s the bitter truth !!!

None yet.

Oniru beach

Never trust anyone.

The closest to you are the ones that will hurt you the most.

I learnt the hard way

Don’t borrow any one money that you can not look away. Both friends and family . If you have. Give them and never talk about it again and if it’s vice versa , let them know and don’t stress yourself on it.

My one cent .

Bonanza643:
someone told me those people selling grounded pepper in bulk do mix it with other things such as millet.... joro.......ginger......wheat......flour... caprioca.....etc
they add one or more of this so they can get even more profits from their grounded pepper business....
please how true is this?

100% true

yanabasee2:
This Ogun and Oyo states are doing well....

The type of criminal news coming from that region is baffling... Seems everybody in that region wants to be rich by killing or destroying one another ..

I wonder what will be left of them in the nearest future ...

Oyo people generally are thieves. They are born naturally with it. Don’t trust their security officials too. They are all born and raised inside of it. Even the ones that lives outside the state.

Tested and confirmed !!!

Don’t go to the bank. Don’t activate any account. Once u do that u can be arrested for crime not committed or once u activate den d scammer will load up your account and make withdrawals meanwhile you are the one the bank will be chasing calling and messaging .

I got a message from a loan company last week about my younger brother that he’s owing 30k they also sent me his picture. Meanwhile the picture they sent me was from 3years ago. Then I called him and verified that was when I got to know that the person that stole his missing phone actually applied for the loan. Now he’s the one to pay back. What a loss !!!

So be careful out there guys. These guys are coming in hot hot

But the are not yahoo boys. They are local 419 !!!

How u won take move your load enter

Mastakija:
As i don see dat road
I don know say no b 9ja u dey

That view too pure pass make e dey naija �

Buy your land.... Continue your job. As time goes on, you can develop it or keep buying more.. when you are ready in few years time. You can sell from the land and use in developing it because the lands would have appreciate. Or you shld sell all the land and travel out with it . Depending on how much it cost whole purchasing. Make e no be say na my village u come buy land put.

What's wrong with that guy laying on d floor by the corner... I think he has something to say about it .

They replaced another thief with a thief �

DaddyRochie1642:
You're in pains, I feel your pains but am sorry I cant help myself I just have to say it,.

I'm sure when the Love dey Shack you that time, you were like,
"Baby you're the angel of My Life", "Baby you're the Oxygen that I breathe", "Baby I can't do without you", "Baby any day I don't see your Face my day is not complete", "Baby without you in my Life, my Life is not Complete"

Bro. That's how everyone feels. Until the mask is been removed from the face. Youths of now shld watch how they jump into marriage. Allot of things re happening out there. Guys are loosing their mental health because of the kind of person they got married to.
I didn't also do background check. And was tied down with pregnancy before I knew it I signed another contract and had two kids before my eyes opened. I was used big time and I saw my eyes shattered right before me. I'm still at the peak of recovering and I don't even know if I'll ever remarry . I thought of suicide but waved it off when I remembered I have kids . The thought of dating didn't come to me for over 2yrs now talkless of relationship.. be wise guys. Na beg I beg.

TarOrfeeek:
Whether she exhibit.

Whether she nor exhibit

I no like wahala.

Buhari hardship is enough for one person.

This op na mafia.

Put sheabutter ... It will bring it out. But at the other end , if you didn't panic. The fly will eventually come out dead. Because the dirt in the ear automatically kills anything that goes into the ear... So don't panic but attend to it .

investorMK:
While I was outside last night... Standing close to an electric bulb fly mistakenly entered my ear and couldn't com out I tried removing it but I was unable to remove it rather I pushed it inside.........

Pls what do I do to remove it?

Most of them are owned by most of our politicians. This I have checked and confirmed. ... This is this other app that loans money and they have another name called easyby which you can buy phones and electronics and pay small small. They re all scam. Your bvn is at stake .

evil1:
Eady credit
9credit
LCredit
Fairmoney
renmoney
Fast money
Are all fraudulent schemes that should not be allowed to exist.
Its negative output an consequences outweighs its positive effect and rational for existing.

Hence they should be scrapped off from the financial system.

They cause more hardship, fiancial burden and more depression than the original situation