₦airaland Forum

Sirchiboy:
Where do I start from?
May God rescue me

I would recommend you watch this video: A gambler seeks advice.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mP4QV93kSWI

Listen to the recommendation of the guy in the tie. If you follow it wholeheartedly, you can rescue yourself.

Realise this: You are battling an addiction and your power/efforts alone cannot save you.

I wish you all the best. Let me know how it goes.

Nice one OP

OP,

Just like men, some women do it because they can.

Don't believe me? Take a listen for yourself


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6v-PXdeL2tc

And No, or didn't start with your generation. My mom and grandma's generation also had promiscuous women. The only problem then was that there was no DNA test nor mobile phone to spread bad behavior.

May God help us all. Don't let it scare you away from dating

people very rarely change. very rarely unless they enter a training programme and have someone they respect whom they're accountable to.

Na wao

I guess it was this kind of thinking that got the pastor in trouble.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f0r4pp-u_uI

May God forgive us all

this is insane!

Have you checked out recent prices of food items. Take a listen to lamentations of fellow Nigerians


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xM_5QXrPiIo

And this was before 650 per liter. I can't even imagine what unemployed folks are going through. May God help us all.

Mrvictorwrite:
The whole thing about the story is to hustle very hard

bring your assignments to me

True

OP is confused

FRANCISTOWN:
The parents have faith, yet it still doesn't work for them.

sadly, this is true

sadly, that's mainstream now

Namkbank:
Life is ironic.
You are the biggest yahoo boy on nairaland.
With your multiple accounts littering both the jobs/vacancy and family sections

I'm a honest person. Work a decent job and invest the little I can. I'm also contented with what I have. Unlike most of you, I have no intention to blow. Just live my quiet life, stir up a little ruckus on nairaland and enjoy time with my family.

And I'm grateful to God for all I've laboured for. You should live your life the same way.

Brings peace of mind.

Remijuice:
Let me shock you!

The truth is that most of us are looking for 15k per month job and there's no vacancy...

4mee is buti. She's among the elites, that's why she doesn't know what's happening on the streets. There's a video of Nigerians lamenting what they've experienced during job hunting. I'll find the link shortly and post it below

OP, You're the rebound. Guy

Many people get married to the wrong people with wrong sources of income.

Most actresses marry for money and mostly fraudsters. Don't believe me, take a listen for yourself


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f0r4pp-u_uI

That's why their marriages collapse.

Illegal1:
omoh..........bet9ja and yahoo nah the only youth empowerment we get for nigeria.

knw dis and knw peace


95% of the boys for my street nah yahoo boys.

Are you for real? 95%

I visited a part of Lagos over the Christmas holiday and was stunned by the ostentatious display of wealth by young men in their early twenties. Imagine driving a petrol-guzzling car at 600 per liter.

I was told by my bolt driver that the boys were all Yahoo boys and their numbers had tripled in just under a year.

The sad part came later when he explained how he would abandon driving bolt for yahoo as soon as he saved up enough money to buy a gaming laptop with a years high speed internet subscription

Then today, I watched a heart rending video of young Nigerians analysing strategies for yahoo.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f0r4pp-u_uI

This begs the question:

how do you dissuade young people from fraud in a country with terrible entry level salaries?

interesting

so true. however, remember that time comes for us all

you're being played bro. big time

True

They will end up like the folks in this video


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f0r4pp-u_uI

Fast money, slow problems

Lots of young people now are debating whether to do yahoo or find a job.

Religion is fast losing it hold. Listen


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f0r4pp-u_uI

It's crazy out there

May God help her.

Cruise777:



What exactly do you know about runs girls to judge them?


At 22 I graduated, 23 served, 24 flew to Dubai, and got an apartment with a runs girl in Dubai, I schooled privately from nursery to university, so never really got any knowledge


I had no job and she fed me, paid Etisalat data and my Du sub

She sponsored her kid sister and brother in school, fed her parents, managed to buy them a Tokunbo car

And yes dey banged her and passed her around for few dirhams... Same money she shared


.

Would you advice your brother to marry her?

Let's picture the converse. Imagine if a lady was housed, fed and trained by a guy into armed robbery, kidnapping and ritual killings. Would you advice your her to marry him on the grounds that he will change?

If she is having sxx for money because things are hard financially, how can you guarantee she won't return to her old ways if her husband falls upon hard times and can't easily provide.

Ignoring such obvious red flags is a sign of wishful thinking in a mentally immature person.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6v-PXdeL2tc

Most sexworkers don't quit until their looks fade. You can listen to some in the podcast above.

Don't do it

Nigeria has a culture of laziness and filth.

Changing culture is extremely hard.

All the best though

CalabarPikin:
My bestie (f) is asking me (m) out..

I'm currently not in a relationship and never had plans for any. I once had a crush on her even before we became friends...but had to let go cuz of the person she was going out with. Later when we became friends, we share lots of things together, support and comfort each other when needed. I took her as a normal friend and killed the initial feelings completely. But rn, babe say I'm the only one that can give her the peace of mind she's looking for after she's bn through a lot.
I'm not in for any relationship shit at the moment and wouldn't want to hurt her, cuz any involvement between me and any girl at this time is just bedmatics.

Na she the call herself my bestie sha.....but I see her as a normal friend...
Just wondering what gave her that morale to ask for us to date.

Run