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obembet:
Seriously this nonsense need to stop.

U do DNA, we end the marriage.. I can't continue to staying with someone who doesn't trust me.

Olosho spotted

Jashub:
I agree, but try and look at it from this perspective : you receiving a text from an anonymous number on WhatsApp is a breach on your privacy and security. And as you know, this is 9ja, and you cannot vouch for the next man. So her response is only natural given the circumstances

An ill mannered fellow spotted

Heavensent01:
it's a shame that some acclaimed literates believe in this 5G conspiracy theory, even the educated ones, well education in Nigeria na for both literate and illiterate.


you can hardly separate Nigeria educated and uneducated except of good English speaking and writing which is not a test of knowledge. some road side mechanic easily make use of their brain than some fools that spend 4-5yrs in sch

"Pikin wey never see another man farm dey think say na im father farm na im big pass"

Your opinion about the literate folks who believe 5g can be dangerous should be the opposite of what you stated. You are actually the one who can't use his brain. Not an insult but a statement of fact. Some years down the line, no matter how limited you can use your brain, you'll realise you were too gullible

Buharidgeneral:
Pastor Chris how market?

If you knew much about governments of the world and how they operate, you wouldn't be asking this question.

"Don't believe everything you read" - 2pac

A video evidence of Governor Ganduje accepting bribe in dollars was circulated. The APC federal government knew about it but he was not investigated. People accepted donations for EndSARS protest and now they are being investigated as if actively supporting a peaceful protest is criminal.

Politicians locked up our palliatives and those they ought to share them to later discovered where they were unjustly hoarded, and looted them. The seemingly inhuman and covetous politicians were not killed or at least investigated but l learnt some hungry youths who went to loot the seemingly diverted palliatives were reportedly gunned down in the Eastern part of this unfortunate country Nigeria

Nigeria now seems like a country where serious looting of our common treasury is normal and petty issues are criminalised. SMH

virginprincess:
All this broke men creating nonsense tread self , haven't you people see real men that get married then ask their wives to sit at home, that is becoming full time housewives, those men do they have two heads? are they not the one taking the whole responsiblity? mtcheeeeew.

A broke bitch spotted

GreatResearcher:
I'm not supporting assault but the lady got what she deserved. Watch the video very well you will see that the lady deliberately wanted the soldier to beat her so she can post it on the internet and trend. Even when people begged her to leave she thrown herself on the soldier.

Modified:
Whenever you see a soldier or officer in military uniform, it's most likely that he or she is on official duty.
These men while on duty try to steal a little time from their busy schedule to attend to their personal needs.

That is why most of them when the go to ATM stand they try to beat the queue because of their limited time.

This soldier went to the ATM stand as you can see his dressing. There's 90% possibility that he is on duty.

He tried to beat the queue. Instead of the lady to speak to him politely she started with insults.

Was the lady the only person at that ATM?

The soldier annoyance was she bringing out her phone to record the soldier.

That was when the soldier puts his wallet in his pocket and brought out his belt.

He didn't even beat her o.

She wanna trend that's all.

I like the fact that you are one of the few who can think objectively. The fact that soldiers are known for brutality doesn't mean they are always at fault. Soldiers who signed off their life to protect your country deserve our respect. Put yourself in their shoes.

They deserve concession from the public at queues. (Mind you, I'm not a soldier). Other than that, it's disrespectful to ask a soldier IN UNIFORM whether he was on the cue. In her case, l don't think she asked politely even, if not the soldier wouldn't have reacted as much except he was intoxicated. Disrespect is something uniform men hardly condone and rightfully so.

That girl strikes me as a disrespectful girl. In the first place, she shouldn't be referred to as a lady. Why? She most definitely behaved in an unladylike manner to have attracted what she got. That word lady is too misused, so much that even thieves are referred to as ladies. SMH. She most likely disrespected the soldier and he treated her badly as a consequence

For me it's a draw; 1-1. She should stop looking for sympathy. If she were my kid sister she would have been straightened such that next time when she sees a national uniform she'll exercise restraint when the urge to disrespect tempts her

LikeAking:
rENO IS A WICKED FELLOW.

hE IS EXPOSING HIM SELF GRADUALLY.

hE IA ALWAYS TALKING SHIT.

sHIT MAN.

I can see your brain has been relocated to your anus

stonecoldcafe:
Do you know some girls were raped through no fault of theirs and pregnancy resulted? Have you not heard virgin or even non virgin who got raped once and pregnancy resulted. Do you know what's like to live in a land or area filled with trouble. Why are we talking too much sef. What of the girls who were taken away by Boko Haram and made sex slaves? What of women who man marry and later run away to the abroad then marry there for papers and leave wife and children alone for decades. I personally know of 2 cases like this.

Let us be careful please. There are exceptions to every rule. Life can throw people curve balls. Some ladies do it on purpose but some others stumble upon hard circumstances . Let us be gentle with our words

A question you should ask yourself in other to find answer your questions: what percentage of girls are well behaved?

uboma:
Bitter truth indeed!


Not all single mothers led a wayward life.

There are some ladies who are victims of sexual violence and choose not to abort the resultant pregnancies.


There are also some ladies who got thoroughly deceived by the men who promised them heaven and earth. Some even got married but the men abandoned them.

If they behaved well wouldn't they be the ones the men would stick with? If they were careful enough, wouldn't they see through the deceit of the men? For every girl that gets dumped, the handwriting had been on the wall. They only chose to act as if they didn't see it, except they are just plain stupid

As for the genuinely raped ones who chose to keep the babies, their case is different

helinues:
Oga Reno, sense far from this your post fa

It would have been better if you went to a private place to expose your ignorance

KanwuliaExtra:
Your opinion sir.
I blame the single moms who asked you for help in the first place.

Don’t help “single dads” either.

Has any single dad asked you for money citing the fact that he's a single dad so you would feel pity and give before? Citing singlemomhood is women's area of specialisation, always playing the victim card even if they orchestrated their misfortune.

This is not to say it's always all their fault cos some guys can be very manipulative, but a well trained girl will hardly fall for such manipulations. The woes or burdens of such poorly trained ones should be shouldered by their parents or guardians for poor parenting, not Reno.

Zenzu01:
I think your God should also kill you for all those lies you've said.

I believe if you were in their shoes, you would have done worse.

Don't judge others because their sins are different from yours.

Modified.

For those quoting me, I'm not saying that he must help them, it is his choice but he should not use their situation to mock them or rub it on their faces because he doesn't know the whole story.

My mom raised us like a single mom not because she doesn't have a husband or we didn't stay with our father. He just didn't care...

People who reason like you are part of why Christianity is now adulterated.

Meanwhile, a girl who is careless enough to have sex with a man she knows she is not compatible with should bear the cross of her carelessness, not Reno. I've met girls who l knew l wasn't compatible with from the start and made efforts to avoid them but those same girls tried all they could for me to just have sex with them, when they knew also that we were not compatible. Who would you blame for their single motherhood if they eventually had a baby by me due to superiority of their attack to my defence? Me or them. #I'mWithReno

PharmaGirl:
Your opinion Reno.
If that's what you believe, then its fine.

But remember, they didn't impregnate themselves.

So while you're giving reasons on why you won't help 'deliberate single moms', don't you think it'd be nice if you also preached to the men who impregnated them?

Tell them to carry their cross honorably. Tell them to provide for their kids so their kids' moms will stop running to your TL, begging for money.

If they didn't open their legs would they have become single moms? This single mom thing is gradually becoming a norm in the southern Nigerian Christian society and it's not nice at all.

In short helping someone just because she's a single mom is like tacitly supporting premarital sex, a sin which pastors hardly emphasize so now it seems normal to have it and l know Christians in this abnormal Nigerian society will start bashing Reno for his perfect stand but I'm with Reno on this one 100%

This is the season of ENDSARS but l guess there's need for taking a retrospective look at happenings in this abnormal but interesting country called Nigeria. So I'd like to ask: what has EFCC done to the "snake" that swallowed N36m in JAMB office? Remember in 2018 EFCC tweeted that "the eagle shows no mercy for money-swallowing snakes". Did they actually show no mercy to the JAMB snake? Has the snake been dealt with squarely?

Link to the tweet:
https://www.nairaland.com/4342267/efccs-tweet-snake-swallowed-n36

jaybenugo:
Korede Bello has taken to his twitter account to declare that women are the superior gender, IgbereTV reports.

The singer wrote:

https://twitter.com/koredebello/status/1309093607505354754?s=19

His statement got varied response from people. While some agreed with him, others called him out.

I can now see that Korede is not a real boy. He's an Aba made. Nor be joke o. I'm serious

Satan66:
Nigerians are a disgrace both locally and abroad.
Imagine this woman is saying you don't need face mask?
That the virus has a cure!?
She should be stripped of her medical license.

YOU ARE THE REAL DISGRACE FOR BEING SUCH A BIG FOOL EVEN WITH ALL THE EVIDENCES AGAINST THOSE WHO SEEK TO CONTROL THE WORLD STARING AT YOU IN THE FACE.

If you are too foolish to use your brain well till a few years from now, you'll look back after a few years and realise how foolish you have been to believe the media that took down her videos.

mosdii:
Oh yes he is the godfather in APC Bayelsa state and the people and party love him genuinely.

You are lying. You don't even know what's happening in the state APC

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SocialJustice:
Is Hitler a name any sensible person should be answering? Abi you no get sense?

Help me ask am

kenzysmith:
some men re just wicked how much be ashawo 300 naira

You wise at all? You just go school for nothing

cruxgemmata:
When i say we should shoot them in the head when caught.

One idiot was telling me killing is a sin and instead we should castrate them.

When a castrated person bcomes frustrated. This is what happens, they use all manner of equipment to abuse girls because they are angry dey couldn't feel d urge on the dick anymore.

When a castrated person bcoms frustrated on sex matter. Dey become serial killers by using sticks to rape females. Some wil go as far as kidnapping a male and female and force dem to have sex in his presence for amusement

Any guilty party found, DO THIS

Modified
Didnt read to the point of knowin its a female raping another female. Now i know after some1 pointed that out.
I don tire dey read all these cases, na why.
I just want any guilty party shot in the head irrespective of gender

So because it was a female, you had no anger to vent abi? You were ok with it not so? When you thought it was a male, you lost control of your emotions; nonsense!

dangotesmummy:
Smh


Men try respecting unaselves Na


Is the pehnis so hard to control?


If you are a rapist quote me con type nonsense and watch how fellow sick men will rape your mama in your presence

Is something wrong with you? Is it only men that commit rape? Are men referred to as maids? I'm beginning to think the school fees paid for you were wasted

[quote author= post=90072044]PDP still get mouth dey talk for this country?!

A party that looted monies meant to build their National Headquarters say they want to rebuild a nation.

We wonder where all these their wailing is emanating from these days, prolly from Atiku's living room in Cameroun!!

A party that ruled, looted, destroyed our darling country for 16 years and can't boast of an office building!!!

We need a better opposition party in Naija abeg, these thieves don loose flavour and sauce.
Nobody takes them serious anymore apart from their fellow criminals.

PDP in Nigeria again!?
God forbid bad thing......

PDP in Nigeria again?!

GOD forbid bad thing.

Again .......

Good riddance to bad rubbish!

PDP in Nigeria again ?!

God forbid bad thing!!


PDP settled all of Nigeria debt?!
Well, we won't reply you as we sometimes reply some boys here.
We will respect you cos you are a female.
We can only advice you to get close to more mature and reasonable elders around you to tell you the truth about what you actually typed dalass.
Stop moving with liars and people that are good in the act of brainwashing.
And please be more careful with facts next time you want to quote us, we beg of you ma!
Have a nice weekend ahead dearie.
Hugs !



Dammnn Nigga, GBAMSOLUTELY!![/quote]You sound like someone without a brain. This is not an insult but a true statement that reflects how you sound like. The loans are capable of turning us into colony of our creditor and a group is raising an alarm and instead of you to use your brain, you were thinking with your heart, letting sentiments dictate how you reason. SMH.

purples25:
Why must you actively DIG to find what she is doing? You didn't see anything on her phone. You are complaining. Why do you seek to satisfy yourself with evidence that she is cheating, she is evil. I know you will search heaven and earth until you find something to satisfy your claims. I don't know why you want to catch someone else so bad. Maybe you just want to be the victim in the relationship, while you really NEED her to be the bad guy in your life. You WANT and NEED to be the ANGEL in your relationship. Nonsense.

CHEATER SPOTTED

edoairways:
dickt do you know how ppe cost? Aren't doctors and other health workers provided that in other countries?

Let me answer your questions with a question. This is Nigeria. . Where you told that the Nigerian Police didn't know that their counterparts abroad are provided with fuel, while they are not provided for here?

You seem to know much about PPEs. So please, itemise the PPEs they need let's cost them and see how much they cost, that they cannot buy for themselves to protect themselves so they can save lives. Wait, do you actually know the value of your life? Or are you one of the doctors who no longer have conscience even they claim to be Christians or Muslums?

This Corona virus the WHO is even unjustly scaring people about, how difficult is to treat it at it's early stages that a doctor would be afraid of it up to the extent of leaving patients to die even? Huh?

A medical doctor and other health staff exhibited callousness and unprofessional conduct which led to the death of someone's wife and some involuntarily hypnotised people were busy taking sides with the hospital staff blaming the death on lack of protective equipment.

Protective equipment protective equipment. Does government provision for police vehicles (if any) get to the police vehicle tanks? Is it not the police that figure out means of fuelling them even though their tactics are questionable sometimes? At least it is better than not providing the needed service due to immobility.

We've lost a lot of them to Covid, right? They could have protected themselves easily so if they actually died of Covid like they claim in the media, it's their personal fault.

Can't the doctors buy protective equipment for themselves since the government is not behaving, so they can be useful to patients of her kind? How much is an original facemask? How much are hand gloves? What does it cost to drink hot water frequently to send the virus (if any) to their early grave in the stomach while working in the hospital? What does it cost to sanitize one's hands and maintain simple hygienic practices at least for this period. I beg make una nor annoy me o.

All of you absolving the callous doctor of blame, l pray you find yourselves in the position the late woman found herself but narrowly survive and see if you'll still support the evil that doctors perpetrate in hospitals.

Medical doctors generally (only a few are exempted) are not the noble people you you've been hypnotized over the years to think they are.

You may read the original story here: https://www.nairaland.com/5810169/nwachukwu-alagbu-unth-enugu-doctors

joe4christ:
You won't blame these health workers. We have already lost couple of them to this convid-19 due to lack of protective equipment that should be made available by a responsible government so these people can perform their duties without putting their lives to risk.

Protective equipment protective equipment. Does government provision for police vehicles (if any) get to the police vehicle tanks? Is it not the police that figure out means of fuelling them even though their tactics are questionable sometimes? At least it is better than not providing the needed service due to immobility.

We've lost a lot of them to Covid, right? They could have protected themselves easily so if they actually died of Covid like they claim in the media, it's their personal fault.

Can't the doctors buy protective equipment for themselves since the government is not behaving, so they can be useful to patients of her kind? How much is an original facemask? How much are hand gloves? What does it cost to drink hot water frequently to send the virus (if any) to their early grave in the stomach while working in the hospital? What does it cost to sanitize one's hands and maintain simple hygienic practices at least for this period. I beg make una nor annoy me o.

All of you absolving the callous doctor of blame, l pray you find yourselves in the position the late woman found herself but narrowly survive and see if you'll still support the evil that doctors perpetrate in hospitals.

Medical doctors generally (only a few are exempted) are not the noble people you you've been hypnotized over the years to think they are.

DominusPrime:
Don't get me wrong dear. Cheating is bad and I don't mean to trivialise cheating in any way. It is bad. I just didn't know how to express the fact that he wasnt telling us everything but he is claiming it's just cheating. Hope u get my msg now.

You are such an awful person to talk to in times of distress, God forbid!!

Just put yourself in his shoes and see how nasty you are. SMH

MhizJoyce:
Lies. They are all untrue. I'm a lady, and I can say this is just to garner "likes" and attention.

One thing is certain: you are too ashamed that that your secrets have been made public

Paboyler:
Hello Williams, from your description of events you already stated that you can not accept, you can not train another person's (man's) son no matter that you love the woman. It seems your mind is already made up on this issue, that notwithstanding, I will give my candid advice since you seek it.
forward to the issue at hand, You said you really love this lady in question and you intended to get married and settle down with her. Now I need you to understand that true love does exist, and it is sacrificial in nature, that means it will cost you some thing valuable, if it doesn't cost you anything valuable then it is not real, you must understand that you loving your woman, you must equally extend the love to her son, you must learn to accommodate both of them without fear, bias or pretence. You must consciously and determinantly love both mother and son as your wife and son respectively. Otherwise you can't truly profess love for your woman. This measures the depth and sagacity of your love for the woman. In other words you cannot truely love the woman without loving her son.
I will not conclude my advice without asking these questions?
1). Does it mean that you cannot train or accept an orphan who is not related to you?
2). Does it mean that you cannot adopt a child in the case that you cannot cannot give birth to one simply because he/she is not your blood?
3). What do you expect or how would you feel if tomorrow you pass on early (God forbid) at a very young age leaving a young wife and kid behind, and the woman re-marries, would you like for that new husband of your wife to marry her and love without doing same to your child?
Just a few question to ask.
My brother I bet you wouldn't like your child to be rejected. Therefore It would be best for you to accept that child in as much as you would accept and love the mother. Only then can the love be complete because the Child is part of his mother. And any attempt to segregate between them will not only cost them their happiness but will as well cost you your happiness very dearly. The fall-out from this act will cost your union with that your beloved woman your happiness, joy and can if possible cost you your job because your marriage will be is shambles. Therefore you better take a firm decision to either whole heartedly accept and love both the woman and her son or walk out of their life before you hurt them.
As regarding the stubbornness of the kid, it's a normal thing with them, this is the right stage for that to happen with them, there's nothing you can do about it. Even if it were your kid he will act and behave like that, moreover he is a boy. I bet you even both parents of one particular kid would quarell over that. It's absolutely normal you should learn to tolerate that if you must be a good father. Becoming a father is not just footing the bills and providing for the family, this is one of the Herculean task you must handle.
I have to testify here that I have actually fathered a boy child from a single parent while dating his mother exactly the same situation as you, but for 8 years. The kid is now 10 years old. He is fondly called my son even by my own parents and other family members. He is just like my PA (personal assistant), he knows everything I do. We can't stay without each other and we are best of friends. He believes so much in me.
The import of this testimony is that:
* You can actually use this kid to build your strongest hold on your lady, make them believe in you and you will be happier as every one wins.
* This situation will help you prepare more for your own children and even perfect you on the act of becoming a better father when your own children arrive.
* It will bring you Spiritual blessings and open doors for you.
Thanks a lot as you consider these pieces of advice.
Please note: Endeavor to get that kid a gift on His birthday.

There's a whole world of difference between a kid of a single mom you are dating whose dad is alive living with you and an orphan living with you.