He cheats on his girlfriend whom he has spent over 9yrs dating
I got to be friends with the girl through my friend on their second year of dating
This friend of mine isn’t well to do, the girl has paid her dues and even sleep on the floor with him and go through hard times with him but why he continues to cheat on her is what I don’t understand.
Atleast if I don’t know, I know three girls he has impregnated but it was terminated.
I know his three present side chicks as we speak.
The main chick everyday complains to me but hey! You don’t expect me to tell you to quit a relationship with my guy.
I say some words indirectly to her and she isn’t catching the clues I give to her to quit that relationship. Over the years I have given her clues upon clues for her to move on and find love elsewhere but I think she is blinded by love and not even catching all the clues
I can’t openly tell you that my guy is doing shit here and there. You see the signs, you know the girls and the pregnancy, I give you clues yet you still sick advise or want me to talk to my friend
Yes I do talk to him Every time but had to stop talking let him as a man make his decisions.
Over 9yrs with someone and in the next 5yrs he doesn’t seem like who still has intentions of settling down with her. To think that his new side chick has taken him to see his uncles and parents , starting marriage talk is disgusting. He is playing the new side chick too and his family
Goodmarlian: i lost my job in 2020 after the company folded up due to covid19 as a result i was jobless till july 2022.i decided to start a pos business since it was cheap to start it was a really difficult period for me. i got a place in my school near a shopping complex and tne business was doing fairly well i made up to 3k daily ,but the biggest problem aroused later,the people in the complex my friends and the rest became obssesed with me,i have become the talk of the town everybody wants to know how much i make,my next move they keep asking all sort of question ,it seems all eyes is now on me,they feel i am making too much money from the business 24/7 there are talking about me,infact it got to a point some people wanted me to leave the place but i stood my ground because i want to survive.i have never seen such since i.was born. currently i have plunged into a lot of financial mess,a business that started well, i saved 2k daily,now i save to pay up debts,its being challenges upon challenges,i think the problem is spiritual,now i think i have to.quit the business for the sake of my mental health.
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