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Jadekitana:
Pidgin english

Eh, make una come see 'Queen Elizabeth'

skywalker240:
Women are instinctive creatures
Thats how they should best be reffered as there are the ladies u might just get in line with but there ar some u would find hard to blend with.

Actually, they can be to some extent. So, when you meet this girl on a first day. She blends with you. Freely, give you her number. Calls sometimes. And say you could be friends, though she is attached to someone. What do you think of this ?

skywalker240:
ok sir, Noted,..but that same horsse can always turn agisnst its masters wish


In a nutshell, Ladies ar human beings and nobody(includin us men) is predictable so what am trying to say is u cant predict a creature that is been controled by hormone

pounded yam could be ur best food and u know it is, but it gets to some extent u get tired of it.
U cant just keep doin wats fittin 4 her even when u blend with d flow cos other times she might wanna explore somtin new or diffrnt (xpeciali d adventurers) simple we ar all humans
she is also controled by hormone too.

Well noted. So, in your view, what makes them tick ?

skywalker240:
True ,but not every translation becomes the outcome of her altitude.
I hope u knw that sir?

I understand and you have a point. You don't have to sweat it. if her presence in your life does not align with your vision, goals purpose. You adjust and go with the flow.

You can take a horse to the stream but you can't force it to drink water.

skywalker240:
Different blokes 4 diff folks, my bid head concur

Easy to understand?..i disagree wit u on this one sir
They cant even tell u or even know how to please themselves and u ar tokin abt knw how?

We can decipher Man.. They are much easier than basic maths.

Jacksparr0w1207:
So I should start somersaulting? Or what? Smh

No. Abeg go drink otapiapia....

Women are easy to understand if you know how.

Different blokes for different folks.

ehissi:
Backup plans............Haaaaaaaaa!!

Well that's your opinion, but I don't believe you are wrong.........I know you are wrong. Till today, there are folks who still try to woo her even as she is right now.

If she were someone who is fickle, or materialistic, I for nor even see her sef greet not to talk of date, not to even mention capture.

For those who try to woo her, who seem matured and understanding, all she has to do is sit them down and let them know that they came late; and that she's committed to someone else and that's all.........some of them sef end up becoming very good friends of us both when they hear our story. I'm talking about the matured ones among them Ooh, of which I still handle those kinda folks with great care.

As far as love goes well: a Man I respect told me something interesting.

Don't ever believe or say that you love someone or you are attracted to someone and that's why you are married to them or want to get married to them. You are very wrong, because in this world, there are over 6 billion wonderful created by God that you are yet to experience. You will marry and still find out that you love or attracted to someone else for one reason or the other - be it physique, special quality or attribute etc.

This he believes, is why the Bible never teaches us to choose to marry who we love, but rather to love who we choose to marry.

This is why its wise to first consider the character of the person and the goals,plans and ambitions he/she has and you have for your own life; if the lady or guy's life or where the fellow is going with his/her life is desirable and there is love and an attraction to the fellow, then give the fellow a chance. And start observing the fellow and build a foundation of trust!

Some ladies just get close to a guy they feel can take care of them, after all he is working and after the wedding he insists you must drop ya degree and do housewife against your own God given dreams/goals. Quarrel in the home starts, meanwhile he is attracted to one lady with very big yansh - bigger that the one that attracted him to his wife - in his office whey dey cut eye for am; before you know it, he will say he loves that one better than his wife, after all his wife sef dey give am headache for house. Before you know the marriage start loosing it grips on them both, madam is systematically neglected, divorce/separation is just around the corner, simply because you guys no take time build trust and establish what your goals in life are and see if each other plans/character fits!!

This is exactly how purpose driven relationships and marriages are born.

For me Marriage isn't a relationship, its something that's supposed to reaffirm the relationship; and if the relationship isn't strong enough or both parties aren't totally committed to the relationship before the marriage. Then your wedding/marriage is just a waste of logistics. This is one reason I and the person I am with individually never believed in double dating or "sampling"!!

Focus on a fellow and totally observe the human being. No-one is perfect, no matter how trickish or smart the fellow is, time will reveal his/her true colour!! But when you have like 2 or 3 persons that you put on a list that you are trying to observe at the same time; you may just make errors!! Dating and observing one person is almost like a full-time Job, you na 3 U wan observe, say wetin happen!!?? U na INEC staff or are U an election observer!!

Baba, ask me oo. Specialization is wisdom.

Hahaha funny responses. Men, make una go protect children and women.

MrsPhyno:
Haha I think the right partner isn't as big of a deal as people make it out to be, those are personal goals and you can mostly achieve them on your own. At least from my perspective

Ah but this is too public a place going taluk about my hopes and dreams, NL has so many eyes watching at all times

Yea, actually. You know how to reach me. I wanna know them. lol

MrsPhyno:
Sure I believe. I believe in anyone who believes in "themself", be positive and hopeful like me and I believe it will all work out

My own are too complicated o lol

With the right mindset, nothing is complicated. What we need is encounter with the right partners at the convenient time. Well, you can relate, I am all ears.

sexylogan:
1. She prays with you and prays for your success
2. Your present situation doesn't deter her from respecting and loving u because she sees you as the success u will become and not who u are at the moment.
3. She supports u in any and every way possible to make ur dream come true.
4. Her love for u is not dependant on what u can repay her with.
5. Even if she is "better off" than u financially presently, she never brings it up, belittles u or uses it against u but treats u with dignity, love and respect.
6. She discusses your future plans and gives constructive criticism and positive advice such as behavioral and financial adjustments u need to make to achieve ur dreams.
7. She makes sacrifices for you because she believes in you and your dreams.


My brother, if u have such a woman and u don't put a ring on her finger and value her as u should, describing u as "Olodo" is too mild...




Lalasticlala.... Kindly take this to fp

The young men need to read this

My brother from another mother. You will marry a jewel. And have ephikos as children that will colonise Jupiter.. God bless you.

B

MrsPhyno:
Lol um. Women are autonomous human beings too so I think your best bet is to go after a woman who has her own personal vision.
If she is a big dreamer, believer, planner; then she will understand your goals too, hopefully.
And you guys can chase after them together and have 15 healthy children and live happily ever after

Like me and you abi.... hahaha... I know you love Phyno, I could produce him in the next 3 years and even dine and wine with bill gates. Do you believe ?

Anyways, too many Barbie's out there. its so confusing.

So what are your goals ? To become My Fiona abi...

Johnnoah1st:
by using a telescope

Haha
Made in where ?

You see, Rome was not built in a day. To me, life is more than eating, sleeping, shitting and even ph--ucking. Personally, I can't get attached to a woman who does not understand this.

But I can shower the Lady with ultimate love who stands by me in my effort to build a formidable castle.

But how do you know such ladies ?

It could be, who get cap, no get head. who get head, no get cap.

Like the saying goes. ' do not put all your eggs in one basket '

That is, one is a play thing to the other, a potential mate to another. A potential mate to the other, a play thing to another.

So which ever works out for the long term.

My 3 cents

MrsPhyno Muaah

Put God first.
Know your purpose.
Have a vision and mission.
Understand and be knowledgeable about your field or career.
Have a Registered company.
Get something doing that takes care of your needs and some wants.
Be focused on your Goals.

Do your best and God will do the rest in your emotional, spiritual, mental and financial well being.

I love Cairo..... What about Addis Ababa...

Sue for damages. Goddamit.

When you displease yourself couple of times to please a woman and she does not appreciate, man, Run for your life...lol

Nothing bad should be justified. But not everyone has self control. Therefore, to be forwarned is to be forearmed.

Life is Management. That way, you can invest strategically. If you don't manage resources well, you can't be wealthy.

Washing my clothes is my business. Not her's or even my children, unless they volunteer. I am friends with older men in their 70 's who do their own thing. Why should a young man like me do otherwise ?

Never let a woman take care of your Needs or else don't date or propose yet. or she would use you as a playmate. Though, She may assist you in your wants, vision, passion and mission.

As per wealth, if you did not struggle, inspire or manage with me when I was building my empire. your presence will not influence my will. 80% of my wealth will be donated to Institute that will breed future Technocrats.

that's my 3cents.

Love conquers all. In fact, when you are happy and have peace of mind, your inner beauty shines. Some young beautiful women envy the way we chat and play with our 80something years grandma. Because we love her.

Wait wait...

So, I will leave these huge projects at my disposal, that could make me a billionaire tomorrow, and go and be wasting my time with some chick 'by playing hard to get' who doesn't add value to me than give you a fun of not more than 15 minutes. God forbid it.

Unless she is a potential wife, and she must not see herself as a Goddess. Humility is Genius.

Paragon311:
For management and enterprise software, I will recommend Microsoft dynamix.

Do you need Inventory software for backup?

I will recommend Dabar Object or CORE IM

I get it. Thanks.

Paragon311:
Kindly specify the brand of software you prefer or is it just any software to suit in for management an security facilities?

08029222222 Bode.

Any softwares under the category I mentioned.

Donald3d:
i can do it.i can also do installation for you ,what is your location,deep regards,Donald.

I just want the products in large quantities. I can do the services.

Abuja. And you ?

Phone Flashing, Unlocking, Update and Upgrade, Networking, etc.

Akuneshiobike:
gbam! In igbo, we call it anya quarter pass twelve! Come op, re u related to Ohakim? #NoOffence

Actually, we are from neighbouring towns. Why do you ask ?

Anyways, Paris Hilton, Taylor Lautner(the protagonist in twilight), Heidi Klum and even Morgan Freeman is cross eyed, so we have a lot in common... lol

On Management and Enterprises Softwares for different Industries.


Utility Softwares.


IT security, Backup and Recovery Softwares.

valdes00:
hahahahhaha.... The IGBOs will say Ayan twelve O'clock

Denzel Washington you admire so much is Cross eyed... typical Nigeria girl lol