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WilliamsTheGrea:
Hello everyone, my name is Williams, I'm a young guy of 26 years old currently engaged to a very pretty young lady who is 24 years old

I do business online and earn good income before I decided to find a lady and settle down with and luckily I found a good one who is decent and don't flirt around or do social media's like whatsapp or Facebook. Hardly receives calls, not friendly with males lol (I managed to woo her through a church member)

We have been 1 year into the relationship now and we are to get married next month but guys the problem I am having now is that she has a child for another man which is her ex she was with when she was young she gave birth at age 20, we dated for about 7 months before she told me this.

Ever since then I haven't really been myself, the child is a male child who lives with her mother but recently the mother called her to come carry the child as she can no longer look after him due to him being a very stubborn boy, the child is 4 years old.

Now she has gone to bring the child to our home, a two bedroom apartment, I'm a kind of guy who loves peaceful environment with no single drop of noise, now ever since the child came in about a week now, I have not had peace, we have quarreled several times because of the child, I'm not really comfortable with the child because I can't love another man's child as my own

My girlfriend is yet to give me a child of my own, the child runs around and doesn't listen except when beaten and each time I beat the boy up when he does wrong my girlfriend looks at me with hatred like I'm maltreating the boy because I'm not the father.

Please guys help me I don't know what to do but I can't cope with the child, I remember paying the child school fees about 3 times since we are together because the child's father isn't doing anything at all.

Now today is the child's birthday and she is asking me for money to get him cake and take him out.


My people of nairaland I cannot accept another man's child no matter what I love the mother but not the child the connection is just now there because the boy isn't of my character I'm a calm man, very calm but the boy is very radical and stubborn children irritate me so much.

I don't know what to do.

Each time this child topic comes up between I and my girlfriend she becomes bitter.

She says she will never take the child to the father or the family of the father that she must raise the child herself.

I don't think I can help train anothrr man child whom in the end will go and find his father after he is all grown.

Please I need advice, she says over her death body will she return the child to the father

I'm not comfortable in my own home.

A lot of things running through my mind like to break up with her for peace to reign

Or rent another apartment for her and the boy to go live in.

Please I need matured advice

I'm not a kid. From what you have written so far, it's clear she's not the wife you are looking for. End that relationship now or cry later. A word is enough for the wise.

The head Imam of Masjid Noor of Kyampisi said the move was intended to preserve the integrity of their faith



Sheikh Mohammed Mutumba, the Imam of Kyampisi Masjid Noor mosque in Kayunga District, has been suspended from his clerical work after unknowingly wedding a fellow man in Islamic culture (Nikah).

The regional Kadhi, Sheikh Abdul Noor Kakande, said Sheikh Mutumba, 27, was under investigation over the “unfortunate” incident.

Sheikh Isa Busuulwa, the head Imam of Masjid Noor of Kyampisi, said the move was intended to preserve the integrity of their faith.

“He has been one of the three Imams of the mosque. He had spent about four years preaching in this mosque on top of teaching Islam to children,” Sheikh Busuulwa said.

He explained that although he attended Sheikh Mutumba’s wedding reception at his grandmother’s home in Kyampisi Trading Centre, the mosque leadership did not take part in the wedding preparations.


A fortnight ago, Sheikh Mutumba unknowingly wedded a fellow man named femininely as Swabullah Nabukeera and spent two weeks with his new “wife” unaware of the latter’s true gender.

The truth came out later after police arrested ‘Nabukeera’ on theft allegations and during a body search by a female police officer before being taken to the cells, it was discovered that the suspect was actually a man. He revealed to police that his real name is Richard Tumushabe.

Mr Amisi Kibunga, the Kyampisi mosque bilal, said he saw Sheikh Mutumba’s ‘wife’ on two occasions at Juma prayers but said it was hard to discover that he was a man.


“He had a sweet soft voice and walked like a woman. She also always dressed in either gomesi or hijab,” Mr Kibunga explained.

“Four days after their wedding, the bridegroom came to me complaining that ‘her’ bride had refused to UnCloth while they slept. Actually I was planning to go to their home to counsel ‘her’ when I heard that the bride had been arrested in connection with theft of a television set and clothes of their neighbour,” Mr Kibunga said.


Sheikh Mohammed Ssemambo, the chairperson of Namagabi Muslim County, expressed shock over the incident. “I learnt about the incident. As a Muslim leader, he should have followed what the Koran says when one wants to get a spouse,” Sheikh Ssemambo said.

Imam devastated
When this reporter visited Sheikh Mutumba’s rented home, neighbours said they had not seen him in four days. Sources said he had been taken by a relative for counselling.

“He is too devastated by the incident and needs counselling,” a source said.

“The ‘bride’ did all the house chores such as cooking, washing clothes and others while the husband was away but it was not easy to know he was just masquerading as a woman,” Mr Henry Mukwaya, a neighbour said.

“He always wore gomesi or hijab and spoke like a woman but she kept indoors most of the time,” he added.

https://www.monitor.co.ug/News/National/Muslims-suspend-imam-wedded-fellow-man/688334-5416006-view-asAMP-m1c1baz/index.html

ngwababe:
Are you insinuating that panty lines turns you on?

Thank you for the compliment

No, they don't but they make my life more interesting. They sure don't increase blood flow to my third leg so I wouldn't say they turn me on

dazzlingd:
May the gods of our land strike you

I should have known before now that you don’t have the capacity to reason like a human

ngwababe:
You're high

I was not, Sweerie (in MrCork's voice). I was just saying the plain truth. Girls dressed up with their panty lines showing do boost my spirit and they usually get favours from me easily.

The reason is simple. They've given me what I want and it's only fair that I give them what they want. Fair deal.

I like the shape of your eyebrows and the exciting curve you created by the side of your eyes by the way

PLEASE PLEASE AND PLEASE, leave girls who dress up with their panty lines being visible alone. They make my life more interesting when I see them and they provide the opportunity for me to thank God for the gift of sight, goddammit!!

If you don't like it, that's your cross, carry it please, cos I'm carrying mine. Please let them be.

In fact I seize this medium to solicit for more dressings that show panty lines.

Panty line girls, OYE!!!!

jupiterz:
my car battery is two years plus and never shown any sign of weakness.

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AutoElectNG:
Read

https://www.nairaland.com/4491728/best-20w50-engine-oil#67392165

And

https://www.nairaland.com/4491728/best-20w50-engine-oil#67389175

I have tried to help you.

I posted a pic of a valve cover the advert

Then I posted a link to someone take off the valve cover and who documented the process in extensive pictures

I gave you the exact images that contain the valve cover

I suggested that based on the feelers I am getting you are not qualified to take off the valve cover.

I said get an expert to do it.

The reason for asking you to take off the valve cover is due to an abundance of caution to determine if the engine is sludged.

As a professional, I owe you a duty of care to give you reasonable and considered advice and to avoid liability from any actions you take based on my advice.

What I switched I didn't take off my valve cover but I want you to do so to determine the state of your engine so I can confidently tell you a switch will be without problems.

I have written extensively on switching...go through my past posts with a fine comb....all the reasons can be found there

Thanks for your effort so far and for not been offended. You are appreciated

OkpaAkuEriEri:
Jehovah witness.
Most wicked Christians

God forbid

THIS IS THE MOST WRONG GENERALISATION I'VE READ ON NAIRALAND SO FAR.

It annoys me when I hear Christians brand JW with extreme names. Most times, the church members of those who label them as wicked are by far more wicked than the J Witnesses. That has been my observation.

The fact is, because they go about preaching to others, people have excessively high moral expectations of them, so when they commit any sin, it becomes news and it is blown out of proportion as is the case with pastors in churches.

If a pentecostal steals sth, chances are the theft will not be linked to his church, but let
a JW steal even the smallest thing. People will start saying 'JW don go thief' and the news will spread fast.

Now, is their fault that they preach from door to door? It is a directive from the Bible. The fact that other churches hardly obey it does not mean JW are doing the wrong thing. The fact that everyone EXCEPT Noah's family believed God would destroy the world did not make it wrong for Noah to hold on to his belief.

I AM NOT A JW but I have them all around me and I understand them so I can speak about them objectively.

You might label them what you like but today if I'm looking for a trustworthy, Christ-like person to employ to handle a position of trust in this endemically corrupt nation, I would gladly interview and employ a dedicated JW, not just anyone attending their meetings because not all are J Witnesses. Some are only aspiring. Talk about ambitious Comrados. JW are one of the extremely few churches with the most honest people. Take it or leave it.

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MarkWayne89:
What phone do you have?

Vivo

MarkWayne89:
You can try to use Aptoide, instead of Google Play

Here are more info: https://www.unlockunit.com/blog/aptoide-safe-app-store

it’s main advantage is that you can find apps that are available just if you pay for them in the Play Store for absolutely zero charge.

Thanks but I can't do without Google play services cos there are apps I need that can't run without it

Finding apps is not the problem. Getting some installed apps to run is the problem

How can one install Google play services on China phones that didn't come with Google playstore?

I installed several times but it kept crashing. The playstore I installed didn't even open.

Any ideas?

How can one install Google play services on China phones that didn't come with Google playstore?

I installed several times but it kept crashing. The playstore I installed didn't even open.

Any ideas?

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I just don't like Tboss. No, I think I hate her.

I hope this is not hate speech, Lai Mohammed

There was no such thing like kidnapping by the Barnawi faction of the Boko Haram. We drove into the school compound in a commando style, broke through the school gate while the night guards numbering three or more ran for their dear lives as they heard our gunshots and chanting Islamic war songs amid 'Western education is a sin''. We drove straight into the school dormitory and ordered the girls to get onto the trucks some of whom slept naked because of the scorching heat. Although we had been given warning by our commander not to molest or rough handle the girls as such action would not be tolerated under any guise.

We were given 1 hour and 45 minutes to carry out the operation from where we drove to the school and the operation did not last for more than 45 minutes to get the girls on board the trucks. So they had no time to carry any of their belongings.

We drove them to an undisclosed location which was unknown to any of us because our unit commander led the way until we arrived in where they all were carefully kept.

The claim that five of them lost their lives is of course not true as we did not kill or even shoot any of them following the strict orders and instructions that they should be treated gently, kept safe and unharmed.
While where they were kept we were told to preach to them, make ourselves look like terrorists to enable them to believe, recount and narrate what they saw which would make people believe the abduction story.
We were not allowed to go with our phones to the location where the girls were kept, therefore we could not take photographs of the girls and the location. Was there any statement released on the abduction by the Barnawi group? Was there any video footage by the Barnawi group like that of the Chibok girls? That was to make it a top secret which the government does not want to play it.

On the day we were asked to return the girls, police and our colleagues were deployed out of the route to avoid any possible confrontation - I mean with those who knew nothing about the plot.

While leaving, we told them to embrace Islam and gave them clothing because some of them were taken away naked with wrappers they slept with when we abducted them from the dormitory.

Out of the money that was shared, I got N3 million and on second thoughts I decided to return the money to my unit commander to keep it for me as I have no ready use for the money. I told him I would be traveling to Jos to see my mother who was very ill and that on return I will collect it back from him and take it to my bank.

Unsuspicious of my motives, he collected it from me and gave me five days to report to my duty post.
With the visa I had in my passport I had to go as far as Port Harcourt where no one knows me and flew out of the country while asking God forgiveness for the part I played in the whole operation.

What actually made me repent of the evil is the plot on the ground to carry out ethnic cleansing in Nigeria and as I write this piece, I make bold to say here that every Nigerian community in the southern part of the country has been infiltrated by armed militias imported from Niger, Mali, and Chad by the Buhari government to unleash terror on Nigerians if they by a twist of fate resist the ongoing ethnic cleansing.

My colleagues have often boasted that the Quran, according to the late Sardauna, must be read in the sea and that is what this government is doing. The Dapchi girls purported abduction is to make Nigerians believe the Buhari government is working and it would, therefore, make no sense to vote him out.

The remaining four years is to make him execute the hidden agenda to carry out ethnic cleansing. The plot on the ground is to have every dissenting voice executed that would be a threat to the successful execution of the agenda. That is the reason why they first came up with the cattle colonies which the southern leaders rejected.

As I write this piece, my heart bleeds for Nigeria and I regret the part I played in the abduction of the Dapchi girls to further swindle Nigerians into believing Buhari is the best person to lead the country in the coming years. Please Nigerians, I beg for forgiveness and ask you to help me with prayers to God for forgiveness in the role I played. Share this story and let it go round to save Nigerians the grave danger of allowing President Buhari to continue beyond 2018 in the Villa. I will return to Nigeria when Buhari leaves power, God willing.''

http://www.dailyglobewatch.eu/index.php?url=%202018/03/breaking-sergeant-david-bako-deserts-n-army-leaks-how-dapchi-girls-abduction-was.html

PARIS, MARCH 24, 2018: (DGW) As many Nigerians continue to react to the Dapch girls' kidnap drama, a certain Nigerian Christian soldier, Sergeant David Bako from the Middle Belt, Plateau State to be precise has revealed how the Dapchi girls kidnap drama was plotted and executed.

He said he found it absolutely necessary to make the confession considering the criminal killings across the country which he likened to ethnic cleansing.
In an email sent to our newsroom here in Paris, Sergeant David Bako said the plot was planned and rehearsed for two weeks by Buhari's loyalists in the army of which he was one.

He said the desperation by Buhari to rule Nigeria for another four years drove him on to employ all means to make sure he remains in power.
President Buhari, he said, will be no pushover in 2019 because he has perfected plans to remain in the Villa beyond 2019.

Continuing the story, he said, they were given N80 million to execute the plot to restore the peoples' waning confidence in the Buhari government as Boko Haram stepped up attacks recently which was a complete embarrassment to the Buhari government after claiming to have defeated the Islamist sect.
He said the resurgence of Boko Haram attacks and killings in the northeast drove the government to find all means possible to regain the peoples' confidence seeing that 2019 election is as good as lost.
Buhari, he said, does not want to leave the Villa under any guise in 2019. In the email below he narrated how the plot was planned and executed.

He wrote: ' ' I feel constrained to make this confession and as I make this stunning confession, I am no longer in Nigeria because I have to unavoidably desert the Nigerian Army to save my life and that of my family from a possible summary execution by Buhari's secret agents.

Barnawi faction of Boko Haram knows nothing about the abduction of Dapchi girls. We were paid N80 million to carry out the abduction which we planned and rehearsed for two weeks to make it look real. 16 of us, strong Buhari's loyalists took part in the plot and were given N80 million and some trucks with which to carry out the operation.

On February 19, 2017, after we had received the money, we were told to make it a top secret and further told we would be handsomely rewarded if the plan pays off. The plan, according to our unit commander, is to make Nigerians regain their confidence in the Buhari government, demobilize the PDP which we all dislike with a passion and the Obasanjo coalition which the Villa saw as an emerging threat if something is not urgently done.

Obasanjo, our commander told us will succeed in dislodging Buhari from the Villa in 2019 if we do not contrive a means to make Nigerians believe more in Buhari's leadership.

The money we got was not paid into our accounts but was brought by car from Abuja totaling N80 million naira which was shared amongst us with trucks to carry out the operation.

On that night the soldiers stationed in the
neighbourhood were deployed to other locations to enable us carry out the operation hitch-free which we did. The Boko Haram flag you saw us carrying was designed by us and had ourselves wrapped up like the insurgents.

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dazzlingd:
May the gods of our land strike you

Why are you being so foolish? May be you are the girl who shamefully disturbed the peace of the boy's hostel with her moans. Even at that, why should a fowl bend its neck for the pot that cooks it instead of the knife that cut its throat?

Was I the originator of the story? Receive sense. Your brain is meant for use.

Uh! ah! F it harder! harder!! Deeper!
Oh! you are the best, Dickson. mmmm

See her yansh.

A young girl who visited her lover at a campus hostel for an afternoon s*x marathon, was made to have a walk of shame after guys in the apartment were disturbed with her loud moans during intercourse.


The girl pictured below had to endure the indignity of riotously being cheered and praised by a crowd of rowdy college school mates as she made a ‘walk of shame’ from a male students’ hostel where she had allegedly gone for an afternoon s*x romp.

According to multiple reports making rounds in Zimbabwe, the young lady had visited a campus student who subjected her to a ‘bedroom marathon’ that saw her enjoy and moan so loudly that she attracted the attention of male students in neighbouring rooms.

Some of the students applauded her for what they called ‘great service delivery’ and urged her to be visiting more often. To them, she was a great source of entertainment, or so they thought.

While the ‘amorous congress’ went on, the young men gathered one by one outside the room where the noises were emanating from. All of sudden, a huge crowd had formed, bringing business at the establishment to a halt.

Curious about who the lady was, they waited in awe for her to emerge and burst into cheers and taunts immediately she stepped out of the room.

The lady was escorted out of the hostel by a cheering crowd, as some took photos and recorded videos of her‘walk of shame’..


http://www.informationng.com/2017/08/girl-cheered-guys-loudest-moans-sex-marathon-lover-causing-stir-campus-hostel.html/amp.

DaVinChiSam:
Okay you just learnt a new word, clap for ya self. Now how open minded will you remain if the little girl in question was your younger sister? What offence might she have committed to warrant those wild animals breaking into her home and leaving her for dead?

If I knew your level of foolishness was this much, I wouldn't have wasted my time to reply you at first. Your brain is meant for use, not just to fill up your cranial cavity.

DaVinChiSam:
So the poor girl was raped then it's somehow her fault? did you just type this rubbish for likes or are you genuinely stoopid?... smh spit...

Stop being a fool and being parochial and close minded.

There is no smoke without fire. Something must have triggered them into acting despicably and I hugely suspect that the little girl was careless with her tongue and scarred the emotions of her toaster with insults.

Moral of the story: Reject unwanted advances, but watch your tongue since men's emotions can be scarred too.

A 14-year-old girl, Obiamaka Ngozichukwu Orakwe, was raped to death in her parents’ apartment in Abule-Ado area of Lagos State by miscreants.

The act was reportedly carried out by a group of miscreants, who usually hanged out in a smoking joint in the area, following the deceased’s negative response to their advances.

Tragedy, as gathered, occurred last Monday, while the Junior Secondary School 3 student was alone at home. The miscreants were said to have gained entry into Orakwe’s apartment from the back of the house, scaling the fence.

They were said to have gagged her, took turns to rape her and, thereafter, abandoned her in a pool of her blood.


Obiamaka Ngozichukwu Orakwe
Her distraught mother said she was contacted on phone by residents, who saw the miscreants leaving the building through the fence.

Curious residents were said to have knocked several times on the gate to ascertain the miscreants’ mission, without any response from within.

Her mother’s story

On arrival, Mrs Orakwe reportedly opened the gate with a spare key, only to find her daughter in a pool of her blood in one of the rooms, gasping for breath.

Mrs Orakwe said: “When I asked her what happened, she said it was those boys she had told me about. We rushed to the hospital, where she was confirmed dead.”

A relative, who spoke to Vanguard on phone, said the deceased refused to join her siblings to spend the holiday at her uncle’s place in Lekki, saying “ she would like to stay at home to assist in the house chores.

“Before the incident happened, she complained that some boys, who smoke Indian hemp in the area, were making advances at her, which she turned down.

“They must have targeted when her parents usually leave for work before storming the place. She has been buried at Berger Cemetery.”

Police story

The incident, as gathered, has been reported to the Police. Police sources at the Command Headquarters hinted that investigation into the incident had commenced.

According to the sources, “efforts are on to arrest the perpetrators of the dastardly act. We will notify the public when this is done.”


http://www.vanguardngr.com/2017/07/14-yr-old-girl-gang-raped-death-turning-miscreants-love-advances/amp/

A 14-year-old girl, Obiamaka Ngozichukwu Orakwe, was raped to death in her parents’ apartment in Abule-Ado area of Lagos State by miscreants.

The act was reportedly carried out by a group of miscreants, who usually hanged out in a smoking joint in the area, following the deceased’s negative response to their advances.

Tragedy, as gathered, occurred last Monday, while the Junior Secondary School 3 student was alone at home. The miscreants were said to have gained entry into Orakwe’s apartment from the back of the house, scaling the fence.

They were said to have gagged her, took turns to rape her and, thereafter, abandoned her in a pool of her blood.


Obiamaka Ngozichukwu Orakwe
Her distraught mother said she was contacted on phone by residents, who saw the miscreants leaving the building through the fence.

Curious residents were said to have knocked several times on the gate to ascertain the miscreants’ mission, without any response from within.

Her mother’s story

On arrival, Mrs Orakwe reportedly opened the gate with a spare key, only to find her daughter in a pool of her blood in one of the rooms, gasping for breath.

Mrs Orakwe said: “When I asked her what happened, she said it was those boys she had told me about. We rushed to the hospital, where she was confirmed dead.”

A relative, who spoke to Vanguard on phone, said the deceased refused to join her siblings to spend the holiday at her uncle’s place in Lekki, saying “ she would like to stay at home to assist in the house chores.

“Before the incident happened, she complained that some boys, who smoke Indian hemp in the area, were making advances at her, which she turned down.

“They must have targeted when her parents usually leave for work before storming the place. She has been buried at Berger Cemetery.”

Police story

The incident, as gathered, has been reported to the Police. Police sources at the Command Headquarters hinted that investigation into the incident had commenced.

According to the sources, “efforts are on to arrest the perpetrators of the dastardly act. We will notify the public when this is done.”


http://www.vanguardngr.com/2017/07/14-yr-old-girl-gang-raped-death-turning-miscreants-love-advances/amp/

Lere Olayinka, the Media Aide to the embattled Governor of Ekiti State, Ayodele Fayose, has on Monday, released a shocking photo to Post-Nigeria, allegedly debunking the All Progressives Congress’s, APC, purported visit to President Muhammadu Buhari, in London.

Recall, that the Special Assistant to the President, Femi Adesina, had on Sunday night, released a statement that some APC Governors, including the Transportation Minister, Rotimi Amaechi, met with Buhari, in London, on Sunday.

He had added that, the APC’s delegation spent more than an hour with Buhari over lunch, and it was very clear from the discussions, that he followed developments at home very closely.

He said the President was delighted to receive the delegation, and asked each Governor about affairs in his State.

He also asked Amaechi, about the state of the railways, among others, thereby rubbishing Sahara Reporters’ story, that Buhari had suffered from memory loss.

Adesina went as far as releasing pictures of the delegation having lunch with the President, including the one taken alone by the delegation, without Buhari.

While reacting to the news when Post-Nigeria finally got in touch with Fayose’s Aide, he faulted the authenticity of the picture, by forwarding the discrepancies of the photos to Post-Nigeria.

Lere Olayinka in a piece exclusively forwarded to Post-Nigeria wrote:

”1. Two pictures taken the same day and same venue, APC Chairman, Odigie Oyegun’s dress is different. Why?

”2. Pay more attention to the images in the MIRROR. Why is the different in style of caps of two of the images in the MIRROR, from the photograph?”

He finally added: ”Just using my brain and you can use yours too. Anyway, let’s wish our President soonest recovery.”


Recall, that The Ovation Magazine Publisher, Dele Momodu, had earlier stated that he called Amaechi, to confirm the authenticity of the visit.

However, Political Analysts have been asking when did Buhari decide to have one hour meeting with the APC delegation, whereas when Acting President, Yemi Osinbajo, visited, it was allegedly reported that the Acting President, was only allowed to spend 5 minutes with him.

Buhari left the country on May 7, for medical treatment in the British capital.

This is the second time the President will be embarking on a medical vacation this year.

http://www.post-nigeria.com/exclusive-fayose-breaks-silence-on-buharis-sudden-appearance-releases-shocking-photo-to-the-world-exposes-amaechi-el-rufai-blatant-lies/

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