Romance / Re: A Man Saved My Name As "Afang Soup" After I Cooked For Him - Lady Cries Out by diluewunmi: 8:02pm On Jan 25, 2018 |
goldcoinhub: A lady who goes by the name Lilah and with the twitter handle (@canyewext), has taken to the social networking platform to reveal how she was left heartbroken after a guy she's been crushing on, saved her phone number as "Afang Soup". The lady claimed she went to the guy's house at a time and cooked for him a delicious meal with the popular Nigerian delicacy soup, Afang.
![](https://i0.wp.com/lailasnews.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/01/Lady-cries-out-as-her-crush-saves-her-name-as-Afang-soup-Lailasnews.jpg?resize=405%2C410&ssl=1) From all indications it was quite obvious the guy enjoyed the soup so much that the best way he thought he could save the lady's number was with something she knows how to do best, which to him, might be the Afang soup she cooked for him. Lilah went further to state that after learning her lessons, she will never in her life cook for any man again, adding that all men should die hungry. Though it was not stated in her post how she got to know about the name given to her by the guy, but surely she wasn't happy as shown in the way she came online to rant about the whole situation. She then went further to call the man her crush and even said he is a scum for what he did to her. Her post reads:
“The last time I cooked for a man he saved my number as 'afang soup' heartbreak I will never cook for you men again. You all DIE OF HUNGER. My crush o you men are really scum.” It is not quite uncommon for people to save other people's name on their phones with something they can easily identify them with. If you can recollect during the Tiwa savage and Tee Billz's marriage scandal, it was revealed that Tee Billz had a name saved on his phone as edible catering. A lady who goes by the name Teniola Kashaam (@tennycoco) was fingered as the alleged mistress.
https://lailasnews.com/man-saves-girfriends-name-afang-soup/ Been reading comments by guys; honestly, its a shame how guys think sometimes. No reasonable man in his right thinking mind will insult this lady but anyway sha, i no blame them, i blame the fools who turn themselves to slaves all in the name of crush or love... nonsense |
Celebrities / Re: Benedicta Elechi: I Caught My Ex-Husband, Paul Odekina Having Gay Sex (Video) by diluewunmi: 4:49am On Jan 24, 2018 |
swisschris: Does this mean freeze is Gay? #NyashKnacker Daddy Freeze's fiance talked about her ex-husband |
Crime / Re: Jilted Man Posts Estranged Lover’s Nude Pictures Online by diluewunmi: 11:16pm On Jan 23, 2018 |
MrHistorian: So?
Why arrest him?
That man should hire himself a competent lawyer to handle this case.
You are just stupid. Your dad should have posted your mom's nudes because of a fight. Ode |
Politics / Re: Falae: Don’t Provoke The Yorubas Into War – Afenifere by diluewunmi: 9:41pm On Jan 23, 2018 |
4kDdullard: Yorubas are coward and fulani slaves.Good morning to them. But the same yorubas you are insulting are the reason why you are still walking freely. If its left to your tribe and the hausas, Nigeria today would have been like Syria. Yorubas are peace loving people and not agbero like you. 7 Likes 3 Shares |
Crime / Re: Carpenter Arrested For Injuring His 12-Year-Old Son With Wire. Graphic Photos by diluewunmi: 8:16pm On Jan 23, 2018 |
Papanwamaikpe: Why should he be arrested for disciplining his own son? His own child for that matter ooh! Nigeria is indeed a shit hole of a country! Erii re daru. U call this one discipline? |
Crime / Re: Baby Murdered By Ritualists, Head Cut Off (Graphic Photos) by diluewunmi: 10:18pm On Jan 22, 2018 |
tuoyoojo: God in heaven
let the perpetrators of this never know peace
may they lose their loved ones
may the people suffer ten times over what they caused this innocent baby to go thru
may their sun set in d morning
what ever is called good, may they never have
let tears and suffering be their portion
may they never know good! Amen. I say amen from the very depth of my heart to your prayer. Jesus Christ!!!! My heart bleeds.... Gosh!!! |
Crime / Re: Nigerian Man Killed By Wife And Boyfriend In Cameroon (Graphic Pics) by diluewunmi: 10:10pm On Jan 22, 2018 |
mazimee: Watch as some ladies will cook up some excuse for her wickedness Just like guys do when reverse is the case. No wrong should ever be justified |
Crime / Re: Man Shows Off His Fulani Friend Who Helped Him From Cultists In Rivers. Photos by diluewunmi: 12:11pm On Jan 22, 2018 |
demonstrate: Y MUST IT ALWAYS BE YORUBA
EVEN WEN BUHARI WIFE AND DAUGHTER CRITICISE THIS GOV.
YORUBA ARE STILL HOPING HE DIES IN POWER SO OSINBANJO CAN TAKE OVER.
NEWS FLASH, BUHARI HAS NEW EVERYTHING, SO HE IS NOT DIEING TODAY/TOMORROW OR ANYTIME SOON. Somebody talking from Anus spotted. Ode |
Religion / Re: The Real Reason Why God Prohibits Women Pastors by diluewunmi: 9:33pm On Jan 21, 2018 |
soberdrunk: Feminists will not like this ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) I pray all your children be girls. Then lets see how you will enjoy the discrimination against them. 1 Like |
Religion / Re: The Real Reason Why God Prohibits Women Pastors by diluewunmi: 9:24pm On Jan 21, 2018 |
stevejomo:
you may be right but there was no female among the twelve apostles Discrimination against women has been since time immemorial. Jesus, having 12 men disciples had serious issues with leaders of the land. Now imagine him having a woman in their midst... Goodness, i can't imagine the evil things that will proceed from the mouth of men even till this day. *ibukun ni fun omo odo naa to fi ogbon se* 2 Likes |
Religion / Re: The Real Reason Why God Prohibits Women Pastors by diluewunmi: 9:16pm On Jan 21, 2018 |
Geeklady: There are 5 points I want to bring out about these passages:
Learn in silence All subjection Not to teach Nor usurp authority over the man Adam was first formed, then Eve Learn in silence
It’s commanded that women should learn in silence and it’s mentioned twice. Why is this? Perhaps this passage in first Peter will shed some light on that:
1 Likewise, ye wives, be in subjection to your own husbands; that, if any obey not the word, they also may without the word be won by the conversation of the wives; 2 While they behold your chaste conversation coupled with fear. 3 Whose adorning let it not be that outward adorning of plaiting the hair, and of wearing of gold, or of putting on of apparel; 4 But let it be the hidden man of the heart, in that which is not corruptible, even the ornament of a meek and quiet spirit, which is in the sight of God of great price. 5 For after this manner in the old time the holy women also, who trusted in God, adorned themselves, being in subjection unto their own husbands: 6 Even as Sara obeyed Abraham, calling him lord: whose daughters ye are, as long as ye do well, and are not afraid with any amazement. (1 Peter 3:1-6)
We see in the latter part of verse four that God considers a woman who is meek and quiet (silent) to be precious. This doesn’t mean women can’t ever speak; it just means they should guard against the fallen nature which is loud and proud (Prov 9:13; 7:11).
Silence and meekness are how godly women ought to behave because this is God’s will. So all Paul is doing is repeating God’s will, but this can’t be accomplished if she’s shepherding a church.
All subjection
The next word we find is “subjection;” this means obedience, yielding to another’s admonition or advice. This is the role of the wife concerning her husband. If the man isn’t telling his wife to disobey God, she should be submitting to her husband’s direction in all areas.
We must also remember why women were created: to help the man fulfill the call of God for his life (Gen 2:18-24). After the fall, God said that the husband would rule over his wife (Gen 3:16). This is because Adam initially submitted to his wife’s advice, disobeyed God, and perverted the roles. So God had to re-establish his order again. So how can a woman co-pastor the flock and be in subjection to her husband? She can’t.
Not to teach
Because a woman’s role is to support her husband in all subjection, she can’t fulfill her role as a woman if she’s teaching men at her local church. Teaching men requires authority and leading which isn’t in her role as a woman in relation to men and especially husbands. Instead, she should be learning, and if she has children, teaching them.
Nor usurp authority over the man
Usurp means to take (a position of power or importance) illegally or by force; this may have been what was happening in Timothy’s church back then, and what’s surely happening in many churches today—women taking the authority of men; and by force! As Paul says, this must not be tolerated.
Adam was first formed, then Eve
By stating that Adam was made first and then Eve, Paul was re-establishing order once again. God has set up an order, and it must be followed. It doesn’t matter if a woman has an anointing on her life, or a revelation to start a church, this isn’t her role.
She should be focused on supporting her husband in his duty as pastor. And if she’s not married, to concentrate on learning how to be that meek and quiet spirit God so treasures so she can adequately support that husband God brings her.
The order is: the husband leads, the wife follows and supports. The wife cannot co-pastor the church of God, this is not her role. My question is was it Jesus who spoke about women not teaching etc or his diciples ![](/faces/huh.png) If not Jesus, then you can as well tell me that everything pastors of this age say must be adhered strictly to because they are modern day disciples.... If Jesus didnt say it, then men's ego has been before creation 1 Like |
Nairaland / General / Re: Terrible Accident Kills A Boy In Anambra (Graphic Photos) by diluewunmi: 10:18pm On Jan 20, 2018 |
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Celebrities / Re: Laura Ikeji Kanu Becomes PayPorte Brand Ambassador! by diluewunmi: 10:16pm On Jan 20, 2018 |
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Celebrities / Re: Jedidiah Ogunleye, Simi's Mother Weds. Simi Plays Chief Bridesmaid Role by diluewunmi: 9:00pm On Jan 20, 2018 |
dakeskese: ... After the man don drill the two of dem. Mtseeew Babu sense... spit |
Celebrities / Re: Mercy Aigbe Rocks Nigerian Police Uniform In New Pictures by diluewunmi: 6:39am On Jan 18, 2018 |
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Celebrities / Re: Abasiodiong Eyo Inyang Smokes To Celebrate Her 20th Birthday; Goes Braless by diluewunmi: 3:35am On Jan 15, 2018 |
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Celebrities / Re: Tiwa Savage Stuns In Gucci Outfit At Soundcity MVP Awards (photos) by diluewunmi: 10:32am On Jan 13, 2018 |
Vicboi1: Honestly i don't see anything attractive in this dressing why did she tie that gucci bag on her waist is she selling recharge cards?? Lolzz. U wukid o. Lol |
Celebrities / Re: Hailey Adeleke Takes Her First Step by diluewunmi: 5:20pm On Jan 12, 2018 |
jayson87: Na Ugly girl born imade now, na why imade no too fine. see as that baby fine Seconded bro |
Celebrities / Re: Sophia Momodu Replies Lady Who Body-Shamed Her Over 'Flat' Boobs by diluewunmi: 5:12pm On Jan 12, 2018 |
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Celebrities / Re: Sophia Momodu Replies Lady Who Body-Shamed Her Over 'Flat' Boobs by diluewunmi: 5:11pm On Jan 12, 2018 |
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Romance / Re: Photo Of Lesbian Couple That Just Got Married by diluewunmi: 9:39pm On Jan 10, 2018 |
Fourwinds: how can a girl pluck another girl's clitoris![](/faces/huh.png) They are adults and not children. Its their decision and their life. So live and let live 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Photo Of Lesbian Couple That Just Got Married by diluewunmi: 9:37pm On Jan 10, 2018 |
stano2: Chai!!! The men around them should be flogged. Leaving Ddick for Love Machine about how d stuff wan be and dem go still go adopt pickin Love is not all about sex bro. Its a feeling first before sex. let their God be the judge and not any human created because no one is a saint. |
Romance / Re: Photo Of Lesbian Couple That Just Got Married by diluewunmi: 9:31pm On Jan 10, 2018 |
eezeribe: Beautiful ladies... I wish them a happy married life. Adulterers,fornicators,masturbators,porn addicts, etc.... Just shut up your sinful mouths and seek your own salvation because the same measure you use to judge this couple would be used to judge you too... If you think they have no justifiable reason to be lesbians... You too have no justifiable reason to fornicate or masturbate... I am 100% straight... Respect bro |
Family / Re: Why Do some Men Beat Their Wives? by diluewunmi: 9:24pm On Jan 10, 2018 |
lawrykings:
does this make a prerogative to the woman to misbehave to her hubby already troubled with life's issues?? I don't just get it when women always back their insane act with your aforementioned statement. I am no woman beater but then, its important as a woman to know your boundary with your husband Men should know their boundary with their wife too bro |
Family / Re: Why Do some Men Beat Their Wives? by diluewunmi: 9:23pm On Jan 10, 2018 |
OceanmorganTrix: not all wife just the nagging type Really ![](/faces/huh.png) Thank God i no be tour wife.... you for don chop rat poison go meet your ancestors tey tey. Na do me i do you... God no go vex |
Celebrities / Re: Timaya's Daughters, Emma And Grace Chilling In The Pool by diluewunmi: 6:11pm On Jan 10, 2018 |
staystrongest: Abeg who get abortion pills??,my AGRIC chicken, went and open yansh for my neighbour's LOCAL chicken, I can't be rearing poor in-laws this new year o Lolzz. Na love and you have to accept them like that. 1 Like |
Crime / Re: Man Strangles His Wife To Death In Badagry, Buries Her Beside A Well (Graphic) by diluewunmi: 4:03pm On Jan 09, 2018 |
MrHistorian: Women Women Women!!
Flee your home when you realise your husband is violent,once he throws a slap at you. . .flee and don't come back.
Life is better enjoyed being single than in an abusive relationship.
Be Wise. ![kiss](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/kiss.gif) No need for the advise o. Let them stay. I guess its better they die (i.e those violently abused) than to be called names by some guys whose brain function under their legs 1 Like |
Family / Re: Man Beats His Sister For Trying To Stop Him From Cheating On His Wife by diluewunmi: 12:50pm On Jan 09, 2018 |
Next2Bezee: Why is she living in her brother's house in the first place?
Go get a degree & make something outta yourself...No, she wants to slay. Now she is doing amebo in her brother's house, reacting up and down.
I don't see how giving a lady his wife's clothes is cheating. If the guy really was cheating, then he is a mumu & he shouldn't have beat her. Address the issue and stop usless defence. |
Politics / Re: How Yusuf Buhari Lived His Life In UK by diluewunmi: 9:47pm On Jan 08, 2018 |
OneCorner:
Say no more, u are suffering from totemic postponement revulsion. You need just 2spoonful of sniper. ![shocked](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/shocked.gif) Lol. U wicked sha. Thats 10ml o. 2.5 should be okay nas |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: I Got A Job 30k After Nysc. Your Advice Please by diluewunmi: 8:26am On Jan 08, 2018 |
Timkizzy33881: I'm married with a kid, we've been managing with hubby's salary nd I've been believing God for a job, now a teaching job of 30k came nd after all the expenses like TP, 10k per month, my baby's fee for d term like 27k, nd lunch am left with little or nothing. I'm tired of staying at home not doing anything or getting any cash for myself but the 30k pay is so discouraging... Am confuse whether to accept the job or not. What's your advice NL. Yes. Take it. Gather experience while searching for better opp |
Religion / Re: Lord's Chosen Church Member With Tire In Action (Photos) by diluewunmi: 6:17pm On Jan 07, 2018 |
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Politics / Re: Policeman Runs For Safety As Violence Erupts During LG Election In Delta. Photos by diluewunmi: 8:04pm On Jan 06, 2018 |
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