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Love iznt cruel, people are

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Dats what all less rich men like to think, nobody likes to admit his gf left him for a man with more "game". And d rich guys won't tell u about d ones dat got away coz it makes it so obvious dat money can't buy "game". Though it does happenbut amjez sayin ya know.

Don't mind ppl joor, what happened to older sibling s sacrifice for younger ones, y should u stop someone from acheiving happiness because ur time hasnt arrived, dats just crazy , culture or not, what if its d elder sister's destiny to meet her true husband @ her younger sisterz wedding, by putting it on hold to stisfy her selfish desires, she is unknowingly sabotaging herself. When ppl understand d concept of destiny, dey will realize its not a matter of who wasz born first, its a matter of when God is ready to do things for u, or are her parents indirectly encouraging fornication, bcoz dat is what dey r doing

Alwayz, from primary to secondary, even we were told to put our head on d table and i slept off, dey wee still write my name, i no know wetin i do dem o.

What do u mean?

gtrust: no comment on this!

Aaaaw, that had to sting. Just take a deep breath, cry as much as u need, talk to ur closest friend so he or she can be d support u need rite now, its gonna be tough as hell,cos it seems u loved dis guy so much u were willing to take a risk on him but time heals. Adn from ur gist ,it seems he has flaky personality dat can't stand d distance with anything, try to convince urself its good riddance to bad rubbish. And try real hard not to think about ur investment (emotional, finacial) on dis guy, it will only make u bitter.
Shit like dis happens all d time, we just have to move on.

Absolutely nothing wrong with it, she should just go and meet her spiritual leaders so they can talk some sense into her parents

Could a woman who posts topics continuously about herself and everybody's responses to her be possibly narcissistic? Please i need an answer urgently

How'd u know its harlequin if u haven't been reading it too. Pfft, boy, u r sooo gay

Chukkasy: Harlequin...thats all u'v been reading...smh 4 u.

No, what a non-shmuck would av inferred from dat post is dat no race has d corner on behavioural faults. We just have different strengths.

flickers72: Thank you didicold,we should keep living the life of dishonesty,get alive schmuck

@op
you are soo right, we black women are sooo pretentious.here is an idea, marry a white oman,fifteen years down d line she'll tell u she doesnt luv u anymore seeing as she is sooo honest, and u will happily pay for alimony& child support and a boob job while she explores her feeling for your family gardener and den invites u to their wedding ur alimony paid for.Afterall, isnt it d honesty that matters, av a nice life shmuck.

Paray u feel better soon

Ms_Steph: Hello guys please I need ur prayers I am sick.

Who told u she didnt know u did so? Dere is no kind of sleep a woman can sleep dat she wont know, she just chose not to call u on it,dazall

Dose r just lovely*drooling*, dey just make u want to run, had an airforce,lost it due to carelessness.
*sighs*

Only God knows tomorrow, thinking u r a good mother and being one r two entirely separate tinz

t4dec: dat mins u dnt trust urself to be a gud wife nd ain ready to moda kids. I only fear deth sepratin us

D fear of bills ,my unborn kid's school fees, fear of widowhood,fear dat if he dies (God forbid), d marriage would be so scattered i won't even mourn, fear s dat i wont be a good mother and so on.

Aaawww, are we being mean to the pwidee widdle puddy cat, u never see mean. Mean is when d gelfriend u told u r going to ur ex's place goes to ur own bf's place to "cook stew" for him, as for d rest of us on NL, we jes like gbebosne.
Dazall
oya sorry*rubs op's head*

Idowu haff kill me hia, leave her,let her manufacture every excuse under d sun, na today?

Idowuogbo: U want it to end and u busy ranting about sunglasses? U need paracetamol.

Please gist us about d interview when u thru, sorry i can't help

wumicipm: Amen. Abuja clinic maitama invited me for interview. Please, who has a clue on how dey conduct their interview?

U didnt make out like d threat was serious, all i can glean is u r so determined to be involved wit ur ex dat woe betides whoever stand between u, is ur bf such a violent person he can't pick up d shades without picking a fight wit a supposedly ill person.
Go if u feel u must but i hope u realize by doin so u r undermining ur position in ur relationship,u have effectively "sold out". While u pick up d shades, anoda desperate gel will come and "cook stew" for ur bf too, after all, is it only sick ppl that eat?

What ur actions just told ur bf is dat u r available for ur ex if he is interested. Sick or not, serzly what were u thinking,short of a death bed confession he should go and call his family or frends abi him no get before he called d "good samaritan"?

Wish u all d best^^

Dese ur girlfriends get energy o, talk 3times aday, kilode,my guys know better than to do dat, if u talk too much, i won't pick ur calls regularly, even chatting online should be in moderation,talking all d time just gets on my nerves no matter how much "inlove" i am.

Eeeerrhm, dat iza confidenshial informashon

xynerise: And you use your towel to dry down there?

Eeehhmm...eeehhm, uncle i can't remember o*sobbing*

Serzly, u had me laffing wit dis comment, but mite turn out to be true, if d op's roommate's bf wind d gel up small, d next move will be for dem to frustrate d op so dat she can leave d apartment for dem. because it seems op's roommate is cock-whipped

fluid26: Your girlfriend is lost in her labyrinthine fantasies. Perhaps the sex takes her to paradise and nothing else seems to matter. All that gist of you and her being in sync in thoughts is wishy-washy. Wait until she gets pregnant, you'll be the one to offer to move out for them

This is a clear case of fraud. Call the police!

Try going to a doctor, i had an area sister whose son wouldnt eat also, all d baby food was wasted on him, na we lick am finish,if d doctor says dere is nothing for it, u av to make nutrient laden dishes so dat u can make evri snall meal count, as for recipes, i know very little, i rememba she used to poach eggs mixed with mil for him, mix egg and milk, a pinch of salt,one egg will do with a tablespoon of milk, put it in d sippy cup, den put in boiling water till solid, just lift and shake d cup, if d contents slosh its not yet cooked, she also used to make semovita with ewedu, she boils titus fish ,mashed it with her hands and sprinkles it into d ewedu when its almost done cooking, u can also make semovita with milk as a custard, if all else fails ,have u tried force feeding, i know oyinbo ppl prefer intravenous, but our mothers used to forcefeed and here we are, i am sure u dont want needles being poked in ur baby to find a vein, but d food had to be liquid in dis case, if u dont know how to do it, let a pro teach u,and small quantities is ok, just so u know d child isnt starving and make sure d liquid is nutrient laden e.g boiled semo with totally pureed fish , or veggie puree.
Wish u luck, i know u will be worried but take heart

Yoruba ppl will say, akii so sibe ki a ku si be, say what neeeds to be said, it wont kill u. U tell ur girlfriend u r not comfortable living wit a guy for so long(dont make out dat its specifically d boyfriend u av sometin against), so she has to tell him to go, give her week or two, if she doznt broach d subject, its time for u to do d dirty work urself. D guy is just swindling u both. I av met a few of dem, dey r nice in d beginning, dey will spend like 25percent, den tell u dey need help, BF u know dey have drained 200percent out of u, and u will be thinkin, nooo, he was very nice when he was capable, its a typical conman's scheme. And pls dont subscribe to she is d one dat can send him packing, its ur room too, u paid to be comfortable, if i were his gelfrend i'd have booted him out on dat nasty comment he made.

U can also try ladipo, d spare parts area, dere are a few factories dere, cybele and co, u might get lucky

Congratulations tobey,
for ur interview ,u need to know ur cv inside out, know d places u excelled ,showed leadership skills and challenges u faced, if u r undergoing any development programme currently, be ready to talk about it.
As for d banking aspect, try to learn recent policy changes, d impact on nigerian banking, have an idea of d top 5 nigerian banks incase ur employers to be is one of dem. I don't really think u will be asked specific questions because u avnt been told d name of d organization, plz go in a suit ,great shined shoes,take ur confidence along and u r good to go.
Bliv me physical presentation is almost half d score,and sounding intelligent will certainly help.
Good luck