₦airaland Forum

greatgod2012: unfortunately, many of you don't really know how an insecured people behaves, even an handshake is a threat to an insecured man/woman.

. I am never jealous over women who I don't really love. It isn't insecurity but jealousy. Even God himself is jealous. It is a dangerous trend when your actions are "ignored" by your man. Check well, something is dwindling or perhaps it never was there sustainably.

flyca: Madam, easy o. No dey too brag. Every marriage is different. Because he hasn't told you yet, doesn't mean he is OK with it.

thank you. There are some women you don't even bother keeping a watch on. You already know patronage or chyking is almost next to zero.

sucess001: first...you are soooo wrong to insult kuyle...

Haba...the lady is even explaining herself. she even apologised in one of her posts for her outbursts. that is a good wife in the making.

cut her some slack wella. she has every freaking reason to decide how she wants to live or what she expects in a marriage.


that you dont agree with her views shouldnt make you insult her.


now be a man and apologize to her!

If i sound silly and you tell me "you are bereft of knowledge" i will take it as a compliment and ask you for a better pattern of thought offcourse that is if you hv a superior one to offer. So once again she is bereft of basic sense. Reasons 1. She did not read the entirety of his post prior to devaluating Op's choices.2. Her train of thoughts with regards to a correlation btwn money and marraige is warped..( stewards get married u know). 3. She is aggressive and abhors a warped sense of importance judging from her stern warning to royal roy. And above all it is psycotic to think your e- warnings truly serve as effective deterrents

kulyie: what triggered anger in me was when he said 'be wise young woman' that statement made me feel as if i am bereft of knowledge or i am not in my right senses or as if he is scolding the last born in their house

to the question,yes i add value to EVERYONE AROUND ME,PERIOD!

But u are actually bereft of basic not even advanced knowledge

kulyie: it is just what i feel.poverty and mama ngozi pls i wan buy 50 naira garri and pampers,i will give you the money next week,next week the seller comes to harass borrower for her money and shes like mama ngozi,give us time,we just pay landlord money,i will pay later is avoidable.how can a man who can hardly sustain himself take care of a family.remove sentiments,sho mogbon wa.

I am not in any way saying the man has to be super rich or a billionnaire before he settles down for marriage or find a wife,my point is that at least,he should first establish his feet on the ground.you are a married woman yourself and you should know that lack of finances causes friction in the home except you decide to pretend like you dont know.

My dear,i love you does not pay the bills o.tell him the HOME TRUTH

Na person go put this one for house.

kulyie: @ op you are suffering from MISPLACED PRIORITY.your focus shouldnt be about getting a wife,i care less whether you are 32 or 60 and still a bachelor,your drive now should be getting a stable job,establishing your feet on the ground and getting the kind of job that enables you take care of a wife,kid,pay rent etc.i dont think you know how expensive being a married man is and maintaining a home.it is when you add VALUE TO YOURSELF THAT YOU WILL BE ABLE TO ADD VALUE TO OTHERS.EVEN IF YOU ARE A BACHELOR AT 50 AND DONT HAVE A STABLE INCOME I DONT EXPECT A MAN WHO HAS FOCUS TO BE SEARCHING FOR A WIFE WHEN HE IS SUPPOSED TO ME STRUGGLING TO MAKE LIFE BETTER FOR HIMSELF
even if you see a wife today now.how do you plan sustaining a home? Or you 2 plan to live a life of misery/squalor and in anycase i woner which lady will agree to marry a hustler in this day and age.

The truth about life is when you are a man,no matter how old or young,ugly or handsome you are,once you have money,there will be an influx of women rushing you that your problem will be choosing who to marry among them,but if you are a hustler and you want to marry


i wish you best of luck

Those loose nuts dont cost a fortune to replace....smdh

kajole: you are strange

why are you begging?

Between

your dp is sexy

with those her fat arms and bulky head

Phder: "The highest" being the one thej public have knowledge of. I (personally) know of people in Nigeria that would give out millions without blinking. You should also consider the salary as her basic earnings. The bonus remains undeclared, if you ask me, that's the route of siphoning money without raising any red flag.

. I'm just messing around though . U and i know the wealthiest black man on earth is resident in 9geria

Emzybrown: dude you are exposing your ignorance she earns 200mil per month.

sire..did u read the post at all?

Phder: Laughs* I live on both side, dear an average American don't make more than $70k per year. Neurosurgeons spend their entire life in residency and fellowship, in the process they accumulate huge debt. An average medical student would owe $230k after residency, talk-less of neurosurgeons, it takes decades before they pay off their student loan, then again you have huge amount of the money going into license/profession insurance and tax. How many attorney makes over $1M per year in the US? Definitely not up to 10% So get your fact straight, Nigerians are not poor!!!

I'm glad u said an average bro....but still a million tagged as the highest in nigeria is to say the least not impressive.

rozayx5: 1M$

on wall street thats a newbies bonus

Absolutely..hedge fund guys monthly take home

Phder: Screw whoever says Nigerians are poor!

nigerians are poor attorneys, a couple neurosurgeons rake that in a yr here.

YcBeat: She is not a liabity to her hubby!!!......my kinda woman

i had rather she's a liability to me whilst being subservient than independent graced with dominance.

1million dollars for highest paid CEO in an entire country and dem go say money dey 9ja. Smdh...poor folks

BodyKiss: Please shu.t.up. with this your Nigerian mentality.

Oga correcting your father in private is more dignified as opposed to raining insults like "you are mad" to your father...common now. You dont feel comfortable with whatever he does then leave him the f*ck alone damn it!!!

This is disgusting. Iyabo shut up. You are equally a thief and an irresponsible looser.It doesn't matter what your father did, you aren't going to leverage your aspiration for significant prominence on a platform of smearing your own father to 160million people. Strong head pikin, your status today is a product of your father's input whether at the preliminary stage of your life or a later part of it.

fellis: Wtf? This doesn't even make sense.

Why is my post paining you? Abi you dey among those people wey neva follo oyibo yan since dem born them?

village champion

GustavoFring: drachii

breaking bad

babyosisi: You want me to have a broke inlaw
Chukwu Aju!!
Will you use sand to pay the bride price?
Mbaise women are not cheap o FYI
I am looking for a man that is already swimming in money
We don't encourage poor suitors biko
Ask CFC if he has cousins that won't mind drinking garri

babyosisi no kidding, hook me up with a pretty igbo girl. Disregard my handle as it opposes my true personality. With regards to success i cannot be emphatic on a public forum. Do well oo.

TribalEAST: ^^^Who told i want to keep dem forever?

guy can u stfu. I bet u are not as goodlooking or u think looking like an albino equates to good looks

obadiah777: if they are not moral, they are not laws but are ordinances statutes and commandments

oga the devil himself has laws that govern his kingdom. U can twist sha

obadiah777: moral restrictions and boundaries

A law does not have to be moral. A law is simply a set of dos and don'ts. First proven violator was lucifer and his cohorts. Sin came when Adam SIMPLY violated the instruction(law) given to him. "DO NOT EAT"

obadiah777: adam was 'hot wired' with the law in his spirit hence the phrase 'let us make man in our own image' <<< adam came with the law. the law was in his inward parts

oga without any ambiguos description, What is a law?

obadiah777: sheep is an ambiguous ambidextrous and relative word. the sheep today can be the shepherd tomorrow. during genesis the shepherd was adam and the sheep were the gentiles, however in the era of the gentiles adam is the sheep and the gentiles are the shepherd

bros stop burying your ignorance in a sea of big words.

3ace: Now I have taken this beyond this pope and Catholic church; generally speaking, hypocrisy can also make you refuse to enjoy luxuries that you have access to, not only humility. On a second thought, you can even enjoy all the luxuries and still remain humble or don't you think so.

God did not not err when he reiterated on the difficulty of rich men gaining access to heaven. Humility begins with considering yourself a nobody how many rich can fit in that philosophy.

Built2last: I need to state clearly that using a Limo or 1960 Datsun does not guaranty going to heaven after life. also avoiding judging others with what they use. when we show before our maker we shall answer individually. poor or rich alike.


On the other hand lets not forget that Jesus rode on a customised donkey into Jerusalem. On a donkey no one has sat.

Christianity has everything to do with your heart towards God and humanity.

The pope has a bullet proof ride that costs the budget of some states in Naija...Its just a gift and wevery sane persone should recieve gifts with cheerfulness.

mind you i am neither a pastor nor a priest.

. Jesus was homeless my friend. The truth is servitude to God especially as head demands longsuffering, persecution, trials, humility, giving to the poor and a simplistic life, anything short of that is man-twisted scripture.

3ace: Does living poor amount to Godly life? Impressed with the pope though.

what is ur definition of poverty. He is simply exercising a content spirit and not and ostentacious and extravagant spirit. Truth be told even if people call it drama, i beg to disagree, the most difficult time to show humility is amidst plenty. T
He is a true and admirable example though i am not catholic but this is what the head of any Godly institution should exhibit. PERIOD!!!

kolawaxxy: Where is my shakabulla! I'm waiting for someone to say "end time things"

scroll above u

joeydozzy: Good Development
Great steps in neurodegenerative diseases

Though I don't think there'll be any explanation of phenotypic reactions to neuroleptic drugs side effects such as haloperidol to schizophrenia and mood relieving disorders

u cannot intimidate me

never a dull moment here

[quote author=Red_Card]yes o. Pretenders thats what they are. Gay marriage should be legalised, that's all. Their anus no go even fine...so I wonder why them dey razzle them. Person like me walks with classy guys.[/quote]Mr red card with the red yansh. Gaylord on the prowl

[quote author=Red_Card]yes o. Pretenders thats what they are. Gay marriage should be legalised, that's all. Their anus no go even fine...so I wonder why them dey razzle them. Person like me walks with classy guys.[/quote]Mr red card with the red yansh.